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Contents. Introduction. ................................................................................................................................... 4

1. Think Quick, Act Quicker ............................................................................................................. 5

2. Be Prepared Always .................................................................................................................... 6

3. Identify Your Needs, Ignore Your Wants .................................................................................... 7

4. Don’t Settle ................................................................................................................................. 8

5. Control vs. Choice ....................................................................................................................... 9

6. Be Brutally Honest With Yourself ............................................................................................. 10

7. “Pressure” Is Required For Greatness ...................................................................................... 10

8. Never Fear Failure ..................................................................................................................... 10

9. Smart Competition .................................................................................................................... 11

10. Consistent Learning ................................................................................................................ 11

11. Consistent and Habitual Success ............................................................................................ 12

12. The Sting of Success ................................................................................................................ 12

13. Take Responsibility ................................................................................................................. 13

14. Results Or Bust ........................................................................................................................ 13

15. Mind Over Matter ................................................................................................................... 13

16. Confidence Trumps All ............................................................................................................ 14

17. Be A Progressive Person ......................................................................................................... 14

18. Clear The Emotions But Remember The Experience .............................................................. 14

19. Have Crystal Clear Goals ......................................................................................................... 15

20. React React React! .................................................................................................................. 15

21. Choose the Simplest Path ....................................................................................................... 16

22. You Are Unique ....................................................................................................................... 16

23. Feel Your Way to Success ....................................................................................................... 16

24. Effort > Results ........................................................................................................................ 17

25. Think x1, Act x100 ................................................................................................................... 17

26. Look Beyond Reach ................................................................................................................. 18

27. Make Time For Breaks ............................................................................................................ 18

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28. Run Before You Can Walk ....................................................................................................... 18

29. Whose Permission Are You Waiting For? ............................................................................... 19

30. No Exceptions ......................................................................................................................... 20

Summary ....................................................................................................................................... 21

So What’s the Next Step? ............................................................................................................. 21

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Introduction. There are no shortcuts to success, but there are mindset and habit ‘secrets to winning which can help you reach to the top of mountain much quicker. Success will entail hard work and diligence, but often the difference between the successful and the ultra-successful are the use of certain ‘tricks’ or ‘hacks’ can often massively accelerate your reach to success. Whatever that may be for you.

You will discover that the 30 simple secrets in this book will help you become unstoppable in any endeavors.

Here are the 30 Powerful Secrets to Make You Unstoppable in your Future Success.

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1. Think Quick, Act Quicker There is a time for analyzing and a time for action. The more you think about something, the less you will get done. This is the part where you trust your instincts and act. Thinking does away with flow, makes you doubt yourself, and leads to wrong choices. Success needs you to be on your feet and relying on your gut instincts. You feel something so strongly that you can’t help but do it. That’s instinct and action.

“Action is the foundational key to all success” – Pablo Picasso.

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2. Be Prepared Always You cannot do whatever comes to mind (like we said before) if you are not first prepared to do the task. You must have skills honed and ready if instinct is going to help you reach your goals. The right hemisphere of your brain is known for being highly creative; this is the one you need to rely on more than the analytical leftie. If you know your skills, you can create multi various ways to do the same thing, granting you an enviable edge over everyone else.

“To be prepared is half the victory” – Miguel de Cervantes.

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3. Identify Your Needs, Ignore Your Wants You can buy nice things for yourself once you have reached a certain mark in life. Otherwise, chasing after money and material possessions is only going to slow, or even permanently delay, you. Your aim is to push yourself to reach new heights, always evolving, always becoming better than who you were yesterday. Prestige, riches, and property will come in their own time. Use essentials without giving yourself excuses. For example, you need a certain item, absolutely need it, to get the job done. But if you give excuses why you should buy something because you merely want to own it, you will soon find it useless. Be strict with yourself; no one else will.

“Somehow, we have come to the erroneous belief that we are all but flesh, blood, and bones, and that's all. So we direct our values to material things” – Maya Angelou.

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4. Don’t Settle Do not feel good about yourself too deeply. Do not give yourself a pat on the back after a job well done. You should never fully be satisfied with anything you do. This is a psychological trick to make you focus more on the deed, the climb, than the goal itself. There is always someone better than you are, always something higher to achieve. Do not settle and be happy with your accomplishments, small or big, or you will lose the passion to strive for bigger things. This attitude will not make you snooty or arrogant, quite the contrary. It will humble you and get rid of laziness.

“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart,

you'll know when you find it” – Steve Jobs.

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5. Control vs. Choice There is no control, it is an illusion. We do not control the most important facets of life, and to assume that we can is foolish. Choosing the right things at the right time is the best form of control you can ever exercise. One choice alone will craft your future, and several calmly made choices can guarantee success like few other things in life can.

“Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times” – Aeschylus.

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6. Be Brutally Honest With Yourself People often lie to themselves. They are unhappy and yet find excuses to say they are glad. They dislike their job or other situation but find ways to say they are pursuing a dream. The lies have to stop. You need to do something true to yourself. It doesn’t stop there, you also need to balance that with a pursuit that will let you make a living. Life has become much more complex since fifty, twenty or even ten years ago. As long as you can find something you like and work to earn money from it, you will have removed self-deception and gotten a few steps closer to becoming successful.

“Of all the liars in the world, sometimes the worst are our own fears” – Rudyard Kipling.

7. “Pressure” Is Required For Greatness All the sharpest, most refined, and beautiful things in the world are born from pressure. From a sword that undergoes massive heat to gain shape and sharpness to diamonds that form in the bowels of the earth, pressure is needed. And it will transform you into an efficient success-machine. Nobody says you can’t relax, just don’t relax too much. Comfort zones often destroy more dreams than people realize. Keep a little positive pressure going, it will actually reduce stress and help you enhance your talents.

“If you don’t build your dream, someone else will hire you to help them build theirs” – Dhirubhai Ambani.

8. Never Fear Failure This is a pointless thing to do. The one who is afraid of failing has already failed. Take risks, fight for what you want, do whatever it takes to keep going. You cannot find passion if you are

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always going to sit and think about what will happen if you fail. They say you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Similarly, you either reach for success or fear failure. You can’t do both.

“It is foolish to fear what you cannot avoid” – Publius Syrus.

9. Smart Competition Stop competing with other people. They have their own life situations, circumstances, choices, advantages, disadvantages, etc. You have your own set of those too. Competing with them makes for explosive chemistry, often making you ‘under-compete’ and never be your best self. Smart competition is when you do things in innovative ways to the point that others will feel like competing with you.

“You have competition every day because you set such high standards for yourself, and you have to go out every day and live up to that” – Michael Jordan.

10. Consistent Learning There is no holiday for learning. You have ideas that others don’t, and others know things that you don’t. There are infinite things to know in the world and while you cannot humanly know them all, grab all relevant information that you come across. This means meeting relevant people. To keep getting better, you need to know what tools and data can help you grow in your field of work. Others will not help you climb the ladder, you need to do that yourself, starting with meeting the right people who have the knowledge you seek. Use that know-how and reach for success. You need to be bold if you are to go out there and meet like-minded people.

“Courage is the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can't practice any other virtue consistently” – Maya Angelou.

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11. Consistent and Habitual Success What is worse than failure? Success! When you fail, you get to retreat to the drawing board. When you succeed, you need to stay up there, at the top, and keep reaching. Anyone who thinks failure is tough has not seen success; it is worse. The pressure to perform is higher with success than failure. Keep moving from one challenge to the next and you will be successful at all times. Succeed once and stop and you will soon meet with failure.

“Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty, and persistence” – Colin Powell.

12. The Sting of Success This viewpoint about success is not to discourage you but make you realize that you can easily fall into the pit of laziness once you reach the top. Keep climbing, that’s the message we want to convey. People often stop everything they did to get successful (they stop working hard after they are successful), which is stupid; don’t you think? Success is sweet but it stings. Once you have conquered your inner self remember that outside forces will play against you too. Competition is one of them. Look nothing is constant and it may feel like hell, but...

“If you are going through hell, keep going” – Winston Churchill.

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13. Take Responsibility Accept the facts and the truth will follow. When you know you made a mistake or are wrong, just (without any hint of arrogance or anger) accept them. Own up to your own faults, even to yourself. This is one of the first steps towards real transformational change. You cannot fly if you are weighed down by illusions and half-truths. See life as it is, be practical, and instead of trying hard to hide your mistakes, accept them and move on. This is more success-oriented.

“We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future” – George Bernard Shaw.

14. Results Or Bust Your work has to possess quality. It will need to prove itself based on results. You need not say anything to talk it up; that’s pointless. The work and its results should speak for themselves. This is a superb success scenario, because anyone can do average work and talk highly about it or present it well. But work with true quality combined with ace presentation can push you so high up the charts that you will soar.

“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results” – Albert Einstein.

15. Mind Over Matter This is one of the hardest success points to implement. Keep ridiculously cool under pressure. No matter what is happening around you, train yourself to remain calm, mouth shut, mind floating, and body steady. Show no signs, even to yourself that you are under strain or frightened. The physical body responds to mental states. This is why people who feel terrible gradually develop physical ailments; ‘psychosomatic illness’, they call it. Health is wealth (aka success), and to stay healthy you need to keep a cool head at all times; morning to night. It’s easier said than done, but this is one of the most powerful tools of success.

“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment” – Buddha.

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16. Confidence Trumps All A direct offshoot of willpower, confidence is a feeling not an action. Nobody can BE confident if they do not FEEL confident first. Sometimes, you need to pretend, to tell yourself that you can do it, that you are ready. If you can sustain that feeling, it solidifies into confidence. No matter how big the challenge, the smallest spark of confidence will grow and adapt to the target, guiding your arrow to success sooner or later. Confidence makes you realize what it is you are fighting for.

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy” – Norman Vincent

Peale.

17. Be A Progressive Person So what if you made mistakes? We all have and still do. But you need to move on or you will emotionally perish. Be friends or keep company with people who directly or indirectly encourage you to think of the future. Anyone reminding you of a past that makes you feel low about yourself? Avoid them, they just aren’t worth it. If those same people ask you to give them another chance, go ahead, they are subtly asking for a chance to think about the future along with you; strength in numbers. Before long, you will have surrounded yourself with a veritable family of progressive thinkers. After this, can you honestly say your success is not guaranteed?

“Good company in a journey makes the way seem short” – Izaak Walton.

18. Clear The Emotions But Remember The Experience This is crucial on several fronts, because emotional burdens can become anchors; you can only fly high if you feel light, directly influencing productivity. Letting go of baggage (mental/emotional) can push you to succeed. People are complicated; some will have done

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wrong by you and you will have wronged others. No matter who is at fault, ask forgiveness or forgive accordingly. This lightens your load, makes you open to change, and is absolutely important if you want to be a winner. Just because you let go of past upsets does not mean you forget those ordeals. Do not involve them in your life, this is the key to letting go. Be kind but do not be stupid. Letting go takes time and is the key to success.

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong” – Mahatma Gandhi.

19. Have Crystal Clear Goals Fuzzy goals are a waste of effort. Unclear aims have weak foundations. Your targets need to be crystal clear and distinct. Otherwise, you will start off your success journey all pumped up with hope and desire to make it big only to forget after a while what you are really out to achieve. Success is a very distinct arrow and it needs a target just as clear to strike. What sort of results or outcomes are you looking for? Are your goals short- or long-term? When you know what you want, you can find a way to get it.

“The significance of a man is not in what he attains but in what he longs to attain” – Kahlil Gibran.

20. React React React! Your daughter is out with a date and she calls you at midnight - you pick it up immediately as though you are going to destroy her date. Never happened to you? Trust me.. not fun! You need to react just as quickly when the doors of opportunity open. Even if it’s a window, leap through. Stop looking for a hundred different opinions (sometimes you never have enough), stop connecting several logical points (you may end up confusing yourself), and simply take a chance. You never know when another chance will come along. You will win if you react.

“It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters” – Epictetus.

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21. Choose the Simplest Path Choose the simplest road. It will turn out to be less of a heartbreak and more of a boon. You will have clearer sights where goals are concerned, and you will conclude each of life’s challenges sooner than expected. Simplicity is less burdensome and leans heavily on practical truths. Much drama and irrelevance can be avoided on your journey to success if you only follow the simplest road.

When you have two competing theories that make exactly the same predictions, the simpler one is the better – Occam’s Razor.

22. You Are Unique You must have heard the expression ‘turning green with envy’. Never be jealous of others. They have had their own ups and downs that got them where they are. You have your own unique path to follow to become successful. There really is no point in envying others’ accomplishments.

“Don’t be jealous of others if you are not willing to do what they did to get there” – Joyce Meyer.

23. Feel Your Way to Success Several of our success points find a confluence in this one – reacting, relying on instincts, overcoming fear, becoming confident. An all-rounder step to help you live like this is to Feel more than Think. Thoughts are vast and varied; the same thing can be said in a thousand different ways. Feelings, while we express them in a thousand different ways, are essentially the same. Remember the simplicity point we shared above? Feel your way through life and you will invariably hit your success-goals.

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart” – Helen Keller.

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24. Effort > Results This may sound counterintuitive at first but bear with us. Results will change based on your goals and what you need to do to attain them. One thing remains consistent, though, and that’s effort. You need to stay focused on putting as much effort as you need in any situation. Only then is success guaranteed. It is about how much you are investing of yourself. Keeping your sights fixed on results will blind you to how much effort you need to put to make it happen.

“Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort” – Franklin D. Roosevelt.

25. Think x1, Act x100 The first success point we breached had to do with acting quick. This is a slight variation from that, but just as important. You need to set the sky as your limit. Never be satisfied with doing a little; only a little success will follow. Think about your goals and then do as much as you can to realize them. Unleash your creative side, otherwise you will get tired before you are half way. Don’t stop to think if this is even possible; this is fear of failure at work. You want to make the most of your efforts, don’t you?

Just do it – Nike.

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26. Look Beyond Reach Be more than you are, more than you are expected to be, more than you expect yourself to be. This is the success standard and you can reach it if you try. Whatever the goal, aim bigger, think smarter, desire greatness. Success is a big word; it’s all about getting the unattainable. Keep at it, and don’t give in to dismay. Regret is a wasted emotion. Try and try again, follow all the success points you learn here, and soon you will be creating success stories that will inspire millions.

“The quality of a leader is reflected in the standards they set for themselves” – Ray Kroc.

27. Make Time For Breaks 24-7 work is like 24-7 exercise. You will not be building anything; rather you will destroy what muscles you are working so hard to develop. Breaks help your natural human side catch up and keep you going. That’s what you need, to keep going, and if it means you need to take a few relaxing breaks now and again, do it but with consistency. Time your breaks. Hobbies and leisure activities are ways to unwind before you get back on that train of success.

“You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation” – Plato.

28. Run Before You Can Walk More specifically, don’t wait to be ready. You will never be ready; it’s just another illusion. Sometimes, you just need to jump if you want to soar. Don’t resort to gathering enough cash, contacts, time, or whatever other resource you think you need. Use what you already have, use whom you already know, and make change happen. Waiting makes you lazy and, worse, doubtful. Successful people start and let the flow carry them to distant shores.

Yesterday you said tomorrow – Nike.

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29. Whose Permission Are You Waiting For? Truly ask yourself - Exactly whose permission are you looking to get? Who’s going to understand your goals enough to grant you permission? Your friends? Mentor? Big players in the Market? No. You really only need permission from yourself and that’s not hard to do.

A similar mistake under this concept is people attempting what worked for other people. That’s basically you silently asking their permission to use their techniques. You may see a few small victories in battle but you’ll lose the war.

Aim to be different, take the initiative, and be yourself without waiting for someone to tell you what to do.

“The important thing is to concentrate upon what you can do - by yourself, upon your own initiative” – Harry Browne.

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30. No Exceptions Throw them away, they don’t matter. The day you start compromising is the day you are crowned ruler of excuses. The day you start making exceptions is the day you slam, bolt, and nail down doors of opportunity. Success is not a small thing, it’s huge, bigger than you can ever imagine. You need to get rid of trash if you are to welcome success into your life.

“If you set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at any time, and you would achieve nothing” – Margaret Thatcher.

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Summary Use the above 30 points and constantly remind yourself of what you have set out to accomplish. Achieve success by constantly applying these techniques and make it your life journey.

And remember – what you put in your mind, will determine the results you get and in the long term amount to your success.

So What’s the Next Step? Ok so you may be asking – so what’s the next step?

The contents here in this book covers the foundational (most important) attitude, mindset and habits you need to acquire in order to achieve success. They may be simple but let me emphasize that these points are the most important foundational changes required in achieving any forms of success.

Now, to continue the journey of truly transformational success, I will be emailing you contents and knowledge that will assist you in achieving your goals at a much quicker rate.

The contents of the emails are from Speed of Success course that I have been making which was initially designed to be a paid product to be sold at a premium price.

Every 3 days I will send you thought provoking contents for you to digest and take action upon so that you have enough time to understand and start making massive changes in your life.

I look forward to hearing from you.