2. Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan (Making your marriage last a
lifetime ) 3. My Family 4. 5. Kamusta Ka
- Kamusta ka tayo ay magsaya,
- Pumalakpak pumalakpak ituro ang paa,
- Ipagdyak sa kanan, ipadyak sa kaliwa,
- Umikot ng umikot at humanap ng iba
6. Plano ng Dios (John 10:10)
- . Ako ay narito upang sila ay magkaroon ng buhay (zoe vs. bios)
at magkaroon nito na may lubos na kasaganaan (zoe VS bios) .
To live life to the fullest! GRABE To live life with a
wow!LUBOS! Masaganang buhay, ngayon! 7. Ano ang ating nakikita
(John 10:10)?
- Ang magnanakaw ay hindi pumarito malibang siya ay magnakaw,
pumatay at maminsala
50%paghihiwalay 70%taas sa pagwawalang bisa! 10%can only be
considered highlysuccessful! (matagumpay) 8.
- More and more we find couples living separate lives
9. `
- Masaya ba ako sa aking buhay magasawa?
Paano ba namin patuloy na pagiibayuhim ang aming pagsasama? Ano
pa ba ang dapat naming malaman upang ang aming pagsasama ay pang
habang buhay ? 10. Hangang sa Dulo ng Walang Hangan 11. I.
Understand Gods Intention
- 22Wives, submit to your husbandsas to the Lord .23For the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the
church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church
submits to Christ, soalso wives should submitto their husbands in
everything. 25Husbands, love your wives, justas Christ loved the
churchand gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing her
by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to
himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other
blemish, but holy and blameless.
12. 1. Salamin (Reflection)
- pasakop katulad ng Iglesya
- Magmahal katulad ni Cristo
13. Magmuni-muni
- Marriage in creation was made as anillustrationof, or
amirrorof, the marriage between Christ and His Church.
- http://www.prca.org/articles/family/family_2.html
Salamin o Larawan 14. 2. Pagtitipan (Covenant)
- Not just a contract between 2 individuals but an agreement
between3parties (tatlong partido)
15.
- A covenant is more personal than a contract it involves loyalty
( katapatan ) and allegiance ( pagtatalaga ), not just a financial
exchange.
16. 3. Habang buhay (lifetime)
- (hangang sa dulo ng walang hangan)
17. The number 1 na hadlang
- Huwag mong tignan mo ang iyong sarili ng masmataas sa
nararapatRomans 12:3
18. Ang tingin ko ba ay ako ang laging tama o ang laging
nagbibigay sa aming pagsasama? Magmuni-muni: 19. II. Umunawa
(Understand) 20. 1. Tignan ang pagkakaibahan (differentness)
21. Male vs. Female brain
- Problem Solving vs. Listening Attentively
- Protecting and Providing vs. Bonding
- Separateness vs. Connectedness
22. Male vs. Female brain
- Pagayos ng propblema vs. Pakikidamay
- Hiwalay vs. Konektado ang lahat
23. 5 Pananalita ng Pagibig
- Pamamaraan ng paghahayag ng pagibig
24.
25. Paano malaman 1 . Observe how your spouse expresseslove to
you (sa iyo).2. Observe how your spouse expresseslove to others (sa
iba). 3. Listen to what your spouse requestsmost often (laging
hiling). 4. Listen to your spouses most frequentcomplaints laging
(reklamo). 5. Give your spouse a choice between twooptions
(ipapili). 26. 2. Pasukin ang kanyang mundo
- Pagpasok sa mundo ng ibang tao
27. 3. Tangapin ang lahat-lahat
28. 3. Tangapin ang lahat-lahat
29. Have I ever tried to enter the world of my spouse (Handa na
ba akong pasukin ang mundo ng aking asawa) ? Magmuni-muni: 30. III.
Tunay na makinig 31. 1. Nanganganinag na Pakikinig (Reflective
Listening) 32. What is it?
- 1. Ask yourself what the other is possibly feeling (kanyang
damdamin?) .
- 2. Think of the feeling word that describes the emotion being
expressed (anong salita?)
- 3. Put the feeling word in a tentative sentence form :
- It seems like or it looks like
33. 2. Naririg ba ako? (I vs. You) 34. Ikaw Message
Criticism/Blaming/ Accusing/ComplainingResult:Resentment or
rebellionSelf-worth affected MisunderstandingTotal person affected
35.
- 1.Non-Blaming (walang paninisi)
- 2. Describes the spouses behavior that bothers you (nasa isyo
lang)
- 3. Expresses how you feel about the behavior/or what you want
to happen (ipinaalam ang tunay saloobin)
Ako - Message 36. Examples (wrong)
- Ikaw talaga ang tamad-tamad mong maghanap ng trabaho,
sawang-sawa na ako sa iyo.
- Kung kailan ka pa tumanda doon ka pa umarte, nang aakit ka ba
ng iba?.
- Hoy, huwag mo akong taasan ng boses, hindi mo ako palamon!
37. Examples (right)
- 1. When you do not come home on time, I get worried because I
care a lot about you.
- When you do not study your lessons I get anxious because you
may not pass your exams (child).
- Kung sinisigawan mo ako, ang pakiramdam ko ay hindi mo ako
mahal at hindi pinapahalagahan.
38. 3. Listen to the body language 7% - Salita38%- Tono 55%-
Kilos ng katawan 38% +55% =93%Hindi salita!
http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/03/13/words-are-only-7-of-your-communication/
39. Reading the non-verbal communication 40. Lottery Winner 41.
9/11 Tragedy 42. Aftermath of Ondoy 43. Engagement 44. Before the
Divorce 45. Ako ba ay handang tunay na makinig sa aking asawa upang
magalak at maghirap sa kasama nya? Magmuni-muni: 46. Pagtatapos
:
- Every marriage can last a lifetime (even after a great tragedy)
if both are committed to work on it.
47. Pagtatapos :
- Ang inyong pagsasama ay pwedeng magtagal ng habang buhay kung
kayong dalawa ay handang gumugol ng panahon upang ito ay
pagibayuhin.
48. Renewal of Marriage Vows
- __________ (pangalan ng asawa),ipinapangako ko ang aking
pagibig at pagtatalaga sa iyo,patuloy kitang mamahalin, igagalang,
at magtatapat sa iyo. Hindi kita iiwan, sasamahan kita
maykaramdaman ka man o wala. Sa panahon ng kawalan o pagpapala,
maayos man ang lahat o hindi. Ngayon, sa simula ng ating _____ taon
ng pagsasama bilang magasawa, sa prisensyang ating Dios, pamilya at
kaibigan, sinasariwa ko ang aking mga pangako na mamahalin kita
hangang sa dulo ng walang handan.
49. Renewal of Marriage Vows
- __________ (spouse's name), _____ years ago, I pledged my love
and commitment to you, but it seems like only yesterday. I promised
to love you, honor you, comfort and keep you. I pledges to be by
your side in sickness and in health, in times of want, and times of
plenty, for better or worst. Today, at the beginning of our _____th
year as husband and wife, in the presence of God, and our family
and friends, I renew my vows to you, pledging my eternal love for
you.
50. 51.