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ANNOUNCEMENTS
Brother Heath Robertson
COLOSSIANS 4:2-6
Brother Doug Boike
#277Precious Words
Brother Charles Chandler
OPENING PRAYER
Brother Clyde Holloway
#112Teach Me Thy Way
Brother Charles Chandler
#407He Leadeth Me
Brother Charles Chandler
SERMON
Brother Harold Comer
Common Awareness and Approval in a Large Urban Area On Any One
Point, Secular or Religious, Depends on the Amount of Expressed Approval (Noise) from Knowledgeable People!
Common Awareness and Approval in a Large Urban Area On Any One
Point, Secular or Religious, Depends on the Amount of Expressed Approval (Noise) from Knowledgeable People!
How do you select one professional out of 50 possibilities?
How do you choose a professional (doctor, lawyer, workman) (or a business, restaurant or school) out of 50 possibilities when you don’t know any of them well?
You ask people who should know about which ones are the best
ones!
Many churches with entertainment, minimal
expectations, gyms, social programs and contemporary
music are not growing –
Many churches with entertainment, minimal
expectations, gyms, social programs and contemporary
music are not growing –
but their membership is not talking about their activities.
Some churches with entertainment, minimal
expectations, gyms, social programs and contemporary
music are growing –
Some churches with entertainment, minimal
expectations, gyms, social programs and contemporary
music are growing –
but their membership is talking with excitement about their
activities.
The churches that are growing today are the congregations that are excited about their work and
are trained and stirred to say many good things about that
group!
We’ll look at the many simple things that we can say –
I want you to be able to say, “I could say that!” about some of these
We are commanded to say“Come”.
Rev 22:17
17 And the Spirit and the bride say, "Come!" And let him who hears say, "Come!" And let him who thirsts come. Whoever desires, let him take the water of life freely. NKJV
Rev 22:17 3 Separate Participants
17 And the Spirit and the bride say, "Come!"
And let him who hears say, "Come!"
And let him who thirsts come. Whoever desires, let him take the water of life freely. NKJV
Rev 22:17 Of the 3, here is our part – it is the only part we can control!
17 And the Spirit and the bride say, "Come!"
And let him who hears say,"Come!"
And let him who thirsts come. Whoever desires, let him take the water of life freely. NKJV
Saying “Come” To A
Sunday Worship ServiceBible Classes
Neighborhood Bible StudyTopical Class
Lectureship/Special SpeakerGreat Singing
Personal Study
I will call saying “Come”
a “Gentle Touch”
What do you do when a sales person pushes too hard?
What do you do when a sales person pushes too hard?
Spiritual invitations must be “gentle touches” not hard
pushing lectures. II Tim. 2:24
2 Tim 2:24-25
24 And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, 25 in humility correcting those who are in opposition,
NKJV
Col 4:5 A Key Commandment of God
5 Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the
time. NKJV
To do a wiser invitation better,
write out 2 or 3 tonight or tomorrow
and, in time, write 5 or 10!
Then start to practice the simpler invitations!
Then start to practice the simpler invitations!
Aim to get 100 practice “touches” under your belt!
There are many levels of saying
”Come” in a better way!
Level One The Starter Level
Just Give A Simple “Come!”
Just Give A Simple “Come!”
The Starter Level
One of these days, why don’t you go to _________
with me?
Just Give A Simple “Come!”
A Great Student’s Touch
Hey, come and go to _________with me __________!
Just Give A Simple “Come!”
One of these days, you should
come and visit us
at _______________.?
Just Give A Simple “Come!”
“I could say that!”
One of these days, why don’t you
bring your Bible and come and
visit us at _______________.?
Second LevelStart to add helpful elements
Add a small element of curiosity
Add an element of curiosity
Start with “come and see”
or “come check it out”
If it is wise for Jesus to say
“Come and see!”
it is a powerful expression that any
Christian could learn and say.
John 1:35-38
35 Again, the next day, John stood with two of his disciples. 36 And looking at Jesus as He walked, he said," Behold the Lamb of God!" 37 The two disciples heard him speak, and they followed Jesus. 38 Then Jesus turned, and seeing them following, said to them, "What do you seek?"They said to Him, "Rabbi" (which is to say, when translated, Teacher), "where are You staying?" NKJV
John 1:39
39 He said to them, "Come and see."
They came and saw where He was staying, and remained with Him that day (now it was about the tenth hour). NKJV
Philip said “Come and see”
to Nathanael when he objected to
Philip’s initial touch in John 1:46.
It does not have to be
smooth or brilliant!
Anyone Can Say
______, why don’t you come and check out this
_______________/“great little church on 157.”
At any negative comment, say
Why don’t you come and see for yourself?
You can add phrases such as
Why don’t you…bring your Bible and…come and see
for yourself?
You can add phrases such as
Why don’t you …come for about 4 weeks… and see
for yourself?
Third Level
Learn to…
Add some warmth and love!
Third Level
Or Learn to…
Build a “Warm Bridge”
I sure like your kids. And I like how hard you are
working at being a good mother. You know what would be great for those kids? ______________
____________________!
Kindness Phrases - Openers
I appreciate how much you love your family …
You are a good moral man…You are a really hard worker…
Jim, do you know that you would not have to change much to be a
Christian…I appreciate your _______
“honor to whom honor” Rom. 13:7
After a word of kindness
You can ask someone you don’t know well “Where do you go to church?” or “Where did you develop your moral
foundation?”
Or give an immediate invitation to someone you know better
You are one of the hardest working people in this whole
office. Have you ever thought about spiritual values?
If you are every looking for __________ you ought to
______________!
You are one of the hardest working people in this whole office, you need to meet the
good people at/in ______________.
Fourth Level
Tell them about some good clear benefits!
Ask yourself what spiritual elements would benefit them the most?
Bible Classes for their childrenGodly help for their marriage
Joys of salvationPeace of forgiven sins
Help to handle “out of control desires”Wisdom that the Bible gives
Benefits, help of learning how to pray
I sure like your kids. You are working at being a good
mother. If you are ever looking for a moral foundation for them, ___________ ____________. Bring them about 4 weeks and
see what they learn.
See the benefits for a friend or family
Write them out
Put the warmth in
Tell them about the benefits
Tell them where it can be found
I could say that!
Let me stop my list and emphasize an Important point!
Prospects around us almost never come unless they are
invited by a good moral member that they respect.
Sometimes it is one person removed from a good moral
member -
Lady in Sunnyvale was invited numerous times 8 to 10 years
earlier….
Chiropractic student who was told where to go by a fellow student who
did not go herself
You
P – Prospect U U
PW – Personal Worker U
PJ – Project C PW
C – Curious U C
U – Unconcerned PJ
UU U U
U U U U PW
C C U U U
U PJ U UU
P U U UU U
U U U C
U U U C
U U U U U U
U U C U U
U U U U U
C U U U U U
U U U UU U
C C UU U U
PJ U U U U
U U UU U
PW U C U
UU U U C U
U U U U U
Now back to how you can improve your invitations with
questions!
Fifth Level
Questions are great. Jesus wisely used them often.
Find the right question!
You Can Ask A Mother
Bible stories really build children’s morals! How much would you like for
your kids to really learn the Bible and its great moral values?
The best place I know around here that teaches the Bible well is
______________.
You can learn to ask a formative question
One that plants a value in their mind!
• You are doing a great job with your kids. What things are you interested in more for your children – An education for a great job or for them to develop moral strength and character for a good life?”
• Moral strength comes from Bible stories! The best teaching of Bible stories around here is at ________.
You Can Ask A Seeking Person
Have you ever thought that you would like to learn more about the Bible? (Reply) “
If you want to learn the Bible, there is a kind preacher at ________. He really uses the Bible. You could bring your Bible and check him out a few Sundays and see how much you learn. The Bible will really touch you!
You Can Ask
How much would you like to learn more about the Bible? (Negative Reply) Well if you ever think you would like to learn the Bible, there is a great teacher at ________. He really uses the Bible. You should bring your Bible and check him out and see how much you learn. The Bible will really do you a lot of good!
Paint a value in their mind with questions. Get them thinking about
a powerful motivation.
Questions for Former “Attend-ers”
What were the really good things to you when you went to church?
Do you miss them?
Sixth Level
You can tell a story!
What do you remember the best –an explanation or a story?
Collect Stories
Practice Them
Drop Them In A Conversation!
Seventh Level
Bring a Spiritual Value to Mind
I appreciate your interest in religion!I suppose you know your Bible well?
How well do you know your Bible on a scale of 1 to 10?
Would you like to know it better?
A friend of mine and I are planning to get together to
read some from the Bible and, if you are interested, we would love to have you sit in with us
and three or four others.
If your child died now, where do you think they would go for eternity?
If your child died now, where do you think they would go for eternity?
If you died now, where do you think you would be forever?
Occasionally, there is a place for a tough question!
If your child died now, where do you think they would go for eternity?
If you died now, where do you think you would be forever?
If your child died 20 years from now, where do you think they would be in
eternity?
Eighth Level
You can ask for permission!
Asking for Permission
If I knew some verses in the Bible that you really ought to read, would you want me to
show them to you?
Asking for Permission
If I knew something in the Bible that was really, really important for you to know,
would you want me to show those verses to you?
If you don’t get permission, remember…
“Well, remember that I asked, and if you are ever
interested, say something to me, and we can check those
verses out.”
Asking for Permission for Repeated Touches
I’ve told you a number of times about things at _____, and I’m not trying to nag you into coming. If it
bothers you and you would rather I didn’t say anything about it, I won’t
say another word!
Ninth Level
Can you describe present and future feelings?
If you have a great experience at a game, at work, at a
restaurant or on a trip, do you enjoy telling people about it?
If you have a great experience at a game, at work, at a
restaurant or on a trip, do you enjoy telling people about it?
Do most people enjoy hearing about a really good
experience?
Any good experience that pleases you or excites you or warms you is a pleasure to
describe.
Any good experience that pleases you or excites you or warms you is a pleasure to
describe.
Put that experience into interesting words!
Can you tell someone how great it is to be
forgiven of your sins?
Can you tell someone how exciting and
humbling worship will be in heaven?
Can you tell someone how overwhelming
Judgmentwill be?
Can you tell someone what you get from the Lord’s Supper every
Sunday
Can you tell someone what you get from the Lord’s Supper every
Sunday
or the effect on you of worshipping God,
blending with others and teaching in singing?
Could you start with the simple,
Write some out,
and know
“I Could Say That!”?
• Do at least one or two tonight or tomorrow and others later.
This is important!
• If you don’t write them out, most people will never start inviting.
Questions?
Write our something you could say good about the congregation here!
…about Bible Study
…about Worship
What is “Deliberate Practice”?
Willful practice with effort over and over in a vital skill!
Start
What questions occur to you?
Any negative comment, say
Why don’t you…come and see for yourself?
You can add phrases such as…bring your Bible and…
…come for about 4 weeks…
In broad terms 1 out of 100 associates is a prospect at any
one time.
Most people are not prospects.
Most people are not prospects.
How many are there around us?
Most people are not prospects.
How many are there around us?
Right now, only about 30 out of the 3,000 people around one
Christian is getting close to some step in our direction.
Don’t try to pick out the two or three people that you want to see saved the most and concentrate
your prayers and concern on them.
Don’t try to pick out the two or three people that you want to see saved the most and concentrate
your prayers and concern on them.
They probably are a long way from a prospect!
Thank you for the invitation!
This first period will be taught as a Bible Class.
Your questions are welcomed at anytime!
Brief Authority
Col 4:2-5
“Wisdom is regularly commanded and associated with evangelism
and reaching lost souls!”
Col 4:5
5 Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. NKJV
Wisdom is associated with soul saving!Eph 5:15-18
See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise,16 redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. NKJV
Daniel 12:33 Those who are wise shall shine Like the brightness of the firmament,And those who turn many to righteousness Like the stars forever and ever.NKJV
4 things you have to do to find “Wisdom” and learn what you have to
do today to convert lost souls.
James 1:5-6Proverbs 1:20-21
Proverbs 8:1-6, 17
James 1:5-6
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. 6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting,
NKJV
Prov 1:20-21
20 Wisdom calls aloud outside;She raises her voice in the open squares. 21 She cries out in the chief concourses, At the openings of the gates in the cityShe speaks her words:
NKJV
Prov 8:17
17 I love those who love me,
And those who seek me diligently will find me.
NKJV
Pray for WisdomListen to Her
Love HerSeek Her
What Has Changed?
What has changed in our world where it is so different from my
grandfather’s world 75 years ago?
Transportation
TransportationCommunication
TransportationCommunication
Urbanization
TransportationCommunication
UrbanizationProsperity
TransportationCommunication
UrbanizationProsperity
Daily Patterns
TransportationCommunication
UrbanizationProsperity
Daily PatternsExpectations
TransportationCommunication
UrbanizationProsperity
Daily PatternsExpectationsExperiences
What are the deep effects of these changes that have an effect on
our worship, edification and evangelism?
What are some major effects of these changes?
Busy
What are some major effects of these changes?
BusyUrbanized, Isolated
What are some major effects of these changes?
BusyUrbanized, Isolated
Less Spiritual, Know Less Bible
What are some major effects of these changes?
BusyUrbanized, Isolated
Less Spiritual, Know Less BibleChanged By Making Choices
What are some major effects of these changes?
BusyUrbanized, Isolated
Less Spiritual, Know Less BibleChanged By Making Choices
Fear, Frauds, Fakes
Biblical Rules About Change
I Corinthians 15:58
1 Cor 15:58
58 Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.
NKJV
1 Cor 15:58
58 Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.
NKJV
1 Cor 15:58-16:1
58 Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.
NKJV
Steadfast, Unmovable
Steadfast, Unmovable
Always Abounding in the Work
Steadfast, Unmovable
Always Abounding in the Work
Hard Work With Assurance
How much were the New Testament churches required to change to convert their world?
How ready are we to respond to our world?
What is needed today?
What is needed today?
Desire
What is needed today?
Desire
Wisdom
What is needed today?
Desire
Wisdom
Training
What is needed today?
Desire
Wisdom
Training
What is needed today?
Desire
Wisdom
Training
Find A “Near Prospect”
What is needed today?
Desire
Wisdom
Training
Find A “Near Prospect”
Disciple – Stimulate
What is needed today?
Desire
Wisdom
Training
Find A “Near Prospect”
Disciple – Stimulate
Current “Process”
Current “Process”
Current “Process”
Event – Occasion to invite
Current “Process”
Event – Occasion to invite
Invitations
Current “Process”
Event – Occasion to invite
Invitations
Warm Welcomes
Current “Process”
Event – Occasion to invite
Invitations
Warm Welcomes
Worthy Event – worship, teaching, need
Current “Process”
Event – Occasion to invite
Invitations
Warm Welcomes
Worthy Event – worship, teaching, need
“Moral Certification” – remember, move
Current “Process”
Event – Occasion to invite
Invitations
Warm Welcomes
Worthy Event – worship, teaching, need
“Moral Certification” – remember, move
Teach, Baptize, Yr. Long Teaching
To think about!
Before we begin - Consider
What has changed in our world to make it different from my
grandfather’s world 75 years ago?
Scriptural Pictures
We are people of the Book –
We are people of the Book –
When we see it and follow it!
There AreMany Powerful, Moving
Biblical Images About Evangelism and Saving Others
Why Reach Out to Others?
Snapshots of Motivation!
2 Cor 5:10-11 Powerful Pictures
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. ESV
2 Cor 5:10-11 Powerful Pictures
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. ESV
2 Cor 5:10-11 Powerful Pictures
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. ESV
2 Cor 5:10-11 Powerful Pictures
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. ESV
2 Cor 5:10-11 Powerful Pictures
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. ESV
2 Cor 5:10-11 Powerful Pictures
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
11 Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. ESV
2 Cor 5:14 Powerful Feelings
14 For the love of Christ compels us,
NKJV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
Jude 21-23 Powerful Feelings21 keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life. 22 And have mercy on those who doubt; 23 save others by snatching them out of the fire; to others show mercy with fear, hating even the garment stained by the flesh. ESV
How?
Guidelines to Key Actions
Rev 22:17 A Key Image
17 The Spirit and the Bride say, "Come." And let the one who hears say, "Come." And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price.
ESV
Rev 22:17 See the Prospects -
17 The Spirit and the Bride say, "Come." And let the one who hears say, "Come." And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price.
ESV
Rev 22:17 See An Occasion -
17 The Spirit and the Bride say, "Come." And let the one who hears say, "Come." And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price.
ESV
Rev 22:17 See Yourself Saying “Come”
17 The Spirit and the Bride say, "Come." And let the one who hears say, "Come." And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price.
ESV
Bible ClassBible Reading
SermonsSpecial Topic
SingingSmall Group Discussion
“Bring your Bible and let’s…”
James 2:3-4 See A Warm Welcome say, "You sit here in a good place,"
ESV
James 2:3-4 See A Poor Welcome 3 and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, "You sit here in a good place," while you say to the poor man, "You stand over there," or, "Sit down at my feet," ESV
Matt 28:18-20 See the Commission 18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." ESV
Matt 28:18-20 See the “Going” 18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." ESV
Matt 28:18-20 See the “Discipling” 18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." ESV
Matt 28:18-20 See the “Discipling” 18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples
Arouse their interestStir their ready obedience
Matt 28:18-20 See the Conversion18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." ESV
Matt 28:18-20 See the Edification 18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." ESV
Matt 28:18-20 See the Help18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." ESV
You are critically needed for exciting actions
Each one of us effects the other
in powerful ways
Power of Fervency(Boiling, Excitement)
Romans 12:11
Power of Morality
Power of the Word
Power of Love, Genuine Caring
Power of “Gentle Words”
Saying “Come”, Something Beneficial to Them,
Or Something Good
Power of a Multi-step Process
(A Journey Thru Complexity)
Is conversion an “event”
Or a “process” i.e.
many interconnected necessary actions?
Understanding
Understanding
Training
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Welcome
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Welcome
“Certification”
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Welcome
“Certification”
Relationship & Relaxation
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Welcome
“Certification”
Relationship & Relaxation
Final Signals
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Welcome
“Certification”
Relationship & Relaxation
Final Signals
Study
Understanding
Training
“Noise”
Welcome
“Certification”
Relationship & Relaxation
Final Signals
Study
Year long “Foundation”
Come…
To the LordTo the Bride
To the Spirit and the WordTo Forgiveness
The Joy of Evangelistic Success!
What has not changed?
The Power of Brethren Who
Are Concerned About Lost Souls
Jude 22-23
You can grow to say
You are doing a great job with your kids. I know that you are thinking about their moral development and character growth. Every parent wants their children to have a good life. The best character development comes from Bible stories! The best teaching of Bible stories around here is at ________. Come and check it out. Bring your children for a couple of months and then look at what they learned. The Bible will make you a better mother/father!