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Chapter 7 NARCISSISM
The basic human fault is not PRIDE but HUBRIS= NARCISSISM
root of the word NARCISSISM
Is the same root for the word NARCOTIC meaning-
NUMB
Narcissism is…
distortion imbalance addiction
Enneagram (any-ah-gram)
• Ennea = nine• Gram = writing/picture
You may use this diagram on the test
• Any and all notes will help on next week’s test.
Draw an enneagram
• Circle• Triangle• Numbers• Lines• Names
reformer
helper
climber
artistthinker
Teamplayer
sampler
boss
peacemaker
#1 Reformer – is orderly, logical…but
Reformer –but a perfectionist and judgmental
#2 the HELPER is generous and concerned, but…
HELPER – but possessive & manipulative
#3 The CLIMBER- is motivated, and competitive but…
THE CLIMBER – but too “image conscious”
#4 The ARTIST- creative and romantic, but…
ARTIST- , but too introverted and moody
#5 The THINKER- good observer, but
THE THINKER- , but a poor participant.
#6 THE TEAM PLAYER- loyal and dutiful, but…
TEAM PLAYER-, but too dependent & protective.
#7 The SAMPLER – spontaneous, but
The Sampler
The SAMPLER – but excessive and manic
The Sampler
#8 The BOSS – Decisive, confident but…
THE BOSS but a bit of a bully
#9 THE PEACEMAKER- mediator, but
PEACEMAKER… , but too passive
Strength/gift Strength/gift Weakness Weakness
1Reformer Well-organized
Keen on justice
Self-righteous Perfection
2.Helper Caring Generous Possessive manipulates
3.Climber Self-assured Competitive SelfAbsorbed
Hostile
4.Artist Creative Intuitive Introverted Depressive
5.Thinker Perceives Analyses Eccentric paranoid
6.Team Player Likable Dutiful Depends masochist
7.Sampler Accomplished Spontaneous Excessive manic
8.Boss Self-confident Forceful Combative vengeful
9.Peace-maker
Serene Reassuring Passive neglectful
TYPE Negative weakness/tendency
1.Reformer Puritanical/judgmental prig
2. Helper Possessive sap
3.Climber Image-conscious hustler
4. Artist Romantic Brooder
5. Thinker Aloof cynic
6.Team player Dependent follower
7.Sampler Hyperactive escapist
8. Boss Dominating bully
9.Peacemaker Withdrawn coward
Strength weakness
1Reformer
2.Helper
3.Climber
4.Artist
5.Thinker
6.Team Player
7.Sampler
8.Boss
9.Peace-maker
1.The reformer
Has objectivity
Lacks spontaneity
2.The helper
Has empathy
Lacks intuition
3.The climber
is assertive
Lacks loyalt
y
4.The artist
Has intuition
Lacks objectivity
5.The thinker
Good analy
sis
Poor decid
er
6. Team player
Has loyalt
y
Lacks serenity
7. The sampler
Has spontaneity
Lacks analys
is
8. The boss
Is decisive
Lacks empathy
9. The peacemaker
Has serenity
Isn’t assertive
type Strength/HAS
WeaknessLACKS
1.Reformer Objectivity Spontaneity
2. Helper Empathy Intuition
3. Climber Assertive Loyalty
4. Artist Intuition Objectivity
5. Thinker Analysis Decisive
6. Team player Loyal Serenity
7. Sampler Spontaneity Analysis
8. Boss Decisive Empathy
9. Peacemaker Serenity assertiveness
Strength/gift Strength/gift Weakness Weakness
1Reformer Well-organized
Keen on justice
Self-righteous Perfection
2.Helper Caring Generous Possessive manipulates
3.Climber Self-assured Competitive SelfAbsorbed
Hostile
4.Artist Creative Intuitive Introverted Depressive
5.Thinker Perceives Analyses Eccentric paranoid
6.Team Player Likable Dutiful Depends masochist
7.Sampler Accomplished Spontaneous Excessive manic
8.Boss Self-confident Forceful Combative vengeful
9.Peace-maker
Serene Reassuring Passive neglectful
Narcissism is…
distortion imbalance addiction
Wholeness/holiness is…
freedom
clarity
balance
type DOMINANT DESIRE (addiction)
1. reformer Wants to be RIGHT
2. Helper Wants to be LOVED
3. Climber Wants to be NOTICED
4. Artist Wants to be UNDERSTOOD
5.Thinker Wants to UNDERSTAND
6. Team Player Wants to BELONG
7.Sampler Wants to feel HAPPY
8.Boss Wants to be in CONTROL
9. Peacemaker Wants HARMONY
A D W
S 8 2 5
M 3 6 9
R 7 1 4
The seven deadly sins (+2)TYPE DEADLY SIN
1.Reformer Anger
2. Helper Pride
3. Climber Deceit
4. Artist Envy
5. Thinker Greed
6. Team player Fear
7. Sampler Gluttony
8. Boss Lust (for life)
9. Peacemaker SLOTH laziness
Wholeness/holiness is…
freedom
clarity
balance
Test next bring text for next fable…