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Communication
Skills
Objectives
By the end of the session, participants will know 1. What is communication 2. Why it is so important 3. How Communication Model works 4. Tips for sender / Receiver 5. Tips for Giving Feedback
In the Beginning...
• There was a chaos...
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In the Beginning...
• Projects were like a battlefield
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A lot of work was being done... But it was not always productive
Fundamentals
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Communication The process by which a
person, group, or organization (the sender) transmits information (the message) to another person, group, or organization (the receiver)
Major types of Communication
1. Verbal 2. Nonverbal 3. Written
Verbal
• Communicating using language, a structured system of sounds that is used and understood to express ideas among people. – Verbal communication includes… volume level, tone, etc.
Listening Skills
• Listening is not a “passive” skill but a “receptive” skill. It requires as much attention and mental activity as speaking.
• That of the time an individual is engaged in communication, approximately 9 % is devoted to writing, 16 % to reading, 30 % to speaking, and 45 % to listening.
Nonverbal
• What percent of how we communicate with others is through nonverbal communication (facial expressions, body language)?
70%
Why is nonverbal communication so important?
Nonverbal is the first thing our mind reads before a word is even spoken.
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Purposes of Communication
To support decision To achieve coordinated action To share information To develop friendships To build your personality in
others mind
The Model
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Communication Concepts 1- Encoding: process where idea is transformed so that it can be transmitted to a receiver (e.g., a written or spoken message). 2- Communication Channels: pathways over which messages are transmitted (e.g., telephone lines, mail). 3- Decoding: process by which a receiver of messages transforms them back into the sender’s ideas. 4- Feedback: the impact of messages on receivers. 5- Noise: Factors capable of distorting the clarity of messages at any point during the communication process.
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The Communication Process
Encoding
Communication Channel
Decoding Feed Back
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The Impact of the Number of People on Communications Channels
Sender
Professional Communication Skills
• There are three major types of speech:
1. To inform, 2. to persuade, 3. or to entertain
Tips for Sender
• Know Your Audience (Audience Anyone who receives information)
• Who are they? What do they know? What do they want to learn from you?
• Select your Subject (The main topic or key idea) – How does my subject relate to my
listeners needs? – What is my most important point? – How can I make this point clearly? – What facts and examples can I use?
Tips for Sender
Professional Communication Skills
Four Patterns to organize a structured message 1. Enumeration- Listing
several items in order 2. Generalization with
Example- Use “for instance” and “for example”
Professional Communication Skills
3- Cause and Effect- “Therefore,” “Consequently,” and “As a result” 4- Compare and Contrast- “However,” “Nevertheless,” and “On the other hand”
• Your delivery, attitude, and style are just as important as your message
• Pitch or loudness of your voice
• Inflection can change meaning of the message
Tips for Sender
Professional Communication Skills
• Make emotional contacts, address people by name, use eye contact
• Use posture and body language that match the message
• Avoid the “umm’s” and “uhhh’s”
Communication Skills
• Using Your Voice • Pleasant, Not too high
or low, Loudly not booming
• Variations of speed and loudness will help your message be entertaining
Ladder of Powerful Speaking
For example, if I loan you the money, will you pay it back?
I should pay it back.
I might pay it back.
I want to pay it back.
I intend to pay it back.
I promise to pay it back.
Be Aware of Negative Self-Talk. Do You Recognize any of These?
• I have to be perfect • I need the approval of everyone • That’s always the way it is. • I’m helpless in this situation. • If something bad can happen, it will
happen.
Barriers to Communication
Barriers to Communication (1)
his body language
her body language
Interruptions and distractions (Door ?
Cell phone)
Barriers to Communication (2)
Other barriers include: • Talking too much, not giving speaker time to express him or
herself • Being critical and/or judgmental • Laughing at or humiliating • Contradicting or arguing with speaker • Being disrespectful of speaker beliefs, way of life • Lack of trust
Receiver
How to Be a Good Listener
Let the guy talk. Talking helps to clarify thinking.
Talk Less
Minimize Distractions
• Give attention. • Focus on being a good listener.
Don’t Judge Too Soon
• Understand first and then evaluate. • Put aside your mindset to hear and
understand.
Listen for the Main Point
Ask Questions
Feed Back
Feedback.. WHY
• Speakers often: – Say one thing and mean another. – Say something and not mean it. – Speak in a way that causes confusion.
Feedback: Basic (1)
• Ask permission or identify that you are giving feedback.
• Examples: – “Can I give you some feedback on that follow-up
patient visit?” – “I’d like to provide some feedback on what I
observed during my visit today.”
Feedback: Principles (2) Give feedback in a “feedback sandwich”
1) Start with a positive
observation
2) Provide a suggestion for improvement
3) Finish with a
second positive
observation
Feedback: Principles (3)
• Don’t be judgmental or use labels: – Avoid words like “lazy,” “careless,” or
“forgetful”
• Don’t exaggerate or generalize: – Avoid terms such as, “you always,” or
“you never”
Don’t minimize the situation. It’s only a _____.
The Language of Responsibility. “I” and “You” Statements.
• You accept responsibility for yourself.
“You” statements:
• Language of blame. • Underestimating. • Cause negative emotions. • Escalate the situation.
“I” Statement: Instead of: You must be crazy.
I don’t understand.
How to Feedback
• Restate what has been said • Ask for clarification • Reword the message to check understanding • Use your own words to rephrase the message
to check understanding
Thank you