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    Copyright 2013 CR James & Super Power MediaImportant Notice: All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be used, reproduced or

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    When I was 14 years old I got my first job at a convienent store called 7-11. As muchas I loved the place, there were times when I had to do boring tasks such as bagging ice.

    In an effort to make it fun, I would do these weird imagination exercises like pretending

    that some special ice-bagging ninja assassin who has been flown in to bag ice - in somesort of life or death mission.

    I would be so fired up with the FEELING of being the man that it was adrenaline-

    pumping fun!

    Im not sure if this sort of things works for everyone but it works for me. In fact, I still doit.

    Today Im on a new mission and although the task isnt boring, Im going to imaginethat there are 3 guys who are so bad at the communication aspects of women that nearly

    everyone has failed to help them

    Lets get straight down to business.

    Im not only going to give them abrilliant system- but its sooooooosimple and powerful ANY GUY can use it!!

    (Any guy as in: A complete rookie, an average guy, or a super skilled guy)

    Step 1: In the first 4 hours (of helping these 3 guys), l would focus on getting them tobelieve in themselves

    (As a heads up, the first few pages may be somewhat of a review, but it's necessary to

    establish the context of this report.)

    You see, when you bel i eve i n yoursel f + Have a smar t syst em You can accompl i sh anyt hi ng you want !

    As I st at ed bef or e: My phi l osophy f or i mpr ovi ng ( atanyt hi ng i n l i f e) st ar t s wi t h i dent i f yi ng t he bi ggestdr i ver s and el i mi nat i ng t he bi ggest ' hol dbacks' .

    I f you can do bot h wi t h t he appr opr i at e l evel of i nt ensi t yand f ocus, you have no choi ce but t o massi ve i mpr ove.

    Step 2: I would get these guys to change how they see women

    You see, just because a guy feels confident that doesnt mean he perceives women the

    right way

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    I've known guys who were very confident, but they had wacky beliefsabout women, and

    it ended up sabotaging them in ways that they never fully understood

    Let's face, not everyone perceives women the same way...

    You can take 2 different guys of Exact Equal Skill Level - and one could end up being20x more effective - just simply because of how he perceives women.

    In fact if you know a guy who seems confident BUT he doesnt have that much successwith women (no girlfriends...no datesno action at all), its very possible that he has

    weird beliefsabout women that is holding him back

    It could something like:

    He thinks all women are bitchy He thinks all women are hard to figure out.. He thinks all women hate sex.

    Or its something more complex.

    In general, there are layers of wacky beliefs a guy can have about women. For example:

    1. Per cept i on- based Bel i ef s ( i . e. Women are bi t chy. Women aresel f i sh. etc . )2. Oper at i onal - based Bel i ef s ( i . e. I t ' s har d t o get women t ur nedon. I t ' s har d t o pl ease women. et c. )

    (Note: As of now -- for this report -- were not going to actually cover in massive detail

    how to identify and/or change your beliefs about women. So well just cover a few thingssince it directly affects the information/topic that we're going to go over...)

    In terms of a short-cut game plan for making sure you are operating with

    POSITIVE/BENEFICIAL beliefs about women..

    Always imagine (and behave as if) she is exactly like you want her to be.

    In other words, if you want her to bea naughty little fun girl in the bedroom, then

    deeply pretend that shes been behaving that way with you for months/years - and that

    she cant get enough of you (whether shes a stubborn wife or a girl you just met 10

    minutes ago).

    Very Powerful Tip: Go as f ar as i magi ni ng and cr eat i ng ' f al sememor i es' of her behavi ng t hi s way so that you ( on a bodyl anguage l evel ) ( and conf i dence l evel ) ( and mi cr o- expr essi onsl evel ) ( and t one of voi ce l evel ) gi ve of f a vi be t hat she' l lr espond to. . .

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    I t may seem wei r d, but do i t any way.

    When you do this, you end up TUNING with her sexual side.

    Always assume that every woman on earth has a sexual side AND a nonsexual stuck-up

    side.

    Let the guys with the Bad Beliefs about women TUNE IN to her nonsexual stuck-up side.

    As Interaction Power Ninjas will are masters of TUNING into hersexual/playful/flirty/confident side.

    In many communication books, they'll talk about pretending to talk to strangers and if

    you two have been friends for years. And it works like crazy.

    I've been on both ends. You've probably been on both end.

    Miserable people TUNE IN to your angry 'dont-want-be-bothered' side.

    Happy/Playful people TUNE IN to your more positive side.

    Taking it a step further, when something simple works great, it's a smart idea to thinkabout ways to take it to another level. Why stop there at just pretendingthat you and a

    stranger are good friends (using 'false memories').

    Why not apply it to other forms of interaction?

    Why not take it to another level?

    Always remember (as a super hidden secret that most guys dont realize) women are

    insanely hypnotically responsiveto Your Deep Beliefs + Your Deep Expectations.

    especially when she respects you & admires you.

    (That's why it's SO EASY to TUNE IN to her sexual-playful-flirty side.)

    If you imagine these memories long enough, or exaggerate real memories, you SEND

    STRONG SIGNALS that you believe and expect her to be playful - and that will be

    PART of the process of UNLOCKING and TUNING IN to that side of her...

    The other part is of course the strategy - the stuff that involves talking to her.

    Before we get to the 'listening and talking part', you have to adopt the Philosophy of

    Balance.

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    It's where:

    You sometimes give her exactly what she asks for (plus more than she expects). You sometimes tell her no to her requests (even if its something small). You sometimes give her lots of attention (placing her needs before your needs). You sometimes place your needs/desires in the #1 slot (even if she ends up feelingignored).

    This is the basics of the Philosophy of Balance.

    And balance might not be the best word because:

    Sometimes its 30-70.Sometimes its 50-50.

    Sometimes its 80-20.

    Just as a rule, make sure its NEVER 0-100 or 100-0 in certain areas.

    The guys who violate the Philosophy of Balance are typically guys who have the wrong

    beliefs about women.

    When you have the wrong beliefs about women (or even worse, you believe that you

    have the One Special woman on the planet where the rules don't apply) you will alwaysrun into problems.

    Even though there is more to it than just this, were not going to go into a lot of detailabout it because the emphasis of this report is:A Strategy For Communication.

    So let's continue....

    Specifically, let's go over THE BIG PICTURE Strategy for Communication. (There are 3

    Parts.)

    Thing #1: Your Level of Confidence

    See yourself as incredibly amazing because if you want her to see you as incredibly amazing you

    have to first decide to BOLDLY (and unapologetically) see yourself that way.

    >

    Thing #2: Your Beliefs About Women

    Always imagine (and behave as if) she is exactly like you want her to be.

    If you want to be a naughty little fun girl in the bedroom, then 'deeply pretend' that she's been

    behaving that way with you for years - and that she can't get enough of you.

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    Apply The Philosophy of Balance. Sometimes give her more than what she expects. Sometimes

    dont. Its the magical sweet spot. You dont have to like it. You dont have to understand it. You

    just have to remember that guys who operate on either extreme will massively lose her respect and

    deep connection.

    So even when youre telling her no or when you are refusing to agree with something wacky that

    she is saying that doesnt make any damn sense, you still get to see her as the amazing person she is.

    And since this is a strategy reportThing #3 will be the strategy(basically, Thing #3 isthe contents of this report).

    So that makes the complete BIG PICTURE formula for conversational success [withwomen]...

    Thing #1: Your Confidence+Thing #2: Beliefs About Women+Thing #3: Your (Conversation)Strategy.

    Again, this report will focus only on Thing #3.

    Lets get to it!

    Look at the image below. As you can see it gives you the big picture.

    As you can see, the structure is insanely simple.

    "Wow. This is really easy!"

    Exactly! That's what I just said!

    Keeping things really simple, when you're communicating with her, youre either:

    A.Listening to her

    B.Talking to her

    ...for the most part.

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    That means that one way of looking at becoming more effective with women (whether

    youre bad, average or great) is to be more effective at the listening phaseand moreeffective at the talking phase.

    Although, 90% of this report will cover the B Branch, lets dive in right now starting with

    the A Branch.

    Lets start filling in the pieces, starting with:

    TThheeAAPPhhaassee

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    As far as the listening to her branch, well keep this very short

    When you're listening, there are only 2 main objectives (at least as far as this system

    goes)

    1. (A1)To make her feel good (specifically, giving her the feeling of: attention,admiring, respect, valued, connection, interaction value)

    2. (A2)To get/scan information from her

    As far as listening to make her feel good (A1), thats pretty easy. All you have to do is

    look attentive, ask follow up questions, and nod your head and say stuff like veryinteresting.

    I'm just going to assume that you understand this part...

    If not, there are books out there on listening. We're not going to go too deep into themechanics of it.

    As far as the A2 Branch (filtering and scanning for key information), all you have to do is

    listen for pieces of information that help you understand her better.

    That way, if you're going to do some sort of technique (whether it's to inspire intimacy,

    cheer her up, motivate her, connect with her better, build attraction) you have Info-fuel.

    Later, we'll cover what type of info to listen for...

    And to understand the importance, the best compliment you can ever give her (that will

    have a strong emotional impact on her) will be a result of knowing key pieces of

    informationabout her.

    The best seduction technique (that takes her from not horny to really horny very

    efficiently) will be a result of knowing key pieces of informationabout her.

    Makes sense?

    "Yes! It does. It makes perfect sense, CR"

    Great!

    In general, you have long-term pieces of informationand you have short-term pieces of

    information(i.e. she feels as though her friends are ignoring her + people at work arecurrently overlooking her for a raise/promotion)

    In certain reports, I talk about a concept called Under Signals, which is a ONE type ofShort Term Info - which has to do with Feelings and Perception-Based Experiences that

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    she's starving for (whether it's: attention, a compliment, to be listened to, to be seen as a

    leader, to be seen as a Good Person, etc.)

    However you choose to use that information, depends on your objective

    "Can I have some examples, please?"

    Sure!

    Here are some examples:

    1. Let's say you pick up 'some info' that suggests she needs to feel special, you could use

    that as a way of cheering her up. After you made the observation, you would saysomething like:

    You: Today i s Speci al Kar en Day! I m t aki ng you out andcel ebr at i ng a speci al r andoml y cr eat ed hol i day j ust f or you

    (That's a very basic example. In real-life you would add some meat and texture to it --

    and when you do that -- COMBINED with the fact that she is currently STARVING tofeel that way, the IMPACT IS HUGE.)

    2. You could use that as part of a seduction technique!

    The structure would be the same: Starving Feelings and/or Starved Perceptions

    COMBINED with a prescription-based seduction technique = IMPACT IS HUGE!

    3. You could use the info as a way of giving her an effective compliment.

    IMPACT IS HUGE!

    4. You could use the info as a way of building your sexual value.

    IMPACT IS HUGE!

    On basic math level, when you are water-hosing her with lots of HUGE IMPACTS (on a

    multi-dimensional level, you --- have -- no --- choice -- but --- to --- be --- the --- superskilled guy she's never experienced before!

    But summing it up, the A2 branch is all about listening for pieces of information that youwill use:

    As part of a strategy to Build SV As part of a strategy to Build ST As part of a strategy to Build Connection As part of a strategy to Make her feel good

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    As part of a strategy to do all sorts of things...in a HUGE IMPACT way!!!And it all starts with listening.

    ListenScan for informationUse that information strategically to create a

    predictably super-huge impact.

    Easy.

    You also want to listen for long term information.

    Sometimes you can know a woman for years, but then one day she tells you a story about

    the time when she argued back and forth with an ex and then this time youre reallypaying attention to how shes telling the story -- and you happen to noticethat shes

    taking a lot of pride in how she t ook cont r ol of t he si t uat i onand thenthat one story triggers other memories of dozens of other stories along the same lines

    and it becomes crystal clear that she is morePower Hungry than you ever realized.

    More i nf ormat i on about her = More l everage.

    When you dont know the info, your results are random and weak.

    As someone who is actually with a Power Hungry wife, I cant tell you how many clever,

    fun and slick seduction techniques Ive used where appealing to her sense of

    power/control was the dominant driver.

    Do you know how many books out there that talk about how the man MUST display his

    dominance over woman? (LOL)

    Or they talk about how a 'real man' must always be in control.

    My take on that: That only applies to a small percentage of women. You see, I personallybuild my beliefs about women based on my experiences along with the experiences of

    people I talk to.

    If you observe what happens with most women in this world -- on planet earth -- in this

    day and age -- (where women are doctors, judges, CEOs, business owners, pilots, boxers,

    athletes, engineers, inventors, writers, leaders, philosophers, etc, etc, etc) -- you'll notice

    with your Observational Sensorsthat they tend to switchfrom being submissive at timesto being dominant at times.

    Although I'm getting off topic a bit, the point is...

    So many people seemed to be obsessed with the one size fits all approach to having

    success with women.

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    Not smart.

    That's not our approach.

    We're info (about her) seekers...

    Getting back to the exampleif you listen at a woman tell you a story of a power

    struggle with her ex, thats what I call long term info because leveraging it will always

    work on her.

    That doesn't mean that she's always in Power Hungry Mode, it just means that there will

    be a long term pattern of an emerging Power Hungry persona - if that makes sense....

    So what are key pieces of information to listen for?

    Here are just a few:

    (Were going to unofficially label this as Layer1Info) How She Wants To Be Percei ved ( Deep Down I nsi de) Her H. I . P. S Hobbi es/ I nt er est s/ Passi ons/ Spar e Ti me Act i vi t i es Her Gr eat est Achi evement s & Accompl i shment s ( and anyt hi ng she' s

    pr oud of )

    Her "Most Amazi ng" Li f e Experi ences The Best Compl i ments She Has Ever Heard The Tr ai t s That She Li kes About Hersel f The Physi cal Tr ai t s That She I s Pr oud Of The I mpor t ant Thi ngs That Most Peopl e Over l ook What Makes Her Uni que/ Speci al ( unl i ke any ot her woman) ? I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her curr ent per cept i on of her sel f What does she want t o have? What does she want t o get r i d of ? What woul d she want t o accompl i sh i n the f uture? What t r ai t s do ot her s l i ke about her ? What physi cal t r ai t s does ot her s l i ke about her ? The exper i ences i n her upbr i ngi ng The bel i ef s i nst al l ed dur i ng her upbr i ngi ng Her r ecent exper i ences t hat had a l ot of i mpact How does she put t hose exper i ences i n per spect i ve? What ar e her di f f erent personas? What i s i t about her l i f e t hat she i s t i r ed of ? I nf or mat i on that r eveal s her st r at egi es I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her phi l osophi es/ bel i ef s I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her f ear s I nf ormat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of other women I nf or mat i on that r eveal s her per cept i on of you I nf ormat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of men I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of l i f e

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    I nf or mat i on that r eveal s her per cept i on of peopl e I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of how r el at i onshi ps

    t ypi cal l y oper at e

    I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of t he per f ectrel at i onshi p

    I nf or mat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of sex I nf ormat i on t hat r eveal s her per cept i on of t he per f ect man

    That was 33 Key Pieces of Information!

    In fact, I would strongly urge you to study them!

    Heres a worksheet that you can down load:http://SuperPowerMedia.com/33worksheet.dochttp://SuperPowerMedia.com/33worksheet.pdf

    When you combine [A1]good listening that makes her feel good(special, appreciated,

    admired, respected, valued) with [A2]scanning for key pieces of information, you can

    see how powerful a (2-prong) listening strategy youll have.

    And when you really think about, its a very very simple strategy.

    In fact, just recently I used information I know about [my wife] to get her turned on last

    night -- and I wasnt trying to

    Lets flesh it out, so that its clear and simple

    Because we want to prove (or at least demonstrate the ease) that when you combine the

    Right Informationwith The Right List (Tactic), the Strategy will create itself!

    And by list, Im talking about your personal list of ways to build the connection, or list ofways to increase SV or list of ways to increase ST

    Lets break it down

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    For example if you know that in many aspects of life your target woman likes to be the

    teacher, then a sexual compliment about how she should write a bookteachingwomenthat new sexual trick she did last night is going to have a strong impact.

    You're combiningteaching (unique info about her)with a tactic that is effective for

    all women (making them feel sexy OR sexually superior)....

    And of course you would do that for each sexual tension ingredient.

    In general, one of the most reliable (and easy) ways to get a woman to go from not

    horny to horny is to do a series of sexual tension ingredients

    ST Tactic #1 + ST Tactic #2 + ST Tactic #3 = Horny

    "Is it really THAT easy?"

    Yes. Period.

    For example -- and this is pretty interesting -- because I didnt really plan to discuss this

    but again last night -- without trying -- I ended up getting my wife insanely aroused.

    "Not to interrupt, but you just basically said Yes - Period - Period - Period"

    That's because I want to emphasize how EASY it really is ...lol....getting back to the

    example....when I think back to what the main sexual tension ingredients were that got

    her aroused...

    ....here they are:

    Kissing her very softly on her back for a long time (she had a tank top on) while she wasin the bed reading on her side (without ever trying to initiate sex at all) + a sexual

    compliment about how she rocked my world the night before (but I said this a few hours

    prior to the kissing) + her being in an extremely happy about life mindset.

    There could have been a few other things, but I feel comfortable (based on past

    experiences with those ingredients and ingredients that created a similar effect) that those

    things were responsible for 95% - 100% of the horniness.if that makes sense.

    Further analyzing

    As far askissing her on the back, if I were to open up my personal copy of 154 Ways To

    Increase Sexual Tension, I would seekissesandbackrubsas ways to increase ST.

    However, I had to personally learn via getting information that she likes softkisses on her

    upper back.

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    Simple.

    Lets now move on to the B Phase!

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    TThheeBBPPhhaassee

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    As we mentioned, in general when youre conversationally interacting with her, there are

    only 2 possible things that you will be doing.

    Listing (the A phase)

    Talking (the B phase)

    We just covered an amazingly simple and powerful2-prong strategyfor listening. And

    goal-wise, you want to be:

    The guy/person who is a more attentive listener than she is use to experiencing(getting involved, asking questions, giving her lots of this is very interesting eye

    contact, resisting the urge to jump-in right away)

    Gathering info like a secret psychological spy geniusAs far as the Bphase, there are 3 main parts (B1, B2, B3). And we're about to discuss

    each one.

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    BBeeiinnggPPllaayyffuull

    The key to being playful (much like the key to anything) is mindset & strategy.

    This is the formula we're going to stick to:

    Having a sense of humor + Making the decision to do playful stuffwith her + Relevance

    And by 'Relevance' we're talking about doing playful stuff that matches up with the typeof person she is.

    So if everything comes down to mindset & strategy, the mindset part would beassuming/knowing/realizing that ALL women enjoy being playful. It's just a matter of

    finding her 'right type of playful' and having good timing.

    If you have the mindset, the strategy part is easy...

    It's all about strategically keeping the theme of your interaction playful.

    You see there is something interesting that takes place that a lot of people arent aware

    ofAnd it comes down to the interaction theme. In other words, she can find you to be

    attractive, adorable, interesting or whatever in fact, she could see you as the guy who isSmart + Intelligent + Amazing, buuuuuttt. If theInteraction Themechanges (in a

    negative way) everything could crumble fast and in ways that she cant fully describe.

    This is something that we've never talked about before.

    And it's very interesting.

    As you may be aware, every male-female interaction is somewhat of a special life-force(if that doesnt sound too sci-fi)

    "Of course, not!"

    Good.

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    So if you have a few women that youre dating OR you there was a time when you recall

    in the past where you were dating/seeing/talking-to a few women at the same time, youmay realize that certain interactions have somewhat of a different theme.

    Lets give an example of this. So if Bob (the current universal default name) is

    dating/seeing/screwing/talking-to 3 women, there will be 3 Special Interaction-BasedLife Forcesthat he has created. These things will sometimes grow up and become

    pretty strong. Sometimes theyll be weak. Sometimes theyll be fun creatures.

    Sometimes theyll be evil monsters that shouldnt be released in public.

    Sometimes they'll die out.

    You can basically think of a woman not wanting to ever talk to a guy again as an example

    of a Interaction-Based Life Force that has passed on to a better place.

    Sometimes these Life Forces will be fun, cool and witty.

    Here are some examples involve Bob and a few women that he knows.

    The Bob-Whitney Interaction (Life Force Theme: intelligent, tense, slow moving,

    confident)The Bob-Karen Interaction (Life Force Theme: 90% playful, 90% fun, 90% witty, 90%

    sexy)

    The Bob-Lisa Interaction (Life Force Theme: 90% insecure, 80% angry, 10% playful)

    Does this make sense?

    It's largely based on the uniqueness of the interaction between the two people involved.

    At first glance, it may seem that its 100% driven by the unique pairing of 2 people.

    But really its not just that. The real driver is the individual strategies at work. And

    because of that, we (as men) can DO STUFF to change theInteraction Value(or LifeFore Theme).

    To make this concept crystal clear....

    A good example of how we can change this is one time I was reading a goal setting book.

    And in there, it talked about setting goals for how you interact with your love ones. Soyou could end up saying: Today I will do 4 things that will show my wife/girlfriend that

    I care for her.

    Thats an example of how a short-term strategy can directly impact the Interaction Value.

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    So what I'm getting as it the Interaction Value isn't JUST the fact that Bob is Bob and

    Karen is Karen ---> so when they interaction, it is always this fixed output based on whothey are...

    What I'm getting at is the Interaction Value is part-THAT, and part- the fact that Bob has

    the ability to have a pre-planned strategy --- which is no different that if he read a bookthat advised him to "be 10x more playful with her + spend more time making her feel

    sexy and amazing + A + B + C".

    That game plan would end up directly impacting the Interaction Value.

    With the Bob Example, his interaction with Lisa could change from:

    JanuaryLife Force Theme: 90% insecure, 80% angry, 10% playful

    FebruaryLife Force Theme: intelligent, respectful, 80% playful & sexy

    In many cases, the theme of the interaction will just fade into something not as funjust because it doesnt dawn on us (as men) to manage it.

    So with B1 - Being PlayfulYour Secret Goal/Mission: To make the theme more

    playful and sexy. Think of ways to create an Interaction Theme thats unlike anything

    shes experience.

    Here are a list of Conversational Playful Games you can play

    Game #1: The Ongoing Pretend Game- This is where you convince her to take on a role. I'llexplain. For example, I had a friend who was trying to get his female friend into a relationship. Heliked her, but she kept him in the friend zone. Saying that he tried everything would be anunderstatement. He finally gave up on her. Months later he called me 'implying' that the femalefriend was crazy over him. I asked him what did he do -- and when he told me, my jaw dropped.Basically, it all started when they would go out and play pool together (hanging out as friends) andhe 'in the spirit of being playful' got her to play this fun gamewhere they pretended to be secretspies who were in love. The moment he told me that I couldn't believe what I was hearing --although he didn't realize he was doing some serious super advanced stuff - basically, he wasexecuting to perfection the concept in an unfinished & unreleased report that I had been workingon (at the time, "SSU Mind Control"). And the short version is that it's based on several powers ofthe unconscious mind, mirror neurons [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mirror_neuron],The Stanfordprison experiment [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_prison_experiment] and other stuff.

    With this, all you have to do is come up with a game where you get her to pretend to take on acertain role. However, you have to make sure that part of the role implies that she is attracted toyou.

    Game #2: Playful Bets- If you were creating a list of 'unique' games you can play, then thiswouldn't be on it, because lots of guys have done this before. It's not terribly unique. However, itworks. In fact, if you understand basic information about her, you can do versions of this that makethe interaction insanely powerful. The basic structure is:

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    You: I'll tell you what, if you win I'll [a reward that she likes], if I win [a reward you like].

    Can you guess where most guys mess up?

    Here's a hint, don't look at the 'bet' as a way of getting something you want. Look at it, as a way ofsending a message. So 'win or lose' you still WIN.

    Let's say you two are bowling.

    Wrong way:You: I'll tell you what, if you win I'll give you a backrub for 30 minutes, if I win you have to kiss me.

    That's an extreme 'wrong way' to do it.

    As you can see, the guy comes off as being desperate and overly happy just to get a kiss.

    If you're going to do some sort of sexual reward, make sure you know the woman and her buttons.

    In general, it's always a safe bet(no pun) to make it nonsexual -- that way you don't come off as ifsex is a big deal.

    You could however, make it a 'high likelihood' step in the process.

    For example:

    Better way:You: I'll tell you what, if you win I'll give you a spa-like full backrub for 30 minutes with tea, calmmusic and dim lighting -- and I'll give you compliments the whole time, if I win you have to you'llhave to give me a spa-like full backrub for 30 minutes with tea, calm music and dim lighting -- andyou have to tell me how sexy, amazing and intelligent I am.

    In general, if you wanted to initiate sex, it would ideally be better if you done while she is feelinghappy, good about herself, rewarded, sexy (via compliments), half-naked, dim-lighting, etc.

    If she "wins" that's where she ends up....

    It's also not a bad time to initiate or transition into an intimate kiss (or foreplay) if YOU are half-naked, dim-lighting, being told how amazing you are, framed as a winner, etc.

    Do you see the win-win at work? It's pretty simple.

    Now we'll talk about Game #3: Strategic Fun Rewards(one of my favorites - because it's a greatway to condition women to work hard for your approval) + we have 6 more "games" to cover + 1"non-game" (and the 4 ways to do this controversial "non-game".)

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    Conversation Success is based on Your Level of Confidence + Your Beliefs

    About Women + Your Conversation Strategy

    Find Ways To Get The33 Key Pieces of Information:

    How She Wants To Be Perceived (Deep Down Inside) Her H.I.P.S Hobbies/Interests/Passions/Spare Time Activities Her Greatest Achievements & Accomplishments (and anything she's proud

    of)

    Her "Most Amazing" Life Experiences The Best Compliments She Has Ever Heard The Traits That She Likes About Herself The Physical Traits That She Is Proud Of The Important Things That Most People Overlook What Makes Her Unique/Special (unlike any other woman)? Information that reveals her current perception of herself What does she want to have? What does she want to get rid of? What would she want to accomplish in the future? What traits do others like about her? What physical traits does others like about her? The experiences in her upbringing The beliefs installed during her upbringing Her recent experiences that had a lot of impact How does she put those experiences in perspective? What are her different personas? What is it about her life that she is tired of? Information that reveals her strategies Information that reveals her philosophies/beliefs Information that reveals her fears Information that reveals her perception of other women Information that reveals her perception of you Information that reveals her perception of men Information that reveals her perception of life Information that reveals her perception of people Information that reveals her perception of how relationships typically

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    Information that reveals her perception of sex Information that reveals her perception of the perfect manHeres a worksheet that you can download:

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    When you combine the Right Informationwith The Right List (Tactic), the

    Strategy will create itself!

    Being Playful = Having a sense of humor + Making the decision to do playful

    stuff with her + Relevance

    Being Playful = Playing Games + Doing Non-game stuff

    Always work to enhance the Life Force Theme (i.e. 90% playful, 90% fun,90% witty, 90% sexy 90% confident)

    Always remember the Law of Density.

    Guy A: Does 100 acts of Playfulness PER week with Jen

    Guy B: Does 7 acts of Playfulness PER week with Jen

    Guy A Wins because 100 > 7

    Know Her Brain-Chemical Score.

    Re-read the report as often as you need to.

    And if you have any questions let me know.Warmly

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