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Dave WertheimFounder, Men U For Transformed LivesMinistry Consultant, Man in the Mirror
Why Are We Here?
Why even have a ministry to
men?
Why even have a ministry to
men?
Plastic Jesus?Men U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012 2
Then Jesus came to them and said,
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make
disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the
Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And
surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
Matthew
28:18-20Men U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012 3
The Apostle Paul
“And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable
men who will also be qualified to teach others.”
2 Timothy
2:2
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Man in the Mirror Vision
For every church to disciple every man.
Filled all blue
WIDENeed Cultural Biblical LeaderChrist Christian Christian DEEP
Portal Priority = Discipleship
Man Code = Environment
3 Strands = Leadership
Hurting Men
© 2006 Man in the Mirror, Inc., Morley, Delk & ClemmerUsed by Permission
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The Big Idea :
Your system is perfectly designed to produce the results you are getting.
The Key Parts of Your Vision
VISIONName Slogan
Elevator SpeechPurpose StatementMen U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012 8
An Actual Purpose Statement
To build relationships with men, to encourage them practically and bring
them closer to Christ through fellowship, mentoring, and
discipleship.
Need more ideas? Check out No Man Left Behind, Appendix B, pages 207-208Men U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012
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Question?What discipleship opportunities do you offer
men in your church? (make a list!)
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The Usual Suspects
Monthly Pancake Breakfast
Men’s Sunday School Class
Men’s Retreat
Iron Sharpens Iron Conferences
Service Projects
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“All-Inclusive”
Maximizing the Kingdom potential of every interaction my church has with every man.
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The Big Idea :
The size of my ministry to men is equal to the number of men in my church.
“All-Inclusive”
Why is this guy so
excited?
Why is this guy so
excited?
I’m IN!!(Even though I never go to
the men’s pancake
breakfast.)
I’m IN!!(Even though I never go to
the men’s pancake
breakfast.)
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More Than The Usual Suspects Monthly Pancake
Breakfast
Men’s Sunday School Class
Men’s Retreat
Iron Sharpens Iron Conferences
Service Projects
Sunday Worship Couples’ Small Group Ushers Parking Lot Team Youth Ministry Boys Sunday School
Teacher Mission Trips
How can we reach and disciple men in all these places?Men U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012
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What Else is There?
• Different Types of Men – a spiritual continuum
• What is the target group for each activity in our church?
• Which activities reach men most effectively?
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Filled all blue
WIDENeed Cultural Biblical LeaderChrist Christian Christian DEEP
Hurting Men
© 2006 Man in the Mirror, Inc., Morley, Delk & ClemmerUsed by Permission
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How do you decide what discipleship activities/events to offer men in your church?
5 Types of Men
1. Men who Need Christ
2. Men who are Cultural Christians
3. Men who are Biblical Christians (or want to be)
4. Men who are Leaders (or want to be)
5. Men who are Hurting
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The Big Idea :
Give men what they need in the context of what they want.
No Man Left Behind Model
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SustainSustainChange
CaptureCaptureMomentum
CreateCreateValue
VISION
Recruit Engage
ConnectMen U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012
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Felt NeedsWhy is there More month
than Money?I’m Engaged! what
will marriage be like?
How do I move from success to
significance?
How can I be a great dad?
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Meeting Felt Needs
Why is there More month than Money?
How can I be a great dad?
Crown Financial Group Study
Engaged DiscoveryClass
Short-termMissions trip
Dad in the MirrorSmall Group
I’m Engaged! what will marriage be like?
How do I move from success to
significance?Men U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012
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Great event. Great event. Now what?Now what?
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Capturing Momentum
CreateCreate
Super Bowl Super Bowl PartyParty
CaptureCapture
BasketballBasketballLeagueLeague
Men’s RetreatMen’s Retreat6-week 6-week
Bible StudyBible Study
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Recruiting 201
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SustainSustainChange
CaptureCaptureMomentum
CreateCreateValue
VISION
Recruit Engage
ConnectMen U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012
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Time
# of Committed
Men Starting Point
CreateValue
Capture Momentum
Sustain Change
New DisciplesNew Disciples
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Time
# of Committed
Men
New DisciplesNew Disciples
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Make disciplesMatthew 28:18-20
Pray for workersMatthew 9:36-38
Pray for disciples
Make workers
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Three Strands of LeadershipThree Strands of Leadership
Senior Senior PastorPastor
Passionate Passionate LeaderLeader
Leadership Leadership TeamTeam
1. Pray2. Support3. Inform4. Include5. Love
1. Vision casting2. Planning3. Engaging4. Praying
What’s What’s YourYour Next Step? Next Step?• Review your notes with your team
and Senior Pastor
• Identify a passionate leader for your ministry to men
• Recruit a strong leadership team and take them through the No Man Left Behind book or self-paced training
• Bring a team to a No Man Left Behind Conference for leaders
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Men U For Transformed Lives Copyright © 2012
[email protected] or (916) 791-3137
www.maninthemirror.org
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