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" Christmas is more than just presents, it' s love and harmony." December 2017 [email protected]

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"Christmas is more than just presents, it' s love

and harmony. "

December 2017

[email protected]

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A message from our Patron

Hello Dear Friends

I am so sorry I can’t be with you this year to celebrate our Birthday

together.

I remember with great affection last years play and the

marvellous poem written for me. Our strength lies in us all keeping a look

out for each other, so I hope very much that I will be up to visit you next

year. Meanwhile, I am sending my very best wishes.

A very Happy Birthday Kyra and a peaceful Christmas to you all.

With love Penelope.

(Dame Penelope Wilton)

RITtA - Assertiveness Course Reaching Individual Targets to Achieve

Are you "too nice for your own good?"

The course is all about choice and understanding that you have more

choice than you think you do.

This is a practical course which will help you feel more confident in your

ability to handle others and feel better about yourself.

We won’t (can’t) turn a gentle soul into an aggressive ogre - thank

goodness! Instead we look at how you can change your behaviour

because you want to, rather than feeling pressured into things you’d

rather not do.

The idea is to feel better about saying 'no' without having to change

who you

8 Sessions – commencing Thursday, 11th January 10am

If you would like a space ring 01904 632332 or [email protected]

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ANITA - ABC OF IT - COMPUTER TRAINING

The 4-session course is free of charge and suitable for beginners and

those who want to develop their knowledge in the many areas of

technology

Book a space – [email protected] or ask a volunteer

January - 1pm-2.30pm on the Wednesdays of 10th, 17th, 24th, 31st

1-2-1 Counselling - A confidential short-term counselling

service

1-2-1 Counselling is at Kyra every Tuesday am. To make an appointment

contact - confidential answerphone: 07587 155678

1-2-1 is an independent voluntary counselling organisation based in

York since 1993 offering a short-term professional counselling service to

the community.

Charity Bag Pack

Kyra has an exciting opportunity to do a charity bag pack at Asda,

Monks Cross, York on Saturday 16th December 2017.

We know it’s a long way in advance but near Christmas diaries do get

full!!

Can you volunteer to do this? We will need 20

people to cover the day in shifts, am and pm,

three hours each or as many or few as you can.

Your support would be much appreciated. If you

can help, either email [email protected] or sign

up in Kyra

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1 to 1 MENTORING PROGRAMME – SPACES AVAILABLE

Kyra Women’s Project is now providing a mentoring service to

women.

If you are out of employment and would like to move towards

volunteering, education or work or feel that you need a bit of

extra support, why not get in touch?

The mentoring service provides one to one support, enabling

you to identify and achieve manageable goals in a supportive

environment.

The service takes a holistic approach, led by you, to help you

get where you want to be. We can support you in numerous

ways along your journey.

The project is funded by the Big Lottery and ESF

Contact us for more information and an informal chat

The CMC St Saviourgate York YO1 8QN 01904 632332 or

[email protected]

supporting women to make change

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Waiting List Open

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Motivational Mondays

Have you ever set a goal, got so far and stopped?

Or maybe you never set goals because you don’t think you can

achieve them?

Some people don’t know where to start with goals and plans for the

future.

Well, if you connect with one of the statements above then coaching is

for you!

The focus of coaching is to help you help yourself and for us to work

together to notice what could be getting in the way of you moving

forward.

Motivational Mondays are being offered by York based Confidence

Coach Jules Wyman.

The sessions are an hour long and for graduates of the ESTA

programme.

The aim is to keep you and your life moving confidently in the direction

you want.

Contact KYRA office to book your session. Dates available: Dec 4th and

Jan 8th and the 5th of Feb and March

And you can find out more about Jules at www.juleswyman.com

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So, so proud of these wonderful members. What a brilliant evening was

had by all. To all who contributed to making the launch of their CD –

‘we will fly’ a HUGE thank you. CD’s available to order - £3, brilliant

stocking filler

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Women only Poetry Lunch Share new poems, old poems, poems from your pen

‘it’s like Ruby Wax and Victoria Wood, mixed with Kyra members voices’

Saturday 27th January 2017, 12.30 - 3.30 pm

Bring a little something for shared lunch

Contact 01904 632332 or

[email protected] for more

information

No need to book, just come along

Future dates for your poetry diary

Saturday 31st March, 2018

Kyra Christmas Cards

Our beautiful Christmas card designed by the Kyra art group.

Thank you, ladies it is stunning, special thanks to Joy and Glynis,

Cards are available in packs of three for £1.50

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ESTA – Self-esteem group

Recognise any of the below? then the ESTA group could help

• dislike yourself • unable to recognise your

strengths • undeserving of happiness • don’t see anything positive for your future • feel worthless or

don’t live up to other people • find it difficult to make decisions • no one likes you • you blame

yourself for things that aren't your fault • difficult for you to spend time or money on yourself • low in

confidence

‘I feel as though I have my life back, I can, I will make changes’

Next courses commence:

Tuesday 9th January, 9.45 – 11.45 or

Thursday evenings 5.30 – 7.30 – 11th January

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Christmas Angel Tree

We are collecting toys for the children at Hob

Moor Oaks who have an Autistic Spectrum

condition

Please take an angel, and buy a small gift

suitable for a toddler, wrap it up and attach

your angel with a message

“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” ―Charles Dickens

Hats off to KYRA!

What an amazing job you have all

done. We have over 60 hats knit, all

shapes, colours and sizes. A HUGE

thank you to everyone who has

supported us.

Hats will be on sale at £5 each for

members

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Do you need to brush up

your CV, write an

application letter or get

some advice on interview

skills?

Sessions available 5th and 12th December, am

Email Indrel on [email protected] to arrange an

appointment.

Kyra Christmas get together Thursday 21st 1-4pm

Join us for Mince Pies, Carol Singing and a visit from Mother Claus

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Reiki Treatments at Kyra 30 minute appointments on the 3rd Friday of each month. £5 per session Appointment times: 10.15am, 11.00am and 11.45am

How Reiki can help you:

Reduces stress

Reduces pain and discomfort

Improves energy levels and sleep patterns

Clears the mind and improves concentration

Supports the immune system

Assists detoxification

Helps balance blood pressure

To book an appointment please contact Kyra [email protected] or Tel: 01904 632332 Look forward to seeing you.

Julie Usui Reiki Master Practitioner

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Date for your diary

Kyra Butterfly Brunch 2 December 2017 The Hospitium Museum Gardens 10.30 - 1pm

A fundraising brunch celebrating Kyra’s 4th birthday and looking ahead at the work that needs to be done. Guest Speakers: Councillor Jayne Senior MBE - Rotherham sex abuse whistle blower and Margaret Sentamu MA - a freelance Leadership Development consultant with a focus on diversity

Raffle Christmas stalls

Tickets £40

Wednesday 17th January – 1pm – 2.30

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Are you interested in learning more about DOMESTIC ABUSE

and how it has affected you? The Freedom Programme is for

women who have had experience of Domestic Abuse be it

past or present.

Abuse is not always violent - emotional, sexual and financial

abuse are also devastating.

This is a twelve-week rolling programme and all sessions are

completely confidential.

Commencing Thursday 11th January, 2018 10am – 12

or Thursday 11th January, 6.15 – 8.15

The programme will help you to:

1. Understand the beliefs held by abusive partners

2. Feel empowered to be more confident in your choices

3. Recognise the effects of Domestic Abuse on yourself and

your children

4. Recognise potential abusers,

The course is free, and refreshments will be provided.

TO BOOK YOUR PLACE, PLEASE CONTACT US AT KYRA ON

01904 632332 or [email protected]

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Are you new to Kyra?

We open on the first and third Monday of the month to welcome new

members to Kyra. This will give you a chance to have a look around,

chat with a volunteer and identify how best we could support you. We

encourage new members to take advantage of this opportunity as we

cannot guarantee having a volunteer free at other times.

Monday 5th and 19th December, 2.00 – 3.30 pm

This is a great opportunity for new members to visit Kyra when it is

quieter. Bring a friend with you if you fancy

Reflexology Treatments with Sheila will be available on the first

Friday of each month. Treatments will last for approximately one hour.

Reflexology is a pleasant, gentle and easy

treatment to receive that is similar to a foot

massage but can be done on the hands if

preferred. It can help with relaxation, improve

mood, aid sleep, help relieve tension and

improve sense of wellbeing. Improved

wellbeing is much more than simply the absence of illness; it also

includes an improved frame of mind, better relationships with those

around you and increased happiness.

We ask for a small donation of £5 per session

Contact Kyra on 01904 632332 or email [email protected] to make

an appointment. No appointment is necessary for the Tasters, but we

suggest you contact Kyra first to find out the next Tuesday that they will

be available. Sheila

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Wednesday 10th January 10am to 12

Sally, a trained chef of Lewis and Duncan will be joining us at

Kyra and cooking 2018 recipes

Places are limited to 10 people

There is a £3 charge to cover the cost of the food

All you do is watch and eat!

To save your place ring 01904632332 or [email protected]

We invite you to our Drop In

Meet other women in a relaxing and safe place. Share conversation,

company and cake! It’s your space - please come and fill it.

Every Tuesday and Thursday afternoon 1—4pm and the 1st Saturday of

every month 12.30—3.00pm.

Saturday 2nd December, you are invited to join us. Bring a little something

towards a shared lunch. No need to book, just come along from 12.30.

Please note as of January, the shared lunches will be on a Sunday

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Our Patron Dame Penelope

Wilton DBE

On Wednesday 15th November

received

an Honorary Degree from York St John

University,

for her work with Kyra Women’s Project

Legal advice for our members – offered by Crombie Wilkinson

Solicitors in conjunction with Kyra

Kim

I am an Associate member of The Chartered Institute of Legal

Executives and have worked in family law for over 12 years.

Over the years, we have gained vast knowledge and experience in

dealing with cases involving Domestic Abuse by assisting clients in

obtaining Non Molestation Orders (Injunctions) and Occupation Orders

through the Family Court. We also specialise in private law children

matters, public law cases, divorce and any financial aspects arising out

of the same, either stand-alone cases, or as a result of Domestic Abuse.

In certain situations, we can apply for Non-Molestation Orders or orders

regarding children for a client on an emergency basis. We can also

assess clients for Legal Aid as and when the need arises.

We will be available on the first Thursday of the month from 10am-12pm

at KYRA for anyone who wishes to call in.

If anyone would like to make an appointment with us, then please call

01904 624185 or book through Kyra

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My Money. My Life......

Upgrade your money skills

Is your money stuff causing you worries? Do you want

some help to take control & feel more organised with your

money stuff?

YES – we would love to meet you!!

Peasholme Charity will be brining one-to-one sessions of

My Money, My Life to Kyra on the second Thursday of

every month next session Thursday 14th December 1- 4pm

Book early as appointments are limited, come along and

meet Alison. Bring your money letters and statements –

they will be really helpful to get you started!!

Telephone Alison on 01904 466866 or Mobile: 07976137063

Tea and Coffee, biscuits and cakes

If you can donate towards your tea and coffee, we would be

grateful. Your £1 goes a long way to helping to cover the cost of milk,

tea, biscuits and coffee

Many thanks

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[email protected]

In conjunction with Kyra, IDAS are inviting you to join a free course…

Moving on from Domestic Abuse

7 week Course providing information for

Women about Domestic Abuse Course starts: Tuesday 5th December, 2017

Every Tuesday: 10am -12:00 Venue: Kyra, The CMC, St. Saviourgate, York

YO18NQ

Aims of the course:

*To help Women understand the beliefs held by abusive men. *To illustrate the effects of Domestic Violence on Children. *To assist Women to recognise potential future abusers.

* To help Women gain self-esteem and the confidence to improve the quality of their lives

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The Poppy Room We are putting the final touches together to our new counselling and therapy

room. This new space will give us extra capacity to offer therapy to more of our

members and will be called the Poppy room. Poppy is the beautiful daughter of

Alex who was one of our first counselling clients at Kyra and she has been a keen supporter of our work. We

are looking forward to welcoming Alex and Poppy back soon for the official opening - watch this space!

Our thanks go to all who have helped in making this happen, including those who cleared the bathroom,

those who chose the colours and organised the furniture

Also, thanks go to the Southwell Trust and the Scurrah Wainwright Charity for their financial support

New Volunteers

We are looking for some special people to join the Kyra team. We

need people who are particularly skilled in crafts, administration and

those who have experience in training.

We are unable to accept new volunteers who have accessed Kyra

within the last 3 months or those who are currently having some

intervention.

Interested or know of someone who might be? Contact [email protected] for an application form or call 01904 632332

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The Lord Mayor of York

Councillor Barbara Boyce

Will be joining us on Tuesday 12th

December, at our drop in. She

requested a visit to Kyra to meet with

Members and volunteers. I hope you

will join us and welcome her into the

Kyra Family

Barbara Boyce was born in York to

parents who were both brought up on

Union Terrace (where the car and

coach park is now). Her father was a

self-employed builder and her mother

worked at Thorpe Arch munitions

factory during World War II.

Outside of politics Barbara likes travel, theatre, art, nature and walking

her Scottish Terrier, Maisie, who would also like to be invited to suitable

events. Barbara feels very honoured to be the Lord Mayor of her home

city and wants to meet people and organisations from all communities.

in the area. She is also very proud of her all-female civic party, who

have each given much to York in their different ways and who share her

wish to connect with all aspects of the city.

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ART AT KYRA KYRAAR COME AND HAVE A GO!

Next course begins on Monday 8th January

Mornings 10.30am – 12.30 OR Afternoons 1pm – 3pm

If you would like to join in please make sure that you put your

name down by contacting the Kyra office on 01904 632332 or

speak to Glynis if you are in the centre.

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Kyra Voices Carol will lead the session.

She makes the best cakes ever and will warm your heart

Do you sing or would you

like too?

Would love to see you at our ‘sing in’s’

Every Wednesday

6pm – 7.45pm

Coffee from 5.45

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Changing Patterns

What it’s about:

Stop being a doormat

Turn the focus back to you

Set some boundaries

Handle situations calmly and confidently

Get some respect

Waiting list now open

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Hand and arm massages Isobel will be joining us to indulge you, with a little

bit of ‘me’ time

Thursday 7th December

During Drop in session 1-4pm

Christmas Closing

Kyra will be closing on Thursday 21st December and will reopen

on Thursday 28th December

Join us on the 21st for Carols, mince pies and a visit from

Mother Santa

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For your Notes:

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Kyra – Women’s Project

CMC (Central Methodist Church)

St. Saviourgate, York

YO1 8NQ

Tel. 01904 632332

Email [email protected]

www.Kyra.org.uk

Charity No.: 1154290

Don’t forget to like us on facebook

https://www.facebook.YorkWomensCentre

for all the latest news

Please be aware, we do not have disabled access

If you have booked a place on a group and are unable to

attend, please let us know asp to allow for someone else to

have the space