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Inside this issue:

Bone Health 6 Health & Wellness

Entertaining the Hills 12 With Theatre Arts & Entertainment

The Mind of a Maker: 16 Dick Termes Nostalgia

13 Things To Make Your Partner 22 Fall In Love All Over Again Relationships

If Only... 26 and Other Lies We Tell Ourselves

Lifestyle

Boredom Busters in Custer 30 Local Treasurers

Math of the Wild 32Regional Animal Migration

Science & Technology

Crazy Horse Memorial 36 History

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Bone Health By Molly Barari

6 Health & Wellness

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Bone Health By Molly Barari

As we get older, we may notice that we have more sun spots, laugh lines, and

wisdom to share. We may also notice that we tire more easily when doing

yard work or chasing after grandkids. What we may not notice right away

is that our bones are changing, too.

Since we can’t see our bones, it’s often hard to tell how healthy they are. If you or some-

one you know falls from standing height or less and experiences a fracture you may not

be aware, it’s called a fragility fracture and can be problematic.

Dr. Peg Chilvers, a board-certified orthopedic surgeon at Black Hills Orthopedic & Spine

Center who specializes in the foot and ankle, sees patients with fragility fractures on a

regular basis. “Fragility fractures occur as a result of low bone density,” she explains.

According to the National Osteoporosis Foundation, fragility fractures most commonly

affect the hip, spine and wrist. Usually, a fragility fracture is the first sign that something

is wrong with the bones. “If I see a patient with a fragility or stress fracture, we will talk

about his or her bone health,” said Dr. Chilvers. “Osteopenia and osteoporosis are both

disorders of bone density, most often related to aging.”

Osteopenia (lower than peak bone density) and osteoporosis (brittle and fragile bones

from loss of tissue) can also occur from certain medications, such as oral steroids. Dr.

Chilvers says when it comes to age-related bone density issues, women are more at risk.

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How can people tell if their bones are at risk for frac-

tures? A primary care provider is normally the first

person involved in screening for good bone health.

If a patient is at risk for osteoporosis or osteopenia,

a bone density scan may be ordered.

“If patients are at risk for these disorders, they may

need a bone density scan earlier, but usually a bone

scan is not needed until a minimum of 50 years of

age,” said Dr. Chilvers. “And it doesn’t usually need

to be repeated more often than every five years

unless the doctor is checking for a response from

treatment.”

Benjamin Franklin famously said, “An ounce of

prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Although

he was addressing fire safety, the sentiment rings

true in medicine as well. Prevention is key when

it comes to taking care of your bones. Dr. Chilvers

says weight-bearing exercise, such as walking, is

helpful—and weightlifting has also been shown to

be effective.

“Joining a walking club or a Silver Sneakers type of

organization can be helpful in maintaining good

exercise habits,” said Dr. Chilvers. She also rec-

ommends adding extra Vitamin D3 to the diet, as

Vitamin D3 helps absorb calcium from food. She

usually recommends at least 1,000 IU per day and

even higher if a patient has a blood test indicating a

low level. Be sure to ask your physician for a Vitamin

D test to learn your level.

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“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.”

— Benjamin Franklin

Although age is just a number, good bone

health is easier to maintain when it’s started

earlier in life. Dr. Chilvers advises that patients

try to gain as much bone density as they can

when they’re younger. “Maintaining bone

density is always easier than gaining more

bone mass when we’re older,” she said. “Some

tips: have a good diet with good calcium, get

good exercise, and avoid smoking.”

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At Black Hills Orthopedic & Spine Center, Dr. Chil-

vers sees patients for same-day appointments

and in urgent care situations. “If someone has

an injury, we’re happy to evaluate it and make

recommendations on treatment of the injury—

and potentially, ways of preventing them in the

future.”

Molly Barari is a freelance writer living in Rapid

City. She also teaches creative life writing classes

to older adults. She has a penchant for macaroons,

Alfred Hitchcock films, and taking long walks with

her husband.

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Entertaining the Hills with Theatre

12 Arts & Entertainment

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Entertaining the Hills with Theatre

In 1946, Warren M. Lee, a theatre profes-

sor from the University of South Dakota, founded our

Black Hills Playhouse (BHP).

He wanted to create high-quality entertainment for people

in the Black Hills region and visitors to the area, and employ-

ment opportunities for artists in South Dakota. Thus started a

great tradition of live entertainment on the BHP stage.

Just like any art form, acting, directing, music, dance, stage

and production work are crafts which must be mastered. Art-

ists learn by studying their craft, getting hired for professional

gigs and getting experience in all kinds of venues.

The Black Hills Playhouse has evolved over the years into a

theatre company made up of a mix of seasoned professionals,

university professors and college students who come to the

Black Hills annually to develop productions. In 2017, company

members came from 23 states and two foreign countries to

work at the BHP.

Auditions are held in January and February and artists are

contracted in March. Over 1,200 people applied for work

at the BHP in 2018 with only 70 hired for the summer.

Designers and directors work in the winter and spring

to prepare for the season.

photo by Colleen Marsh Olson

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The company works on site for 13

weeks each summer. Company

members live in five dormitories

and eat daily in a dining hall. Shows

are Tuesday through Saturday at

7:30 p.m., with 2:00 matinées on

Wednesday and Sunday. Six Mon-

days in the summer, company

members are off and can

explore the many attrac-

tions in the area.

The pace of life in the

forest is brisk, with production

meetings each day at 8:00, break-

fast at 8:30, rehearsal and produc-

tion work until noon and again after

lunch starting at 1:30. Dinner is at

5:00 pm, call for shows at 6:00 with

curtain at 7:30 pm.

The Black Hills Playhouse is ap-

proximately 40 minutes from

Rapid City and 25 minutes

from Custer, depend-

ing on tourist

traffic and buffalo

on the highway.

Company members

live side-by-side in the

forest with wildlife and learn

to make things work in the remote

location that has poor cell service

and slow internet speeds.

For decades, artists have gathered,

created and performed to the de-

light of audience members, many

of whom return year after year to

experience live theatre in a forest.

photo by Sage Studios

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photo by Sage Studios

The 2018 Season

June 8-17 | Tokens of Affection

Rated PG-13

June 22-July 8 | The 25th Annual

Putnam County Spelling Bee

Rated PG-13

July 13-29 | Oklahoma!

Rated PG

August 3-19 | The Game’s Afoot

Rated PG

For more info

BlackHillsPlayhouse.com

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The Mind of a Maker: Dick Termes

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In the air above the rolling grasslands of Wyoming, a

helicopter hovered toward the Law Enforcement

Academy—a 7-1/2-foot polycarbonate sphere

tethered to its belly. The pilot skillfully lowered the piece of

art entitled “Order/Disorder” to its permanent location on the

Center’s grounds; a moment representing the culmination of

nearly a year’s work by artist Dick Termes. “Nine months of work

and the helicopter took that up into the air like it was a feather. It

was very scary but I was too busy down below telling him where

to bring the ball, up, down, left and right, that I just put trust in

him. He was very good it turned out,” said the artist.

Dick Termes has always had “a love for the arts, the thought

of exploring the universe’s ideas and to add to our human

experience.” It would seem the perfect formula. It was when Dick

was working on his Masters in Art at the University of Wyoming

that he discovered what would become his life’s work. “I was

By Jenny Van Zanten

Photos by Kevin Ryan,

Eyefrogs Photography

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using a grid system to help me

understand how you might expand

the amount of visual space you

could include in your drawings.”

He had achieved success with

four-point perspective, and when

he started playing with a five,

then six-point drawing, “Someone

suggested to me it looked like a

ball,” he explains. “That was what

I needed, to try this system on

a ball. It fit perfect.” The name

“Termesphere” came a few years

later after he left Wyoming.

“They started calling my work

Termespheres so I thought that

sounded good and started using it

myself.”

For the past five decades, Dick has been

researching, designing and painting

Termespheres, creating an international

legacy. He is an acclaimed one-of-a-kind

artist, and Black Hills native, whose global

recognition includes lectures and workshops

in China, with shows and sales in Japan,

France, New York, Australia, Singapore,

and Germany—where he did eight years of

workshops with the Defense Department

Schools. In recognition of his talent, he has

received countless awards.

A visitor first sees a charming dome-shaped

greenhouse, then several more geodesic

buildings of varying size and designation

come into view, six in all: distinct structures

crafted by an original mind. This is the home

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of the Termesphere Gallery. Upon entering,

one is instantly immersed in the visual; globes

ranging from 2”- 60” float from the ceiling in

every spellbinding direction. Viewers are drawn

into an arched corridor of a Parisian cathedral,

or a sphere of a coffee shop full of multi-

generational life and the comfort of ritual. “I

really enjoyed the building and also the people

that came there,” Dick shares. “Rarely had I

painted my own world. Most of my work was

famous places around the world. Instead of

painting the famous places, I thought maybe my

art can make this become a famous place.” He

adds playfully, “we shall see about that.” Dick is

easy company, unpretentious and willing to take

the time to share a story about the making of

any dome.

“When I do the Termespheres I imagine I am

inside the sphere, a transparent sphere, and I am

looking out at an environment around me.” Dick

describes his creative process, “I copy that world

I see or imagine onto the inside of the sphere. I

then move to the outside to look at what I was

inside seeing—this is all painted on the outside

of the sphere, however.” He speaks about his

ability to deviate from “the original plan” and

go with the flow of his imaginative thought.

He explains how design in art is like geometry

to math. “I have found both are very closely

related. When I got into studying patterns I

found my love.”

Merging language from more than one discipline

unravels wisdom; in layers, with words not only

applicable to art and his spheres, but easily

transferable to life itself as a metaphor to our

unique individual perspectives, whether it be

flat, or 6-point.

“See if you can find the biker in this one.” Dick’s

assistant, Sue, prompts, “it took me two months

to find it.” After a few hints, Dick points to a

front tire, then to the biker’s profile…

and suddenly there are handlebars

where there had been tree branches

a moment before; the biker is now in

full view. This is typical of the spirited

thought behind each design Dick

imagines, as noted in George Escher’s

apt words in the most meaningful

compliment Dick has received, “... I

enjoyed the sudden discovery of double

interpretations, the switches in space

perception, the hunt for hidden images,

the little concealed jokes. I thought of

your planning for a new sphere, and of

your exciting explorations...”

Behind the gallery, Dick’s dome-

world continues. A worn path takes

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the visitor to a studio; a

Geppetto-like workshop—an

unapologetically cluttered

space alive with ideas in

the making; drop cloths,

putties, paints and

dozens of brushes in

jars. Items, colorful and

stimulating—primarily

circles—hang from the

ceiling, including a huge

plastic bag of red and

green ornaments that Dick,

“will likely use to play with new

designs before transferring to the large

globes.” More raw art materials are affixed to a

wall and stacked and piled unrestrained upon the floor. Most wall

space is covered with newspaper clippings, notes and photos—

manifestations of an unconstrained, gifted mind.

In the early years, Dick sought any spherical surface on which he

could paint. Initially, Termespheres were made from two joined

half domes of a then commercial product called “Tip a Tub”.

Today, he gets his round canvasses directly from the factory

of a lighting fixture manufacturer. Once received, there is a

substantial amount of prep work needed. “The seam never lines

up just right and so I putty, sand and prep with layers of Gesso.”

Depending on the size, a Termesphere can take from 1-1/2 to 9

months to complete.

Suspended from the ceiling is a pulley, part of a stealthy, built-

in system used to hoist the spheres. By design, the studio floor

has an 8’x8’ hole with removable floor joists which allows globes

to enter through the lower level garage doors. This is where

the sphere that now sits at the Law Enforcement Academy in

Douglas, WY was completed—Dick’s largest work to date.

As to future plans, Dick states, “I never know that. I will

work on ideas until mother nature says that is enough.”

CONTACT: termespheres.com

UPCOMING: • A book of mural

compilations

• A possible anniversary

celebration in summer 2018

commemorating 50 years of

Termespheres and 25 years of

the Termesphere Gallery

EDUCATIONAL MATERIAL:• termespheres.com/shop/

• See also: PBS online series

with 21 downloadable drawing

sessions: SDPB.org/Art

“There are so many things in your work

which speak to me…What I so much liked

was the personal link which I felt with your

work and, at times, with yourself. You will

understand that I had often the impres-

sion of seeing the ghost of my father

intent on new adventures. How much he

would have enjoyed seeing your work,

following your mind and your explora-

tions!” George Escher, son of M.C. Escher.

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22 Relationships

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probably comes as no surprise that keep-

ing the romance alive in a relationship

requires effort. But often, when women feel their

romantic relationships becoming stagnant, they

blame the man in their life for not being romantic

enough. So, it may be an eye-opener that 44%

of men say it bothers them “a lot” that their

wife or girlfriend isn’t more romantic, according

to a study of 80,000 participants by Chrisanna

Northrup. Like men, women often feel the same,

that their husband or boyfriend isn’t romantic

enough. So why not take the

first big step, and give your

partner the romance they’re

craving? Try out the following

ideas and reap the reward of

your partner falling in love

with you all over again.

Be spontaneous.

Spontaneity and routine are opposites. Routine,

which typically sets in once a relationship is

established, often leads to monotony. When cou-

ples lose spontaneity, life becomes routine and

dull. So practice spontaneity, and do things on a

whim to awaken the feelings you both felt early

on in your relationship.

Write a love note. It doesn’t have to

be lengthy. A simple “I love you” or “I can’t wait

to spend time with you this weekend” placed in

your partner’s lunch box is sure to make their day.

If you’re good with words, write a poem, or if not,

borrow one, and leave it on your spouse’s pillow.

Laugh at your partner’s jokes

and with your spouse. Numerous

studies, including a 2015 study by Laura E. Kurtz

appearing in the Personal Relationships jour-

nal, have found shared laughter brings couples

closer together. So look for opportunities to

share laughter with your partner. Watch sitcoms,

go to the comedy club, hang out with other fun

couples, or just be silly with each

other.

Physical affection.

This is such a simple gesture and

can be done anytime, any place.

Hold hands when you’re watching

TV or out and about. Kiss your

partner on the cheek or walk over

and give a shoulder massage. Walk up from

behind and wrap your arms around your spouse.

There are so many ways to show your affection.

Make your spouse’s favorite

dinner. Go all out and cook their favorite

dinner and dessert – and don’t forget the can-

dles, wine and soft music.

Take your partner on a date.

Make a plan to do something the two of you both

enjoy but haven’t done in a while. Better yet,

plan something special your partner particularly

By Kimberly Blaker

Learn to accept

your partner’s

shortcomings, and

love your spouse

unconditionally.

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enjoys that you haven’t been keen to do in the past.

Make the most of it, and let your spouse know how

much you enjoy seeing them happy and just spend-

ing time together.

Pay your spouse a compliment.

Everyone loves a compliment especially from a

significant other. Tell him you love how that blue

shirt brings out his dreamy blue eyes. Compliment

her new haircut. Look for genuine

reasons to compliment, and do it

often.

Initiate sex. If your partner

is the primary initiator of sex, your

initiation will go a long way toward

making your partner fall in love

all over again. Both men and women need to feel

desired. So make it a practice to come on to your

spouse more often.

Give a gift. Men don’t place as much impor-

tance on receiving gifts as women do. Still, it can be

a very romantic and meaningful gesture for either

gender when done out of the blue. Look for some-

thing your spouse will love such as tickets to a game

or something useful for a favorite hobby or sporting

activity.

Show unconditional love. Many

people, particularly women, fall for and marry some-

one with the idea they can “fix him or her.” Learn to

accept your partner’s shortcomings and love your

spouse unconditionally.

Spoon with your partner. Cuddle with

each other before you fall asleep and when you wake

up. It’ll make you both happier and improve your

relationship because it releases

endorphins, particularly oxytocin,

the love hormone.

Tell your spouse you

love them in a deep

and meaningful way.

During a romantic moment, whis-

per “You’re my soul mate,” “I want to be with you

forever,” “You make my life whole,” or whatever it is

you honestly feel for your partner.

Give a massage. Both men and women enjoy

getting pampered. Give a foot or back massage, or

have your spouse strip down for a full body treat-

ment. Massage is also another way to increase oxyto-

cin and improve the romance in your relationship.

Walk up from behind

and wrap your arms

around your spouse.

The Normal BaR

Where Does Your

Relationship Fall?

Chrisanna Northrup,

Pepper Schwartz,

James Witte

Rekindling the

Romance

Loving the Love of

Your Life

Dennis Rainey,

Barbara Rainey

Mars and Venus

in the Bedroom

A Guide to Lasting

Romance and Passion

John Gray

Courtship After

Marriage

Romance Can Last

a Lifetime

Zig Ziglar

Books on keeping the romance alive

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IF ONLY...and Other Lies We Tell Ourselves

by Dorothy Rosby

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Dear older, but not necessarily wiser Me,

Knock it off! I know what you’re doing right now. You’re looking back and thinking,

“What have you done with your life? You should have saved more for retirement,

learned another language, worn more sunscreen, eaten more vegetables, worked

harder, played harder. You could have been a better mother, wife, friend, writer,

employee, neighbor, citizen. You could have been a contender!

Let me remind you, that I, your younger, very busy

self, am writing this letter late at night because

there’s precious little time to do such things

during the day. My (and your) son is asleep and

so is his grandmother, who you’ll recall, lives

with us. To put it simply, the reason I didn’t

do whatever the something is you think I

should have done is because I’ve been doing

something else. Actually, lots of something elses, and

not a one of them involves lounging on the sofa, eating Twinkies

and watching the Gilmore Girls.

I’m a little busy. I am the co-provider for this family as well as the driver, homework

helper, chef, housekeeper, social organizer, boo-boo kisser, cheerleader, nurse’s

aide and everything else a mother and caregiver is. Do you really think I have time

to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro and write a doctoral thesis too?

We’ve all got our talents, and mine is hindsight. Some people

predict the future, but I gaze into the past to determine

how the present would be different if only I had done this and not done that. As it

turns out, in every case, it would be better. I’m just that good at hindsight.

As the years go by, I spend more and more time practicing my skill. Lucky for me, I

once wrote my someday self a letter on this very subject. In the unlikely event that

you’re like me, I’m sharing a version of that letter with you.

I’m a little busy...

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And another thing: Any brilliant ideas you

have are only coming to you now because

you have more time to think than I do.

Plus, you have the benefit of wisdom you

wouldn’t have if I were not trudging along

before you, fouling things up and learning

a lesson here and there because of it. It’s

true what they say about objects in a

rear-view mirror. They’re harder than they

appear. Maybe that’s not quite what they

say, but they should.

Always remember, regret is an assumption

and like the old saying goes, “assume”

makes an…well…a donkey out of u and

me. You’re assuming that a different path

would have been a perfect path. But

there is no guarantee of that. That grass

probably only looks greener because you

never got close enough to mow it.

Anyway, it’s all a big waste of time—time

you could be spending doing some of

the many things I don’t have the time

to do now. How about this: Look back

on what I did right. Show me a little

appreciation, then get off your donkey and

do something.

Sincerely,

Your Younger, Very Tired Self

Dorothy Rosby talks to herself, too.

You could have been a better

mother, wife, friend, writer,

employee, neighbor, citizen. You

could have been a contender!

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If you are considering where to go for this year’s summer vacation without going too far, take a stayca-

tion to Custer.

From horseback riding trails, to scenic byways, to water activities in Custer State Park or delicious din-

ing, Custer has abundant adventures for you to enjoy. Here are a few recommendations:

May 3

Korczack Day Crazy Horse Memorial

Learn more at

crazyhorsememorial.org

May 18

Custer State Park Open House & Free Fishing

gfp.sd.gov/parks/detail/custer-state-

park/

Starting May 4

Black Hills Community Theatre View the performance schedule at

bhct.org

June 2

National Trails Day Prairie Trail Hike

gfp.sd.gov/events/detail/134/

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June 8-10 Custer Off-Road Rally

visitcuster.com/Off-Road-Rally

July 3-4 Old Time Country

Fourth of July visitcuster.com/Old-Time-Country-

Fourth-of-July

July 20-22 Gold Discovery Days

Hot air balloon festival, parade, arts

& crafts festival, car show, bed races,

stick horse rodeo, bouncy houses for

the grandkids...

visitcuster.com/Gold-Discovery-Days

June 2-3 Volksmarch at Crazy Horse

crazyhorsememorial.org

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Algorithms of Animal DispersalBy Mike Ray

32 Science & Technology

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Around the summer of 2003 in the La Sal Moun-

tains of Utah, mule deer began to turn into zom-

bies. Or, at least they began to act like zombies.

They started losing weight, salivated constantly and

began to walk in listless circles. They grew apathetic and

then stopped running from humans.

At first, only a few sick animals turned up in annual sur-

veys of harvested deer, but the numbers grew. Testing

confirmed the fears of wildlife managers, Chronic Wasting

Disease (CWD). The prion disease produces lesions in the

brain that change the animals’ behavior. “We call them

zombie deer,” says Martha Garlick, Ph.D., SD School of

Mines math professor.

CWD shows no symptoms at first. It progresses over the

course of a few years, but once contracted it’s always fa-

tal. CWD is highly contagious and it has ravaged deer and

elk populations across the American West. Understanding

the rate of spread is crucial to stopping any disease.

This is where Garlick’s work comes in. She is teamed up

with wildlife biologists, mathematicians and statisticians

at Utah State University and Colorado State University.

The team is part of a National Science Foundation grant

to improve computer models that can help predict how

animal populations move.

“It’s really cool to

actually apply [Math] to

something real-world”

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“I love math anyway, but, it’s really cool to actually apply this

to something real world. It’s exciting to predict things about

animal movement that will help wildlife managers who care

for these populations.”

Garlick loves to hike and spend time outdoors but doesn’t

spend her days chasing deer and elk in the field, rather she

relies on the rich data sets accumulated from GPS collars

that have been fitted to wild animals, over the years.

She uses GPS tracking records, combined with landscape

images to build models of how animals travel across various

landscapes. Deer, for example, move at different rates on

rocky slopes than in thick trees, open grasslands, or mazes

of cedar brush. Researchers use the animal movement data

to assign a number to different landscapes. Animals tend

to take the easiest path to resources, like green grass and

water, and they are often confined by barriers like a fence,

a mountain snow line or a major river. There are many

variables to consider when building the algorithms that

can accurately model something so complex. For example,

male deer move in different patterns than females, so they

require some slightly different math.

One of Garlick’s favorite parts of the job is seeing students

get involved in this research. “It’s fun to get undergraduates

excited about this work,” she

says. “In math modeling, it’s

sometimes difficult to actu-

ally make it fit. You try and

keep it simple, but putting in

the details so that it mirrors

what’s really going on, this is

an exciting challenge.”

The models Garlick is developing not only have applications

for tracking deer and elk in the mountain west but can also

be used to predict the movement of harbor seals in Alaska,

or the spread of the wolf populations introduced into places

like Yellowstone National Park. As the research continues

and the models inch closer to predicting reality, the re-

al-world applications of this work will continue to grow.

“It’s Fun to get

undergraduates excited

about this work”

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Crazy Horse Memorial by Kayla

Gahagan photos courtesy of Crazy Horse Memorial

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Crazy Horse Memorial

“That’s the whole purpose of Crazy

Horse,” said Jadwiga (Viga) Ziolkowski,

one of Ruth and Korczak Ziolkowski’s

children and a member of the memo-

rial’s foundation board of directors.

“That’s what we learned from mom

and dad. We want people to be able to

come and get educated. The mountain

carving will bring people and the Na-

tive American heritage and culture will

be preserved.”

Crazy Horse Memorial was never actually about the

monument. It was about education.

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Since its first blast in June of 1948, Crazy

Horse has become known as the world’s larg-

est mountain carving in progress, drawing

more than one million visitors per year. The

final vision is a 641-foot long, 563-foot high

monument of Lakota leader Crazy Horse – a

tribute first envisioned by Lakota Chief Henry

Standing Bear as he sought a way to honor

the strength, culture, and traditions of the

Lakota and native tribes across the country.

Standing Bear enlisted the help of sculptor

Korczak Ziolkowski and the legacy began.

As the image emerges more from the moun-

tain more each year – the hand and forearm,

right shoulder and hairline will all be finished

during the next ten years – the work at the

base of the mountain also continues with

a growing museum, university and visitor

center.

“People have been very gracious,” Viga said,

and the work has accelerated in recent years,

championed by generations of the Ziolkowski

family. Korczak Ziolkowski married Ruth Ross

in 1950 and they had 10 children. Several of

the children and grandchildren still work on

the project.

“I’m very proud of being involved and telling

the story,” she said. “We can do this. Working

together, we can. That’s something mom and

dad taught us. Even if the trail is long and

there are cloudy skies, you find that silver

lining and keep moving ahead.”

“It’s an extensive process. You have to

know what you’re doing.”

March 2017

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The memorial receives no state or federal fund-

ing and operates solely on gifts and admission.

The memorial received a $20 million matching

grant from T. Denny Sanford in 2013, enabling

them to purchase new equipment to work

more efficiently.

A crew of 13 work on the monument year-

round, with an additional crew coming on

during the summer. The workers are profes-

sional and talented, and undergo an in-depth

hiring process. “It’s an extensive process,” Viga

said. “You have to know what you’re doing.”

Because the recent work is detailed, the work-

ers make progress by chipping away at the

mountain by hand.

“There’s no blasting,” she said. “It’s how the

face was done. We’re doing it in stages. The

rock is a piece of a living thing.”

It’s not the only place where intentional, hard

work is taking place, she added. Through the

Crazy Horse Memorial Foundation, the Indi-

an Museum of North America and the Native

American Educational & Cultural Center were

created. Both museums feature Native Amer-

ican art and artifacts from tribes across the

continent.

The foundation hired a curator last spring and

is currently in the process of recording and

cataloging every piece in the collection and its

history. They are also working to get the mu-

seum accredited, which will help cement the

monument’s historical and cultural significance.

It’s all in step with the original dream to help

people learn and according to Viga, one of the

reasons the foundation opened a college at

the memorial in 2010. Currently, 32 freshmen

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are enrolled in the Indian University of North

America. The summer program is a partnership

with the University of South Dakota in which

students complete a semester of college and a

paid internship at the memorial. They leave with

12 transferable college credits including English,

history, math, psychology and life management.

“The students are following in the footsteps of

the founders of the memorial. Standing Bear and

her parents believed you had to take chances to

learn and truly grow,” Viga said.

“You have to step out of your bounds,” she said.

“This is a special place.”

Viga lives on site but said she never takes for

granted the view of the monument, the beauty

of the land or the energy emanating from so

many visitors.

1948

Korczak Ziolkowski & Ruth Ross

“The best is when you can see and hear the equip-

ment, which is typically early in the morning because of

weather,” she said. “It’s exciting as all get out. It helps

me understand how Dad and Standing Bear and Mom

accomplished what they did.”

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