RESULTS IMAGES OF MEN. PROTECTOR / TAGAPAGTANGGOL Boys are trained not to cry, to be stronger, to “suffer in silence”, and to be more assertive and “tough”

RESULTS

IMAGES OF MEN

PROTECTOR / TAGAPAGTANGGOL

Boys are trained not to cry, to be stronger, to “suffer in silence”, and to be more assertive and “tough” compared to girls.

Liwag et.al., 1997

“men are protectors, while the women are to be protected”


ROLE OF MEN:- Husbands and Fathers- “Providers” (family)

Hence, a good husband and father is said to be one who provides for his family’s needs.

Provider role is associated with masculinity


ROLES & RESPONSIBILITIES:- Selfless, responsible, having control of oneself.


VIES OF WOMEN:- The woman is seen as physically inferior to men.- Women usually stays at home (spends time at home)- In charge of housekeeping- Women are responsibilities of men- Describe as: MAHINHIN, MODEST, RESERVED,

MAHINA, MADAMDAMIN.


SEX:- Sexual satisfaction is linked with male

protection. - Woman’s welfare is basis of man’s actions- Men are protective of their wives when they

abstain from having sex- CARE in other aspects of marriage is seen to

be associated with sexual relationship


LOVE:Protective nature of love

- Women are helpless and weak that’s why men should love them

DOMINATOR

ROLE OF MEN:- Haligi ng tahanan

- Padre de Pamilya- Men are always in control of the situation- They could do heavy work- Stricter than women

DOMINATOR

VIEWS OF WOMEN:

Who comes first?- Men should control and take charge in a relationship

- More capable in dealing with adversities- As a PROVIDER – gives him the right to control the

family / final judgment

DOMINATOR

SEX:- Men are in control in the decision, process and

outcome of sexual act.- Women’s urges had to be controlled

DOMINATOR

LOVE:- Women attends to the needs of men- Women must comfort men.

REACTOR

“Bakit ‘di tutukain kung palay na ang lumalapit sa manok?”-If a woman lured a man in to sex, then men do not take responsibility for their actions

ROLE OF MEN:-Avoiding vices is interpreted as lacking in masculinity-Men should act like REAL men.

REACTOR

VIEWS OF WOMEN:-Men actions are consequences of women’s conduct.-Women should not oppose men-Media, drugs, and psychological dysfunction causes men’s violent behaviors.

REACTOR

SEX:-Men should be sexually satisfied to refrain seeing other women-Women should sometimes be the one to initiate sex

PARTNER

- Mutual acknowledgment / acceptance- Test of manhood is ability to maintain

PAGSUSUNURAN NG MAG ASAWA- Men and women have equal rights- Both should work as partners for better relationship- Men should make women happy

PARTNER

SEX:-A man and woman should engage in sex when it is desirable for both of them.-Sex is done in a manner of give and take.-LOVE is an ingredient for mutually enjoyable sexual relations.

PARTNER

LOVE:-Understanding-Communication and closeness/ intimacy-Respect

Documents

RESULTS IMAGES OF MEN. PROTECTOR / TAGAPAGTANGGOL Boys are trained not to cry, to be stronger, to “suffer in silence”, and to be more assertive and “tough”