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The Mindful Supervisor:
Cognitive Principles in Staff Supervision
A Production of the Great Western Regional Field Coordinators – 2005-2007Dr. John Eggers – Correctional Program Specialist, NIC
The Mindful Supervisor: Cognitive Principles in Staff Supervision
Great Western Regional Field Coordinators:• Dave Dusschee – Oregon• Tim Foss – Washington• Carrie Hodap – Arizona• Karen Holland – Wyoming• Steven King – Utah• Amy Le – California• Gregory Morton – Oregon• Aaron Shepard – Idaho• Toni Spencer – California• Wayne Ternes – Montana
With course design assistance provided by:
• Gary Lasater, Oregon Youth Authority
• Patrick Samples, Oregon Department of Corrections
• John Tyler, Oregon Department of Corrections
The Mindful Supervisor:
Cognitive Principles in Staff Supervision
MINDFULNESS –
A technique in which a person becomes purposefully aware of his/her thoughts, feelings and
decisions in the present moment, non-judgmentally.
It serves as a pre-requisite to developing insight and
wisdom.
MINDFULNESS –•Overlapping
concepts:– Emotional
Intelligence– Self Awareness– Authentic Leadership– Metacognition
LEADERSHIP AND SELF AWARENESS
• “21st century leadership calls for a new type of leader who understands him/herself well and can call others into a higher state of being, rather than the old style leader who simply knows how to manage [business] processes.”– Connelly and Diaz; Executive
Awareness, 2007
LEADERSHIP AND SELF AWARENESS• “A fundamental starting
point for leadership development is self awareness . . . Self-knowledge continues to serve our growth and development throughout life . . . who you are and what you believe is possible.”– Avolio and Luthans; The High Impact
Leader, 2006
“Releasing ourselves from the need to keep half of ourselves hidden…, to entertain the possibility that there is an integral wholeness to all the seemingly antagonistic and opposing sides of ourselves, a possibility that we may not have to be ‘fixed’ or amended before we can serve ourselves or the company.”
– David Whyte; The Heart Aroused, 1996
“The unexamined life is not worth living.”
Socrates, 399 BC
Course Outline: 1. Qualities and Skill Building for Supervisors
Personal Position Statement; Cognitive/Behavioral Model
2. Values Dissonance: Personal Vision & Organizational Context
3. Effective Communication
4. Making Decisions and Creating Solutions
5. Valuing Differences
6. Encouraging Performance
7. Team Building
8. Supervisory Development Plan
Qualities and Skill Building
for Supervisors
The Mindful Supervisor:
Cognitive Principles in Staff Supervision
• Discuss at least one professional mentor and model in your life.
• Explain the concept of automatic thoughts and feelings.
• Examine the three internal dimensions of the Cognitive/Behavioral model.
• Review the two external dimensions of the Cognitive/Behavioral model.
• Utilize the Supervisory Self-Awareness (SSA) Model
Performance Objectives:
• What is an effective supervisor?
• What does being a supervisor mean to you?
• What are the skill sets needed by a supervisor?
• What emotions contribute to effectiveness?
Questions
Mentors and Models
• Individually write the names of several people who you have learned from.
• List the memorable and effective characteristics and attributes that you adapted from each one.
Now list the negative attributes and characteristics that each had.
• Which would you keep?
• Which would you drop?
• Which would you add?
Mentors and Models
1. QUALITIES AND SKILL BUILDING FOR SUPERVISORS
• What’s missing in the picture of this tree?
1. QUALITIES AND SKILL BUILDING FOR SUPERVISORS
• The roots!!!
1. QUALITIES AND SKILL BUILDING FOR SUPERVISORS
• What are our roots like?
BEHAVIOR* Skill
* Stated Knowledge
THOUGHTS
FEELINGS* More likely aware
COGNITIVE STRUCTURE (thinking patterns)
BELIEFS AND ATTITUDES
* Under the surface
Source: Mark Carey, The Carey Group
Personal Position Statement
•“What’s your frequency?”
QUALITIES AND SKILL BUILDING FOR SUPERVISORS
• Cognitive/Behavioral Model
Cognitive/Behavioral Model
Situation
FeelingsThoughts
Consequences
Behavior
Two External Dimensions•Situations, Consequences
Cognitive/Behavioral Model
Three Internal Dimensions•Thoughts, Feelings, Behavior
Risky thoughts and feelings contribute to either ineffective
relationship or productivity outcomes.
Pro-social thoughts and feelings contribute to effective
relationship or productivity outcomes.
Cognitive/Behavioral Model
Situation
FeelingsThoughts
Consequences
Behavior
Cognitive/Behavioral Model
Situation
FeelingsThoughts
Consequences
Behavior
SUPERVISORY SELF AWARENESS NOTES
SITUATION AUTOMATIC THOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS
(Real)
PREFERRED OUTCOME
MINDFUL THOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS(Desired)
ACTION
Identify several situations
• List your real, automatic thoughts, feelings and actions
• Stop there
Review:
• Mentors and Roots
• Personal Position Statement
• Cognitive Behavioral Model
• Supervisory Self Awareness Notes
Qualities and Skill Building for Supervisors
Personal Vision and
Organizational Context
Values Dissonance:
• Utilize the Supervisory Self-Awareness (SSA) Model to analyze congruence between your Personal Position Statement and your agency Mission
• Utilize the SSA Model to analyze discrepancies between your Personal Position Statement and an agency policy or practice
Performance Objectives:
Where there is no vision, the people perish.
• Identify your agency’s mission statement. Don’t interpret it according to your own preferences.
• Retrieve your personal position statement.
• Using an SSA worksheet, compare the two.
• Is there any dissonance ?
Individual Activity - Mission Statement
• Choose a situation where you are in conflict with the expectations of your agency
• Fill out Automatic Thoughts and Feelings, Preferred Outcomes and Mindful Thoughts and Feelings
• Don’t fill out the Action section
Individual Activity - Personal Values vs. Agency Values Conflict
• Did you have automatic thoughts or feelings? Were they risky?
• How did you express those automatic thoughts or feelings?
• What were your behaviors?
• What were the positive and negative consequences of those behaviors?
Personal Values vs. Agency Values Conflict
• Do your personal beliefs impact your organizational expectations?
• Do your personal beliefs impact your expectations as a supervisor?
Personal Vision and Organizational Context
360˚ Supervisor Skills Assessment Instrument
The Mindful Supervisor
360 DEGREE FEEDBACK, aka Using Your Mirrors
“There is a way to do it better . . . find it.”
• Thomas A. Edison, describing his research strategy
360 DEGREE FEEDBACK
Three Reasons We Reject Feedback Given By Others
• Unwillingness to Challenge Self-perceptions• Fear of Exposing Weaknesses• Fear of Unbalanced Feedback
• Lepsinger, Lucia; The Art and Science of 360 Feedback
360 DEGREE FEEDBACK
• Unwillingness to Challenge Self-perceptions• Comfort zones are comfortable • Why mess with a good thing? • A strong belief in oneself and
one’s ability are important factors in management confidence
360 DEGREE FEEDBACK
• Fear of Exposing Weaknesses• And a voluntary 360 is like
asking for our weaknesses to be exposed – publicly
• Can set up defensiveness and denial
• Are you calling me fat?
360 DEGREE FEEDBACK
• Fear of Unbalanced Feedback• People will only see the negatives• The good things I do will be
overlooked and ignored• Nobody’s perfect, but I’m not a
total idiot
MINDFULNESS –
A technique in which a person becomes purposefully aware of his/her thoughts, feelings and
decisions in the present moment, non-judgmentally.
It serves as a pre-requisite to developing insight and
wisdom.
Supervisory Self Awareness Notes
SITUATION AUTOMATIC THOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS (Real)
PREFERRED OUTCOME
MINDFULTHOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS(Desired)
ACTION
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
Change your thinking and
you change your world.
•Discuss the value of Stephen Covey’s Habit #5.
•Identify the three components of verbal communication and the percentage of information found in each.
•Explain the relationship of Self Talk to the Communications model and to the Cognitive/Behavioral Model.
Performance Objectives:
• Describe the Arc of Distortion.
• Utilize the Left-Hand Column Model to analyze thoughts and feelings.
Performance Objectives:
“Seek first to understand and then to be understood.”
Habit #5
Stephen R. Covey,
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, 1990.
Communication Assessment
Courageous Communication. Win-win; we constantly learn from and grow with each other.
Problems occur; we work to fix them. Repeat as necessary. Pretty much on the same page.
Agree to Disagree, then step away. I’d do more if you would.
Adversarial; I win, you lose. It’s mostly your fault. Contentious.
Sabotage Communication. Enemies, enemies; everywhere you look.
Communication Assessment
Courageous Communication. Win-win; we constantly learn from and grow with each other.
Problems occur; we work to fix them. Repeat as necessary. Pretty much on the same page.
Agree to Disagree, then step away. I’d do more if you would.
Adversarial; I win, you lose. It’s mostly your fault. Contentious.
Sabotage Communication. Enemies, enemies; everywhere you look.
Self
Work
Communication and Trust
Empathy/Caring
Commitment/ Dedication
Honesty/Openness
Competence/
Expertise
3 Components of Communication
Language 7%Body
Language 55%
Paralanguage 38%
The Communication Iceberg
Attitude, motivational level
Communication skill level
10%
90%
“Seek first to understand
and then to be
understood.” Stephen R. Covey
Behaviors of Courageous
Communication in
Supervision
The Communication Model
The Sender
The Receiver
Feedback
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The Responsibilities of the Receiver
The Receiver
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The Sender
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How do you know someone is NOT listening?
Receiver Filters
What we are thinking and feeling,
Our Self Talk
while the other person is speaking.
Receiver Filters
Self Talk
The Receiver
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I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I am not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant. Unknown
What you actually heard
Arc of “Distortion MAYBE
YES
Arc of Distortion
“Focus on the Situation, Issue or
Behavior and Not on the Person.”
Achieve Global
Advocacy and Inquiry
Advocacy: n. an advocating: a speaking or writing in support (of something)
Inquiry n. 1. The act of inquiring. 2. An investigation or examination. 3. A question; query.
4 Steps of Inquiry
1. Temporarily suspend your internal filters
2. Listen
3. Ask questions about what you hear
4. Ask more questions about the answers you receive
Mindfulness in communication
• P
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Cognitive Behavior
Behavioral• Observe and describe the behavior• Communicate appropriate approval or disapproval • Require appropriate response and commitment to change• Support and follow up
Cognitive• Pay attention to thoughts and feelings• Notice & appreciate risk in thinking• Use new thinking to reduce risk• Practice until good• Support & follow up
Fight or Flight?
Fight• Expression of
anger
• Subtle sarcasm
• Sharp answers
• Clever comebacks
• Belittling humor
• Judgments
Flight• Withdrawal• Feeling sorry for
oneself• Sulking• Growing cold• Being indifferent• Escaping
involvement• Escaping
responsibilities
Cognitive/Behavioral Model
Situation
FeelingsThoughts
Consequences
Behavior
Change your thinking and you
change your world.
Check your filters
Check your Self Talk
Work on reducing your Arc of Distortion
Practice the 4 Steps of Inquiry
Receiver Skill Sets
Responsibility of the
Sender
The Sender
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The Receiver
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Sender Filters
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What I’m thinking
What is said
Left-hand Column Exercise
Left-hand Column Right-hand Column
• Jon: I heard you bought a new car.
• You: Yes, I got a new red sports car.
• Jon: Really, what kind?
• You: A Jaguar.
• Jon: A brand new one
• You: You betcha.
Left-hand Column Exercise
Right-hand Column
• Jon: I heard you bought a new car.
• You: Yes, I got a new red sports car.
• Jon: Really, what kind?
• You: A Jaguar.
• Jon: A brand new one
• You: You betcha.
Left-hand Column
• Jon: How can you afford a new car?
• You: Woo hoo! Look at me now
• Jon: Probably a Ford
• You: A Convertible
• Jon: It’s probably a 1970.
• You: Eat your heart out
Left-hand Column Exercise
Right-hand Column
• Q: How long have you been working as a
supervisor?• A: About a year.• Q: Have you had any
major concerns with staff?
• A: Yea, a couple of times.
• Q: So did you talk to anyone about your concerns?
• A: No, I didn’t want my peers to think I was weak.
Left-hand Column
Sender Filters
• Left-hand Column • Right-hand Column
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What is said
• What was I trying to accomplish?• Did I achieve the results I wanted?• How might have my comments contributed to the difficulties? • Why didn’t I say what was in my left hand column?• What assumptions did I make about the other person or people?• How can I use my left-hand column as a resource to improve communications?
Reflection: Using Your Left-hand Column as a Resource
The Message
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Communication Stoppers• “This is the way it is…”
• “You’re wrong…”
• “What’s your proof…”
• “Whatever”
• “You…”
• We vs. They or Us vs. Them
• GOSSIP
To look outward is to blame;
to look inward is to own.
“When the relationship is not well established, a chapter of words won’t be sufficient to communicate meaning because meanings are not found in words – they are found in people.”
Covey, Stephen R., The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Simon & Schuster, New York, NY, 1990.
How to get your point across
•State your main point immediately•Use language easily understood•Write to the needs of the listener•Spell correctly•Have a friend or co-worker review it•Don’t assume with e-mail
The Filters
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Story of the PioneerDuring the days of wagon trains moving west, a rest station formed overnight in Northern Minnesota. Most wagon trains passed through this station. One old gentlemen always greeted each group of pioneers. One day, a family of pioneers asked the old man what the people were like out west. The old man says, “What were the people like where you came from?” The pioneer says, “Oh, they were great people. In fact, our neighbors all got together and bought us this buckboard. We are really going to miss them.” “Well,” says the old man, “you are in luck. That is exactly how the people are out west were you are going.”
A month or so later, another pioneer family passed through the rest station. They approached the old man and asked him what the people were like out west. The old man says, “What were the people like where you came from?” The pioneer says, “They were mean and despicable and always trying to cheat us. That is why we left the East to go out west.” “Well,” says the old man, “ (fill in the blank) “
MAKING DECISIONS AND
CREATING SOLUTIONS
•Apply the Cognitive/Behavioral Model to past outcomes.
•Develop an alternative list of Thoughts and Feelings related to a past outcome.
•Coach others in the use of the Cognitive/Behavioral Model related to past outcomes.
Performance Objectives:
Supervisory Self Awareness Notes
SITUATION AUTOMATIC THOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS (Real)
PREFERRED OUTCOME
MINDFULTHOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS(Desired)
ACTION
• State the situation objectively
• Identify your thoughts and feelings
• Identify any risky thoughts/feelings
• What behavior did you choose?
• What were the consequences?
Supervisory Self Awareness Notes
• Brainstorm a list of new thoughts and feelings to replace your risky thoughts and feelings
• Decide what new thoughts and feelings will bring you closer to the outcome you desire
• Decide the action you will take following those new thoughts and feelings
Supervisory Self Awareness Notes
VALUING DIFFERENCES
•Identify professional strengths in four color types.
•Develop and present non-labeling “Differences” presentation.
•Apply the color types to a job-specific event.
•Relate the color types to agency diversity practices.
Performance Objectives:
Blue
Gold
Green
Orange
True Colors
3. VALUING DIFFERENCES
• BLUE• Sympathetic, personal• Relationship oriented, cherish
harmony• Process rather than content• Can project uncertainty • Adept at interacting with and
supporting others• “I personally don’t care
whether it needs to be fixed or not as long as we all agree. The agreement’s the thing.”
3. VALUING DIFFERENCES
• GOLD• Prefers practical, realistic
plans• Measurable goals; rational • Blueprint with time lines, e.g.
PERT chart • Follow-through • May be rigid and formulaic • Honors traditional methods• “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”
3. VALUING DIFFERENCES
• GREEN• Abstract, analytical, inventive• Create new systems and improve
designs• My head rules my heart, logically• Appreciate work that is mentally
stimulating • May question authority, be
impatient with routine • Long-range focus • “It needs to be fixed on some level.
Look harder.”
3. VALUING DIFFERENCES
• ORANGE• Experimentation, pilot projects • Change is an on-going process • Timing is everything • Short-range focus • Desire immediate
results/instant gratification• “We haven’t changed things for
a while, so why not today?!”
True Colors Activity
• What are the strengths of your color?
• What attributes does your group possess that each of the other groups should possess? Explain why.
• BE PERSUASIVE AND DIRECT.
True Colors Activity
•Develop and present a brief lesson to the large group, dealing with “True Colors” in a non-pejorative fashion.
Review
•What have you learned or taught yourselves from this exercise?
Encouraging Performance
Performance Objectives:
• Explain the concept of reinforcement as a relative relationship
• Discuss the value of a 4:1, positive : negative reinforcement ratio
• Describe the steps for using negative consequences
• Examine the value of modeling in the effective use of authority
Reinforcement
•Exists in the relationship between things
•Incentives and rewards should always be individualized
Reinforcement•Positive Reinforcement is the introduction of something desired to increase a behavior
• Negative Reinforcement is the removal or reduction of something undesirable to increase a behavior
4:1 – WATCH YOUR RATIO!
• 4 – INCENTIVES AND POSTIVE REINFORCERS
matched with
• 1 – LIMITS AND NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES
ENCOURAGING PERFORMANCE
FOR MOST PEOPLE . . .
Attention is like sunshine to usWhat we give our attention to, growsWhat we ignore, withers
ENCOURAGING PERFORMANCE
We Learn By:
• What We See and Hear (Observe)
• What We Practice (Model)• What Is Reinforced
ENCOURAGING PERFORMANCE
Therefore, make sure:• Staff SEE desired behavior;• Staff HEAR desired behavior;• Staff PRACTICE desired behavior;
and• Staff ARE REINFORCED when
desired behavior is demonstrated.
ENCOURAGING PERFORMANCE
Key Components of Positive Reinforcement:
• Noticing• Sincerely praise progress (any
progress)• The more frequently and sincerely you
pay attention to a behavior, the more it will be repeated
Limits and Negative Consequences
• Apply immediately to extinguish unwanted behavior
• Follow through
• Apply at the level of the behavior
• Apply consistently
• Use a variety of negative limits and consequences
Limits and Negative Consequences
• Use short-sweet consequences, never spread out or use harsh and extensive consequences
• Apply these unemotionally or with neutral affect
• Stop showing disapproval once the current behavior is extinguished.
Effective Use of Authority
• Clarify expectations
• Set standards
• Provide respectful feedback
• Model desired behaviors
1. Arguing for change2. Assuming the expert role3. Criticizing, shaming or blaming4. Labeling5. Being in a hurry6. Claiming preeminence
1. Arguing for change2. Assuming the expert role3. Criticizing, shaming or blaming4. Labeling5. Being in a hurry6. Claiming preeminence
Avoid The Boss Traps
Not Listening: Roadblocks
(Thomas Gordon)
1. Ordering, directing, commanding2. Warning, cautioning, threatening3. Giving advice, providing suggestions and solutions4. Persuading with logic, arguing, lecturing5. Moralizing6. Disagreeing, judging, criticizing, blaming7. Shaming, ridiculing, labeling8. Interpreting, analyzing9. Reassuring, sympathizing, consoling10.Questioning, probing, interrogating11.Withdrawing, distracting, humoring, changing the subject
Encouraging Performance
Instead:• Roll with resistance. Defending
breeds defensiveness. Resistance is a signal to respond differently.
• Avoid arguing for change. Labeling is unnecessary.
• Use momentum to positive advantage.
• Invite new perspectives rather than impose them.
Encouraging Performance
And:• Recognize “Change Talk”; Support it.• Notice it; Reflect it; Don’t ignore it.• Ask for examples/elaboration. The
employee is the primary source for new answers and solutions.
• Affirm change talk (reinforce, encourage, support).
• Summarize; paraphrase.
Reminder!
People change because
they think they have
a problem, not because
you think they have
a problem.
Summary
• Reinforcement can be both positive and negative
• Incentives and rewards should always be individualized
• Remember the 4:1 ratio
• Model desired behaviors
Team Team BuildingBuilding
•Accomplish guided team Accomplish guided team activitiesactivities
•Utilize previous training Utilize previous training material during team material during team building activities in order building activities in order to increase team to increase team effectivenesseffectiveness
•Coach class members Coach class members regarding relevant skill sets regarding relevant skill sets demonstrated during team demonstrated during team building activitiesbuilding activities
Performance Performance Objectives:Objectives:
•Snow SurvivalSnow Survival
•Control TowerControl Tower
•Blind ShapesBlind Shapes
•Hollow SquareHollow Square
Exercise Choices:Exercise Choices:
• How was the team How was the team practicing practicing effective effective
communication skills?communication skills?
• Did the team use Did the team use cognitive cognitive behavioral behavioral
techniques?techniques?
• What decision making What decision making and and creating solution creating solution
skills did you skills did you observe being observe being used?used?
ObserversObservers
Habit #7: Sharpen the Saw
8. SUPERVISORY DEVELOPMENT PLAN
8. SUPERVISORY DEVELOPMENT PLAN
• The Supervisory Development Plan is the bridge between this course and your return to the work site. It puts everything into the context of the bigger picture.
8. SUPERVISORY DEVELOPMENT PLAN
To begin your Supervisory Development Plan, use these lists to decide which areas are strengths and challenges for you.
With each of these areas fill out a Supervisory Self Awareness Worksheet.
8. SUPERVISORY DEVELOPMENT PLAN
In the Situation column of the worksheet, list the situations you see you most need improvement in.
List your thoughts and feelings,
both automatic and mindful, and then the preferred outcomes.
What action do you plan to take to increase your effectiveness in each area?
8. SUPERVISORY DEVELOPMENT PLAN
• If you have Supervisory Self Awareness worksheets unfinished
• Fill out the bottom half of the “Action” part of the form—what will your actions be now?
Thank you all for your time, energy, thoughts and feelings.
A Production of the Great Western Regional Field Coordinators – 2005-2007Dr. John Eggers – Correctional Program
Specialist, NIC