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    Important to every relationship is time together just relaxing and havingfun. Here are some ideas for things to do. Feel free to come up with yourown as well.

    Buy bottles of soap bubbles and go to a nice place with a view and a

    breeze a beach! hillside! top of a building! etc. "et comfortable! close youreyes! and imagine you are both about four years old. #pen your eyes! blowbubbles and watch them fly away.

    "o on a wal$ together in a pretty place and pretend you have cameraswith you. %a$e turns giving each other a &picture.' Have the other personclose their eyes! and direct their body and face in the direction of the

    &photo.' (hen they are in position! say &open your eyes!' &clic$!' and &closeyour eyes.'

    "ather together a collection of foods that are )uite different in taste andtexture! e.g.! olives! crac$ers! cherry tomatoes! chocolate! cheese! peanutbutter! raisens! lettuce! ice cream! celery! noodles! pic$les! eggs! spicy potatochips! coo$ies. %a$e turns blind*folding each other and slowly feeding bitesof food. +ariation, %he person eating can see how )uic$ly they can identifythe food.

    -a$e a fort out of the dining table using blan$ets and eat dinner inside!sitting on the floor. rin$ wine and light a candle if you are up to it.

    "o to a thrift shop and buy hats you would not normally wear. (ear themto dinner! whether at home or at a restaurant.

    "o for a wal$ together in a par$ wal$ing bac$wards.

    Fly a $ite.

    "o bowling and have the low score win.

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    "o to a body shop and smell scents together. /hoose something for eachof you that you both li$e! such as bath soap or body lotion.

    0oo$ at a coo$boo$ and find a new recipe to try. "o shopping together toget the ingredients. /ome home! coo$! and eat formally.

    "et some large paper and crayons. %a$e turns drawing around each othershands and feet on the paper.

    "ive each other a thorough! soapy wash in the shower or bath. "o slowly!one at a time! and don1t spea$ at all.

    2retend you are little $ids and have a bubble bath. Bring straws to blowinto the water and bath toys. 2lay a pretend game with your toys.

    Find and play for each other the music that you listened to in high

    school. escribe to each other what you were li$e then and what you werethin$ing and feeling. (hat did you wear and how was your hair3 (hat wasa low point and a high point of those years3

    Buy body paint and paint each other1s faces. 4eep the face on for anevening at home! including dinner together.

    5ead a bedtime story such as (innie the 2ooh! r. 6euss! or 5ootabaga6tories. #ne of you can be the little $id going to bed.

    "et paper and crayons! play some music! and &draw' to the music. o this

    on separate paper or together. "o to the beach and build a sand castle. Bring things you can use such asa spade! shovel! and forms for the sand 7chec$ a store in the toy section ifyou want8.

    %a$e turns giving each other a face massage! with each person receivingby lying down on the bed or floor.

    %a$e fun boo$s to read and go to a pretty place to read.

    2lant a few flowers! in the garden or in a pot.

    "et fresh ingredients and ma$e smoothies.

    Larger activities:

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    0ocate volunteer wor$ you can do together and do it. 6ettle on somethingyou can commit to for the long term and ma$e sure you put in at least 9hours a wee$.

    "o somewhere for lunch and ta$e writing materials. (rite your own

    obituaries and read them to each other.

    5eturn together to where you first met or where you spent time togetherearly in your relationship. %al$ about your memories. 5epeat somethingyou did then.

    o some research and compile your family trees. 6hare with each otherwhat you found! what it was li$e to compile! and how you feel. %ell about anynew information you learned about your family.

    "o to a pretty place in the late afternoon:early evening and ta$e pictures

    of each other. 7&golden hour' for photographers8.

    %a$e a class together about something neither $nows anythingabout. 2retend you don1t $now each other but gradually get ac)uaintedthrough the class. "o out on dates after class and tal$ about it.

    %a$e your clothes off and paint each other1s bodies.

    Buy a boo$ of poetry and read to each other every day at brea$fast.

    "et a novel you both want to read and ta$e turns reading it aloud at night

    before bed. 2lant a small garden. Have fun pic$ing out the plants or seeds.

    ;ttend a fair and go on the ferris wheel and carousel.

    Find a roller coaster and go for a ride.

    -a$e a fire in an outdoor firepit somewhere and ma$e s1mores 7grahamcrac$er! toasted marshmallows! and chocolate8.

    2ut bas$ets on your bicycles and do your grocery shopping by bicycletogether.

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    1. Watch the sunset together.

    2. Take showers together.

    3. Back rubs/massages.

    4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight.

    5. French iss.

    !. "old her w/ hands inside the back o# her shirt.

    $. Whis%er to each other.

    &. 'ook #or each other.

    (. )kinn* di%.

    1+. ,ake out in the rain.11. -ress each other.

    12. ndress each other.

    13. iss e er* %art o# their bod*

    14. "old hands.

    15. )lee% togeth0 ctuall* slee% with each other not se

    1!. ne word.....Fore%la*

    1$. )it and talk in ust underwear.

    1&. Bu* gi#ts #or each other.

    1(. 6oses.

    2+. Find out their #a orite cologne/%er#ume and wear it e er* time *ou7re together.

    21. Wear his clothes.

    22. Find a nice secluded %lace to lie and watch the stars.

    23.8ncense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make #or great cuddling/se .

    24. iss at e er* chance *ou get.

    25. -ont wear underwear and let them 9nd out.

    2$. Lightl* kiss their collarbone and their awbone ust below the ear:then whis%er 8lo e *ou.

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    2&. Bubble baths.

    2(. ;o #or a long walk down the beach at midnight.

    3+. ,ake lo e.

    31. Write %oetr* #or each other.

    32. iss/smell her hair.

    33. "ugs are the uni ersal medicine.

    34. )a* 8 lo e *ou: onl* when *ou mean it and make sure the* know *ou mean it.

    35. ;i e random gi#ts o#

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    54. Let her sit on *our la%.

    55. ;o hiking and cam% out together in the woods or on a mountain.

    5!. Li%s were made #or kissing. )o were e*es: and 9ngers:and cheeks: andcollarbones: and hands: and ears.

    5$. iss her stomach.

    5&. lwa*s hold her around her hi%s/sides.

    5(. ;u*s like hal# shirts.

    !+. take her to dinner and do the dinner #or two deal.

    !1. )%aghetti 0 ersee Lad* and the Tram%C

    !2. "old her hand:stare into her e*es: kiss her hand and then %ut it o er *our heart.

    !3. nless *ou can #eel their heart beating: *ou arent close enough.

    !4. -ance together.

    !5. )it in #ront o# a roaring 9re and make out/make lo e.

    !!. Look at the wa* a girl looks right a#ter shes #allen aslee% with her head in *ourla%.

    !$. 'arr* her to bed.

    !&. Waterbeds are #un.!(. Dou 9gure it out.

    $+. -o cute things like write 8 lo e *ou in a note so that the* ha e to look in a mirrorto read it.

    $1. Break e er* one o# *our %arents relationshi% rules #or them.

    $2. ,ake e cuses to call them e er* 5 minutes

    $3. en i# *ou are reall* bus* doing something: go out o# *our wa* to call and sa* 8

    lo e *ou.$4. 'all #rom *our acation s%ot to tell them *ou were thinking about them.

    $5. 6emember *our dreams and tell her about them.

    $!. 6ide *our bike & miles ust to see them #or a #ew hours.

    $$. 6ide home and call them.

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    $&. Tell each other *our most sacred secrets/#ears.

    $(. )omehow incor%orate them into an* kind o# religion or worshi% *ou ha e.

    &+. Be >rince 'harming to her %arents. 0Brownie >oints

    &1. ct out mutual #antasies together. 0Eot necessaril* se ual

    &2. Brush her hair out o# her #ace #or her.

    &3. )ta* u% all night to think o# 1+1 wa*s to be sweet to them.

    &4. "ang out with his/her #riends. 0more brownie %oints

    &5. ;o to church/%ra*/worshi% together.

    &!. Take her to see a romantic mo ie and remember the %arts she liked.

    &$. 'uddle together under a #ull moon on a clear night.&&. Learn #rom each other and dont make the same mistake twice.

    &(. er*one deser es a second chance.

    (+. -escribe the o* *ou #eel ust to be with him/her.

    (1. ,ake sacri9ces #or each other.

    (2. 6eall* lo e each other: or dont sta* together.

    (3. Write a 9ctional stor* about how *ou met/#ell in lo e: etc and gi e it to them.

    (4. Let there ne er be a second during an* gi en da* that *ou arent thinking aboutthem: and make sure the* know it

    (5. Lo e *oursel# be#ore *ou lo e an*one else.

    (!. Learn to sa* sweet things in #oreign languages.

    ($. -edicate songs to them on the radio.

    (&. Fall aslee% on the %hone with each other.

    ((. )lee% naked together.

    1++. )tand u% #or them when someone talks trash.

    1+1. Ee er #orget the kiss goodnight.