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BE PROACTIVEI AM T HE FORCE
Personal Growth and Development
Introduction
Teenagers are the product of their environment, upbringing, and choices. Are their choices proactive or reactive? They
need to choose how they act. They need to take responsibility for their choices
and their life.
ReactiveSometimes things go wrong, and we
feel shaken up. As a result, we might
EXPLODE on someone or something.
This is called being REACTIVE. Has
this ever happened to you? Explain
what happened and why. Was this a
good way to let go of all of your
feelings? Why or why not?
Proactive
When you are PROACTIVE, you make a choice about how you react to the things that happen in your life. You act like a water bottle. You might get shaken up or mad, but you stay calm and don’t explode!
Listen to Your Language
Reactive languageI’ll tryThat’s just the way I
amThere’s nothing I can
doI have to
Proactive languageI’ll do itI can do better than
thatLet’s look at all our
option I choose to
The Victimitis Virus
Reactive peopleAre easily
offendedBlame otherGet angry
Proactive peopleAre not easily offendedTake responsibility for
choicesThink before they act
What We Can and Cannot Control
CIRCLE OF NO CONTROL
Birthplace
Weather
Parents
What other people say
and do
CIRCLE OF CONTROL
Ourselves Attitudes
Choices & Responses
• We cannot control EVERYTHING that happens to us
• One thing we can control…how we respond to what happens to us!!!
Turning Setbacks Into Triumphs
Life often deals us a bad hand and it is up to us
to control how we respond. Every time we have
a setback, it’s an opportunity for us to turn into
a triumph.
Can-Do
• Being PROACTIVE really means two things—
1. You take responsibility for your life2. You have a “can-do” attitude
Take initiativeto make it
happen
Think aboutsolutions and
options
Act
Wait forsomething
to happen tothem
Think aboutproblems and
barriers
Are actedupon
Can-Do
Non-Can-Do
Just Push Pause
• When someone is rude to you, where do you get the power to resist being rude back?
• Suggestion…JUST HIT PAUSE!!!
• Sometimes life moves so fast that we INSTANTLY react to everything out of shear habit
• Learn to pause-you will make smarter decisions
Power Tools
• SELF-AWARENESS: I can stand apart frommyself and observe my thoughts and actions
• CONSCIENCE: I can listen to my inner voice toknow right from wrong (the one we tend to ignore)
• IMAGINATION: I can envision newpossibilities
• WILLPOWER: I have the power to choose
Conclusion
Be Proactive with your studyBe Proactive with physical healthBe Proactive with mental healthBe Proactive with your timeBe Proactive with workBe Proactive with wordsBe Proactive with friendsBe always ready for everything you do!!!
Be Proactiv
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The End
THANKS!
BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND
C O N T R O L Y O U R O W N D E S T I N Y O R S O M E O N E E L S E W I L L
Instructor: Dr. Kol Pheng
Personal Growth and Development
Begin with the End in Mind
Control your own destinyOr it means developing a clear picture of where you want to go with your life. Or it means deciding what your values are and setting goals.
Is a powerful way to help turn your dreams in to realities ,so you should set your own blueprint before doing something all the time
The Crossroads of Life
What about friends? Take your choice friends that need to be
accepted and be part of a group is powerful. Wrong group of friends: it lead you down all
kinds of paths you really don’t want to be on. Right group of friends : lead you go on the right way.
The Crossroads of Life
What about Sex? We are free to choose our paths, but we can’t
choose the consequences that come with them. The path you chose will affect your health, your
reputation, your future children, and so much more.
Who’s in the lead?
Make you own decision don’t led someone else
will do it for you, and you have to control your
own destiny.
Don’t have in the moment part: Look for ahead or
future.
A Personal Mission Statement ( PMS)
A Personal Mission Statement ( PMS)
Is like a personal credo or motto that motivate
yourself what your life is about, it is like the blueprint
You should write your PMS and read it every day to
inspire yourself.
Three things to watch for Negative Labels “it’s all over” syndrome Wrong direction
GO FOR THE GOAL
Go for the goal If you have mission, then you set goals Key to set goals
Count the cost Put it in pen Just do it Use momentous moment Rape up
Conclusion
Develop a clear picture of where you want to go in your life.
Help to think beyond today and take charge of your life.
Set reachable goals.
Believe in yourself and your faith, you can accomplish anything you desire.
Avoid the Law of Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.
Conclusion
Never loose sight of these goals.Strive each day to reach interdependence.Have a confidence in yourself and everyone
else around you.Read your goals daily.You are the master of your own destiny.