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AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com
ARC Relationship Coach Training Course
Aug 20/21
Presents…
About Me
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Mission Statement
The overall aim of the Academy of Relationship coaching Course is to provide
the skills to coach single individuals in making good couple relationship choices and also to increase stability, happiness
and fulfillment for couples for long lasting loving relationships.
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Relationship Wheel
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Who Are Your Clients?
Single men Single women Couples Married couples Church goers
(very large untouched market)
Divorced
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EDAMS Model
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Establish Decide Action Measu
re State
EDAMS Module
1.E Establish2.D Decide3.A Action4.M Measure5.S State
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Hope v Expect
1. Hope
2. Expect
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Edams Module
1. E Establish What is the situation?
2. D Decide Responsibilty? (Wheel)
3. A Action When and What? (Books)
4. M Measure Achievements?5. S State
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Take The Arc Qualification Anywhere In The World With You And Be Recognised!
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How Much Can You Earn?
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£50 /
hour
per person
£100/
hour
per couple
Average =
£75 / hour
Let’s assume you can pull in just 5 working
client hours per day...
Per… Earnings
Day (5 Hours)
£375
Week (25 Hours)
£1875
Month £7500
Year £90000
Set Up Your Own Company
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Website Leads Products – Cds,
DVDs, Seminars, Workshops
Interviews, radio, TV, Travel UK & Abroad.
Work on your own Marketing training
day Benefits
What You Will Learn On The Course
How men and women cope with stress differently
Resolve issues between couples/marriages in a positive way
Saving failed marriages/families Helping singles find and attract
the right partner Helping singles keep the right
partner Guide couples to marriage Provide positive steps to improve
communication between couples Understanding how men and
women’s brain are different Why men and women react
differently Why women want men to listen
and not give advice AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com
Why men dislike women who want to change them
How men really fall in love How women really fall in love How to set up your own dating
events/speed dating singles parties etc
How to set up your own dating/relationship workshops and seminars
How to create and sell your own products globally
How to get in magazines, radio stations, TV etc
How to market yourself How to receive so many clients
you cant take anymore Earn £90,000 Per year and
possibly more
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• Why do you think you cant find a good man?
• How much effort have you honestly given yourself?
• Are you old fashioned?
• Would you approach a man?
• Do you believe that they are out there?
• What changes can you do?
1. Unconsciously you don’t want to be in relationship
2. You are looking for a man in all the wrong places3. Men are not stepping up the plate4. You have too many insecurities and too much
drama5. Your aura is just wrong- give it away too freely6. Independence is making you hard to deal with7. You think that being domestic is subservient8. You have created an ideal man that only a
fairytale prince can live up to9. You don’t have your stuff together 10. You have too much baggage
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Top 10 Reasons Why You May Be Single
What problems have these caused you in the past and do you see this causing you more problems in the future?
What needs to change? Exercise
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What “Issues” Do You Have?
Do you LOVE yourself? How much time do you give
yourself? Do You Know What YOU
Want? What is the number one
quality you look for? Where has this come from?
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YOU and YOURSELF
1. Ask lots of questions2. Don’t ignore warning signs
of potential problems3. Be aware of premature
compromises 4. Don’t give into lust
blindness5. Be aware of giving in to
material seduction 6. Put compatibility before
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The Top Six Ways To Prepare and Package Yourself For “The One”
Why don’t we ask more before we fall in love?
Unromantic? An intelligent way to get to know
someone. Don’t want to hear anything bad. Lonely, tired, gap is filled You don’t want to disclose your
“stuff” too early
Exercise: Which questions are important to you in the early stages of the relationship?
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1. Ask Lots Of Questions
Reflect on your last relationship. Signs at the start?
Did you pay a lot of attention to these signs?
Chose to ignore these signs?
Minimize its importance, excuses?
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2. Don’t Ignore Warning Signs Of Potential Problems
Values, beliefs, hobbies, friends, etc. Lose sense of self early in the
relationship? Create a false sense of harmony? Conflict – stand by your beliefs, risk
tension. Conflict – compromise to “keep the
peace”.
Exercise: Which premature compromises have you experienced?
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3. Be Aware Of Premature Compromises
• What is “lust blindness”? • In love with the passion and not the
person?• Feel your partner with your heart and not
your eyes.• Media influence.• Sex - make your partner wait . . .• Would you want to have this person’s
children?• Really get to know them first
Exercise: Have you ever given in to lust blindness?
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4. Give In To Lust Blindness
• Judging by what materialistic things are available.
• Money, lifestyle, appearance, power, career, reputation.
• Men focus on women’s appearance rather than what she does .
• Women focus on what he does, husband material, security.
• Focus on YOU, not what someone can bring you.
Exercise: Have you experienced material seduction?
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5. Material Seduction
• Emotional commitment before you know him / her very well
• Sex too early• Living together for the wrong reason and too
soon• Feel this is “the one” after just a few weeks• Feelings are much greater when compared to
quality time together• You have “changed” and are not aware of
this?• You plan the rest of your life with this
Partner?
Exercise: When have you put compatibility before commitment?
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6. Put Compatibility Before Commitment
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How To Coach Single Men
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How To Coach Single Women
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How To Coach Couples in Problems
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How To Coach Married Couples in Problems
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How To Coach Divorcees
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ARC's FREE Resources Website
Marketing Coaching Relationship
Coaching Videos Articles
Tests Modules Network Training
Updates
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ARC's Tools
Marketing Photograph Website Social Media
Support Facebook Fan
Page Admin Assistant London Chamber
of Commerce
October 22 Pop UP Banner
Stand Business Cards Flyers Networking
Events UK Tour Train Coachees Dating Events
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What Is Your Chosen Niche Area?
Single Men Single Women Couples Divorcees Married Couples
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You Will Now Be Perceived As A Relationship Expert
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Congratulations!!!!
ARC Diploma in Relationship Coaching
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ARCs Tools And Models
Marriage Wheel Divorce Wheel Couples Wheel Divorcee Wheel Singles Wheel Edams Model
SMERTIE
Identify what type of man you require in your life.
Where is this type of man likely to hang out?
Business man – clubs Fit / healthy man - gym Party man – networking / business
List the last 5 places you went and consider if there are other places you can go.
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Secret 1: Looking For Men In The Wrong Places
Find friends who tell you the truth, regardless. Don’t cultivate friends who always tell you what you want to hear.
Take advice from those who are living the life you want to live.
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Secret 2: Listening To Negative Female Friends And Allowing Them To Influence You
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Secret 3: You’re Surrounded By Girlfriends Who Are Single Or Not In Serious Relationships If any of your girlfriends
have issues or are angry about relationships, are they the best person to have around?
Why do you confide in her?
What wouldn’t YOU do that SHE has done in the past?
What vibe DO you send out? Share with someone your first impressions
Ask friends and family to be frank and communicate what vibe/energy you send out when you enter the room
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Secret 4: Men Do Not Approach You Because Of The Vibe You Send Out
Who are your competitors?
Are they dating the men you want?
How are they attracting these men?
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Secret 5: Be Aware That There Is More Competition Out There And Realise That Its Not All About You
Do you truly believe he is out there?
When you think about finding him, what goes through your mind?
You must think positively, especially when doubt creeps in or you find someone that interests you.
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Secret 6: You Need To Be Confident That The “Right” Man For You Does Exist
List your top 3 things that you must have from your next relationship and these things are so important to you
Where have these preferences come from? Are they perhaps associated with your ex partners, family or your past.
Can these preferences be amended to increase your chances?
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Secret 7: Unrealistic Expectations
What personal development have you undertaken over the last 12 months?
Have you attended a workshop, seminar or class that spurred you to immediate action.
What development products do you have?
Have you joined any communication groups, eg on-line newsletters etc?
Do you surround yourself with like-minded, positive people?
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Secret 8: Personal Development
How much YOU time do you devote to YOU?
Do you understand YOU?
How would you describe YOU
When you look in the mirror, what do you see?
What do you think about yourself?
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Secret 9: Do You Love Yourself?
We all have “stuff”, “issues” and “baggage” to work on and need to “let go”. What issues do YOU have?
Has there been a pattern to your past relationships?
What complaints did your exes have about you?
Choose the top one and make a decision to work on this.
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Secret 10: Issues
Avoid going out with large groups of girlfriends – men feel intimidated by a large group of women and fear public rejection
Make sure you are clearly visible. No one will see you hidden away. You are more likely to be approached if you position yourself at or near the bar, the cloakrooms etc where men will be passing by frequently.
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Secret 11: Getting Noticed
List the…
Top 5 things you want to know about him
Why the answers are important to you
What history has prompted these questions
What YOU have to do to attract this type of man. AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com
Secret 12: Discreetly Interview / Screen Him
If you have any negative thoughts, teach yourself to automatically switch to positive ones
Practice this until it becomes second nature.
Devote just five minutes of your time to this mental exercise before you go to bed and again when you wake up.
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Secret 13: Positive Thoughts/Affirmations
Unaware of your levels of compatibility
Unaware of each other’s core values
Emotional state when you met
Unaware or missing the early “signs” that indicate relationship success or failure
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Secret 14: Why Do We Choose The Wrong Partner?
Are you set in your ways and not willing or able to be flexible and to compromise?
Would YOU date you?
What things are so important to you that you are not prepared to be flexible and change?
Do you know where this inflexibility has come from and is this attitude holding you back?
If you could compromise, what opportunities would it create for you?
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Secret 15: Adaptability
Expand you circle of male friends. Just men – not potential partners.
Meet up with them and their male friends on a regular basis
Listen to their conversations and watch them look at other women.
What advantages do you think this would give you? AcademyofRelationshipCoaching.com
Secret 16: Men !
List the top five places men have a reason to go and to hang out (eg. men’s shops, sport events, etc)
Plan beforehand – why are you there?
Educate yourself about sport – men love this!
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Secret 17: Right Place
Be grateful every day and give yourself “Me” time at least once week.
Allocate an hour that is just for YOU and make appropriate arrangements so that you can always achieve this.
Turn off all forms of communication - this is YOUR time.
Perhaps a candlelit bath, your favourite sensual music?
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Secret 18: ME Time
Chill and relax and focus on how you want your life to be.
Read books that are important and empowering to you.
What is the first thing you are going to do to achieve your goal? Write it down.
Be grateful for all the good things around you before you go to bed.
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Secret 18: More ME Time
Assess how he copes when he is stressed with his job, his life in general, in his interactions with family, friends, children, officialdom etc.
How do YOU cope with stress?
What is it like when you are BOTH stressed?
Do you understand how differently men and women cope with stress?
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Secret 19: Stress
Ask at least five truthful men what positive and negative traits you have.
Be prepared to be shocked or upset.
Even though their replies are about you, don’t take it “personally”
Learn from their comments and be honest with yourself
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Secret 20: Getting To Know You
Ask the right questions in the early stages:
What are his goals for the coming year, the next three years’ the next five years?
How does he feel about having a family,
marriage, 100% commitment?
What are the warning signs?
If you know from the start, you can take the appropriate path through your relationship.
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Secret 21: Questions
Decide on exactly what you want
Write down all you want from your next relationship.
Have you devoted 100% of your effort on finding him? If not, why not?
Could you do more?
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Secret 22: What Do You Want?
Reflect on your past relationships. Do you know how your exes are feeling about breaking up with you?
How do you feel about the breakups?
Is it all about you?
What have you learned about you and men so far?
What are going to do differently from now on?
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Secret 23: The Past
Signs are always there but we CHOOSE not to see them.
You minimise their importance
You don’t want to damage what’s good
You don’t want to be alone AGAIN, especially when you are tired of searching
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Secret 24: Warning Signs
Write down the first thing that came to your mind when you read this question
Do you know why this was the first thing?
Write down another 30 things that make you happy?
Write down one thing you are going to do
to work towards your happiness
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Secret 25: Are You Happy?
Coaching Skills
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Selling Skills
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Managing Positive Reactions To Changes
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Managing Negative Reactions To Changes
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Confront
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Persuasive Presentation Skills
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7 Step Model Of Change
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20 Solution Focus Techniques
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50 Solution Focused Quotes
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Solution Focused Scaling Questions
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Positive Solutions Clip
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Positive Inspiring Clip For Your Clients
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Man’s Sex Drive
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Points System
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Men’s Ideas – What Women Shouldn’t Do
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What Makes Women Attractive To Men (Mark Gungar)?
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6 Things Men Find Unattractive In A Woman
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Coach Training With Tony Robbins
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