Handling Compromises in Life, Relationship and SuccessIn pursuit of any long term goal, you will sometimes face a situation where you would have to make

a compromise. Sometimes situations will force you to change directions.

There will be instances where you would feel that you are drifting away from your path... distance

between you and where you want to be is increasing.

This feeling can be bad for your confidence.

All that effort you made till now feels 'wasted'.

It feels frustrating.

I completely understand. I have been through it myself many times.

It sucks. Really.

It feels BAD.

But let me share with you what I do to get out of this kind of situation.

First of all, don’t stress over it anymore. What’s done is done. No amount of stressing over it will help

you in anyway. In fact, stress hampers your abilities to think rationally and do the right thing.

Completely accept the fact that you made a compromise. Do not resist the truth. The more you resist

the truth, the more it will hurt. Accepting it will calm your mind. You will feel a lot in control of your

emotions.

Yes, it would feel 'bad' to accept what has happened, but trust that universe wants you to learn

something new. It wants you to be stronger than you currently are. It increase your resilience, your

resolve.

Always remember, it's only a part of the overall good. You may not feel it now but in the long term, it

will benefit you. Trust me.  After 5 years from now, when you will look back to this situation YOU

WILL BE GLAD IT HAPPENED.

It's part of the overall good. Then, you will see this truth and share with others what I am sharing with

you now.

For now, just accept the fact that you have made a compromise. It will calm you. Then, focus your

full attention to the present situation… What should you do now? How do you deal with it? What's

the best course of action you can take from here?

But for this you must have a calm mind. Acceptance of the present situation is absolutely necessary

now. If you are stressed, you won’t be able to think rationally. Calm down. If you want details on how

to accept present moment, See here.

Then, when you are in calm headspace, keep moving. Do what you have to do now. Adjust to the

new condition and try to see the best in it.

I know it's what you originally wanted. You may feel that your life is moving in the wrong direction.

But... have faith. This is all part of the bigger picture. The universe has its own plans which are better

for you. It's shaping you to become the person who deserves the kind of life you want.

It may not be apparent right now, but It's eventually good for you.

It's very important to be positive in your present situation. Always imagine positive things happening

in future. Do not let negative thoughts stay in your head.

Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, stop, take a deep breath and imagine a

positive scene in your mind.

This article will help you out a lot in positive imagination.

Find reasons to love yourself and your life. One of the best things you can do now is to align your

new life with your ultimate goals or desires. Understand that your compromise had a positive effect

on your journey through life.

It will lead you to what you ultimately want.

Walking on present path may be hard initially, but have faith that it's good for you and keep moving

forward. Do not look back.

Remind yourself daily of your ultimate desire. Keeping a journal really helps too. Writing down your

thoughts on paper makes you think rationally and lets you examine your life.

Now, the only thing remaining is to take massive action. As you make progress, you will start seeing

how all this comes together and takes you to your ultimate desire. But till you see that silver lining,

remember to have faith.

When you can see it, you can achieve it.

Till next time…

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