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Volume 11, Issue 7 Tamuz/Av 5770 July 2010 B’nai Israel Reform Temple 67 Oakdale-Bohemia Road Oakdale, NY 11769 (631) 563-1660 www.bnai-israel.org Inside this issue: Looking Ahead 1 Cantor’s Notes 1 Car Wash 1 Schedule of Services 2 About our Services 2 Ritual Committee 2 Torah & Haftorah Readings 2 Senior Youth Group 3 Bulletin Information 3 Religious School News 3 Donation & Contributions 4 Honey Sale 4 President’s Message 5 Interfaith Anti Bias Picnic 5 Volunteers...need your help 6 Bulletin Board & Announcements 7 Sisterhood Newsletter 8 A Note from the Rabbi 9 Pre-Shabbat Picnic 9 July 2010 Calendar 10 August 2010 Calendar 11 Selichot Dinner 12 12th Annual Golf Outing 13 New Year Card Order Form 14 Donations Information 15 Condolences 16 Yahrzeits 16 Advertisers 17 Temple Directory 19 Cantor’s Notes This summer, I will be teaching a Torah cantillation class. What’s that, you might ask? Cantillation is the system by which one chants Torah, Haftarah, Lamentations, Esther and sections of the Torah for the High Holy Days. You don’t have to have an amazing voice, in fact all you need is a basic ability to read Hebrew, the resources to play a CD and the perseverance to practice once in a while. Each person in the class will be able to use the skills they learn in order to chant a section of Torah at a Friday night service. “Let us sing to G-d.” Please join us for new music, new insight and a lot of fun! The cantillation class will be held on Thursday nights at 8:00 pm in the Religious School building. The first class was on June 24th. Upcoming classes will be on July 1, July 8, July 22, and July 29. Car Wash has been rescheduled for Sunday, August 8, 2010 starting at 10:00 am. Location: Applebee's in Farmingville Exit 63 off the L.I.E. on N. Ocean Ave. Previously sold tickets will be honored. Car Wash has been rescheduled! Looking Ahead Order Honey for Rosh Hashanah by July 13th (page 4) Order New Year Cards by August 7th (page 15) Selichot Dinner Reservations RSVP by August 13th (page 13) Golf Outing on September 21st (page 12) Join us at 6:00 pm on July 9th Pre‐Shabbat Picnic

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Inside this issue: Cantor’s Notes Volume 11, Issue 7 Order Honey for Rosh Hashanah by July 13th (page 4) Golf Outing on September 21st (page 12) Location: Applebee's in Farmingville Exit 63 off the L.I.E. on N. Ocean Ave. The cantillation class will be held on Thursday nights at 8:00 pm in the Religious School building. The first class was on June 24th. Upcoming classes will be on July 1, July 8, July 22, and July 29. Previously sold tickets will be honored.

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Volume 11, Issue 7 Tamuz/Av 5770 July 2010 B’nai Israel Reform Temple 67 Oakdale-Bohemia Road Oakdale, NY 11769 (631) 563-1660 www.bnai-israel.org

Inside this issue: 

Looking Ahead 1

Cantor’s Notes 1

Car Wash 1

Schedule of Services 2

About our Services 2

Ritual Committee 2

Torah & Haftorah Readings 2

Senior Youth Group 3

Bulletin Information 3

Religious School News 3

Donation & Contributions 4

Honey Sale 4

President’s Message 5

Interfaith Anti Bias Picnic 5

Volunteers...need your help 6

Bulletin Board &

Announcements 7

Sisterhood Newsletter 8

A Note from the Rabbi 9

Pre-Shabbat Picnic 9

July 2010 Calendar 10

August 2010 Calendar 11

Selichot Dinner 12

12th Annual Golf Outing 13

New Year Card Order Form 14

Donations Information 15

Condolences 16

Yahrzeits 16

Advertisers 17

Temple Directory 19

Cantor’s Notes  This summer, I will be teaching a Torah cantillation class. What’s that, you might ask? Cantillation is the system by which one chants Torah, Haftarah, Lamentations, Esther and sections of the Torah for the

High Holy Days. You don’t have to have an amazing voice, in fact all you need is a basic ability to read Hebrew, the resources to play a CD and the perseverance to practice once in a while. Each person in the class will be able to use the

skills they learn in order to chant a section of Torah at a Friday night service. “Let us sing to G-d.” Please join us for new music, new insight and a lot of fun!

The cantillation class will be held on Thursday nights at 8:00 pm in the Religious School building. The first class was on June 24th. Upcoming classes will be on July 1, July 8, July 22, and July 29.

Car Wash has been rescheduled for Sunday, August 8, 2010 starting at 10:00 am. Location: Applebee's in Farmingville Exit 63 off the L.I.E. on N. Ocean Ave. Previously sold tickets will be honored.

Car Wash has been rescheduled! 

Looking Ahead Order Honey for Rosh Hashanah by July 13th (page 4)

Order New Year Cards by August 7th (page 15)

Selichot Dinner Reservations RSVP by August 13th (page 13)

Golf Outing on September 21st (page 12)

Join us at 6:00 pm on July 9th

Pre‐Shabbat Picnic

Schedule of Services 

Friday July 2 Shabbat Service 8:00 PM

Friday July 9 Family Service 7:15 PM with Birthday and Anniversary Blessing

Friday July 16 Children’s Service 7:00 PM

Friday July 16 Shabbat Service 8:00 PM

Friday July 23 Shabbat Service 8:00 PM

Friday July 30 Shabbat Service 8:00 PM

Please visit www.bnai-israel.org for additional services and the entire calendar.

About our Services Our Friday night worship is conducted in English and Hebrew. Services are every Friday evening. Our Shabbat Services are the 1st, 3rd, 4th & 5th Fridays at 8:00 pm. We have a Family Service geared toward school age children the 2nd Friday of each month at 7:15 pm. The Rabbi will offer Birthday and Anniversary Blessings for the month at this service. We also have a Children’s Service geared toward pre-school children the 3rd Friday of each month at 7:00 pm. Please come and join us.

Torah and Haftorah Readings for Home Study 

July 3: Numbers ch. 25 vs. 10 through ch. 30 vs. 1 Jeremiah ch. 1 through ch. 2 vs. 3 July 10: Numbers ch. 30 vs. 3 through ch. 36 vs. 13 Jeremiah ch. 2 vss. 4 through 28; ch. 3 vs. 4; ch. 4 vss. 1 – 2 July 17: Deuteronomy ch. 1 through ch. 3 vs. 22 Isaiah ch. 1 vss. 1 through 27 July 24: Deuteronomy ch. 3 vs. 23 through ch. 7 vs. 11 Isaiah ch. 40 vss. 1 through 26 July 31: Deuteronomy. ch. 7 vs. 12 through ch. 11 vs. 25

Ritual Committee                      Terri Randall, Ritual Chairperson 

“Small minds discuss people. Average minds discuss events.

Great minds discuss ideas.” – Author unknown

Ritual Committee is looking for great minds to share great ideas! Your wisdom and inspiration are a vital part of our congregation. Come share yourself with us as we continue to support meaningful worship within our temple walls. We can’t do it without you! Please contact me at [email protected] for meeting details or visit the temple website.

From my home to yours with Shalom,

Terri Randall Ritual Chairperson.

All items to be considered for inclusion in the bulletin must be sent, preferably in an electronic format, to [email protected] or delivered to the Temple Office by the deadlines shown below. Accepted electronic formats are Microsoft Word, Microsoft Publisher, or a simple message in an email. If you are submitting a picture to be considered for inclusion, please make sure that it is a .jpg file. If you have any questions about these requirements, please email [email protected] or call (631) 775-6147.

Issue Deadline August 2010 Issue July 10, 2010 September 2010 Issue August 10, 2010 October 2010 Issue September 10, 2010 November 2010 Issue October 10, 2010 December 2010 Issue November 10, 2010

Bulletin Information  Attention: Items must be submitted on

or before July 10, 2010 to be included in the

August Bulletin.

If items are received after this date, we cannot guarantee they

will be included.

Please be prompt. Items received after the deadline, may not 

be included. 

Senior Youth Group 

To all students who will be in 9th through 12th grade in September 2010:

We are starting a Senior Youth Group!

There was a special meeting on June 27, 2010. If you are inter-ested, but were unable to attend the meeting please contact Mr. Rosenfeld (631) 806-9961 or (631) 864-8270 or send an email to [email protected]

Registration packets for the next school year are in the mail. Please return them as soon as possible! Summer Hebrew Lessons The dates for the four evening Hebrew classes will be Tuesdays, July 13, July 20, July 27 and August 3, 2010 from 7:30-9:00 pm. By enrolling in these classes the students will not forget as much over the long summer and will feel more prepared to start school again in September. Book Sale The Religious School book sale will be held on September 7th from 6:00-8:00 pm. At this time parents will be purchasing books for use in Religious School next year AND will be picking up the class assignments and calendars

for the year. If anyone has any Temple library books, please return them to the Temple Office as soon as possible. It does not matter how long you have had these books, we would just like them back at no penalty. Thank you for your cooperation!

Religious School News 

Thank you! 

Ethan William Snair Memorial Fund Gammie & Pop Pop In memory of our beloved Ethan Marilyn & Harvey Kabalkin In memory of Gary Schmidt Grandma In memory of our beloved Ethan Grandma In honor of Emmerson's graduation from Pre-K Grandma In loving memory of our beloved Ethan Roberta Snair In memory of Lee Pessah Ian Matarasso Memorial Fund Donna & Jack Matarasso In memory of Sandy Drews’ sister

Discretionary Fund The Brickman Family In loving memory of Lori Brickman Toby & Alan Bolson Donation Sharon Eckhaus In honor of my daughter, Jennie’s engagement to Bryan Katz Library Fund Marilyn Stahl In memory of Gert Millman Dot & Irv Lewis In memory of Lee Pessah General Fund Irwin & Rodelle Jessie In honor of Lindsey, Max & Mitchell Nathan & Roberta Pessah In memory of Lee Pessah Outreach Shaindy & Marty Ullman In memory of Lee Pessah Gerald & Rochelle Slochevsky Help-A-Family Program Nathan & Roberta Pessah In memory of Lee Pessah Religious School Mike & Alice Lambert In honor of the birth of Sabastian Max Rosolinsky Mike & Alice Lambert In memory of Flora Bat Farha David Sharon Eckhaus In honor of Zachary Eckhaus-Goddeau

Donations & Contributions  We gratefully acknowledge the following donors for their contributions to B’nai Israel Reform Temple:

Send the Sweetest of all Rosh Hashanah greetings to your family, friends, and business associates.

This 8-ounce jar of delicious kosher honey arrives in time for the Rosh Hashanah holiday, decorated with a colorful label, and includes a personalized card reading “L’Shana Tova—Wishing you a Healthy and Happy New Year”. This card also lets the recipients know that a donation has been made in their honor to B’nai Israel Reform Temple.

Your cost is $10.00 per jar which includes shipping and handling within the United States. We will gladly mail orders outside the United States for an additional fee.

To order your honey go to www.bnai-israel.org and click on the honey link. Then follow the step-by-step instructions.

All orders must be placed online.

Order online by July 13th to avoid a $3 per jar shipping fee.

Please contact Jeannette Berman with questions (631) 775-6147 or [email protected]

President’s Message                                         Joel Silverman 

As I prepared some remarks to follow the June installation of B’nai Israel’s Officers and Trustees (aka the Board), I paused to consider what, if anything, we as the Board actually got done during my first year as President. While much of what we do is mundane and often unnoticeable, there were some more obvious accomplishments as well.

We welcomed a new Cantor to B’nai Israel and with Congregational approval, recently signed a two year extension of her contract good through June of 2013. Automated external defibrillators were obtained and mounted in the Temple and Religious School last summer. Our financial software was replaced and was immediately apparent as the billing format changed and some billing bugs needed to be worked out. In December we made the switch to a new prayer book for the first time in more than twenty-five years! More recently, aging lobby furniture was replaced and before this year’s High Holy Days, a new donor wall will be mounted in the lobby to recognize significant gifts made to B’nai Israel. (More on that in next month’s bulletin.)

Behind the scenes, procedures were changed to tighten security for the high holy days. The sanctuary sound system was vastly improved and parking lot lighting was repaired. The Board struggles with the financial realities of B’nai Israel at every monthly meeting, formulating a budget in the fall and having the discipline to stick to it over the next twelve months. This year,

managing our income has been a larger issue than managing expenses.

Thinking back over a busy and sometimes controversial agenda, I owe the members of the Board a sincere thank you for all that they do; for their cooperation, diligence and hard work on behalf of our Congregation. I anticipate a busy and challenging year ahead. The newly installed Board will be up to the task, but there is much left to be done. We would like more of you to become involved. Come to a Board meeting, volunteer for a committee, help out at a Duck’s game or bingo, join the Choir in time to sing for the High Holy Days, or just come to Shabbat Services. We are open for business all summer; join us on Friday night!

Shalom.

Joel

SECOND ANNUAL INTERFAITH ANTI BIAS TASK FORCE PICNIC

Saturday, July 17, 2010 at 6 PM on the grounds of St. John Nepomucene RC Church

behind the Rectory

We will supply hamburgers, hot dogs, rolls, Kosher/Halel chicken

We will supply ice and three grills

We need you to bring salads, chips,

pretzels, and desserts to be shared by everyone

Bring your own beverage - Bring a chair

There will be games for all ages

In order to plan how much to prepare, an RSVP is necessary

Please call the Church office at 589-0540

Bulletin Board & Announcements 

Helene and George Davis on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Annie Rose

Robin Long on the engagement of her daughter Marisa to Thomas Gossweiler

Zachary Eckhaus-Goddeau for earning first place in the 2nd grade at the Waverly Ave School Science Fair and representing his school at the Brookhaven National Lab Science Fair

Sharon Eckhaus on the engagement of her daughter, Jennie Eckhaus to Bryan Katz

Marlene & Martin Rosolinsky on the birth of their grandson Sebastian Max Rosolinsky

B’nai Israel wishes

to:

NEW EMAIL LIST for Volunteer Opportunities!

To sign up visit www.bnai-israel.org

and use the form provided or send an email to [email protected]

If you subscribe to this list we will notify you via email about upcoming volunteer opportunities at B’nai Israel.

Israel Tour 2011  Over thirty people have already expressed interest in the Rabbi's next B'nai Israel trip to Israel which will be February 17 through 27, 2011. It is not too late to come on board, so if you are interested, please contact the Rabbi at 472-5272 and let him know as soon as possible. The i t inerary can be found on the Temple's website at the following address: http://www.bnai-israel.org/calendar/events

Family Service with Bir

thday and

Anniversary Bl

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July 9, 2010 at 7:15 pm

Pre-Shabbat Picnic Starts at 6:00 pm

B'nai Israel wants to thank Leo Cassuto, Jason Feuer, Jonathan and Michael Greene, Paul Fink, Scott Kesner, Rabbi Moss, Jarod Randall, Ellen Spergel, and our adult choir who participated in our first Music Shabbat held on Friday night June 11th. A special thank you to Cantor Ilana for the concept and development of the service and leading the service and the musicians that night. It

was a fun filled and inspiring service enjoyed by all. Anyone who wishes to play in the next one should contact Cantor Ilana.

Trip to the Greek Synagogue On Sunday October 24th, the Rabbi will lead a special NYC Jewish culture trip to the Janina Synagogue in lower Manhattan. This is the synagogue of the Greek Jewish community. During our three hours there we will receive a kosher Greek lunch and tour of the synagogue and museum. Mark the date on your calendars and more information will be forthcoming in the next bulletin.

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“How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then rest afterwards.” I found this Spanish proverb and thought that we could all use this to fashion a summer rest. We worked so hard to be busy all year and now it is time to enjoy the time off.

Having said that, we will still be working on plans for next year, so enjoy your “nothingness” and think of how we can plan for an interesting next year.

Rita and Phyllis

Share a SIMCHA Sponsor an ONEG

Let everyone celebrate with you for your Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation, Promotion,

or any other occasion you would like to share.

Sisterhood members $50.00 Non-member $70.00

Contact the Temple Office (631) 563-1660

The Judaica Shop

is open for all your holiday and daily needs.

Come look at the beautiful display of

items. If you don’t see what you are looking

for please ask.

The Judaica Shop will be open after services

on Friday evenings.

Blood Drive planned for the Fall I wish to express our heartfelt thanks to those of you who helped plan and set up, and to those who stayed throughout the past blood drives to help. And, a special thanks to those of you who came to donate blood. As you all know, there is a constant need for blood, especially in the summer months, and we hope that you all try to donate as often as you are able. If you donate at a location other than our Temple, please use our donor site number 62531 so that B'nai Israel can get credit for the donation.

The next blood drive at our Temple is scheduled for

Monday, November 1, 2010 from 3PM-9PM.

Please continue to show your generosity and donate your time and your blood. Thanks- Your Sister- Rita D.-631 664-7968

Debby Lyons, Vice-President in charge of Temple fundraising, has given B’nai Israel members the opportunity to raise money for the Temple while having fun at the same time. During this past year, we served ice cream cones and sundaes to customers at the Sayville Carvel, ate dinner at Applebees, bought tickets to get our cars washed, purchased sweatshirts and tee shirts with the Temple logo and worked at the concession stand at Ducks’ Stadium, while at the same time raising thousands of dollars for the Temple.

I cannot tell you how much Judy and I have enjoyed working the Ducks’ games. We have already worked three games this year and we also worked three games last year. It is so heartening to see Temple members, some of whom who have not been involved in other Temple events, coming down and working at the concession stand. There is no compensation for these four or five hours of volunteer time except the knowledge that we are performing a mitzvah for our Temple and that by our work we are helping to balance our Temple budget

without asking for more financial support from our members.

In order to make the most money for the evening, we are obligated by the Ducks to have twenty-four volunteers at each game. At the last game on June 8th, we only had eighteen workers. This means that the Ducks may not give us our full percentage of our income, plus our lessened staff meant additional wait time for some customers, while others left the line completely and went to other food venues in the stadium.

B’nai Israel really needs your help. We have over 430 Temple member families, (that’s over 800 people), so there should be no reason for there not to be more than enough workers for each game!! Our Temple families also have many young adults over the age of sixteen who are eligible to volunteer, as well.

We have four more games this summer (plus the possibility of play-off games) so you still have a chance to help. Please call Lloyd Levine at 631-475-0778 or Stacey Zurbaran at 516-695-4748 and let them know which game you can work. You are performing a mitzvah while at the same time having a good time and meeting other Temple members.

A note

from the

Rabbi

3rd Annual PRE-SHABBAT PICNIC

July 9th & August 13th

Arrive between 6:00 and 6:15 pm

Please join us for a special outdoor pre-Shabbat celebration. Bring your favorite beach chairs or picnic blanket and a ready-to-eat meal. Afterwards we will have a Family Service at 7:15 pm followed by an Oneg Shabbat. It’ll be fun for the whole family! If it is rain-ing we will be eating inside the Social Hall, so please be sure to make your meal Kosher Style.

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July 9th at 6:00 pm 

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September 21, 2010 (see page 12)

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Rosh Hashanah is the New Year, and it’s time to start the year right! Come to Temple, meet “new” people, visit with “old” friends, and prepare for the Holy days ahead. Rosh Hashanah is also the time of year when we confess our sins, as individuals and as a community, and ask for forgiveness. We pray to be entered in the Book of Life for the year to come. The Rabbis understood that the introspection necessary for the “vidui” (confession of sins) requires preparation. So, the moving service of Selichot developed. For us, at B’nai Israel, Selichot has evolved into an enjoyable and meaningful evening of prayer, song, and of course, dinner. Please join us on Saturday, September 4th at 8 PM for a complete dinner catered by Woodbury Kosher Caterers. The meal will consist of stuffed cabbage, barbeque chicken, vegetables, mushroom barley, potato kugel, tossed salad, dessert, and coffee. Recession sensitive – for the third consecutive year, we are able to keep the cost at $23.50 per person. Please R.S.V.P. by calling the Temple office at 563-1660 by August 13th and return the tear-off below with your check. We also accept credit cards. Dinner will be followed by the service which will begin at about 9:30 PM. (It is not necessary to be at dinner. You may come to the service only, if you wish.)

Selichot Dinner

Selichot Dinner Reservation Form

Please mail all checks directly to and payable to B’nai Israel Reform Temple. We must have a minimum of 40 people to serve dinner, so respond ASAP (no later than 8/13/10).

Name: ______________________________________________________________ Address: ______________________________________________________________ Phone: __________________________________________ Check Enclosed ___ Yes ___ No Charge my Card Visa, MasterCard, Amex # ________________________________ Exp Date: ________ # Dinners x $23.50 = TOTAL: $_____________

Selichot Dinner, Sat. 9/04/10, 8:00 PM

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12th Annual

Rabbi Dr. Steven A. Moss Golf Outing

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

11:00 am

Rock Hill Country Club 105 Clancy Road, Manorville, NY 11949

On Tuesday, September, 21, 2010, at 11:00 am, we will be having our twelfth annual golf outing at the Rock Hill Country Club to raise funds for our Temple’s varied community services.

We offer friendship as well as material aid and services to our community in conjunction with other social service organizations in a hands-on program.

We invite you to assist us in our efforts to continue our good work by participating in the outing, donating prizes, and providing sponsorships. We need your help to ensure the success of this worthy venture. Please call the Temple office (631) 563-1660 for a brochure and a Sponsor/Journal Ad form.

Very Truly Yours, Golf Committee

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B’nai Israel Reform Temple New Year’s Card

Don’t miss out on this great opportunity to wish the entire congregation L’Shana Tova! Add your name to the Temple’s New Year’s Card which will be mailed to the entire congregation.

$10 per individual name example : Aaron Schwartz

$18 per family name examples: Aaron and Sarah Schwartz or The Schwartz Family

Additional cards will be available for $1.00 each so you can send to your friends and family.

Please contact Jeannette Berman at (631) 775-6147 if you have any questions.

Your name will be part of the design!

Your Name _______________________________________________________________________________ Phone Number __________________________Email ________________________________________________

# of individual names _______ x $10 = $__________ # of family names _______ x $18 = $__________ # of additional cards _______ x $1 = $__________ Total Due $______________________ ___ Bill Me ___ Payment Enclosed Credit Card: __Visa __MC __Amex Card Number ____________________________________ Expiration Date _____________

Please Indicate how you would like the name/s to be written on the card. PLEASE PRINT CLEARLY.

New Year’s Card Order Form

All Orders Must Be Received by August 7th

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Donations ­ We Need Your Help! Your Temple’s income from dues has fallen during the past year, leaving B’nai Israel more dependent on donations than ever. Please consider making a donation at this time. While your donation may be made to honor a special person, remember that it also helps to provide good works for a larger community.

Donations of $1000 or larger will be commemorated on an attractive new arrangement of plaques to be placed in the Temple lobby. Large donations may also be made in installments.

How to Donate: You can bring or mail a check identifying the intended fund to the Temple. You can also arrange to provide larger donations in installments. Please contact the Temple office if you have any questions. (631) 563-1660 or email [email protected]

My Own Endowment Fund?  The Temple welcomes larger donations that establish endowment funds in accordance with donor wishes. An endowment provides the Temple with long-term benefits that you specify. Endowments are publicized and often grow by attracting additional donations from others. You may name your endowment fund in honor or in memory of someone special. Please call the Temple Office at 563-1660 for further information.

Sustaining the Temple The General Fund The Building Fund The Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Adding Natural Beauty The Landscaping Fund Flower Arrangement donations Involving Our Youth The Youth Group Fund Honoring Memory The Ian Matarasso Memorial Fund The Ethan William Snair Memorial Fund The Sidney Sonkin Memorial Fund Remembering Life Events Engraved leaf on our Tree of Life Engraved plaque on the Honorial-Memorial Board Memorial plaque in the sanctuary Prayer book Sharing Music The Music Fund  Adding to the Experience The Fine Arts Fund Aiding the Community The Outreach Program The Help-a-Family Program The Shiva Fund Promoting the School The Religious School Fund The Library Fund The Scholarship Fund

Temple Funds and Sale Items 

Yahrzeits  The following names of loved ones whose Yahrzeit are observed during the preceding week will be read before the Kaddish Prayer at the Friday Evening Service on:

I.J. MORRIS, INC. Jewish Funeral Directors Since 1888

21 E. Deer Park Road , Dix Hills (631) 499-6060 55 North Station Plaza, Great Neck (516) 487-8600 46 Greenwich Street, Hempstead (516) 486-2500 1895 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn (718) 377-8610 114-03 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills (718) 263-5365 21 W. Broad Street Mt. Vernon (914) 664-2062

www.ijmorris.com Preplan—call for information Monuments by I.J. MORRIS, INC. Please Contact the Rabbi... 

Please call Rabbi Moss at (631) 472-5272 when someone is sick or if there is a death in the family so that the Temple can extend its assistance.

Before making any funeral arrangements, please call Rabbi Moss at (631) 472-5272

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Condolences The B’nai Israel Congregational Family extends its deepest condolences to the Pessah family on the loss of Nathan’s mother, Lee Pessah. The B’nai Israel Congregational Family extends its deepest condolences to the Bolson family on the loss of Toby’s husband, Alan Bolson. May they find comfort in the blessing of good memories that will always be theirs.

B'nai Israel has both Jewish and Interfaith burial plots available for its congregants and their families. If you are interested in purchasing plots, please call the Temple office and someone from the Cemetery Committee will contact you with details and answer any questions. The office number is 631-563-1660.

July 2nd  Rosaline Abrams Gregory Baker *Mary Falk Helen Tuck Fine *Anita Gertzkis *Gloria Goldson *Sol Heilbraun Louis Jacobson *Estelle Joseph *C. Robert Kowal Libby Packard Edna Perlman *Israel Rothbart *Yosef Sabah *Morris Stotsky Minnie Waldman

July 9th  Samuel Bossert Grace Cleveland *Leo Garvin Norman Goldsmith Samuel Goldsmith Felicia Hersh *David Israel Barry Paul Kimberg Louis Lehrbaum *Bert Leibowitz Evelyn Lennox

Cemetery Plots Available 

*David Levy *Edna Lewinson Jessie Lieberman Carmella Mandanici Harold Zuckerberg

July 16th  Dora Goldfarb *Morris Goldsher Henry A. Lowenberg *Allen Miller Isidore Morganlander *Dr. Arnold Schillinger *Barbara Sharman Barbara Shulman *Andrew Terrizzi Sarah Wagner

July 23rd  Alice Burstein *Max Chapoff *Philip Chapoff *Sarah Finkelstein Carol Gimplin *Miriam L. Hofstadter Joseph R. Kalen Charles Kass *Rose Leiboff Elaine Lewis Sylvia Murdock

*Irving Paskin Anna Peck *David Jonathan Peper *Richard Rubin *Joan Sands *Irving Schreiber *Arthur Schwartz Alfred Scott *Minnie Seltzer Aaron Solomon Texin Jacob Tulkop Louis Waldman

July 30th *Leonora Ainbinder *Ann Baker *Julius Baker *Harry Blumberg Murray Fink *Pauline Goldsher *Isidore Helfer *Rudolph Korten Thomas Francis Manning *Matilda Pallik David Reiter *Arthur Sacks *Ida Sattler Theda Silverman *Richard Craig Tatt

* Indicates a Memorial Plaque is lit in the sanctuary.

YOUR AD HERE contact the Temple Office if you are interested

(631) 563-1660

[email protected]

One Year Ad is $125 That’s only a little over $10 a month!

PAUL R. FEUER ATTORNEY AT LAW

• Personal Injury Cases • Real Estate • Criminal Defense •

• Traffic & DWI Defense • Wills • Estate Planning & Probate • • Small Business and Corporate Services •

99 Main Street Holbrook, NY 11741 TAYLOR RENTAL Mike Weber (631) 588-5252 FAX: (631) 588-0918

631-581-7376 Top Quality Discount Price

INVITATIONS BY YAFFA Invitations For All Occasions

Weddings, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Graduations,

Business Stationery and More

1.800.TOP.HITS absolutedjs.com

Law Offices of FEUER & FEUER 124 Medford Avenue Patchogue, NY 11772

Tel: (631) 447-1600 Fax: (631) 447-2609 www.FeuerLaw.com

[email protected]

2676 Sunrise Highway East Islip, NY 11730

(631) 277-1177

Mon-Fri 9-7 Sat 8-7 Sun 8-6

YOUR AD HERE contact the Temple Office if you are interested

(631) 563-1660

[email protected]

One Year Ad is $125 That’s only a little over $10 a month!

BE YOUR OWN GUEST

WAITERS/WAITRESSES BARTENDERS/GRILL PEOPLE

(631) 745-1180 or (631) 580-4432

YOU BE THE GUEST, WE’LL DO THE REST!!!

MITZVAH CATERERS AT THE NORTH SHORRE JEWISH CENTER

YOUR PLACE OR OURS WEDDINGS, BAR/BAT MITZVAHS, BRISSIM, BABY NAMINGS,KIDDUSHIM, SHIVA MEALS, ELEGANT

DINNER S, OFFICE, BBQS OR ANY EVENT ASK FOR ANDREW OR IRWIN (631) 928-6082

“Mitzvah caterers will gladly donate a portion of your bill back to your organization”

STRICT ORTHODOX RABBINICAL SUPERVISION

Mathematics Tutoring & Test Prep + Personalized instruction for any math class or test + College, high school or middle school math + Algebra, geometry, calculus, statistics, much more

Paul Guzzardo Jr., M.S. NYS Certified Mathematics Teacher 631-384-5365 [email protected]

SHORE PSYCHIATRIC CENTER COMPREHENSIVE SERVICES FOR CHILDREN, ADULTS AND SENIORS

RONALD J. TADDEO, MD

BOARD CERTIFIED PSYCHIATRIST MARGARET GALVIN, NPP HILARY PARENTE, LCSW MARY MACCONNELL, LCSW, BCD ERIN HAYES, LCSW JANE INDILLA-BROWN, LMSW KATHLEEN MALSKY, LMSW

CHRISTINE SADOUSKY, LMSW

4 Phyllis Drive SUITE H (631) 447-7560 PATCHOGUE, NY 11772 FAX: (631) 447-7561

Luscious Chocolate, with Personalized Ribbons

CHOCOLATE BY DESIGN INC.

Excellent service since 1979 Visit us on the web

631-737-0082

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B’nai Israel is limited to these caterers for any celebration in the Temple Social Hall. Bagels N a Hole Lot More Port Jefferson Station location (631) 474-4445

Lessing's Caterers (631) 277-7800 (631) 581-0022

Mitzvah Caterers of Plainview (516) 938-1310 (516) 351-0661

Woodbury Kosher (516) 681-7766

Zan’s Kosher Caterers (631) 979-8770

Miller Place Bagel & Deli (631) 331-7645

Temple Caterers 

Temple Directory 

President, Joel Silverman [email protected] Past President, Barbie Saslau

Vice Presidents: Buildings & Grounds, Seth Berman [email protected] Fundraising, Debby Lyons [email protected] Administration, Michael Lambert

Treasurer, Allen Kaminsky Financial Secretary, Barbara Abrams Recording Secretary, Martha Kolodkin Trustees: Jeannette Berman, Joel Brand, Arthur Diamond, Rita DiGiantomasso, Paul Fink, Ritva Gottesman, Debby Lazen, Brian Linehan, Richard Motlin, Nat Ozarin, Donna Paskin, Stephanie Plewka, Terri Randall, Ira Rosenfeld, Steve Saslau

Legal Council, Jonathan Sinnreich

Clergy 

67 Oakdale, Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769 Website www.bnai-israel.org Phone (631) 563-1660 Fax (631) 563-9816 Email [email protected]

1644 Locust Avenue, Bohemia (631) 244-9057

Bingo Hall 

Temple Office Staff 

Chairperson, Alice Lambert (631) 589-1375

Religious School Office (631) 563-1663 [email protected]

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Scheduling Fran Baker (631) 567-1537

Rabbi Dr. Steven Moss (631) 472-5272 [email protected] Cantor Ilana Plutzer [email protected]

Board of Trustees 

Committees, Groups, and other individuals to know... Choir Director, Roselyn Selmanoff

Sisterhood Co-Presidents [email protected] Rita Porwick & Phyllis Rubin

Brotherhood President, Barry Saffren

Membership Chairperson (631) 775-6147 [email protected] Jeannette Berman

Ritual Chairperson [email protected] Terri Randall

Donation Committee [email protected]

Groundskeeper, Joel Silverman Custodian, Tom Smollins

Yarmulke Orders (631) 472-1888 Harriet Jacobs (for Bar/Bat Mitzvahs and Weddings)

Outreach, Ritva Gottesman (631) 804-9545 [email protected]

Bulletin, Website, Temple e-nouncements [email protected] Jeannette Berman (631) 775-6147

Religious School 

Karen Smollins & Kim Rogers-Schade

B’nai Israel Reform Temple 67 Oakdale‐Bohemia Road 

Oakdale, NY 11769  

(631) 563‐1660  

www.bnai‐israel.org 

Non‐Profit Org. U.S. Postage 

PAID Permit No. 42 Oakdale, N.Y. 

11769 

July 9th and August 13th at 6:00 pm 

Pre‐Shabbat Picnics at the Temple prior to Family Service  

Save the Dates!