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Page 1: Are you Asking the Second Question?

GET INVOLVED IN NFI,S WORK TO ENSURE THAT EVERY CHILD HAS A 24/7 DAD™.

But are you

asking The

Second Question?

You want to help children...

SUPPORTING YOU. SUPPORTING FATHERS. SUPPORTING FAMILIES.SM

fatherhood.org/donate or to the mailing address below. Your financial support enables NFI to run its life-changing programs.

fatherhood.org

fathersource.org

blog.fatherhood.org

facebook.com/nationalfatherhoodinitiative

@thefatherfactor

fatherhood.org/signup Join NFI’s free e-newsletters to get the latest in fatherhood information and news:

Dad Email™ - NFI’s free, twice-weeklyemail service, with fatherhood advice and news

FatherSOURCE™ E-Newsletter - Bi-weeklyfatherhood product and program updates, offers, and technical assistance to help you serve fathers

Fatherhood Today E-Newsletter - Monthlyinformation and updates on the important work NFI is doing

Contact our Program Support Consultants, who can help you get the resources and training you need to serve dads— [email protected]

Become a mentor to a father or fatherless child in your community. Visit doubledutydad.org for more information.

DONATE

VISIT US

ONLINE RESOURCE

CENTER

GET INFORMED

LIKE US

TWITTER

SIGN UP

START A FATHERHOOD

PROGRAM

BECOME A DOUBLE DUTY

DAD™

20410 OBSERVATION DRIVE • SUITE 107GERMANTOWN, MD 20876

301-948-0599 • [email protected] us at www.fatherhood.org

In the typical elementary school classroom of 20 students, 7 of them—over 33%—are growing up without their biological father in the home.*

* U.S. Census Bureau. America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2011.** If his father is incarceratedAll data from Father Facts™.

I am more than 2 times as likely to have

emotional/behavioral problems

I am 2 times as likely to drop out of school

I am 2 timesas likely to

be obese

I am 4 times more likely to

live in poverty

I am 2 times as likely to be abused or neglected

I am 7 times more likely to

be incarcerated**

I am 7 times more likely to become a

pregnant teen

HERE ARE THE RISKS THEY FACE:

BEHIND EVERY STATISTIC IS A CHILD

PANTONE COLORS: 539 C / 465 C

ON-SCREEN LOOK

GREYSCALE

Page 2: Are you Asking the Second Question?

We Are A Second Question Organization

“We were thrilled to be trained in the 24/7 Dad™ program last year. It became immediately apparent that such a resource would fill a gaping hole for our service members… We are proud to be the first Navy base to implement your vision.” —Justin Thomas, Facilitator Naval Air Station Lemoore (Lemoore, CA)

“I’ve learned more from these classes than I learned in 33 years of living about being a man, owning up to responsibilities, and just being a dad. Being a dad is a wonderful thing when you really know what being a dad is all about. The 24/7 Dad™ program can teach you what being a dad is really all about.” —William, Father of 3, Baldwin County Fatherhood Initiative

“It’s addressed a huge need for the men. The InsideOut Dad™ program is well written and easily understood. It touches on important topics that I haven’t seen in other programs” —Pamela Norbeck, Facilitator, MD Dept. of Corrections, Jessup Facility (Jessup, MD).

“This is remarkable material.” —Janet Kregel, M.Ed. Iowa State University

“I wanted to thank you for your emails. As a father of three young children (girl 8, girl 4, and boy, 8 mo) it’s nice to get tips to help pull the family together. I always forward your emails to other dads I know so they can also benefit from the information.” —Dad

Most people who want to help kids ask the first question: What can I do to help that child in need? And that’s an important question.

But, if you really want to make a positive long-term difference in the life of a child, you need to ask the Second Question: How did the child get there in the first place? Why does he need my help?

More often than not, what you will find when you ask that question is that the child does not have the love, nurture, and guidance of an involved, responsible, and committed father. In fact, a child from a father-absent home is two to five times more likely to use drugs, live in poverty, fail in school, and suffer from a host of other risks.

In short, no other single factor hurts children more than father absence. Therefore, it is critical that we find ways to connect fathers to their children, heart to heart.

And that is why NFI’s work is needed and needs to be supported.

What People Are SayingNFI Gives Children Their Best Chance to Thrive Through a “Three E” Strategy of:� EDUCATING all Americans,

especially fathers, through public awareness campaigns, research, and other resources

� EQUIPPING fathers and developing leaders of national, state, and local organizations with resources, training, and technical assistance.

� ENGAGING all sectors of society through strategic alliances and partnerships.

How NFI Makes A Difference • NFI is the #1 provider of fatherhood skill-building resources.

• NFI is the #1 trainer of organizations and fatherhood practitioners.

• NFI provides the very best—researched and tested—skill-building resources for fathers, organizations, and fatherhood practitioners through its FatherSOURCE™ Resource Center.

• NFI is the most-quoted authority on fatherhood in America.

• NFI has published more studies about fatherhood than any other fatherhood or parenting organization.

See how

you can help us makea difference.

OUR MISSIONTo improve the

well-being of children by increasing the

proportion of children with involved,

responsible, and committed fathers.

Page 3: Are you Asking the Second Question?

GET INVOLVED IN NFI,S WORK TO ENSURE THAT EVERY CHILD HAS A 24/7 DAD™.

But are you

asking The

Second Question?

You want to help children...

SUPPORTING YOU. SUPPORTING FATHERS. SUPPORTING FAMILIES.SM

fatherhood.org/donate or to the mailing address below. Your financial support enables NFI to run its life-changing programs.

fatherhood.org

fathersource.org

blog.fatherhood.org

facebook.com/nationalfatherhoodinitiative

@thefatherfactor

fatherhood.org/signup Join NFI’s free e-newsletters to get the latest in fatherhood information and news:

Dad Email™ - NFI’s free, twice-weeklyemail service, with fatherhood advice and news

FatherSOURCE™ E-Newsletter - Bi-weeklyfatherhood product and program updates, offers, and technical assistance to help you serve fathers

Fatherhood Today E-Newsletter - Monthlyinformation and updates on the important work NFI is doing

Contact our Program Support Consultants, who can help you get the resources and training you need to serve dads— [email protected]

Become a mentor to a father or fatherless child in your community. Visit doubledutydad.org for more information.

DONATE

VISIT US

ONLINE RESOURCE

CENTER

GET INFORMED

LIKE US

TWITTER

SIGN UP

START A FATHERHOOD

PROGRAM

BECOME A DOUBLE DUTY

DAD™

20410 OBSERVATION DRIVE • SUITE 107GERMANTOWN, MD 20876

301-948-0599 • [email protected] us at www.fatherhood.org

In the typical elementary school classroom of 20 students, 7 of them—over 33%—are growing up without their biological father in the home.*

* U.S. Census Bureau. America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2011.** If his father is incarceratedAll data from Father Facts™.

I am more than 2 times as likely to have

emotional/behavioral problems

I am 2 times as likely to drop out of school

I am 2 timesas likely to

be obese

I am 4 times more likely to

live in poverty

I am 2 times as likely to be abused or neglected

I am 7 times more likely to

be incarcerated**

I am 7 times more likely to become a

pregnant teen

HERE ARE THE RISKS THEY FACE:

BEHIND EVERY STATISTIC IS A CHILD

PANTONE COLORS: 539 C / 465 C

ON-SCREEN LOOK

GREYSCALE

Page 4: Are you Asking the Second Question?

We Are A Second Question Organization

“We were thrilled to be trained in the 24/7 Dad™ program last year. It became immediately apparent that such a resource would fill a gaping hole for our service members… We are proud to be the first Navy base to implement your vision.” —Justin Thomas, Facilitator Naval Air Station Lemoore (Lemoore, CA)

“I’ve learned more from these classes than I learned in 33 years of living about being a man, owning up to responsibilities, and just being a dad. Being a dad is a wonderful thing when you really know what being a dad is all about. The 24/7 Dad™ program can teach you what being a dad is really all about.” —William, Father of 3, Baldwin County Fatherhood Initiative

“It’s addressed a huge need for the men. The InsideOut Dad™ program is well written and easily understood. It touches on important topics that I haven’t seen in other programs” —Pamela Norbeck, Facilitator, MD Dept. of Corrections, Jessup Facility (Jessup, MD).

“This is remarkable material.” —Janet Kregel, M.Ed. Iowa State University

“I wanted to thank you for your emails. As a father of three young children (girl 8, girl 4, and boy, 8 mo) it’s nice to get tips to help pull the family together. I always forward your emails to other dads I know so they can also benefit from the information.” —Dad

Most people who want to help kids ask the first question: What can I do to help that child in need? And that’s an important question.

But, if you really want to make a positive long-term difference in the life of a child, you need to ask the Second Question: How did the child get there in the first place? Why does he need my help?

More often than not, what you will find when you ask that question is that the child does not have the love, nurture, and guidance of an involved, responsible, and committed father. In fact, a child from a father-absent home is two to five times more likely to use drugs, live in poverty, fail in school, and suffer from a host of other risks.

In short, no other single factor hurts children more than father absence. Therefore, it is critical that we find ways to connect fathers to their children, heart to heart.

And that is why NFI’s work is needed and needs to be supported.

What People Are SayingNFI Gives Children Their Best Chance to Thrive Through a “Three E” Strategy of:� EDUCATING all Americans,

especially fathers, through public awareness campaigns, research, and other resources

� EQUIPPING fathers and developing leaders of national, state, and local organizations with resources, training, and technical assistance.

� ENGAGING all sectors of society through strategic alliances and partnerships.

How NFI Makes A Difference • NFI is the #1 provider of fatherhood skill-building resources.

• NFI is the #1 trainer of organizations and fatherhood practitioners.

• NFI provides the very best—researched and tested—skill-building resources for fathers, organizations, and fatherhood practitioners through its FatherSOURCE™ Resource Center.

• NFI is the most-quoted authority on fatherhood in America.

• NFI has published more studies about fatherhood than any other fatherhood or parenting organization.

See how

you can help us makea difference.

OUR MISSIONTo improve the

well-being of children by increasing the

proportion of children with involved,

responsible, and committed fathers.

Page 5: Are you Asking the Second Question?

We Are A Second Question Organization

“We were thrilled to be trained in the 24/7 Dad™ program last year. It became immediately apparent that such a resource would fill a gaping hole for our service members… We are proud to be the first Navy base to implement your vision.” —Justin Thomas, Facilitator Naval Air Station Lemoore (Lemoore, CA)

“I’ve learned more from these classes than I learned in 33 years of living about being a man, owning up to responsibilities, and just being a dad. Being a dad is a wonderful thing when you really know what being a dad is all about. The 24/7 Dad™ program can teach you what being a dad is really all about.” —William, Father of 3, Baldwin County Fatherhood Initiative

“It’s addressed a huge need for the men. The InsideOut Dad™ program is well written and easily understood. It touches on important topics that I haven’t seen in other programs” —Pamela Norbeck, Facilitator, MD Dept. of Corrections, Jessup Facility (Jessup, MD).

“This is remarkable material.” —Janet Kregel, M.Ed. Iowa State University

“I wanted to thank you for your emails. As a father of three young children (girl 8, girl 4, and boy, 8 mo) it’s nice to get tips to help pull the family together. I always forward your emails to other dads I know so they can also benefit from the information.” —Dad

Most people who want to help kids ask the first question: What can I do to help that child in need? And that’s an important question.

But, if you really want to make a positive long-term difference in the life of a child, you need to ask the Second Question: How did the child get there in the first place? Why does he need my help?

More often than not, what you will find when you ask that question is that the child does not have the love, nurture, and guidance of an involved, responsible, and committed father. In fact, a child from a father-absent home is two to five times more likely to use drugs, live in poverty, fail in school, and suffer from a host of other risks.

In short, no other single factor hurts children more than father absence. Therefore, it is critical that we find ways to connect fathers to their children, heart to heart.

And that is why NFI’s work is needed and needs to be supported.

always forward your emails to other dads I know so they can also benefit

—Daddads I know so they can also benefit

—Daddads I know so they can also benefit

—Dad

What People Are SayingNFI Gives Children Their Best Chance to Thrive Through a “Three E” Strategy of:� EDUCATING all Americans,

especially fathers, through public awareness campaigns, research, and other resources

� EQUIPPING fathers and developing leaders of national, state, and local organizations with resources, training, and technical assistance.

� ENGAGING all sectors of society through strategic alliances and partnerships.

How NFI Makes A Difference • NFI is the #1 provider of fatherhood skill-building resources.

• NFI is the #1 trainer of organizations and fatherhood practitioners.

• NFI provides the very best—researched and tested—skill-building resources for fathers, organizations, and fatherhood practitioners through its FatherSOURCE™ Resource Center.

• NFI is the most-quoted authority on fatherhood in America.

• NFI has published more studies about fatherhood than any other fatherhood or parenting organization.

See how

you can help us makea difference.

OUR MISSIONTo improve the

well-being of children by increasing the

proportion of children with involved,

responsible, and committed fathers.

Page 6: Are you Asking the Second Question?

GET INVOLVED IN NFI,S WORK TO ENSURE THAT EVERY CHILD HAS A 24/7 DAD™.

But are you

asking The

Second Question?

You want to help children...

SUPPORTING YOU. SUPPORTING FATHERS. SUPPORTING FAMILIES.SM

fatherhood.org/donate or to the mailing address below. Your financial support enables NFI to run its life-changing programs.

fatherhood.org

fathersource.org

blog.fatherhood.org

facebook.com/nationalfatherhoodinitiative

@thefatherfactor

fatherhood.org/signup Join NFI’s free e-newsletters to get the latest in fatherhood information and news:

Dad Email™ - NFI’s free, twice-weeklyemail service, with fatherhood advice and news

FatherSOURCE™ E-Newsletter - Bi-weeklyfatherhood product and program updates, offers, and technical assistance to help you serve fathers

Fatherhood Today E-Newsletter - Monthlyinformation and updates on the important work NFI is doing

Contact our Program Support Consultants, who can help you get the resources and training you need to serve dads— [email protected]

Become a mentor to a father or fatherless child in your community. Visit doubledutydad.org for more information.

DONATE

VISIT US

ONLINE RESOURCE

CENTER

GET INFORMED

LIKE US

TWITTER

SIGN UP

START A FATHERHOOD

PROGRAM

BECOME A DOUBLE DUTY

DAD™

20410 OBSERVATION DRIVE • SUITE 107GERMANTOWN, MD 20876

301-948-0599 • [email protected] us at www.fatherhood.org

In the typical elementary school classroom of 20 students, 7 of them—over 33%—are growing up without their biological father in the home.*

* U.S. Census Bureau. America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2011.** If his father is incarceratedAll data from Father Facts™.

I am more than 2 times as likely to have

emotional/behavioral problems

I am 2 times as likely to drop out of school

I am 2 timesas likely to

be obese

I am 4 times more likely to

live in poverty

I am 2 times as likely to be abused or neglected

I am 7 times more likely to

be incarcerated**

I am 7 times more likely to become a

pregnant teen

HERE ARE THE RISKS THEY FACE:

BEHIND EVERY STATISTIC IS A CHILD

PANTONE COLORS: 539 C / 465 C

ON-SCREEN LOOK

GREYSCALE