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CHAVC Parents Handbook
Table of Contents
1. What is CHAVC?..............................................................................2
2. Parents’ Role in a Successful Season …………………………………………….2
3. Communicating with Coaches…………………………………………………………5
3.1 Appropriate Topics of Conversation
3.2 Inappropriate Topics of Conversation
4. Sportsmanship at Matches………………………………………………………………6
5. Types of Tournaments…………………………………………………………………...10
5.1 Regional tournaments
5.2 Multi-day tournaments
Frequently Asked Questions……………………………………………………………….12
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CHAVC Parents Handbook
Congratulations and welcome to CHAVC! This handbook is designed to provide some basic
information about club volleyball and CHAVC for the parents of our players. If you are relatively
new to USAV club volleyball, you should find useful material in each section of this handbook. If
you’re a seasoned volleyball parent, please read at least Sections 2 and 3.
1. What is CHAVC?
The Chapel Hill Area Volleyball Club is a not-for-
profit corporation established in 1990. Our goals
include producing athletes with excellent technical
skills who are great teammates and who display the
highest standard of good sportsmanship.
CHAVC offers National and Regional Plus teams in
multiple age groups, and also development teams
and summer clinics for beginners. See “Teams” on www.chavc.net. We strive to be family-
friendly by accommodating multi-sport athletes as much as possible and by changing in
response to player/parent feedback. Our staff of experienced, positive coaches includes 7
current and former high school coaches, 5 middle school coaches, and 11 former college
players. See “Coaches” on www.chavc.net. (Not covered in this document: Volleymoms,
CHAVC’s popular program and teams for women).
2. Parents’ Role in a Successful Season
A club team is a partnership among players, coaches and parents. For a successful season, each
group needs to do their jobs well. While there are many books and videos about the art of
coaching, less is written about the art of being a successful club volleyball parent. This
Handbook distills some lessons learned nationally and in CHAVC to help you achieve peak
performance in your role. More resources for parents can be found at
http://www.teamusa.org/USA-Volleyball/Grassroots/Parents
In many ways, parents are the unsung heroes of club volleyball. You provide the logistical,
emotional, and financial support that makes it all possible. Each CHAVC team needs the
following support from team parents. In every area, you will be showing respect for the team
and coaches, and modeling good habits for your student athlete:
ATTENDANCE and TRANSPORTATION – help your student athlete attend all possible
practices and matches. Arrange for her to arrive 10 minutes before the scheduled practice
time so she will be ready to play on time, and pick her up within 10 minutes after practice. If
you daughter is unable to attend a practice or match, give the coach as much advance
notice as possible (normally days, not hours).
CHAVC’s Vision
inspiring excellence
fostering character
promoting teamwork
building community
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NOTE: For safety reasons, never take your child from a practice or match without making
certain that the coach knows about it and sees you walk away with her.
ENCOURAGE HARD WORK – encourage your daughter to work hard at practices and to take
the team’s time seriously. Every minute of practice time is precious!
BE PART OF A POSITIVE TEAM CULTURE - For the players, this means encouraging their
teammates and speaking positively about them and their coaches on the court, in school, at
home, and in social media. For parents, it means supporting the players, coaches, and other
parents during conversations in the car and at home. Help your daughter avoid getting
caught up in a spiral of negative thinking and talking about the team.
PROMOTE COMMUNICATION – establish early, positive contact with the coaches.
Encourage your athlete to talk with the coach about her performance and to ask questions.
Ask for mid-season parent/coach meetings. If there is an issue or concern, Club policy is that
the first step (almost always) is for the player to talk with her coaches. The coaches will try
to resolve the situation or will explain what needs to happen and why. The next step, if
needed, is for player and parent to meet with the coaches. If that doesn’t provide a
satisfactory resolution, contact CHAVC’s Director ([email protected]). Of course if there is
ever a safety or health concern, contact the coaches right away.
SUPPORT POSITIVE COACHING. Positive coaches work hard to win matches, but have
another, even more important goal: to use the sports experience to help athletes learn life
lessons and develop character traits that will help them be successful throughout their lives.
Positive coaches oppose a win-at-all-cost mentality.
Parents can support positive coaching by helping promote three principles which have the
power to transform youth sports1:
1. Redefine “winner” − Winners are athletes who give maximum effort, continue to learn
and improve, and refuse to let mistakes - or fear of making mistakes - stop them.
Parents can build this attitude by:
Telling your athlete that it’s OK to make mistakes.
Letting her know you appreciate it when she tries hard even when unsuccessful.
1 This section is adapted from PCA Parent/Guardian Letter, https://www.positivecoach.org/common/cms/documents/PCA_ParentGuardian_Letter.pdf
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Asking rather than telling. Give her openings to talk about her play rather than telling
her what you think about it. Ask open-ended questions (e.g., “What was the best part of
the game for you?”)
Encouraging her to have a brief ritual for learning from mistakes then flushing them
away.
Recognizing that mastering volleyball is hard work and is technical. Let the coaches
criticize your child’s play.
2. Fill the emotional tank − Athletes have emotional tanks that need to be filled. Research
shows that athletes do their best when they receive a Magic Ratio of 5:1 praise to
criticism. Help achieve this Magic Ratio by:
Encouraging her regardless of what happens in the game.
Trying not to give a lot of advice. After a tough game, advice can seem like criticism,
which drains a person’s emotional tank. Offer encouragement for the next match. After
tough losses, it can help to acknowledge her feelings of disappointment.
Using the “3-Pluses-and-a-Wish” technique. Before giving advice, find three good things
about your athlete’s performance. Phrase the advice as a wish. If you can’t come up
with three positives, don’t say the wish!
3. Honor the game − Let your athlete know
that you want her to honor the game by
respecting the ROOTS of positive play:
Rules− We don’t bend the rules to win.
Opponents− A worthy opponent is a gift that
forces us to play to our highest potential.
Officials− We treat officials with respect even
when we disagree.
Teammates− We never do anything that
would embarrass our team on or off the field.
Self − We live up to our own standards regardless of what others do.
Discuss the meaning of each element of ROOTS, especially with younger athletes.
Be a good role model for honoring the game. When you attend matches, cheer both
teams when exceptional plays are made. If an official makes a mistake, be silent! Use
this as an opportunity to think about how difficult it is to officiate a game perfectly.
Encourage other parents and your guests to honor the game.
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3. Communicating with Coaches2
If there is something specific that you want to talk about, it’s a good idea to make an
appointment. Head coaches have their own preferences, but often the best times to talk are
well before practice, after practice, or by phone or over coffee. Don’t expect a coach to hold a
conversation within 15 minutes before or after a practice, or at any time on tournament day.
Coaches have responsibilities during those times that you might not be aware of.
3.1 Appropriate Topics of Conversation between Parents and Coaches
Your child’s health and well-being – Let us know if you have any health or learning
concerns about your student athlete, e.g., a stress that might be affecting her
performance; an injury or health condition; any history of concussions.
Your positive experiences with the club/team/coaches – We are always happy to have
our emotional tanks filled!
Fun information about your athlete – We care about your kids, too. We want to get to
know them on and off the court. Feel free to get to know us.
Your willingness to help out – If you are interested in being the Team Manager,
coordinating food or transportation, taking video, or providing some other service for
the team or the Club, please speak up! Each team also has a designated Chaperone.
Your constructive criticism – CHAVC provides formal opportunities for evaluations
through player/parent surveys at mid-season and end-of-season. You can also offer ad
hoc suggestions for improving the club, the team, or our coaching, by writing to your
head coach and/or [email protected]. If you have a complaint or issue about the team
or the coaching, discuss them with your daughter first. She might disagree or have some
information that may clarify the situation that concerns you. After that, follow the
grievance procedure outlined in Section 2 under “PROMOTE COMMUNICATION.” We all
have the same goal—a successful CHAVC experience.
If something serious is wrong – Please tell us IMMEDIATELY. Your child’s well-being is
our No. 1 concern. If there is anything going on to threaten that, we need to know.
2 Thanks and a hat tip to the Minnesota Select and IC Stars volleyball clubs for permission to use ideas and text in this section.
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3.2 Inappropriate Topics of Conversation between Parents and Coaches
Playing time/role on the team – If your daughter is receiving playing time consistent
with CHAVC norms (i.e., some playing time in each match, not equal playing time), and
she hasn’t discussed her playing time or her role on the team with the coach, it is
inappropriate for you to do so. Encourage your daughter to talk with her coach about
what she can do to help the team and to earn more court time, or encourage her to ask
the coach to more clearly define her role on the team. If there are still concerns, a
conversation with the coach, parent, and player may be appropriate. Request a meeting
with the coach. The coach must be told the topic beforehand, and the player must be
present at the meeting unless there is a very good reason for her not to be. If this
meeting is not productive, only at that time is it appropriate for the Club Director to
attend a meeting with parent, coach, and player.
Coaching strategy—In general, player rotations, coaching tactics, match strategies, etc.
are the coach’s decision and parents’ opinions on these subjects will not be discussed.
We understand that everyone will not always like the decisions we make; however, for
the good of the team we ask that you accept them.
Other people’s children — Your opinion of another player’s attitude, skill, performance,
or conduct is typically not an appropriate topic of conversation with the coach. That is
not to say that parents can never bring concerns about other players to the coaches.
Please do let us know when you have a genuine concern about team dynamics — e.g.,
your daughter and another player are not speaking, and you think it important for the
coach to know; or if there is a health or safety concern. Please use your best judgment
here.
4. Sportsmanship at Matches
If you haven’t been to a club volleyball tournament, you are in for quite an experience. They are
exciting and fun for players, parents, and coaches. Tournaments also present some challenges.
Experienced volleyball parents and coaches know how difficult it can be to remain cool and
calm when they disagree with judgment calls during tight matches, or when they detect
possible scorekeeping errors. It’s a true test of self-control.
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All fans are bound by a code of conduct at volleyball matches. The range of acceptable fan
behavior is more restrictive in juniors volleyball than in most sports because:
Student athletes are part of the work teams in USAV-sanctioned matches. They should not
be subjected to any type of verbal criticism from fans. Officiating and scorekeeping are
challenging tasks. Note the complexity of the USAV score-sheet for ages 12U through
adults—see the “Two Sets on One Page” score-sheet on the next page and at
http://www.carolinaregionvb.org/scoresheets
Volleyball referees (adult or junior) must remaining stationary and cannot move away from
taunting fans.
A team can be penalized for misbehavior by a fan, and the fan can be ejected. This happens
every season in North Carolina. Depending on the severity of the infraction, the Carolina
Region/USAV can extend that sanction for the remainder of the season or longer. CHAVC fans
have a good reputation around the State. No CHAVC parent has ever been ejected, but a few
incidents over the years have resulted in warnings. Let’s keep the Club’s reputation intact and
avoid embarrassing our players.
Examples of behavior that can result in fans or their teams being sanctioned:
a) Making inappropriate comments to officials (adult or junior) over faults called or not called.
b) Making inappropriate comments to line judges about calls made. c) Making inappropriate remarks to participants on the court. d) Approaching the scorer’s table or referee stand during play to complain about what is
shown on the scoreboard or faults called or not called. e) Expressing extensive disagreements with Tournament Directors or Officials concerning
tournament procedures, formats, playoff seeding, or any tournament matter. Ideally, only the Head Coach should approach the Tournament Director to discuss tournament administration matters during an event.
From the Carolina Region USAV website: carolinaregionvb.org CHAVC further asks fans to refrain from yelling instructions to our players or talking to workers from other teams. Do say “good job” after a match if you are so inclined. Please, no flash photos during matches.
Tournament days are exciting but long. Make the commitment for your student athlete to stay
with her team all day. If you leave with her without notifying the coach in advance and
obtaining her/his permission, CHAVC will place the athlete on suspension pending evaluation by
the Club Director. (Unexpected departures have happened, putting those teams in difficult
situations. Otherwise we wouldn’t mention it).
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So You Want to be a Better Spectator? John Kessel, USA Volleyball Director of Sport Development
Far more than the winning and losing are the lessons learned in the process of
tournament play. To quote Socrates, “I believe that we cannot live better than in seeking
to become still better than we are.” The sport of volleyball is unique in its core
cooperative nature and its strength in building character. The ability to cooperate is far
more important to human survival than the ability to compete. Success is a journey, not a
destination. “Winning and losing are temporary, but friendships last forever” is a Chinese
proverb of great truth. We ask that your role from the sidelines and stands match that
which we are developing through our coaching education programs and training. Thanks
for working as part of this Junior Olympic Volleyball program by conducting yourself within
these guidelines.
Rule Number 1. Keep positive support, encouragement, cheerleading and general hollering
and yelling to a maximum on the sidelines.
When players are working hard, they need and deserve everyone’s best positive
encouragement and support. They need to know you are there. Most teams have a tough
enough time developing a sense of teamwork and achievement as they are also
developing their own individual experience and skill. They do not need to hear your
anxiety piled on top of their own when the game is going poorly.
Rule Number 2. Just one word on criticizing players, coaches or referees: DON’T.
Publicly criticizing players on your team can really hurt morale. They will already have an
excellent idea, from all the practicing they have already done, as to their errors. They do
not need reminders from their families, friends and other spectators. The players for the
other team are also doing their best and are probably no more aggressive than the players
on your team. Criticism is simply poor sportsmanship and leads to unnecessarily bad
feelings on and off the playing area. The spectacle of an adult shouting insults at a child or
another adult is disgusting. Volleyball is a game, not a war.
When the opponents make a great play, give them positive encouragement too.
The referees are making judgment calls on each and every contact and will err at times,
though usually far less than the best player on the team you are cheering for. Referees
may make mistakes, but they never make a bad call in their heart. The referee might
ignore you, but also has the right to ask you to leave the playing area. Either situation is at
best distracting from the most important thing going on, the players’ competition.
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The author of “So You Want to be a Better Spectator?” (text box), John Kessel, has coached
National teams and his own daughter’s club teams, and has trained thousands of volleyball
coaches worldwide. His blog is a great read: http://www.teamusa.org/usa-
volleyball/grassroots/grow-the-game-blog
5. Types of Tournaments
5.1 Regional tournaments
The Carolina Region of USA Volleyball hosts one-day tournaments at different sites around the
state. To decrease travel, North Carolina is divided into East and West regions. We are in the
East region, which covers the eastern half of the state; the divide is near Greensboro. Some
recent statewide totals: 12U age group, 66 teams; 13U, 100 teams; 14U, 140 teams.
Before each tournament, the Region posts the pools on its website. For an 8-team tournament,
there will be 2 pools of 4 teams. Twelve-team tournaments are also common, with 3 pools.
Each team in a pool plays the other teams once and “works” 1 or 2 matches. The work consists
of scorekeeping and officiating for matches between other teams. At the end of pool play, the
top 2 teams in each pool advance to the championship round. Usually there are semifinal and
championship matches, but sometimes quarterfinals are necessary. By the end of the
competition, the two finalists will have played 5 or 6 matches in one day. The structure of
playoff rounds is shown at:
http://www.carolinaregionvb.org/admin/modules/page_editor/uploads/file/juniortournament
s/2011playoffbrackets.pdf
Warmups for the first match begin by 8:45am, so the players need to arrive at the site by about
8:15 am (or whatever the coach says). This time allows everyone the chance to prepare for pool
play. The parents organize a camping area with healthy food and places for the players to relax
when they are not playing or working a match. Depending on the tournament site, the camp
may include a food table inside or outside the facility. The players get ready and warm up. Once
play begins, the players do not have much down time. Parents might want to bring a book or
something to do while their athletes are working as scorekeepers, referees, and line judges.
Pool play is usually over by 3pm. The championship round is usually over by 7pm.
The dates for your team’s Regional tournaments are posted on the CHAVC Team Sheet at
www.chavc.net. Your coach will provide updates and instructions.
See also the complete Regional schedule at: http://www.carolinaregionvb.org/juniorindoorschedule
In CHAVC, parents are responsible for providing all transportation to/from practices and
tournaments. The coach will prepare a contact list that can be helpful in forming carpools.
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5.2 Multi-day tournaments
Most CHAVC teams also attend tournaments that last 2 or 3 days. Each day, your team will
compete in either the morning wave (e.g., 9 am to 3 pm) or the afternoon wave (3 pm to 9 pm).
Each team competes in a 4-team pool determined by ranking all the teams. This means that at
most multi-day tournaments, each team only plays 3 matches per day (although sometimes a
4th match is necessary). Teams are re-ranked overnight and the playing schedule is released one
day at a time. A team may change waves for the next day’s schedule. The schedule is posted on
the tournament’s website by late evening, sometimes earlier. NOTE: At multi-day
tournaments, the sponsors generally charge fans an admission fee.
The teams arrive at the venue about an hour before their wave begins. Most multi-day
tournaments do not allow outside food to be brought into the venue. The teams play their
pools on one court, like a regional tournament. The players have limited down time; parents
have free time when the players are working other matches.
Most multi-day tournaments are “stay to play”, which means that the tournament requires
teams to stay in hotels selected by the tournament. Each team must occupy a certain number
of hotel nights to be eligible to play in the tournament. Most CHAVC players stay with their
parents during multi-day tournaments. According to USAV, stay-to-play has resulted in reduced
hotel costs for volleyball teams.
Parents are not required to attend all tournaments, Regional or multi-day. Considerable cost
savings can be seen by skipping one or more multi-day tournaments. CHAVC’s coaches will help
arrange hotel rooms for players whose parents will not be attending a tournament. Often that
involves sharing a room with another player and her mom.
Long tournament days require stamina and energy. One essential element to success is
ensuring players eat healthy food throughout the tournament. Another is a good night’s sleep.
Encouraging healthy habits helps the team reach its potential.
Teams often eat together during the tournament to encourage team bonding.
Most of the information you’ll need regarding out-of-state tournaments will be provided by
your head coach. See also the web site for each individual tournament.
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Frequently Asked Questions
1. I am totally unfamiliar with volleyball. What do I need to know to be able to watch the
matches and understand what is going on?
Here is a useful video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRYhZw_swuc A few rules
mentioned in this video are being changed for 2015-17. For the official
Indoor Volleyball Rules – over 250 pages of them(!) -- see: http://www.ncva.com/downloads/Referee%20Rule%20Book%20-%20Indoor.pdf
2. Besides transportation to and from practice, what else is expected of a parent?
Parents play a vital role in the club volleyball experience. In addition to logistical support for
dozens of practices, parents drive to tournaments, provide healthy food, cheer and provide
emotional support, among many other things. And let’s not forget paying for the season!
Reading Sections 2 and 3 of this Handbook will also help answer the question “What can I
do to support my player at home?”
3. What is expected of a player?
As explained above, we expect our athletes to:
Honor the Game by showing respect for rules, opponents, officials, team, and self
(ROOTS). Exhibit behavior that reflects positively on the team, the Club, and of course the
parents.
Be supportive and respectful of teammates and coaches. Encourage teammates on the
court; speak positively about them off the court, in texting, on social media, and at
home. Take care of each other.
Make good use of every precious minute of practice time. This means focusing and
working hard during practices, listening to the coaches and trying what they ask (the
first time) and coming to practice with an “I want to learn” mindset.
Follow any team rules set by the coaches.
Attend every possible practice and match
4.What are appropriate topics for talks with the coach, and when is a good time to talk? How
can I resolve issues with the team or coach?
See Sections 2 and 3 of this Handbook. Parents should establish early, positive contact with
the coaches. Ask for mid-season parent/coach meetings. Encourage your athlete to talk
with the coach about her performance and to ask questions. Our coaches try to be alert to
potential problems, but in all sports issues can arise regarding playing time, other players’
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attitudes, the coach's style etc. When there is an issue or concern, Club policy is that the
first step (almost always) is for the player to talk with her coaches. The coaches will try to
resolve the situation or will explain what needs to happen and why. The next step, if
needed, is for player and parent to meet with the coaches. If that doesn’t provide a
satisfactory resolution, contact CHAVC’s Director ([email protected]). Of course if there is
ever a safety or health concern, the parent should contact the coaches right away. Similarly,
parents of a young player should go to the coach directly if the player is not able to
understand or communicate the issue herself.
5. Can you tell me more about the coaches and their qualifications?
We are proud of our staff. See Coaches on the Club website, www.chavc.net
6. What about playing time in matches?
Each player in good standing will receive plenty of attention and training in CHAVC’s
practices. Across the country, playing time in tournaments is probably the top issue raised
by parents of junior club players. For the sake of your daughter’s team, it’s important that
you accept the coach’s decisions about playing time, because the coach is in a far better
position to know which combination of players has the best chance of winning a match.
Any player is entitled to ask the coach what she can do to help the team and earn more
playing time.
Most competitive clubs make no promises about playing time. A few players on a team
might sit on the bench all day at a tournament. CHAVC has found that it’s possible to field
competitive teams while still providing significant playing time in every tournament. Players
in good standing receive some playing time in each match, but not equal playing time. A
player in good standing is one who attends almost all practices and tournaments, works
hard in practice, respects and works well with her teammates and coaches, and is up-to-
date on club dues.
7. How can I find out about the specific tournaments and gear for my daughter’s team?
Check out the appropriate team sheet on www.chavc.net under “Teams.” Note: please air-
dry your jerseys . In a pinch, they can be tumble dried on low heat if carefully monitored.
Dryer heat can ruin today’s high-tech jerseys!
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8. What should my player have in her backpack for tournaments?
Your athlete needs to bring both of her jerseys and her black spandex shorts, shoes, socks,
knee pads, ankle protection (optional) and water bottle. She will need scorekeeping
supplies, including her whistle, and personal supplies like lip balm, deodorant, inhalers,
other medications, etc. It’s a good idea to stick a favorite energy bar or snack in her
backpack. If there won’t be a team food table, find out if the tournament venue has decent
food, or pack her lunch.
9. What about shoes and ankle protection?
Volleyball shoes are the best choice, although some basketball or tennis shoes are okay too.
Running shoes are not made for the sideways and jumping movements of volleyball. Volleyball
shoes start at around $60. More expensive shoes may provide better support. Mizuno and
Asics are well-known brands. Athletes who play volleyball for their schools and for a club
should get new shoes at least once a year.
If you are a blocker, have weak ankles, or have had an injury, it’s a good idea to wear ankle
protection such as the ASO (soft) or Active Ankle (semi-rigid) braces. For more information
write to [email protected] Limited studies have shown that ankle protection can significantly
reduce serious ankle injuries in volleyball players. Most college teams wear ankle protection.
10. Why aren’t parents allowed to help on the court during practices and tournaments?
Like most clubs, CHAVC obtains insurance through USAV. That policy requires that the only
adults on the court or sidelines be USAV members who are vetted and cleared as junior-team
coaches or team chaperones.
Questions or comments about CHAVC or this Handbook? Please write to
Enjoy the season!