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FindingPassionandPurposeinLife:TheSixSecretSteps
ByBrentScarpowww.brentscarpo.com
760-831-5315
WhoisBrentScarpo?
• BrentScarpohasmorethan25yearsofexperienceasaspeaker,educator,producer,writer,directorandactorinHollywood.Heservedasacas>ngdirectorforsuchwell-knownfilmsasAirForceOne,ThatThingYouDo,TheShawshankRedemp>onandMa>lda.
• Recently,Brentwaschosenoutof100,000entriesforTheToday
Show’swri>ngcontest,“EveryoneHasAStory”wherehisinspira>onal,lifechangingstory,TheRedBalloonwasselectedasthewinner,provingtherewasaheaven.Currently,ScarpoisaSpeakerandLifeCoach.
• BrentbelievesthatEVERYONEhasapassionandpurposeinlife
andthekeytofindingitisunearthingthe“blocks”thatkeepusfrombecomingwhowewereborntobeandallowingourdreams,goalsandaspira>onstocometrue.
Now:WhoAreYou?
• Overthenext75minutes,thisprogramisaboutYOU!BythePmewearefinished,youwillbeSTEPSclosertofindingyourtruePASSIONandPURPOSEinLifeorinsomecases,reigniPngthePASSIONthatsomehowhaseludedyou.
• Let’sBegin…
WhatIsYourFavoriteHoliday?
• Tellmeyourfavoriteholiday?• Whyisthisyourfavoriteholiday?• Now,letmetellyoumyfavoriteholiday?
MyFavoriteHolidayIsYourBIRTHDAY.
• Doyoucelebrateyourself?• Daily?• Weekly?• Monthly?• Or,justonyourbirthday?
Secret#1
• INVITEPERSONALGROWTHINTOYOURLIFEDAILY• NowExercise:Writedown5imaginarylives.Whatother“lives”wouldyouliketoberightnow?
• HomeExercise:Createajournalandonthetopofthefirstpagewrite,WHYWASIBORN?TrytojournaleachdaytheanswertothisquesPon,evenifyoudon’thaveone.
TimeToMakeAWish…
WeALLDeserveWISHES!!
Secret#2
Howmanyofyouhaveflownonaplane?
• Whereisthefarthestyou’veflown?• Wheredidyougo?• Whataboutthatoxygenmask?
WhatisSecret#2
• YoumustcareforYOURSELFFIRST,beforeCARINGFOROTHERS.
Secret#3
WhatIsYourStory?
• ThePOWERoftheSTORYisoneoftheKEYcomponentsoffindingPASSIONandPURPOSEinlife.ItistheSTORIEStoldtousthatcandirectustowhatwemostdesireinlife.
• Letmegiveyouanexample:
CollegeGraduaPonw/Mom
Secret#3
• FillyourTHIMBLEwithLOVE,CARE&RESPECT.
• NowExercise:List5waysthatyouaremeantoyourself.Yes,writethemdownnow.
• HomeExercise:RestateeachoneoftheaboveintoaposiPveandcreateoneacPonstepforoneofthembytheendoftheweek.
• Example:Ismokecigareies.• AcPonStep:Iwilltryhypnosistoquit.
Secret#4
• YouhavetoPRACTICESecrets1,2&3before4willappearandnothisisnotSecret#4.
THISISSECRET#4
• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!• DOEVERYTHINGINLIFEWITHPASSION!!!
HowDoesSecret#4Appear?
• AdoptthenextfiveconceptsandPASSIONwillappearinyourlife.
• 1.Listentoyourinnerchild.• 2.SeekHelp.• 3.Writedownyourdreams,goals&aspiraPons.
• 4.Volunteer.• 5.GiveItAGoanditwillAPPEAR.
WhatDoesPassionFEELLike?
That’sPASSION!
• Atage,47SusanBoyledaredtoDreamherDream.Sheevensangaboutit.
• In2016,atage55,magazine,PeoplewithMoneynamedSusanBoyletheTOPPAIDSINGERthatyearwithesPmatedearningsof96milliondollars.
• What’syourDream?Howlongwillyouwait?
Secret#5
• LifeisaboutcreaPngHARMONY,notBALANCE.
• YES,LifeisaboutHarmony.ConsideryourLIFEasasong.
• YOUaretheCONDUCTOR.It’suptoyoutobringtogetherthevarioussecPonsofyourorchestrainaunifiedHARMONYcreaPngyourpersonalsong.
MoreonSecret#5
• NowExercise:DrawacircleanddrawanXinthecirclewithathirdlineinthecentergoingfromlentoright.ItshouldlooklikeaPIECHARTwithsixpieces.
PIECHARTEXAMPLE
LabelThePieChartPieces
• EachPiePiecewillhaveitsOWNlabel.• 1.Health/Exercise• 2.Work/Career• 3.Friends/Family• 4.Spirituality• 5.Play• 6.Romance/Adventure
Next…
• PlaceaDOT(.)oneachPIEPIECEforatotalofSIXDOTSbasedonthefollowingcriteria:
• IfyouaretotallysaPsfiedwithwhatthePiepiecerepresentsforyouinyourlife,thenplacethe(.)onthemostouterpartofthePiepieceorwhatwouldbethecrust.IfyouaretotallyunsaPsfied,place(.)towardsthecenter,orsomewherebetweenthetwoareas.
• DothisforALLsixpiecesofpie.• NowconnecttheDOTS.
ItmightlooklikeaTarantula
EvenMoreOnSecret#5
• HomeExercise:TakealookattheareathatyouhavetheLEASTsaPsfacPonandcreatethreeACTIONSTEPSthisweekthatwillmoveyourdotclosertotheoutsideofyourpiewithmoresaPsfacPon.
Secret#6
• LEAVEALEGACY!• 1.WhatLegacyareyougoingtoleaveontheplanet?
• 2.Howdoyouwanttoberemembered?• 3.WhatcanyoudoTODAYtostartthatlegacy?
LifeIsShort…
• Wedon’tthinkaboutleavingalegacy.• Wedon’tthinkaboutitbecauseitrequiresustorealizethat
onedaywewilldie.• 9/11,War,PersonalTragediesareremindersthatweneedto
leavealegacy.• DoNowExercise:TombstoneExercise.Ononesideofapiece
ofpaperwritedownhowyouwanttoberememberedonyourtombstone.Ontheback,writedownyouDON’Twanttoberemembered.
• HaveFUNwiththisExercise!!Yes,Isaid,HAVEFUN!!
REALLIFETOMBSTONES
Ripley's-1890-1949-"IDied...BelieveorNot!!”
More…
• JohnBrown–DenPstinTexas–“Stranger!Approachthisspotwithgravity!JohnBrown
isfillinghislastcavity."
AndMore…
• JohnDrydenonhiswifetombstone-(1631-1700)
• “Beneaththisstonemywifedothlie.Nowshe'satrestandsoamI.”
ButWait…
AnanonymoustombstoneinTexassimplyreads.."ItoldyouIwassick.”
Yep…
• HarryEdselSmithofAlbany,NewYorktombstonereads"Lookeduptheelevatorshantoseeifthecarwasonthewaydown.
Itwas."
AndFinally…
• MelBlanc-ManofaThousandVoices,BugsBunny,DaffyDuck
MelBlanc’sTombstonereads…
"That'sAllFolks"
Passion+Legacy=FUN!FUN!FUN!
TheSixSecretSteps
• 1.InvitePersonalGrowthinyourlifeeachday.• 2.Careforyourselffirst,beforecaringforothers.• 3.Love,Care&RespectYourself.• 4.DoEVERYTHINGwithPASSION!• 5.CreateHarmonyinyourLife.• 6.LeaveaLegacyforthoseyouLove&Serve.
Q&A?
• ForSpeakingEngagements,PersonalCoachingand/oryourFREEPersonalStrategicConsulta>on,pleasecontactBrentScarpoat760-831-5315orbrent@brentscarpo.comwithmoreinforma>onatwww.brentscarpo.com.
