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    Coping with stressHow to manage stress and help your heart

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    Stress and your heart health

    Everyday lie brings with it challenges andunexpected events. These situations cansometimes be described as stressul. Mosto us have experienced a level o stress atsome time or other in our lives. Stress isa normal part o everyday lie.

    But one persons experience o stress can be another persons

    relaxation. Some people thrive on stress, while others nd it dicult

    to cope with. How you deal with stressul situations can have a

    signicant impact on your heart health, and your general health too.

    The inormation, practical tips, quizzes and action points in this

    booklet will help you understand more about stress and how it

    could aect your heart health, and what you can do about it.

    The booklet looks at:

    how stress can aect your heart

    how to nd your key stress points the areas o your lie that

    are most stressul or you

    how to recognise when you are eeling stressed

    how some people deal with stress

    how to plan what you can do about stress, and

    where to go or more inormation and help.

    As a leading provider o Group Protection policies or employers, Legal & General

    is pleased to support this booklet. For more inormation on Legal & Generals

    Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) policy, please see page 79.

    For more inormation on Group Protection policies and services, please call

    0845 072 0751 or email [email protected]

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    ContentsWhat is stress? 3

    How stressed are people in the UK? 5How is stress linked to heart disease? 7

    When and how could stress be harmul? 8

    How does stress aect the risk o getting heart disease? 13

    Stress and health or people who have heart problems 24

    Depression, stress and heart disease 27

    What makes you stressed? 31

    Work 32

    Money problems 34Relationships 34

    Major lie events 35

    Time pressure

    Loneliness and social isolation 35

    How stressed are you? 37

    Not sure i youre stressed? 39

    Quiz Am I stressed? 42

    Keep a diary 45

    What can you do about stress? 51

    Avoid the sources o your stress 52

    Change how you respond to stressul situations 53

    Make changes to your liestyle to help reduce the eects

    o stress on your body 55

    Plan your stress-busting activities or the week 65

    The stress chain

    Getting help 70

    Where to go or more inormation 72

    How the British Heart Foundation can help you 74

    Index 80

    Contents

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    3What is stress?

    What is stress?

    Stress is a normal part o lie and weall experience it rom time to time.Day-to-day rustrations like trac jamsor noisy neighbours, as well as signicantlie changes like moving house or beingmade redundant, or long-term situationssuch as constant nancial worries orunemployment, can all contribute toour stress levels.

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    The term stress is used to describe the state you maysometimes experience when everything seems toomuch. You may eel overloaded and unable to meetall the demands placed on you. For example, you may

    have to juggle the demands o your job and amilyresponsibilities as well as looking ater an elderly parent orsomeone with a long-term illness, making it all too much.

    There are some positive aspects to stress. The rightamount o pressure may make you eel energetic andable to change up a gear when necessary. But toomuch stress, or stress which lasts too long, can lead to

    emotional, psychological and even physical problems.

    It is not unusual to eel pressure both at work and athome. But excessive pressure can lead to a build-upo stress which can make us less ecient and poor atmaking decisions, and could lead to ill health.

    Everyone nds dierent things stressul and canexperience dierent signs and symptoms as a result.

    How you cope with pressure is aected by manyactors, including how much support is available romthose around you, and your personal coping

    strategies. Some people nd certain stressulsituations exhilarating, and may actually thrive on theexcitement that comes with high-risk activities.

    There is an optimum point where you haveenough pressure to perorm, but not so much that youget overloaded. Everyones optimum point is dierent,and learning where yours is can be important inhelping you to manage your own stress levels.

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    5What is stress?

    How stressed are people in the UK?

    Research shows that one in our people in the UK

    will suer some kind o mental health problem inthe course o a year. Most o these people suer romanxiety and depression, much o it stress-related.Most report that they worry constantly, or worry abouta lot o things, leading to sleepless nights, poor eatinghabits and oten to higher alcohol consumption.

    All these things can have a proound impact onhealth and wellbeing. Stress-related conditions arenow the most common reported cause o sicknessabsence rom work in the UK (see pages 3233).

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    7How is stress linked to heart disease?

    How is stress linked toheart disease?

    The natural response to a physical threatis known as the ght or ight response.Your body reacts to the threat by releasinghormones, such as adrenaline, which

    prepare your body to respond to thethreat or challenge, either by ghtingor running away.

    Fats and sugars are released into theblood to provide us with the extra energy

    we may need to respond to the challenge.Your muscles tense ready or action andyour heart beats aster to carry blood tothe muscles and the brain where it is mostneeded. You then breathe aster, sweat

    more and your mouth becomes dry.

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    When and how couldstress be harmul?

    Our bodies oten react to emotional stress in just

    the same way as i we are aced with a physical threat.You may be having a heated disagreement in a shopover some aulty goods, but your body may eel asi you are having a lie-and-death struggle witha wild animal.

    Circumstances and general pressures o lie can leadto a build-up o stress. I the level o stress becomesunmanageable, it can lead to unhealthy liestylebehaviours that could be damaging to your hearthealth. For example, you may eel that, in order tocope, you smoke or drink more, eat unhealthy oodas a orm o comort, or take medication. (We explainmore about these on pages 1323.) Stress can also

    have unwanted physical and emotional eects andmake us eel drained or unwell.

    To understand how stress can aect your heart, ithelps to know what coronary heart disease is andwhat increases the risk o getting the disease. SeeWhat is coronary heart disease? below.

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    9How is stress linked to heart disease?

    What is coronary heart disease?

    Coronary heart disease occurs when the coronary

    arteries the arteries that bring oxygen-rich blood toyour heart muscle become blocked or narrowedbecause o atty deposits called atheroma.

    Angina is the discomort that occurs when your heartdoes not get enough blood and oxygen, because thecoronary arteries have become narrowed. An angina

    attack can be brought on by physical activity oremotional stress, or it can sometimes happen whenyou are resting.

    I a piece o atheroma in the wall o a coronary arterywall cracks, a blood clot orms to try to heal the area.This blood clot may block the coronary artery, causingpart o the heart to be starved o oxygen-rich blood.This is a heart attack.

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    11How is stress linked to heart disease?

    What increases the risk ogetting heart disease?

    There are several risk actors that increase the risko getting coronary heart disease. (A risk actor issomething which increases your chance o getting thedisease.) There are some risk actors or heart diseasethat you can do something about, and some thatyou cannot change.

    The risk actors or heart disease that you cando something about are:

    smoking

    high blood pressure

    high cholesterol

    being physically inactive

    being overweight, and

    having diabetes.

    The risk actors you cant change include:

    having a amily history o premature heart disease

    ethnic origin age, and

    gender.

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    13How is stress linked to heart disease?

    How does stress aect the risko getting heart disease?

    There are many theories on how stress could berelated to and increase the risk o getting coronaryheart disease. The research does not show a directlink between stress and heart disease, but it hasidentied how stress can have an impact on therisk actors or the disease such as high bloodpressure, high cholesterol levels, being overweightand being inactive.

    Also, some research studies have suggested thatstressul situations lead to the release o hormonesthat encourage the ormation o clots in the blood.

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    High blood pressure

    High blood pressure (hypertension) increases your risko developing coronary heart disease, having a strokeor having kidney disease. The cause o most high

    blood pressure is not clear, but the ollowing can allcontribute: being overweight, eating too much salt,drinking too much alcohol, and physical inactivity.

    Stress and high blood pressure

    Being in a pressured environment can make your bloodpressure go up. This is a normal response and your

    blood pressure should return to a normal level oncethe situation is resolved. Things that cause prolongedpressure like nancial worries or strain at work maycontribute to longer-term high blood pressure.

    Managing your stress levels will not prevent you romgetting high blood pressure. However, how you cope

    and deal with the added stress can have either apositive or negative eect on your stress and bloodpressure levels. For example:

    A positive eect: Doing some orm o physicalactivity such as going or a brisk walk, or going tothe gym can help to relieve the stress and lower

    your blood pressure.A negative eect: Smoking or drinking more, orcomort eating, may eel like temporary stress-relievingactivities, but in the long term these will have a negativeimpact on your general health and your heart health too.

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    15How is stress linked to heart disease?

    High cholesterol

    Cholesterol plays a vital role in how the cells in our

    body unction. But too much cholesterol in the bloodincreases the risk o getting heart disease.

    There are two types o cholesterol:

    LDL (low density lipoproteins) is the harmul type ocholesterol. This is sometimes called LDL cholesterol.

    HDL (high density lipoproteins) is a protective type

    o cholesterol. It is sometimes called HDL cholesterol.

    The goal is to have a low level o LDL and a highlevel o HDL cholesterol.

    The most common cause o high LDL blood

    cholesterol levels in the UK is eating too much at,especially saturated at. Not being physically activecan also play a part. Occasionally, people can havehigh levels due to an inherited condition.

    Stress and cholesterol

    There is evidence that, or some people, stress can have

    an impact on their cholesterol levels. However, moreresearch is needed to understand the relationshipbetween stress and the rise in cholesterol levels.

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    Diabetes

    Currently, 2.4 million people in the UK have beendiagnosed with diabetes but it is estimated that by2015 that gure will have increased to between

    3 and 4 million.

    Having diabetes increases your risk o getting heartdisease, so it is important to understand what yourrisk o getting diabetes is and do what you can toavoid getting it. I you already have diabetes,controlling your blood sugar will help to reduce your

    risk o getting heart disease. For more on diabetes,see our booklet Diabetes and your heart.

    Stress and diabetes

    Stressul experiences such as divorce or workplacestress can increase the risk o getting diabetes,especially or people who may already have a amily

    history o diabetes. Some studies show that men whosuer rom stress are twice as likely to developdiabetes, while women with high stress levels are notat higher risk. Stress may also have an eect on howwell diabetes can be controlled.

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    17How is stress linked to heart disease?

    Being overweight

    Being overweight is not only a risk actor or heart

    disease, but also increases your risk o gettingdiabetes and some cancers.

    Keeping to a healthy weight, or losing weighti youre overweight, can:

    lower blood pressure

    help to control blood sugar levels which is

    particularly important or people with diabetes control blood cholesterol levels, and

    ease lower back pain and joint pain.

    An eective way to manage weight is to combineregular physical activity with healthy eating habits.

    Stress and weight

    When you are under stress, your body releases highlevels o a hormone called cortisol, which leads tostrong ood cravings, especially or high-sugar andhigh-at oods. Eating these oods helps release

    serotonin, which is known to lit your mood. However,cortisol is also associated with an increase in depositso at in the area o the abdomen.

    You may nd that you cope with stress by over-eatingor comort eating. This is only a temporary solution torelieve stress, and can lead to weight gain andincrease the risk o getting type 2 diabetes andcoronary heart disease.

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    Smoking

    Smoking is a major risk actor or coronary heartdisease. Smokers have nearly twice the risk ohaving a heart attack compared with those who

    have never smoked. Recreational tobacco smoking,such as shisha smoking, can have the same harmuleects as smoking cigarettes or a pipe.

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    19How is stress linked to heart disease?

    Stress and smoking

    Do you smoke to help ease the eelings o stress? Youmay think smoking helps you to relax and cope with

    the added pressure. But in act thats not the case. Whenyou inhale the smoke, a dose o nicotine reaches thebrain very quickly and gives you a rush o adrenaline,making you eel good.

    At rst, nicotine can improve your mood andconcentration, help to decrease eelings o anger

    and stress, relax your muscles and reduce your appetite.However, these positive eects are only temporary,and when they wear o you can experience withdrawalsymptoms like irritation and a build-up o tension.

    Your brain interprets these symptoms as stress,and so you will eel the need or another cigarette. Also,it can be stressul trying to make time and nd places tosmoke, especially now that all public places in the UKare smoke-ree.

    Stopping smoking is probably one o the singlemost important things that you can do to protectyour heart health, but this may be even more dicultin periods o increased stress. Knowing what triggers

    your need or a cigarette can help you to make sure youdont increase the number o cigarettes that you smokeat dicult times. For help with stopping smoking, seeour booklet Stop smoking, or phone a stop-smokinghelpline (see page 72).

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    Being inactive

    People who are physically inactive have twice therisk o developing coronary heart diseasecompared with people who are regularly active.

    Physical activity can help you to lose weight, controlhigh blood pressure and increase HDL cholesterol (thegood type o cholesterol), and it can help controlconditions such as diabetes.

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    21How is stress linked to heart disease?

    Stress and physical activity

    Feeling under pressure or stressed can lead to aeeling o lethargy and lack o desire to take part in

    physical activity. However, research shows that regularphysical activity can

    help reduce stress

    lit your mood

    give you a sense o wellbeing

    help you sleep better, and

    give you more energy.

    It does not take a long time or you to eel thesepositive eects and they can oten happenimmediately.This will help to encourage you toinclude physical activity as part o your everyday lie.

    Physical activity releases endorphins the eel goodhormones so it can oten help to improve yourmental wellbeing. Both aerobic activity (like briskwalking, running or cycling) and resistance activity(such as using weights in the gym) have been shownto help people with depression. Being physicallyactive can improve your mood and help you to

    control your weight.

    Al h l

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    Alcohol

    Excessive alcohol drinking can lead to high bloodpressure. Also, alcohol has little nutritional value andcontains lots o calories, which can lead to weight gain.

    Stress and alcohol

    Some people drink alcohol as a means o coping witha range o problems including money worries, workstress, and relationship problems. They are more likely todo this when other orms o social support are missing.

    Depression

    There is growing evidence o a link betweendepression and heart disease, with people who havedepression being more likely to develop heartproblems. For more about depression, stress and

    heart disease, see pages 2729.Remember that the way you cope with prolongedstress can have an eect on your liestyle suchas the amount you smoke, your level o physicalactivity, and what you eat and drink and coulddamage your general health and increase yourrisk o getting coronary heart disease.

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    23How is stress linked to heart disease?

    Action points Look at the risk actors on page 11 and count up

    how many apply to you. Identiy which ones youcan do something about and set yoursel somerealistic goals to tackle them. You could ask yourpractice nurse to help you with this.

    To help improve your cholesterol levels, have abalanced diet thats low in saturated at and high inruit and vegetables, and do regular physical activity.

    I you smoke, you can get help with stoppingsmoking. Ask your GP or pharmacist, or visit ourwebsite, bh.org.uk

    Keep to the recommended levels or alcohol (seepage 58).

    I you are over 40 years old, ask your GP or acardiovascular risk assessment. This is a heart healthcheck that gives you valuable inormation aboutyour risk actors or heart disease and on what youcan do to keep your heart healthy.

    Think about whether stress may be causing youto lead a liestyle that is increasing your risk o heart

    disease. For example, when you are stressed, doyou nd that you smoke more, or eat unhealthycomort oods?

    See pages 5169 or inormation on how to cope with stress.

    For more inormation on how to keep your heart healthy, see our

    booklet Keep your heart healthy.

    Stress and health or people

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    Stress and health or peoplewho have heart problems

    Being unwell can be stressul, as it can aect yourperormance and moods. I you have been diagnosedwith heart disease, or i you have had a heart attackor heart surgery, you may eel a bit low, worriedor rightened.

    You may be concerned about going back to work,supporting your amily, or doing things you enjoyedbeore your heart attack or surgery. You may also be

    concerned about having another heart attack.

    All o these are common concerns. For moreinormation about lie ater a heart attack, see ourDVD Looking forward, and our booklets Heart surgery,Heart attackand Cardiac rehabilitation.

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    25How is stress linked to heart disease?

    Your cardiac rehabilitation nurse or GP can give youadvice and reassurance. They can help make yourreturn to lie outside hospital as stress-ree as possible.

    You can also call the British Heart Foundationscondential Heart HelpLine on 0300 330 3311 i youneed inormation on heart disease and how toimprove your liestyle.

    For some people who have coronary heart disease(people who have angina, or who have had a heart

    attack), extreme stress can trigger an anginaattack or, very rarely, a heart attack.

    However, it is not true that you should avoid all stressin uture in case it causes another heart attack. Thismistaken belie may make people over-protective

    towards you or example, stopping you rom doingany orm o physical activity. It is important toremember that some stress in lie is positive,particularly i it allows you to do activities that youenjoy. You may nd that boredom is as stressul ashaving too much to do! Talk to your GP or cardiacrehabilitation nurse about any concerns you have

    and or advice on the best sorts o activities or you.

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    When I was told Id have to be on heart

    medication or the rest o my lie I got verydepressed. It was a constant reminder omy illness. But talking to a ellow patientmade me understand that the medicationwas there to help me, and that I couldmove orward and have a good lie. It tooktime though. At rst I couldnt tell my

    partner how I elt and I lost my appetite.Then, with help rom the cardiac rehabteam and a BHF Nurse who visited me Ibegan to eel much better about things.

    I know some people can get depressedbecause o the stress in their lives, and I

    think women today get stressed becausetheyre oten under pressure rom workingand being a Mum. We need to think aboutourselves too. Ater all, i you dont haveyour health, what do you have?

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    27How is stress linked to heart disease?

    Depression, stress andheart disease

    Depression is caused by chemical changes in the brainand may be linked to a number o actors: long-termstressul situations; personal actors such as amily orwork problems; having a traumatic or unexpectedevent such as a heart attack; having a amily memberwith a disability; or developing a long-term illness.Stress and depression are sometimes linked, but stress

    does not always result in depression, and stress is notthe only cause o depression.

    Depression can lead to unhealthy behaviours, suchas comort eating or loss o appetite, lack o motivation,and lethargy leading to decreased physical activity. Itcan also aect recovery rom recent surgery or rom

    a heart attack.

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    How is stress linked to heart disease? 29

    Physical activity is known to reduce symptoms odepression. I you experience depression, increasingthe amount o physical activity you do may help to

    improve your mental health and your rate o recoveryater a heart attack or heart surgery, and may improveyour heart health too.

    Some o the symptoms o anxiety or depression may besimilar to those or stress (see pages 4041). However, iyou have experienced some o the ollowing symptomsor most o the day, every day or more than two weeks,you should seek help rom your GP:

    sleep problems

    appetite or weight changes

    loss o interest in daily activities

    eelings o helplessness and hopelessness

    loss o energy

    eeling worthless

    diculty concentrating.

    Your GP may be able to help you to identiy thingsthat are causing undue pressure in your lie. He or she

    may reer you to a counsellor, psychologist orpsychiatrist. You may need medication to help youdeal with your situation. Any orm o depression canbecome a serious health problem and should notbe ignored. I you eel that your situation is such thatyou are overwhelmed or unable to cope witheveryday lie, you should seek help (see pages 7071).

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    I used to sell health club memberships,but, ironically, with all the pressure tomeet unrealistic targets, it ended up

    being bad or my health. I always wasa worrier, and instead o dealing withthe stress, I just tried to live with it.I wasnt thinking about my diet, ateunhealthy ood and went to smokybars in the evening.

    Its much better now in my new jobI still have deadlines, but theres lesspressure. I still get stressed, but Iveound ways o coping with it. I swimregularly, relax by listening to classicalmusic, meditate twice a day and takemuch more care about what I ameating - I eel so much better. I visualisehaving radiant health every day. Youneed to take time to think about thethings that help you take it easy and then enjoy them!

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    31What makes you stressed?

    What makes you stressed?Few o us go through lie without any

    stress. Thinking about which areas o yourlie are most stressul is the rst step tonding ways o coping with them betteror avoiding them altogether.

    Most people can cope with periods o stress that last

    only or a short time. Stress over a long period can bemuch harder to deal with, and is more likely to lead tounhealthy behaviours that increase the risk o gettingcoronary heart disease and other health problems.

    The most common situations causing stress are listedbelow. Sometimes there are no obvious causes.

    The most common causes o stress:

    Work

    Money problems

    Relationships either between two people or

    within a amily Major lie events and upheavals like getting married,

    divorce or separation, unemployment, movinghouse or bereavement

    Time pressure

    Loneliness and social isolation.

    Work

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    Hal a million people in the UK believe that work-relatedstress is making them ill. Research has shown that youare more likely to eel stressed when you eel you have

    little control over your work, but have a lot o demandsplaced on you. Other research has shown that peoplewho do manual jobs are more likely to eel that theyare in a stressul situation than people who donon-manual jobs.

    Although you may not be able to change the

    nature o your job, you can take steps to managestress both at work and at home. Work may be acause o stress, or it may be the place where yourstress shows up.

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    33What makes you stressed?

    Signs and symptoms o stress at work can include:

    poor work perormance

    lack o concentration

    eeling tired, or

    taking lots o sick leave.

    One in ve people in the UK eels very or extremelystressed by their work. Over hal say their jobs aregetting more stressul and that work is overtaking

    their home lives.Stress-related conditions are now the mostcommon reported cause o sickness absencerom work in the UK.

    It is estimated that about 13.4 million working daysare lost each year through anxiety and stress-relatedconditions, and stress-related illness costs employersin Great Britain more than 3.7 billion a year.

    Employers are required by law to manage theworkplace environment to reduce stress levels andlook ater the wellbeing o their employees. I you areeeling very stressed at or by work, talk to your

    manager. Your employer may be able to provideopportunities or you to develop some skills to helpyou cope with stress such as relaxation,assertiveness or time-management skills.

    You may also be able to get support through inormalchannels or example, talking to a sympathetic

    colleague or a riend about workplace stress.

    Money problems

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    Money problems can cause high levels o stress anddepression. They can cause relationships to break up,people to lose their homes, and amilies to split up

    all o which are additional sources o stress.It is important to get advice on controlling debt earlyon, beore problems become overwhelming. For helpand advice, contact the Governments NationalDebtline on 0808 808 4000. A Citizens Advicebureau can advise you about the options available ordealing with any nancial or housing problems. (Lookthem up in your local phone book.)

    RelationshipsRelationships with your partner, children, parents,riends, neighbours or work colleagues dont always

    run smoothly, and can be the cause o considerablestress. I you dont have someone you can condein and trust, this can add to any stress you areexperiencing. And i you are having problems in onearea o your lie, it can put a strain on your relationshipswith everyone else.

    Whatever the problem with a relationship, the rststep towards dealing with it is to acknowledge it andtry to work things through together. Try to talkthrough the issues, stay positive, look at what you cando to improve things, and accept that some things areoutside your control. Reect on your choices.

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    35What makes you stressed?

    Major lie eventsAny major lie change can be stressul. Stress may betriggered by unexpected events like losing a job,

    bereavement or illness, divorce or separation, or byplanned changes such as getting married, movinghouse or having a baby (which is not always planned).

    How you deal with the event will depend on howprepared you were or it, how long it lasts, and howmuch support you have. Sometimes several lie

    events happen at once and this can tip your balancerom being moderately stressed to being unable tocope. Where possible, avoid taking on too manypotentially stressul situations at once.

    Time pressure

    Be realistic about what you can achieve, learn to sayNo, and prioritise. See Manage your time on page63. Making time or leisure, exercise and holidays isjust as essential as spending time on the things wehave to get done at home or at work.

    Loneliness and social isolationLoneliness and social isolation are major causes ostress, particularly or older people. Loneliness hasbeen shown to aect health and mental wellbeing.People who are lonely are more likely to nd everydayexperiences more stressul and at the same time they

    get less support rom others to cope with this stress.

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    I looked ater my Mum, who hadParkinsons Disease, or ten years.It was worrying, o course, andsometimes it was dicult to teverything into a day but I thought I

    could just take it all in my stride. AterMum died, I had two heart attacks andit was my cardiac rehabilitation nurse,Bev, who taught me not to bottleeverything up to let go and have agood weep to let all the stress out.

    I hadnt realised how much I had beendealing with looking ater my mother.Talking to someone, having relaxinghobbies, and being active help. I loveto walk in the mountains on myholidays - theres nothing like it toblow away your cares.

    H d ?

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    37How stressed are you?

    How stressed are you?

    We all experience stress in dierent

    ways. What one person nds stressulmight be an enjoyable challenge tosomeone else. For each o us, there isgood stress as well as bad stress or example, being under pressure to get

    something done may motivate you toget it done. However, some experiences such as being made redundant or beingbereaved can have a negative eect.

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    Not s re i o re stressed?

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    39How stressed are you?

    Not sure i youre stressed?

    When you are exposed to long periods o stress, yourbody gives you a warning that something is wrong.These physical, emotional, behavioural and mentalsigns should not be ignored. They tell you that youneed to slow down. I you continue to be stressed andyou dont give your body a break, you may develophealth problems.

    I you think you might be experiencing stress,

    you need to tune into your early warning signs andthink about how you eel, how it shows and how itaects other people. Look at pages 4043 or possiblewarning signs and symptoms and tick those thatapply to you.

    Check out your warning signsand symptoms o stress

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    and symptoms o stress

    PhysicalDo you experience

    eeling sweaty or shivery?

    heart beating ast?

    dry mouth?

    headache?

    loss o appetite or ood, un or sex?weight gain or loss?

    tight, knotty eelings in your stomach?

    needing to go to the toilet a lot more than usual?

    diculty sleeping, disturbed nights or waking early?

    tiredness or exhaustion?odd aches and pains?

    EmotionalDo you oten eel

    upset?

    irritable?tearul?

    worried?

    sick in the stomach?

    isolated rom people around you?

    BehaviouralD

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    41How stressed are you?

    Do you

    smoke or drink more than you used to?

    lack a sense o humour?neglect your personal appearance?

    orget things?

    work until youre exhausted?

    clench your jaws or grind your teeth?

    withdraw rom relationships or social situations?start tasks and not nish them?

    lack concentration?

    MentalDo you think

    I cant do thisIll never nish

    I cant cope

    everything is pointless

    Many o these signs and symptoms can be associated with general

    health problems and can be a natural reaction to dealing withshort-term problems. Add up how many boxes you ticked.

    I you ticked more than our boxes, you may be suering rom

    prolonged stress.

    I you ticked ewer than our boxes, you may not be suering

    adversely rom stress at the moment.

    The Am I stressed? quiz on the next page can help you identiy how

    you view your current situation.

    Quiz: Am I stressed?

    Check your stress levels by ticking the answers

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    Check your stress levels by ticking the answersbelow that best describe you.

    1. Which o the ollowing best describes how much time you

    have to do everything you need to do?

    A I have enough time to get everything done.

    B I usually manage to get most things done.

    C I have to prioritise my time very careully.

    D I always seem to be short o time and rushing to catch up.

    2. When you are under a lot o pressure, do you:

    A cope well because it doesnt happen very oten?

    B put in more eort so you can get through the dicult patch?

    C give yoursel breathing space and time to take stock?

    D drink lots o coee, and keep going until youre exhausted?

    3. How well do you usually sleep?

    A I sleep really well and eel rested in the morning. B I sometimes have trouble alling asleep, but generally

    get enough sleep.

    C I use relaxation methods and clear my mind beore

    I go to bed.

    D I have requent restless nights and oten wake early.

    4. Which o the ollowing best describes the way you deal with

    difcult situations?

    A I rarely get rufed about things.

    B I get annoyed a bit more oten than I used to.

    C I have a shorter use now than I used to, but I think

    beore I react to things.

    D I regularly lose my temper at the smallest things.

    5. Which option best describes how much time you have or the

    things you enjoy?

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    43How stressed are you?

    things you enjoy?

    A I regularly spend time doing things I enjoy.

    B I have less and less time to do the things I enjoy.

    C Time is tight, but I make sure I have some time each dayto relax and enjoy lie.

    D I dont have time or hobbies or things I enjoy.

    6. Which option best describes how you eel most o the time?

    A I eel ne and able to cope with things.

    B I sometimes get headaches, which are worse when Im

    under pressure. C Im under pressure, but I use relaxation methods to make

    sure I dont get too tense.

    D I oten eel tearul and panicky because o the pressure

    I am under.

    Add up how many A, B, C and D answers you gave.

    Mostly As It appears rom your answers that you are not under

    a great deal o stress. You have a good balance in your lie at the

    moment. Look out or signs o becoming stressed in the uture.

    Mostly Bs You seem to be experiencing some stress and are eeling

    the consequences in various aspects o your lie. Try taking positive

    steps to deal with this stress or example, by taking regular exercise,

    making time or yoursel, and getting any support you need.

    Mostly Cs While you experience some stress, you have developed a

    range o skills to cope with this. Well done or recognising that stressneeds to be dealt with and or coming up with ways like relaxation

    and time management to help you to get on with lie.

    Mostly Ds You seem to be experiencing a lot o stress and this may

    adversely aect both your physical health and your relationships. Think

    about how you might start to reduce your stress levels (see What can

    you do about stress? on pages 51-69). You could talk to someone about

    how stress is making you eel (see Getting help on page 70).

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    Keep a diary

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    45How stressed are you?

    Keep a diary

    I you eel stressed, or i your results rom

    the Am I stressed? quiz suggest that youmight be, its a good idea to keep a diaryor a ew days.

    This will help you pinpoint commontriggers or stressul situations in your lie,how you react to the stress and whathelps you cope, so that you can managethe cause o your stress more eectively.See the example Stress diary onpage 47.

    When you eel stressed, note down in your diary:

    what triggered the eeling o being stressed (orl i i d th b )

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    example i you missed the bus)

    how stressed you elt, on a scale o 0 to 5, where 5 isthe most stressed

    any signs or symptoms o stress such as drymouth, or being tearul (see pages 4041)

    how well you coped, on a scale o 0 to 3, where 0 ispoorly and 3 is well, and

    what helped (or example i you went or a walk,

    or had a break).When you have completed your diary, you will:

    be able to see the dierent triggers youexperienced, and which ones were most stressul

    notice some common warning signs or symptomso stress, and

    be able to see the things which helped you manageyour stress well.

    Stress diary

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    47How stressed are you?

    y

    TriggerHow

    stressedyoufelt

    Score

    05(0=leastto5=most)

    Signs or

    symptoms

    o stress

    How

    wellyoucoped

    Score

    03(0=poorlyto3=well)

    What helped?

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    Action points

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    49How stressed are you?

    Take time to think about the pressures in your lie.

    Tune in to your early warning signs and think about: how you eel how it shows, and how it may be aecting others.

    Go through the checklist on pages 4041 to ndyour main signs and symptoms o stress.

    Complete the Am I stressed? quiz on pages 4243 tocheck your stress levels.

    Keep a stress diary or a ew days.

    Look at your diary to see which are the keypressures in your lie.

    Plan to manage these pressures using things you

    have tried that worked well in the past, or otherideas in this booklet.

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    What can you do

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    51What can you do about stress?

    yabout stress?

    There are a number o ways to tacklestress in your lie. Think about whetheryou can do any o the ollowing.

    Avoid the sources o your stress

    Once you have pinpointed the main sources o stressi li thi k b t h t ld d t id

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    in your lie, think about what you could do to avoidthem. For example:

    I trafc jams are causing you stress, think abouthow you can change your journey to work. Forexample, can you leave earlier or later, or can youwalk, cycle or use public transport part or all o theway, or take a dierent route to work?

    I your workload is too great, talk to your manager

    and ask i you can have extra help, attend a timemanagement course or have some extra training.

    I you are having amily problems, talk thingsthrough with those close to you. Plan to have sometime enjoying things together. Or think abouthaving some counselling.

    I you are just too busy, prioritise and drop someo your commitments.

    Change how you respondto stressul situations

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    53What can you do about stress?

    to stressul situations

    I you cant remove the source o your stress, try toocus on changing your attitude towards it. Thinkabout how you respond both physically and mentallywhen you are in a stressul situation.

    Physical response

    When you are stressed, you may get physicalsymptoms such as tense muscles, taking short, ast

    breaths, or eeling butteries in your stomach.Instead, take some slow, deep breaths, or try somerelaxation techniques (see pages 6061), and remindyoursel that getting stressed wont help the situation.

    Mental response

    When pressure mounts up, its easy to become

    deensive, rustrated, angry or depressed. I you startto eel that youre getting stressed, take a step back.Give yoursel some space, take some time and planwhat you can do to ease the situation.

    I you have negative thoughts going through yourmind like I cant cope, or Im useless try

    challenging them with more positive thoughts, suchas, I know I will get through this in time or There arelots o things I am good at and valued or.

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    Make changes to your liestyleto help reduce the eects

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    55What can you do about stress?

    to help reduce the eectso stress on your body

    Top healthy liestyle tips to tackle stress:

    Eat well

    Keep physically active

    Keep alcohol to within healthy limits

    Dont smoke

    Learn to relax

    Make time or rest

    Manage your time

    Seek help and get support.

    Eat well

    Your body is able to ght stressul situations betterwhen you take the time to eat well. Try to:

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    when you take the time to eat well. Try to:

    eat regular meals

    eat a wide variety o healthy oods have at least 5 portions o ruit and vegetables a day

    make sure that at least one-third o your ood comesrom bread, pasta, beans, rice, potatoes or pulses

    choose oods low in saturated at

    cut down on salt and sugar have less tea, coee and other drinks with caeine,

    and drink plenty o water

    reach a healthy weight and maintain it, and

    combine healthy eating habits with a regularphysical activity programme.

    For more on healthy eating, see our booklet Eating well.

    Keep physically active

    M d t i t it h i l ti it ( ti it th t t

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    57What can you do about stress?

    Moderate-intensity physical activity (activity that getsyou warm and slightly out o breath) has been shown

    to release endorphins natural substances that helpyou eel better and maintain a positive attitude. Doingregular physical activity or 30 minutes a day on atleast ve days a week will help you cope with stress.

    It will also:

    lower your risk o coronary heart disease, diabetes

    and stroke provide you with more energy and stamina

    help to you to maintain a healthy weight, and

    help to reduce the risk o some cancers.

    The 30 minutes can be split into smaller time slotso at least 10 minutes at a time.

    Choose activities that you enjoy and set yourselrealistic reasonable goals. Or choose dierent activitieseach day to keep you interested and motivated. Evena brisk hal-hour walk every day can make a dierence

    to how you eel, look and cope with lie.

    I you have high blood pressure or get angina, or iyou have another medical condition, you should talkto your GP beore suddenly increasing your activitylevels or taking up any new activity.

    Keep alcohol to withinhealthy limits

    When you eel stressed you might be tempted to

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    When you eel stressed, you might be tempted tolook or easy solutions such as the relaxed eeling you

    may get rom alcohol. But drinking too much can beharmul or your heart and your health (see page 22).

    Men should not regularly drink more than 3 to 4units in a day. Women should not regularly drinkmore than 2 to 3 units in a day.

    1 unit o alcohol =a small glass (100ml) o wine(10% ABV [alcohol by volume])

    or

    hal a pint (about 300ml) o normal-strength lager,cider or beer (or example, 3.5% ABV)

    or

    a pub measure (25ml) o spirits

    Dont smoke

    I you smoke stopping smoking is the single most

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    59What can you do about stress?

    I you smoke, stopping smoking is the single mostimportant thing you can do to improve your heart

    health, and your general health too.

    I you have already tried to quit smoking but havestarted again, ask your doctor or pharmacist about thestop-smoking aids now available. Getting proessionalhelp can increase your chance o success. For moreinormation, see our booklet Stop smoking.

    Learn to relax

    Learning how to relax is a very good way to copewith stress o any kind, and can promote a eeling o

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    wellbeing. It also reduces anxiety, irritability, andpain caused by tense muscles such as neck ache,back ache and headache.

    Once you are practised at doing it, you will nd itmakes a noticeable dierence to your mood and toyour energy not just when you are stressed, but alsoat other times. It can also have a protective eect onyour mental wellbeing helping to prevent some

    common mental health problems.

    Relaxation is more than just sitting back and beingquiet. It is an active process involving techniques thatcalm your body and mind. Finding relaxation activitiesthat help you unwind and tting them into your dailylie will actually give you more energy and make you

    more eective at the things you have to get done.

    The quick relaxation routine

    1. Tune into your breathing. Take one deep breath in, hold it, and

    then tell yoursel to let go as you breathe out through your

    mouth. Breathe naturally or a while, and then repeat the deep

    breath and letting go with your outward breath.

    2. Tense up and then relax a single muscle group such as your

    hand, your oot or stomach. When you let go, try to let all the

    unnecessary tension slip away. Do the same or some other

    muscle groups.

    3.Drop your shoulders.

    4. Apply your relaxation skills in increasingly testing situations.

    You will soon begin to benet.

    You could combine relaxation exercises with youravourite music. Choose something that lits your moodor that you nd soothing Some people nd it easier to

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    61What can you do about stress?

    or that you nd soothing. Some people nd it easier torelax while listening to specially designed relaxation audio

    tapes, which provide music and relaxation instructions.You can download and listen to a range o podcasts romthe Mental Health Foundation to help you relax (see www.mentalhealth.org.uk/inormation/wellbeing-podcasts).

    Other popular ways to relax include yoga,pilates and meditation. You could join a local class

    or one o these, or practise at home. Once you nda relaxation method that works or you, practise itevery day or at least 30 minutes.

    Make time or rest

    Even with a healthy diet and exercise, you cant ghtstress eectively without rest. You need time to

    ti d t l t

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    recover rom exertion and stressul events.

    Make enough time to relax your mind as well as yourbody. It could be sitting down with the newspaper,going or a short walk, or having a cup o tea with ariend. Some people nd that switching o and takinga nap during the day helps reduce their stress.

    Manage your time

    For many o us, lie is lled with too many demands and

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    63What can you do about stress?

    y , ytoo little time. For the most part, over-ambitious goals

    are ones we have chosen ourselves. This drive to juggletoo much means we lose out on time or ourselves. Ithelps to learn how to manage your time well.

    Eective time-management skills involve settingpriorities, asking or help when appropriate, pacingyoursel and taking time out or yoursel.

    Seek help and get support

    I you eel that things are getting on top o you, trytalking about it. Whatever is causing you stress, youcan do a lot to help yoursel by talking it through withyour amily or riends. They may be able to stand

    back rom the situation and together you can identiythings that will help.

    It is better to ask or help rather than strugglingon pretending to be able to cope. Speak tosomeone you trust about the things that are causingyou stress. There is support available use it. See

    Getting help, on pages 7071.

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    Plan your stress-bustingactivities or the week

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    65What can you do about stress?

    You need to build some stress-busting activities

    into your day, your week, and your lie.

    Think about the week ahead.

    Think through the commitments that you have andthe likely danger spots or stressul situations (such asa dicult meeting at work, or a childs birthday party).

    Now plan the stress-busting activities that you aregoing to build into your week. Go through the liston pages 66 and 67 and choose which ones you willinclude as part o your plan to de-stress.

    Stress-busting activities

    WorkI work is stressing you out:

    t lk t d t th k

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    talk to your manager and together make some

    changes seek advice rom your human resources department

    talk to a colleague or riend.

    RelaxationYou can do this by:

    sitting down and taking some deep breaths

    doing a series o stretches

    taking up a new hobby or activity

    practising yoga, pilates or meditation.

    Problem-solvingAsk yoursel:

    What is the real problem?

    What can I do dierently?

    Reect on the outcome. Did doing things dierentlywork?

    I it didnt work, try another action plan.

    Time management Prioritise tasks and plan your day accordingly.

    Do one thing at a time.

    Have realistic short-term and long-term strategiesor getting things done.

    Learn to say No. At work, at home, and with riends,you sometimes need to put yoursel rst.Remember to be assertive. Being assertive allows

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    67What can you do about stress?

    you to stand up or your rights and belies while

    respecting those o others. Be realistic about what you can achieve, know your

    own limits, and celebrate success at every opportunity.

    I you eel overwhelmed, talk about it with a riend,partner or manager.

    Some o these changes can take time to develop.

    Dont expect to be able to change everything at onceor to get it right rst time. Expecting too much oyoursel will possibly add more stress. Be kindto yoursel.

    The benets ostress-busting activities

    Building some stress-busting activities intoyour week will mean that:

    you protect yoursel rom health problemsassociated with stress

    you are more ecient at getting things done

    you have more time or the things you enjoy

    you enjoy better relationships with amily, riendsand work colleagues, and

    you eel much better.

    The stress chain

    This shows you some examples o ways to copewith stress, and how to react more positively tostressul situations.

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    When you are eeling

    stressed

    What you can do

    Be aware o it. Keep a stress diary (see pages 4547).

    Make a hassle list a list o all the

    things that cause you stress.

    Look out or early warning signs o

    stress (see pages 4041).

    Reduce the chance o

    it happening again.

    Manage your time.

    Say No sometimes.

    Avoid your stress hot spots where

    possible.

    Get help and support.

    Change how you

    think or eel aboutstress.

    Get the balance right in your lie.

    Take a positive approach. Accept what you cant change.

    Change how you react

    to it.

    Communicate with your partner

    and others.

    Be assertive about your needs.

    Keep things in perspective.

    Use relaxation skills like deep

    breathing.

    Use humour.

    Reduce the eects o

    stress on your body.

    Eat well.

    Be physically active.

    Have a massage.

    Relax.

    Action points Avoid sources o stress i you can.

    l k b k

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    69What can you do about stress?

    I you eel stress coming on, take a step back,

    breathe deeply, and take stock. Keep things in perspective.

    Make sure you get regular, healthy meals, and cutdown on comort ood i it is unhealthy.

    Get plenty o exercise whatever you enjoy doing.

    Limit alcohol to recommended levels. Make sure you have plenty o rest and relaxation.

    Manage your time by prioritising and learningto say No.

    Talk to someone about your eelings i you arending things dicult.

    Get the help and support you need.

    Getting helpYou should ask or proessional help:

    i the inormation in this booklet is not enough

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    i you are regularly aected by some o thesymptoms o stress

    i stress is aecting your ability to work, or to copewith your lie or your relationships with others

    i you think you might have depression (seepages 2729)

    i you are drinking too much or are using drugs tocope with stress, or

    i a riend or your partner asks you to get help.

    There are many sources o proessional help.

    The rst thing to do is to talk to your GP. He or shemay be able to help, or may reer you to another

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    71Getting help

    health proessional.

    Or you may want to nd a private practitioner.To nd a qualied counsellor, psychotherapist orpsychologist, contact one o the organisations below,or ask at your local library.

    British Association or Behavioural

    and Cognitive Psychotherapies

    Victoria Buildings

    9-13 Silver Street

    Bury BL9 0EU

    Phone: 0161 797 4484

    Website: www.babcp.com

    British Association or Counselling

    and Psychotherapy

    BACP House

    15 St Johns Business Park

    Lutterworth

    Leicestershire LE17 4HB

    Phone: 01455 883316

    Website: www.bacp.co.uk

    British Psychological Society

    St Andrews House

    48 Princess Road EastLeicester LE1 7DR

    Phone: 0116 254 9568

    Website: www.bps.org.uk

    Alcohol

    Al-Anon Family Groups

    Phone: 0207 403 0888

    www al anonuk org uk

    Financial problems

    National Debtline

    Phone: 0808 808 4000

    www nationaldebtline co uk

    Where to go or more inormation

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    www.al-anonuk.org.uk

    Alcohol Concern

    Phone: 020 7264 0510

    www.alcoholconcern.org.uk

    Alcoholics Anonymous

    Helpline: 0845 769 7555

    www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk

    Bereavement

    CRUSE Bereavement Care

    Helpline: 0844 477 9400

    www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk

    Bullying

    For inormation about how to

    tackle bullying at school, visit

    www.bbc.co.uk/schools and

    search or bullying.

    Carers

    Carers Line

    Phone: 0808 808 7777

    A reephone helpline providing

    advice to carers about their legal

    rights and entitlements.

    See also How the British HeartFoundation can help you, on

    pages 7475.

    www.nationaldebtline.co.uk

    Health at work

    bh.org.uk/healthatwork

    The BHF Health at work website

    includes ideas, tools and

    downloads to support workplace

    health promoters.

    Think t! Think well! A guide to

    developing a workplace mentalwellbeing programme

    A resource to support health

    promoters in developing a mental

    wellbeing programme at work.

    Healthy liestyle

    For booklets on healthy liestyle

    physical activity, stoppingsmoking and healthy eating

    see pages 7475.

    Freephone helplines or people

    who want to stop smoking:

    BHF Smoking Helpline

    Phone: 0800 169 1900

    www.bh.org.uk/smoking

    NHS Smoking Helpline

    Phone: 0800 022 4 332

    www.smokeree.nhs.uk

    Quitline

    Phone: 0800 00 22 00

    www.quit.org.uk

    Mental illness including

    depression

    Anxiety UK (ormerly The

    National Phobics Society)

    Saneline

    Phone: 0845 767 8000

    www.sane.org.uk

    A helpline oering inormation

    and advice on all aspects o

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    73Getting help

    Phone: 08444 775 774

    www.anxietyuk.org.uk

    Depression Alliance

    Phone: 0845 123 23 20

    www.depressionalliance.org

    Mental Health Foundation

    Phone: 020 7803 1100

    www.mentalhealth.org.uk

    MIND

    Mind Ino Line: 0845 766 0163

    www.mind.org.uk

    No Panic

    Helpline: 0808 808 0545

    www.nopanic.org.uk

    A ree helpline or people

    suering rom panic attacks,

    phobias, obsessive-compulsive

    disorders and other

    anxiety-related disorders.

    The Samaritans

    Phone: 08457 90 90 90

    www.samaritans.org.uk

    and advice on all aspects o

    mental health or individuals,and their amilies or riends.

    Relationships

    Childline

    Phone: 0800 1111

    www.childline.org.uk

    Children and young people

    can call this ree, condential

    helpline, about any problem,

    at any time day or night.

    Parentline

    Phone: 0808 800 2222

    Email: parentsupport@

    parentlineplus.org.uk

    www.parentlineplus.org.uk

    RelatePhone: 0300 100 1234

    www.relate.org.uk

    Stress management

    International Stress

    Management Association

    Phone: 01179 697284

    www.isma.org.ukEmail: [email protected]

    Stress at Work

    www.hse.gov.uk/stress

    A website on stress in the

    workplace.

    How the British HeartFoundation can help you

    We are the nations heart charity, dedicated tosaving lives through pioneering research, patient

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    care, campaigning or change, and providing vitalinormation.

    You might nd some o the ollowingresources helpul:

    Booklets

    Our heart health catalogue

    For you, or amily and riends, or health proessionals

    Get active, stay activeEnjoy being active and keep your heart healthy

    Be active or lieOver 50? Keep your heart healthy with physical activity

    Put your heart into walking

    Its easy, its ree, its great or your heart

    Physical activity and your heartFor people who have a heart condition or are at risk

    o developing heart disease

    Take control o your weightSae ways to lose weight or heart health

    Eating wellHow to keep ood un and good or your heart

    Cut down on saltIts easy to do and good or your heart

    Stop smokingHow to quit or a healthy heart

    DVD

    Risking itThis DVD ollows ve ordinary people, all o whom have one or more

    risk actors or coronary heart disease. They have decided to start

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    75How the British Heart Foundation can help you

    y y

    taking responsibility or their health and take positive action.

    For inormation on other BHF booklets and DVDs ask or a copy

    oOur heart health catalogue.

    How to order our resources

    To order any o our booklets or DVDs:

    call the BHF Orderline on 0870 600 6566

    email [email protected] visit bh.org.uk/publications

    You can also download many o our publications rom our website.

    Our booklets are ree o charge, but we would welcome a donation

    so we can continue our vital work. (Turn the page to see how you can

    make a donation.)

    Heart MattersHeart Matters is our ree, personalised service to help you live

    with a healthy heart. Join Heart Matters today to access benets

    including heart matters magazine, a HelpLine and an online

    members area with recipes, articles and liestyle tools. Register

    online at bh.org.uk/heartmattersor call 0300 330 3300

    (a local rate number).

    We need your helpto continue our lie-saving workAs a charity we rely on the generosity o people likeyou to und our vital work. Thousands o people withheart disease turn to us or help every year and even

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    heart disease turn to us or help every year and evenmore will need us in the uture. We want to be thereor them.

    Please donate today and together we can beatheart disease or good.

    I you would like to make a donation:

    please call our donation hotline on 0300 330 3322,

    contact us through our website at bh.org.uk/donate

    or ll in the orm on the next page and post it to us at the

    address on the back cover.

    Other ways you can help

    There are many other ways you can play a crucial role

    in our eorts to beat heart disease:

    Become a volunteer and help run our shops, events orservices or local communities. To nd out more, call

    0845 130 8663 or visit bh.org.uk/volunteer

    Have un on a sponsored run, bike ride or walk. For more

    on this, call 0844 477 1181 or visit bh.org.uk/events

    Join our Heartstartinitiative and learn to save lives with the

    skills o emergency lie support. Over 2.3 million people already

    have. For more inormation contact [email protected]

    Donate goods to your local BHF shop. To nd out whereyour nearest BHF shop is, call 0844 412 5000.

    Give in celebration by oering your party guests the

    chance to donate to us instead o buying gits, or

    example or your wedding anniversary or birthday.

    Visit bh.org.uk/celebrate or more inormation.

    Thank you.

    Your support will help us prevent early deaths

    Here is my git to help more people recover rom

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    77Heading

    Please make your cheque / postal order/ CAF voucher payable to theBritish Heart Foundation.

    Title (Mr/Mrs/Miss/Other) First name Surname

    Address

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    We would like to keep in touch with you, to let you k now your support has made a dierence.

    By supplying your email address you agree that the BHF may use this to contact you about our work.

    OR please debit the above sum rom my:

    AMEX CAF Card MasterCard Visa / Delta Maestro

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    Make your git worth almost a third

    more at no extra cost to you!

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    rst box so we can claim back up to 28p

    or every 1 you give at no extra cost

    to you.

    * To qualiy or Git Aid, you

    must pay an amount o UK

    Income Tax and/or Capital

    Gains Tax at least equal to

    the tax that the BHF will

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    o your own money and

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    would like the BHF to reclaim the tax on

    any o the donations I have made in the

    last six years and any uture donations

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    Date

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    Please tick here i you do not wish the British Heart Foundation to contact you. (MP0059)

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    The British Heart Foundation is the nation s heart charity, registered in England and Wales (225971)

    and in Scotland (SC039426).

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    Please send this orm to:

    British Heart FoundationGreater London House180 Hampstead RoadLondon NW1 7AW

    Thank you.

    Legal & General supportingthe British Heart Foundation

    Legal & General are delighted to be working again

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    79Legal & General supporting the British Heart Foundation

    with the British Heart Foundation (BHF) to promotehealth and tness in the workplace. Over 300,000 hasbeen donated since the partnership began in 2002.

    Legal & General are leading providers o risk, savings and investment

    management and are committed to strong principles o Corporate

    Social Responsibility (CSR). It prides itsel on consistently contributing

    at least 2.5m year on year to supporting national and local charities,

    and social enterprises throughout the UK.By working closely with Third Sector partners that link to what we do,

    the charity gets the support it needs and we gain access to a rich source

    of knowledge to help us increase our understanding of real world issues

    and trends that directly relate to our businesses. It is a win-win situation.Graham Precey, Head o CSR, Legal & General

    Legal & Generals Group Protection business has enjoyed a benecial

    and productive partnership with the BHF, concentrating on the

    promotion o workplace health and how this helps build better

    understanding o important health issues that could aect customers

    in the uture.

    For more inormation on Legal & Generals CSR policies,

    please visit www.legalandgeneralgroup.com/csr

    IndexA

    activity .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2021

    alcohol . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22, 58

    angina .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

    B

    blood pressure 14

    M

    money problems .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

    O

    overweight .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

    P

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    blood pressure .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

    C

    causes o stress .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

    cholesterol . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

    coronary heart disease .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

    counsellor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71

    D

    debt .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

    depression .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22, 2729

    diabetes .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16diary .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4547

    diet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56

    E

    eating well . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56

    F

    amily history o heart disease .. . . . . 11

    H

    healthy eating .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56

    heart attack. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

    heart conditions .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2425

    heart disease .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 713

    high blood pressure .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

    L

    loneliness .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

    physical activity .. . . . . . . . . . . 2021, 29, 57

    Q

    quiz .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4243

    R

    relationships .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

    relaxation .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6061

    response to stress .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53

    risk actors or heart disease .. . . . . . . . 11

    Ssigns o stress .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4041

    smoking .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1819, 59

    sources o stress .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52

    stress-busting activities .. . . . . . . . . 6567

    stroke .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

    support . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7073

    symptoms o stress .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4041

    T

    time management .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63

    time pressure .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

    W

    weight .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

    work-related stress .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3233

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    British Heart Foundation

    Greater London House

    180 Hampstead Road

    London NW1 7AW

    Phone: 020 7554 0000

    Fax: 020 7554 0100

    Website: bhf.org.uk British Heart Foundation 2010, registered charity in England and Wales (225971) and in Scotland (SC039426)

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