Love Systems Insider: Top 10 Holiday Party Checklist

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Love Systems InsiderDate: December 2009

Jeremy Soul's Top 10 Holiday Party Checklist

In this issue Jeremy Soul's Top 10 Holiday Party Checklist Introducing Bonsai

A few days ago, I revealed some of my secrets for picking up women at holiday parties . If youre planning on meeting women this holiday season, you definitely dont want to miss it.

Right after I published this article I was talking to Jeremy Soul , the worlds #2 ranked pickupartist for 2009. Hed just finished mailing out a Top 10 list to his long-term individualizedtraining clients that was based on my article and some insights of his own. So as a special bonus,were including it here.

Jeremy Souls Top 10 Holiday Party Checklist

1. Get involved as much as possible

The more youre an integral part of the event, the more youll get a chance to meet and be seentalking to a lot of people. This elevates your social status at the party and makes you someonewomen want to meet.

2. Dont stare

Most single guys are on the prowl and checking out the possible options as soon as they walk

in. Dont be most guys thats a surefire way to ruin your chances.3. Dont get drunk

Most men feel the need to have a few drinks before they start talking to women especially onesthey find really attractive. One or two drinks arent too bad, but once that snowballs into beingdrunk by the end of the night, its a real turn-off for women.

4. Introduce yourself to everyone early on
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Do this at the very beginning. Later in the night, you can just re-initiate with someone instead of breaking into an entirely new conversation. Its also easy to do, because at parties you have anautomatic excuse to talk to people. All you need to say is, Hi, Im Jeremy, shake their handand ask them what theyre up to over the holidays.

5. Introduce groups of friends to each other

Being seen as a social connector (even if youre just introducing people who you yourself justmet that night) and the kind of man who knows everyone is a very good thing. It will build hugeamounts of attraction with the women there.

Use your friends as well. If your friends are talking to her friends, that lets you get away withher to have a more private conversation.

6. Re-initiate contact with the women you like

Keep being the social guy, talking to lots of different people, but at some point re-engage thewoman you find the most attractive. At this point, youve already talked with her, its natural tore-initiate conversation by asking her something simple like, how are you enjoying the party?

7. Connect with her emotionally

Get more personal with her, find out who she is and what makes her tick, and let her know moreabout yourself. The key to attraction with women is showing yourself to be an interesting person(by talking about things that are important to you and you are passionate about) and to beinterested in who she is as a person.

8. Take her somewhere more private

A woman might become attracted to you when she has a good conversation with you, but shesunlikely to act on that by kissing you or otherwise blatantly flirting with you in front of her friends and family.

So come up with an excuse to move her somewhere away from other people. It can as simple as,

Lets go get out to the balcony for a minute or Hey, want to grab a drink at the bar?Anything that gets you some more alone time with her.

9. Suggest staying in touch

You may want to spend more time with the woman youve been talking to immediately, maybeeven try to take her home that night.


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However, this wont always be possible depending on who she came with, whether she has toget up early the next morning, which friends she is there with etc. Theres also the chance thatfor whatever reason, youll lose her at some point in the crowd.

So its a good idea after talking with her for a while to suggest exchanging contact details andstaying in touch. That way, if she does disappear at some point, at least you have a phonenumber to follow up on.

10. Manage logistics

If you are going for the full pull that evening, you need to focus on getting her away from peoplethat might judge her for going home with you. Discretion is paramount. Dont make any obvious

moves on her physically when anyone else is around.

Either find a secluded room somewhere, or ask her if she wants to come back to your place. If you go for the latter, make sure you both have a discreet way of getting away from the partywithout people knowing that youre going home together, e.g. offering to give her a lift home.

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Jeremy Soul is the worlds #1 Day Game expert and has contributed a wealth of insight to the field of dating and seduction.

Learn more from Soul: Day Game Workshops (new schedule) On Direct Game On Getting Her Out of the Club and Home With You On Female Psychology (with Savoy) On Handling Tests (aka Shit Tests)

IntroducingBonsai

Were proud to announce that Bonsai has officially been invited to join the elite Love Systemsinstructor team .

Bonsai was your typical nice guy before he discovered Love Systems. In fact, today he likes torefer himself as a nice guy with game. Like London-based Mr. M , Bonsai is short and Asian,
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but is based in Los Angeles.

Bonsais specialty is stripper game but he is no less strong in traditional bar/club game and israpidly becoming recognized as a major day game expert teaching with Jeremy Soul himself atDay Game workshops.

(I know Im going off on a tangent here, but my newsletter, my rules. It takes serious BALLS torun a Day Game Workshop . You have to do all of the same things as an instructor that you do at a regular bootcamp coach clients such as yourself, approach women so they can see how itsdone, and watch and wing with the clients approaches to improve their game with everyapproach, and so on. Except instead of doing this in an anonymous dark bar or nightclub, hesdoing this on street corners, malls and coffee shops. With everyone watching. And hes picking

up hot women. And so are the guys attending the Day Game Workshops . All in a one-daytraining program. Wow.)

Okay, back to Bonsai

Another thing hes really good at is overcoming limiting beliefs when to comes to interracialdating and overcoming cultural differences. While learning Love Systems, he had to overcomelimiting beliefs when it came to dating outside of his own race and for the fact of feelinginsecure about his ethnic background. That was one of the inspirations for our OvercomingPhysical Obstacles interview with Mr. M and Keychain:

>>Vol. 47

On his blog, Asian Dating Coach , he has written several introductory articles on picking upstrippers, like 5 reasons why you should how to pick up a stripper to improve your game or hissecret stripper routine . His reviews speak for themselves.

Here is a quick word from Bonsai himself:

Hey guys,

Like all Love Systems instructors, I was not naturally good with women. I was your typical Asian guy; short, smart, hard working, and quiet. One day I was searching online how to get a

girlfriend and that is how I found Love Systems. My reality was shattered when I discovered being successful with beautiful women is something you can learn.

After attending the Super Conference and taking a bootcamp, my results skyrocketed. Under the guidance of Braddock and The Don , who I consider my mentors, I started to date women I would never have imagined would be interested in me. date. The teachings of Love Systems havechanged my dating life for the better. After joining the instructor team, I wanted to help othersto date the women who they thought were once out of their league.
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If I can do it, you can too. I hope we can work together sometime.

- Bonsai

Think you have what it takes to become a Love Systems instructor ? Get in touch.

Take care,

Savoy

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