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    MENTAL

    TOUGHNESS

    LOEHR

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 0: Introduction 0-1

    Introduction

    The Ultimate Challenge

    Insecurities

    Doubts

    Inadequacies

    Fears

    Mental Strength = Acquired Mental Skills:

    Concentration Controlling Attitude Managing Pressure Thinking Right Controlling Energy Staying Motivated Visualizing.AET

    Meeting ultimate challenge & building mental strength Excellence + Joy + Fulfillment + Struggle Step by step procedure for understanding and

    controlling the critical mind-body connection.

    Shorten the Mental Toughness processA Personal Journey

    In the Past . Now

    I feel Obligation

    I feel Expectation

    I feel Commitment

    I feel Fear

    I look forward

    I feel like a kid

    I am excited

    I feel lucky to have a chance to do what I am doing

    I was too busy trying to perform well to enjoy myself

    I was too busy trying not to look stupid

    During performance, I always got caught up with what it was

    going to be

    I hated losing

    I was playing not to lose

    My focus now is in the MOMENT

    I savorthe moment Every moment is of every performance is something to be fully experienced and enjoyed I take each moment for what it is

    When I lose this moment

    I think about winning and losing

    I think about what I should have done or not done

    All the negatives come charging back.

    When I do this (savor the moment),

    I experience = calm, strength & energy I feel more positive I feel more in control Things start to flow automatically No tension No anxiety No fear I am right here and now I am loving every minute of it I just do

    I tryto get psyched

    I tryto concentrate

    I tryto perform wellMy mind and body does not click.

    I am fighting myself

    Im fighting against the current

    I just do:

    Ive got excess energy Im mentally on target My mind and my body seem to click Im no longer fighting myself Im flowing with the current

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 0: Introduction 0-2

    In the Past . Now

    I kept getting in the way

    I was determined to succeed I wanted to win at all cost I wanted to prove to myself and everyone I could do it

    I dont get in the way as much anymore.

    My motto:

    try harder be stronger

    Key

    Try softer Be calmer

    Problem:

    I tried too hard I was forcing itThese makes a situation worse:

    Trying to play better Trying not to get angry Trying to concentrate Trying not to be nervousTrying Harder giving 100% effort Giving 100% effort

    I worry about the guy on the other side I worry about me, not him !

    He is easy I am my own toughest opponent.

    Keeping the feelings (pumped up, positive, confident,

    invincible) is a problem

    Something wold happen (even something little), and suddenly

    the feeling would be gone.

    So I try harder, but feeling never came back.

    Savoring the Moment . 2 benefits:

    It brings me back to what I am doingmakes it fun again It is easierto keep that feeling (pumped up, positive,

    confident, invincible), and when I lose it, I can get them

    back the same way.

    When I lose these feelings, I act as if I had them . And they

    come back!

    I thought: that those feelings come only when I play well. Truth: I play well because I have those feelings

    When I feel right, I perform right

    (When I dont feel right, I dont perform right, no matter how

    hard I try)

    These right feelings come

    when I live in every moment when I love and savor every moment when I am in the NOW

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 1. Mental Toughness 1-1

    Mental Toughness

    No One Ever Told Me

    I was overwhelmed by

    frustration, anger, self-doubtI fought myself every inch of the way

    During competition, my inner world was frantic mix of

    Panic RagePanic tied up with fears:

    Fear of looking bad Fear of losing to someone I shouldnt Fear of choking Fear of winningRage reflect

    Frustration (with myself) Disappointment (with myself)(These Negative) Emotions would build inside me.

    The results:

    mistake after mistake Failure after failure.The solution I know:

    Try harderPhysiology

    Muscle tight Brain fast and frantic

    What is important during competition

    Relaxation Calmness Quiet

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 1. Mental Toughness 1-2

    9 Mental Toughness and Consistency

    Feel out of control

    I feel like I am playing Russian Roulette I dont know if I will play poorly and be blown away I dont know if I will play well and be sparedWe rarely play to our full potential. This causes:

    Guilt Self-doubt Anger Self-criticismPeople become casualties of sport (e.g. quit)

    Frustration Mental anguish

    Mental Training

    = Reaching and performing at potential consistently

    Consistency

    = ultimate measure of mental toughness in athlete.

    = earmark of a champion

    Consistent Performance requires 2 things

    (1) Good technique and form(2) Good mental skills

    Playing well is the result of creating a particular

    atmosphere within yourself.

    Players who can consistently create this special

    atmosphere or climate within themselves perform

    consistently.

    MENTAL TOUGHNESS IS LEARNED, NOT INHERITED.

    Mentally tough competitors have following learned

    mental skills:

    Self-Motivated and Self-Directed Positive but Realistic In Control of His Emotions Calm and Relaxed Under Fire Highly Energetic and Ready for Action Determined Mentally Alert and Focused Dogged Self-Confidence Fully ResponsibleYour INNER STRENGTH makes the ultimate difference.

    See next page

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 1. Mental Toughness 1-3

    9 Mental Toughness and Consistency (cont)

    Learned Mental Skills of Mentally Tough Athlete:

    Self-Motivated and Self-Directed

    Direction comes from within Does not need to be pushed, shoved or forced Hes involved because he wants to be.Positive but Realistic

    Not a complainer, criticizer, fault finder, destroyer a builder Eyes are fixed on success Eyes are fixed on what can happen Eyes are fixed on what is possibleIn Control of His Emotions

    There will always be Powerful Triggers of Negative Emotions(e.g. bad refereeing, stupid mistakes, obnoxious opponents,

    poor playing conditions,

    Negative Emotions (anger, frustration, fear) must be controlled,or they will control you

    Calm and Relaxed Under Fire

    Does not avoid pressure He is challengedby pressure Being put to the test is not a threat Being put to the test is a challenge Being put to the test is opportunity to explore self-potentialHighly Energetic and Ready for Action

    He is his own igniter He can ignite himselfin spite offatigue, personal problems, or

    bad luck

    No matter how bad he feels, or how meaningless the situation,he is capable of getting himself pumped up and energized for

    playing his best

    Determined

    He is relentless in the pursuit of his goals Setbacks are taken in stride as he inches forwardMentally Alert and Focused Capable of long and intensive periods oftotal concentration Can tune in to whats important(even under pressure) Can tune out what is not important (even under pressure)Dogged Self-Confidence

    Unshatterable sense of self-confidence Strong belief in himself and in his ability to perform well Does not fall victim to others self-defeating thoughts and ideas Not easily intimidatedFully Responsible

    Takes full responsibility for his own actions There are no excuses: either he did or he didnt Ultimately, everything begins and ends with him, and he is

    comfortable with that.

    He is aware that his future is in his own hands.

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 1. Mental Toughness 1-4

    12 The Contest Within Yourself

    You will always be your own toughest opponent

    The greatest obstacle between you and your goal is YOU!

    Focusing on winning and losing the external contest

    too often leads toperformance paralysis.

    To perform at your best, have one focus:

    Doing the best that you can

    Fears of winning and losing lead to:

    Muscle tightness Excessive anxiety Poor concentration

    Focus on

    doing the very best you can winning the contest with yourself

    How to Win the match with yourself:

    (1) I gave my best effort every moment. I gave 100%(2) I maintained predominantly positive, healthy and

    optimistic attitude with myself

    (3) I accepted full responsibility for me today,for what I did and didnt do

    (didnt blame parents, weather, bad equipment,

    cheating opponents or anything else).

    Winning the contest with yourself is hard work it is the

    ultimate challenge

    Key: The conquest of self

    You will be victorious more consistentlywhen you consistently win the inner contest.

    The contest of me against myself

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 1. Mental Toughness 1-5

    16 A Formula for Success

    4 Step formula for Success:

    Step 1: Self Discipline

    Step 2: Self-Control

    Step 3: Self-Confidence

    Step 4: Self Realization

    Step 1: Self Disciplined

    Do whatever you have to do Make whatever sacrifices are necessary

    to get the job done, the best you know how Giving up things you like in order to achieve a

    higher goal.

    Step 2: Self-Control

    Self-Discipline leads to Self-Control

    As you discipline yourself,

    you experience steady increases in self-control,

    Control of what you do Control of what you think Control of how you reactStep 3: Self-Confidence

    Self-Control leads directly to Self-confidence

    What Tracks is for Trains (without it, train goes nowhere)

    Self-Confidence is for Athletes (without it, athlete goes

    nowhere)

    Self-confidence = the unshatterable belief in yourself,

    comes from knowing that you are in control

    Step 4: Self-Realization

    Self-Realization

    = Being the best that you can be

    = manifestation of your talents and skills as an athlete

    Self-Realization flows directly from Self-Confidence.

    Once you believe in yourselfandfeel good about yourself,

    you are opening the doors to your full potential.

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 1. Mental Toughness 1-6

    17 The AET Model

    Summary of AET Model

    Mental toughness is learned, not inherited The ultimate measure of mental toughness is

    consistency

    Mental Toughness is Learned, not Inherited

    Mental Toughness is an acquiredskill

    You either learn to be mentally tough, or you dont.

    Process of getting Mental Toughness:

    Hard-work Understanding PracticeThe point: if you want to be Mentally Tough, you can !

    Consistency

    Target of AET = increased performance consistency

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-1

    The AET Model

    2.1 Origin of AET 19

    The success of AET is due to the fact that it comes from the players

    and coaches themselves

    It is not armchair theory

    Performance Consistency is the result of Psychological Consistency

    Consistency on the outside requires consistency on the inside.

    The ability to establish and maintain a stable internal climate during

    competitive play (leads to) competitive success.

    To the extent that an athlete was unable toestablish this particular mental state,

    performance suffered.

    An Individuals Performance depends on the success they have in

    creating and maintaining a particular kind of mental climate within

    themselves.

    When athletes are performing well, they invariably are experiencing ahighly distinct and specific mental state.

    The Level of Performance is an accurate reflection of the kind of

    internal climate existing within the performers themselves.

    Right Internal Conditions lead to Peak Performance.

    Playing well or Playing poorly is a natural reflection of the mental

    state.

    When the right internal conditions are present, playing toward the

    upper range of your capabilities occur automatically.

    Ideal Performance State an ideal performance climate (internal)

    There is a connection between this internal state and playing well.

    The Component Elements of the Ideal Performance State are

    fundamentally the same for all athletes and across all sports.

    The Ideal Performance State is most accurately described in terms of

    specific feeling states experienced by the individual performers.

    The most important mental skills required in competitive sport arethose associated with creating and maintaining the Ideal

    Performance State during play.

    Controlling the Ideal Performance State is directly related to the

    acquisition of a core of essential mental skills.

    These skills are the direct focus of the AET procedures.

    Mental Toughness requires a high degree of control over the Ideal

    Performance State. The more you practice, the better you get.

    Maintaining the right internal climate when things are going your wayis tough enough.

    The real test of mental skills come when the pressure is on, when the

    world is against you, and when everything has turned upside down.

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-2

    2.2 The Ideal Performance State

    Composite

    I felt physically very relaxed, but really energized and pumped up. I experienced virtually no anxiety or fear, and the whole

    experience was totally enjoyable.

    I experienced a very real sense of calmness and quiet inside, andeverything just seemed to flow automatically.

    I really didnt have to think about what I was suppose to do; it justseemed to happen naturally.

    Even though I was really hustling, it was all very effortless. I always seemed to have enough time and energy and rarely felt

    rushed almost at times as if I were performing in slow motion.

    I felt like I could do almost anything, as if I were in completecontrol.

    I felt confident and positive. It also seemed very easy to concentrate. I was totally tuned in to what I was doing. I was also super-aware aware of everything but distracted by

    nothing.

    It almost seemed like I knew what was going to happen before itactually did.

    Critical Understanding

    1. Your level of performance is a direct reflection of the way you feelinside.

    2. When you feel right, you can perform right.3. Playing well is a natural consequence of the right kind of internal

    feelings.

    4. Playing as well as you can at the moment occur automaticallywhen the right emotional balance has been established.

    5. In the final analysis, mental toughness is the ability to create andmaintain the right kind of internal feeling regardless of the

    circumstances.

    6. The most important step you can take to perform to your best isto create a particular climate within yourself and maintain it, no

    matter what!

    The wrong climate is like trying to get a seed

    to grow in frozen soil.

    The climate and the conditions just wont

    allow the seed and soil to properly connect.

    Which Comes First?

    The internal state comes first.

    When the right internal climate takes form, playing well occurs

    naturallyand spontaneously.

    The right climate helps to bridge a gap, the gap between what you can

    do as an athlete, and what you actually do.

    As soon as the conditions are right the right combination of

    temperature, water and so on, - the connection is easily made, and the

    potential of one with the other can be realized.

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-3

    2.2 The Ideal Performance State (cont) A Closer Look at the IPS

    12 aspects of ideal climate:

    Aspects Feelings

    Physically

    relaxed

    When you feel relaxed and loose

    Mentally Calm When you feel a sense of calmness and quiet inside

    Low Anxiety When you feel no anxiety or nervousnessEnergized When you feel charged with high energy

    Optimistic When you feel optimistic and positive

    Enjoyment When you feel a genuine sense of fun and

    enjoyment in your play.

    Effortless When your performance feels effortless

    Automatic When you feel automatic and spontaneous in your

    play

    Alert When you feel mentally alert

    Mentally

    Focused

    When you feel mentally focused and tuned in

    Self-confident When you feel highly self-confident

    In control When you feel in control of yourself.

    AET = to help you achieve control over this special mental IPS state.

    The training procedures and concepts are designed

    To help you acquire the necessary mental skills

    That will enable you to

    Identify your IPS Trigger your IPS Maintain your IPSRegardless of the circumstances of play.

    1 Physically RelaxedAthletes do not perform well when:

    Muscles feel moderately of slightly tight Athletes perform best when: theyre feeling loose they are experiencing no nervous muscle tension

    2 Mentally Calm

    Athlete do not perform well when

    Mental State is

    fast accelerated racy

    When Athletes are performing well,

    They experience a sense of calm and quiet inside. They experience things going in slow motion. Everything seemed to slow down, and I had all the time in the

    world to make my move

    3 Low Anxiety

    Athlete do not perform well when

    they feel:

    nervous (even a little) anxious (even a little)

    Athletes perform best when:

    They feel no anxietywhatsoeverNo one performs well under pressure.

    To be a good performer, you must be able to take tough and difficult

    situations and make them PRESSURE FREE.

    Their greatness is in their learned ability to take the pressure off.

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-4

    2.2 The Ideal Performance State (cont) A Closer Look at the IPS (cont)

    4 Energized

    Athletes do not perform well when

    Source of Energy (feelings of):

    anxiety fear anger frustration

    Athletes perform best when:

    They feel pumped withpositive energy You can never get too much positive energySource of energy = JOY

    Having right energy source leads to Feelings of:

    Enjoyment Fun Loving what they are doing.Unique combination = positive energy + profound sense of inner calm!

    5 Optimistic

    Even slightly negative and pessimistic feelings

    make staying loose, calm and positivelyenergized impossible.

    Feeling positive and optimistic to perform well

    Makes staying loose, calm and positively energized possible.

    6 Fun / Enjoyment

    Principle: what you can enjoy, you can perform.

    Principle: if its fun, you can perform.

    You play well because you had fun!

    (We do not have fun because we play well!)

    Having fun and enjoying yourself:

    is key to staying relaxed, calm, unanxious, positively energizedand optimistic.

    Is boundless energy source Is a highly controllable feelingLearn to:

    Love to struggle Love the battle Love the confrontation

    7 Effortless

    When things dont go well try harder!

    But trying harder leads to:

    Physical: Tight muscle Mental: Fast and frantic mental state

    When things dont go well try softer!

    I give 100% to the task, but I must also:

    let go and let it happen by itselfPlaying well is effortless!

    Playing well occurs when:

    We give 100% to the task of letting it happen by itself.

    Learn to

    try softer try easierWhen we play well, time seems to slow and it all becomes easy.

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-5

    2.2 The Ideal Performance State (cont) A Closer Look at the IPS (cont)

    8 Automatic

    Playing by Thinking

    Paralysis by Analysis Syndrome

    Think my way:

    into brilliant performance out of performance problem

    Playing by Instinct

    Let go and play automatically.

    Learn to:

    Turn on the automatic Play by instinct (swifter and more precise)

    9 Alert

    When athletes are in IPS, they experience

    Extraordinary awareness Aware of their own bodies Aware of position of players around them Whos likely to do what Where they are What they are doing Ability to anticipate well To read what is about to happen To respond intelligently to the present

    10 Mentally Focused

    Attentional Control is not possible when:

    mind is in turmoil Mind is not properly energizedAthletes who do not perform well:

    Are trying to concentrate

    Concentration rarely increases

    with conscious acts of trying harder.

    Central to Performing Well:

    Focus ones attention to a specific target Resist being distracted from ones target(1) Attentional Control comes from

    = right mixture of calmness + high positive energy.

    (2) Athletes who perform well

    typically are not trying to concentrate.

    Concentration occurs naturally when inner conditions are right.

    11 Self-Confident

    Self-confidence

    the feeling that you can do it the feeling that you can be successful the feeling that keeps you calm and poised (in midst of turmoil)This feeling of self-confidence can be cultivated and controlled

    (learned)

    12 In Control

    The feeling of I am in control of me

    When athletes are in IPS, they experience

    Feeling of inner strength Feeling of self-control Feeling of being in control of the situation, rather than the

    situation controlling you.

    In competition:

    There are a lot of things we cannot control But we can (in fact) stay in complete control by controlling our

    emotional response to those events!

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-6

    2.3 Pressure, Pressure, Pressure

    Nobody plays well under pressure

    Skillful competitors play well in pressure situationsprecisely because

    they have eliminated the pressure.

    The fans may be wild, but the players who are doing well are in a

    completely different place psychologically.

    Although they were intellectually aware (thought) they were in a

    tough situation, they didnt feel the pressure inside (emotion).

    So, athletes perform best in pressure situations when they are able to

    successfully maintain their own Ideal Performance State.

    Why Dont they Feel The Pressure?

    Pressure is something you put on yourself.

    People view: Playing for fun = easy Playing competitively = too much hard

    work.

    The only difference between playing a sports competitively andplaying it for fun is pressure.

    But the game is played exactly the same way in both cases.

    Keep score the same The rules dont change Often playing the same people

    You can structure situations in your thoughts

    so that it is impossible to play

    relaxed, calm and positively energized.

    The only difference is the difference you make in your head! E.g.:

    One counts, and the other doesnt My ego is really on the line in competition What will people think if I lose when it counts

    Competition

    Hard Threatening Frustrating Unnerving

    Competition:

    Just as much fun Fust as pressure free (like social play)When this happens, we become a mentally tough competitor.

    Pressure comes from within, not from without.

    In the physical world, there are no concrete, physical forcesworking on us.

    Situations are not nervous or anxious people are Its your interpretationof what is out there that gets you in

    trouble!

    Once we realize the above, we can start shutting pressure down

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-7

    2.3 Pressure, Pressure, Pressure (cont)

    Disciplined Thinkers

    Undisciplined Think:

    Thinking the wrong thought Quickly lead to pressure problems.E.g.

    If I dont sink this putt, Ill lose $10,500 If I dont complete this pass, well never make

    the playoffs.

    The whole game rests on me if I dont hitthese two free throws, what will everyone say?

    Mentally tough competitors manage pressure well

    Because they have become disciplined thinkers.

    They recognize a connection between: What they think, and How much pressure they experience during play.Changes that occur in the head (thinking)

    Will lead to

    Changes that occur in the body (action)

    Sample Thoughts That Produce Pressure Sample Thoughts That Reduce Pressure

    The pressure is awesome What ifI dont do well? What ifI blow itnow; Ill never be the same Ill never live it down if I lose If I dont do it now, Ill lose everything My career is on the line Just think of what Ill loseif I dont pull this one

    out.

    Ill drop from second to tenth if I dont win thisone.

    Pressure is something I put on myself. Im just going to do the best I can and

    let the cards fall where they may.

    Im simply going tofocus on doing my job the best I knowhow.

    Im going to have one hell of a lot of fun out there, nomatter what.

    Even if Im not the greatest today, It wont be the end ofthe world

    Winning and losing is for the fans; I simply perform. I love tough situations; the tougher the situation, the better

    I perform

    Im going to be OK, no matter what.Negative words:

    What if Ill lose If I dont If I blow it

    Positive words

    Im simply going to I simply perform Do the best I can Focus on doing my job One hell of a lot of fun

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-8

    2.3 Pressure, Pressure, Pressure (cont)

    Threat v Challenge

    Fold Under Pressure

    Face adversity. Become

    Bitter Frustrated Negative PessimisticFinds all kinds of reason why he cant perform

    Coach Management Salary Lousy team, etc

    Thrive under Pressure

    Face same adversity. Become

    Stronger Mentally tougher More determined Play becomes more inspired and enthusiasticIn spite of confusion and craziness

    Continues to move forward No gripe about reasons

    How does he construct the situation in his head?

    Mentally structured the situation to be = Threat

    (this mental construct is under our own control)

    How does he construct the situation in his head?

    Mentally structured the situation to be = Challenge

    (this mental construct is under our own control)

    This Control is acquired by structuring

    our thoughts and ideas

    in positive constructive directions

    If perceive situation as Threat

    We will have IPS problems and IPS will be unrealizable fantasyThe more threatening the situation,The more serious the problem.

    Inevitable Problems:

    Problems with muscle tightness Problems with controlling anxiety Problems with staying calm Problems with attentional control

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-9

    2.3 Pressure, Pressure, Pressure (cont)

    Threat v Challenge (cont)

    Physiology of Threat

    In reality, the situation is NOT Threatening

    A third set tie breaker in tennis for $10,000 An overtime free throw for the championshipBut athlete can perceive the situation as a THREAT

    (the trigger of THREAT)

    Threat triggers Flight or Fight response (physiology)

    Pounding heart Rapid breathing Trembling body Elevated blood pressure Heightened fear or anger Braced and tight muscle Tunnel vision Adrenaline pumpingOnce Threat triggered, impossible to reach IPS !

    To serve the ace or to sink the free throw, we need

    Calmness Relaxation Positive Energy Self-ControlTo be successful, we must insulate ourselves against

    that trigger of THREAT.

    We can control our internal reactions to changing externalevents:

    We are not helpless victims of our biological instincts There are no actual physical forces in the world

    compelling us to react to stress in a particular way.

    Controlling the trigger means

    controlling the way we think

    about the situations we face as competitors.

    KEY = transform potentially threatening and difficult situations

    Into exciting self-challenges

    KEY

    Focus on eliminating the pressure Stop thinking about performing well under pressure Stop thinking about choking under pressureThis skill (of eliminating pressure) separates superstars from

    the troops. They have:

    the ability to take the pressure off. The ability to transform crisis into opportunity The ability to turn threat into challengesAll that stands between you and that ability . Is your head !

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-10

    2.3 Pressure, Pressure, Pressure (cont)

    Raging Bull or Possum You Gotta Love Adversity !

    External Situation

    (Neutral)

    Perceived as a THREAT

    THREAT= automatically Triggers off unproductive

    Fight or Flight Response

    ( 2 Types)

    Adversity:

    Nobody is there for you The weather is so rotten, you can hardly stand up Sick all week and got no practice Opponents get all the breaks, and you get none Everyone has written you off Your personal falls apart You are injured and you are not sure if you can or cant

    Raging Bull

    Pounding heart Rapid breathing Trembling body Elevated blood

    pressure

    Heightened fearor anger

    Braced and tightmuscle

    Tunnel vision AdrenalinePerformance = bad

    Possum

    Shut down alarmresponse

    Play dead inside

    no lose temper dont feel anxious stay loosePerformance = miserable

    Reason:

    Absence of energy + fire

    Looks like:

    Lazy Unmotivated Not playing with heart Not caringAthlete response

    Forceful angry

    Adversity triggers feelings of :

    Anger Resentment Frustration NervousnessProduce overwhelming FEELINGS ofPRESSURE

    In TOP COMPEITTORS, these produce

    Feelings ofchallenge Feelings ofinspiration Feelings ofdetermination Feelings ofpositivenessIn Short, you gotta love adversity!

    The greater the adversity

    The moreyou feel the challenge

    The more you fight.

    Transformadversity and pressureinto challenges / inspiration:

    Rather thandread playing the other personlove it! Rather thanpanickingwhen it goes against youget

    inspired!

    Rather thanplayingtimid when door starts to close on you you summon all the positive forces and charge forward!

    The Importance of Rituals

    Rituals can become powerful triggers for creating IPS.

    Rituals

    Help in deepening concentration Turning on the automatic Raising intensity Staying loose, etc

    When game goes badly or

    when we start feeling pressure,

    we short circuit our rituals we bounce the balls less we take fewer deep breaths we visualize differently we cut down the time by half

    When game goes badly or when we start feeling pressure,

    we must keep to our rituals

    take more than enough time to prepare prior to execution complete our pre-performance ritual in its entiretyDevelop rituals!

    Rituals that help me feel loose, confident, energized (1,2,3) Pre-Performance Rituals (1,2,3)

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    2.4 The Right Energy Positive v Negative Energy

    Negative Energy

    Fear Anxiety Negativism Sel-Doubt

    Positive Energy

    Confidence Determination Self-belief Joy Momentum Team Spirit Positiveness

    High

    High Negative Energy High Positive Energy

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    High

    Nervous

    Fearful

    Anxious

    Angry

    Frustrated

    Upset

    Vengeful

    Alert

    Energetic

    Lively

    Stimulated

    Vigorous

    Enthused

    High Team Spirit

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D CBored

    Disinterested

    Annoyed

    Irritated

    Tired

    Fatigue

    Weary

    Exhausted

    Out of Gas

    Low

    High

    Tight Muscles

    Accelerated Mental State

    Tunnel Vision

    Relaxed Muscles

    Calm Mental State

    Focused

    ConcentratedUnpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Muscle Tension

    Variable Calmness

    Unfocused

    Poor Concentration

    Relaxed Muscles

    CalmMental State

    Unfocused

    Poor Concentration

    Low

    High

    Moderate Performance

    #2 chance good performance

    Peak Performance

    #1 chance good performance

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Very Poor Performance

    #4 chance good performance

    Poor Performance

    #3 chance good performance

    Low

    NO

    Fight or Flight

    Reaction

    rigid

    inflexible

    no mental focus

    Attention wanders

    Distracted easily

    Effort to focus

    Inconsistency

    Unpredictability

    Distracted easily

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    2.4 The Right Energy (cont)

    Positive v Negative Energy (cont)

    High

    I really want it

    Im not enough

    I wont be able to

    - THREAT -

    I really want it

    ImChallenged

    I can do it!

    - No Threat -Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Id rather be doing about

    anything else.

    This is boring

    - Mild Threat -

    I want to, but not all that much

    - No Threat -

    Low

    High

    High Negative Energy High Positive Energy

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    High

    High Negative Energy

    Best Performance = 60% only

    Highly Motivated to do well

    Perceive Event as = THREAT

    Emotions:

    Anxiety

    Fear

    Anger

    Frustration

    Hate

    Tension

    Resentment

    Negativism

    High Positive Energy

    Highly Motivated to do well

    Perceive Event as = Challenge

    Emotions:

    Calmness

    Strength

    Power

    Control

    Fun

    Enjoyment

    Determination

    Self-motivation

    Love what you are doing

    JOY

    Optimism

    Challenge

    High Team Spirit

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    Takes time

    Takes effort

    High Positive EnergyCalmness

    Strength

    Power

    Control

    High Negative EnergyAnxiety

    Fear

    Anger

    Frustration

    Low Positive EnergyCalmness

    Pleasantness

    Lacks Power

    Lacks Depth

    Low Negative EnergyNo Fun

    No Energy

    No Fire

    No Life

    Increase Power

    Increase Intensity

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    2.4 The Right Energy (cont)

    Intensity is Simply High Energy

    High

    High Negative Energy High Positive Energy

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    High-Octane Energy

    Think of Human Body = sophisticated high-performance engine that need good high-octane fuel to run !

    High

    High Negative Energy High Positive Energy

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    HIGH INTENSITY

    (HIGH ENERGY)

    Low Intensity

    (Low Energy)

    Determination

    Aggressiveness

    Effort

    Im going for it

    Loss of Calmness

    Tight Muscles

    Poor Concentration

    HIGH POSITIVE

    INTENSITY

    HIGH NEGATIVE

    INTENSITY

    POSITIVE ENERGY

    High-Octane Fuel

    NEGATIVE ENERGY

    Low-Octane Fuel

    Level of Performance = HighLevel of Performance = Poor

    Poor judgment

    Tight muscles

    Early fatiguePoor concentration

    Loss of control

    100/0 Mix

    (best)

    75/25 Mix

    (so so)

    50/50 Mix

    (borderline)

    40/60 Mix

    (catastrophe ! )

    Trick = keep Positive Energy up!

    Low-Octane

    Negative Activators

    Anger

    Resentment

    Anxiety

    Hate

    Fear

    Tension

    Negativism

    Threat

    Frustration

    High -Octane

    Positive Activators

    Fun

    Joy

    Love

    Determination

    Optimism

    Enjoyment

    Pride

    Self-Challenge

    Team Spirit

    Self-motivation

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    2.4 The Right Energy (cont)

    An Ancient Understanding

    Universal Life Force (Ranch = Life Force Particles)

    KI (Japanese) CHI (Chinese) Soft Energy (Loehr)

    Negative KI (KI-)Thoughts-Actions-Results- Positive KI (KI+) Thoughts+ Actions+ Results+

    Health Harmony Fulfillment

    KI-

    Thoughts-

    Action-

    Results-

    Negative Energy

    Anxiety

    Anger

    Hate

    Fear

    Negativism

    Frustration

    Distrust

    Fast & Frantic Mental State

    Poor Concentration

    Tight Muscles

    Low-Level Performance

    Positive Energy

    Joy

    Fun

    Love

    Challenge

    Optimism

    Determination

    Enjoyment

    Calm Mental State

    Good Concentration

    Relaxed Muscles

    High-Level Performance

    Ki+

    Thoughts+

    Actions+

    Results+

    Negative Energy Positive Energy

    Ski Racer Externals:Wind is bad

    Course is in poor condition

    Feelings:

    Concerned

    Nervous

    Thoughts:

    Competition is particularly tough

    Tired of waiting around

    How can anyone perform under theseconditions?

    Body:

    Cold

    Externals:Wind bites,

    snow is blinding

    Feelings:

    Loving every minute of it.

    Feeling Wired

    Feeling Supercharged

    Thoughts:

    This is my moment

    This is what I was born to do!

    No matter what, this is the greatest!

    Body:

    feel tingling sensation up and down neck

    Swimmer Feelings:

    Feeling short fused (striking rattlesnake)

    Feeling Pressure.

    Thoughts:

    I have no clue how I got here

    Im outclassed. I dont belong here Just dont look bad

    Just dont let anyone down

    Today will be done with and I can start

    sleeping and eating normally again!

    Feelings:

    Looking forward to today

    Feeling psyched just to have the chance!

    Thoughts:

    For first time, got chance to compete with 5 top state swimmers

    Got opportunity to swim against John Taylor!What a great opportunity!

    Body:

    Objectively speaking, not as good as others, but this does not

    phase me out.

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    Negative Energy Positive Energy

    Football Externals:

    Humiliated by other team last time.

    Made your team looked really bad

    Feelings:

    Angry (at prior loss)Personal vendetta(tomorrows game)

    Detest several of those other players

    Thoughts:

    Committed to getting even (revenge time)

    They won first game unfairly.

    They won first game by luck.

    Body:

    Just thinking about it I get all tied up inside

    Externals:

    Humiliated by other team last time.

    Made your team looked really bad

    Feelings:

    (Last time: allowed self to be hopelessly intimidated)This time, I am going to hold my own.

    Thoughts:

    This time will be different

    I have one central focus =

    doing my job the best I know how, no matter what!

    Body:

    I am better prepared, I have worked harder

    I know what I am capable of!

    Baseball Externals:

    Slump for 3 months now

    Pitching and batting lousy

    Thoughts:

    Convinced new coach does not like me

    This guy is a real jerk

    He took all the fun out of playing

    Feelings:

    Feel defensive

    Develop strong feelings of resentmentFeel strong dislike for coach

    Body:

    Hard to give best effort . Because deep

    inside, we want to make this guy look bad.

    Externals:

    New coach does not like me

    Thoughts:

    Not sure why coach does not like me

    (pitching style? Personality? What?)

    Feelings:

    (Existing Feelings of anger, resentment, upset)

    Get hold of feelings + Turn situation aroundFeel determined that this guy is not going to undermine my

    enthusiasm and desire for the game.

    Learned a long time ago how important being positive is to my

    playing well.

    Convinced: enthusiasm, sprit and hard work will pan things out.

    Body:

    Basketball Externals:

    Did not win State Championship last yearEveryone said we have best chance

    We had the shooters, we had the talents

    Feelings:

    Players never came together as a team

    Individuals trying to be stars

    Everyone jealous of everyone else

    No one went out of way to help anyone else

    Someone was always criticizing something

    Nothing was every right

    Bench was always quiet, even when close to

    winning.

    Externals:

    Win State Championship last yearNo one gave us a chance

    Team did not have height or shooters

    Feelings:

    Feel Momentum building from very first game

    Feel Team Spirit

    Feel Invincible

    Feel Supercharged

    Feel closeness

    Everyone was helping each other, building them up, making

    them feel good inside.

    How to Deal

    with Jerks

    How to Deal

    with Prior Loss

    Team Spirit

    IPS

    IPS

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    2.4 The Right Energy (cont)

    Trying Not To Rarely Works

    Trying No to rarely produces the results you want Lesson:

    (1) Decide what you want to feel

    (2) GO AFTER IT!

    High

    Emotions:

    Anxiety

    Fear

    AngerFrustration

    Hate

    Tension

    Resentment

    Negativism

    High Positive Energy

    Perceive Event as =

    Challenge

    Emotions:

    Calmness

    Strength

    PowerControl

    Fun

    Enjoyment

    Determination

    Self-motivation

    Love what you are doing

    JOY

    Optimism

    Challenge

    High Team Spirit

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D CLow Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    Trying Not To be

    FearfulAngry

    Nervousfails

    High Negative Energy

    Perceive Event as = THREAT

    Focus on Increasing

    Positive Energy Flow

    Example

    Playing Not To Make Mistakes

    Playing Not to Look Bad

    Example: Focus on playing

    smart

    Confident

    aggressively

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    2.4 The Right Energy (cont)

    Momentum as Positive Energy FLow

    High

    High Negative Energy High Positive Energy

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy Low Positive Energy

    Low

    Mental Toughness and Momentum

    M+

    M+

    M+

    Positive Momentum (M+)

    M+ = intensifying feeling of IPS positive feelings

    M+ Experience = Feelings of increased

    confidence optimism energy alertnessM+: were rolling!

    Negative Momentum (M-)

    M- = intensifying loss of IPS feelings

    M- Experience = Feelings of increasing

    Low confidence Negative thoughts Negative energy flow Frantic mental stateM- were stalling were falling backwards

    M-

    M-

    M-

    Flow of Momentum

    We can LEARN to control this Flow of Momentum.

    KEY = practice maintaining internal IPS climate

    KEY = practice maintaining flow of positive energy KI+

    Patience Poise Wait to get momentum back

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    Mental Toughness Training for Sports. 2. The AET Model 2-18

    2.5 The Right Attitude

    Attitudes = Thinking Habits

    Attitudes are the stuff of which Champions are made

    Mentally Tough Competitors are Disciplined Thinkers

    Attitudes = habits of thoughts

    These habits of thoughts make or break the competitor

    Thinking Right

    Ideal Performance State leads to our Best Performance

    IPS . Linked to flow of positive energy (from before)

    IPS + flow of positive energy = tied to particular mental attitudes.

    Right Attitudes

    stimulate the flow of positive energy (energizing attitudes)

    helps control flow of energy in positive direction (controlling

    attltudes)

    Controlling Attitudes

    (direction)

    Energizing Attitudes

    (step-up)

    1. Pressure is something I put on myself2. Winning will take care of itself; I simply

    perform

    3. Hard work can be fun4. When I enjoy, I can perform5. Choking is not a weakness of character6. I accept full responsibility for myself7. I simply focus on doing the very best I can at

    every moment8. Mistakes simply represent feedback and are a

    necessary part of learning anything well.

    1. I will always give my best effort2. I take pride in what I represent3. I am going to thoroughly enjoy myself as I perform4. Having fun is an important key to playing well5. My attitude is offensive rather than defensive6. I strive to be positive and enthusiastic, no matter what7. Im willing to pay the price, no matter what8. I will be successful

    Reduce Your Negativism

    Absolute Rule

    To achieve your fullest potential as a competitor,

    Your must reduce your negativism to a minimum.

    Negativism

    See how negative the inner voice (i.v.) is?How often am I consumed in negative thinking?

    Inner Voice + Habit of Negative Thinking

    Powerful forces tt block realization of our potential

    Negativism erodes our INNER STRENGTH!

    Undermines our confidence Undermines our enthusiasm Undermines our willingness to invest & persist Undermines our beliefs in ourselves !Negativism = programming for failure.

    Negativism = very very harmful!

    What goes on in mind is reflected in body!

    Control your Negativism (Programming for Success)

    To achieve our IPS, we must Control our Negativism (3-steps)

    Step 1:

    Listen to what you are saying and thinking

    Become aware of thinking and inner voice

    Be sensitive to any negativism

    Start blowing whistle on yourself as soon as any negative input is

    generated.

    Step 2:

    As soon as become aware of any negativism, shout STOP (i.v.)

    Youll be amazed that it actually stops !

    Step 3:

    Replace the negative talk (or negative thought)

    with something positive and constructive.

    Negativism is Controllable! Start taking charge!

    [step-up]

    [direction]

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    2.5 The Right Attitude (cont) The Attitudes of Success

    Attitudes towards Winning and Losing eliminate

    most of the energy stemming from negative

    activators such as Anxiety Tension Fear

    Most Anxiety Tension Fear stems from concernsabout

    - Losing

    - Winning

    - Looking bad

    - Playing Poorly.

    As such, athlete must look for other sources of

    energy (energizing attitudes):

    Attitude of having Fun

    Attitude of Self-Challenge

    Attitude towards Fun and Enjoyment

    What I can enjoy, can perform

    Having fun makes playing well possible (not vice versa!)

    Ability to enjoy myself in competition = fundamentally important

    Make having fun a high priority during play, I can enjoy and

    have fun no matter how difficult the situation may be.

    Impact on IPS

    With proper attitude towards fun, athletes report that they:

    - Stay relaxed

    - Experience no anxiety

    - Remain calm, alert energized

    Having fun is a powerful source of positive energy

    The more fun they have, the more energy they have.

    I love what Im doing its great!

    Wrong Attitude Towards Winning

    Winning is everything I must win at all cost I have value only if I win * I cant tolerate the thought of losing I am useless if I lose * Winning is good and Losing is bad I am strong if I win and weak if I lose I am a success if I win and a failure if I lose. *

    * = The statements I feel sensitive about

    Impact on IPS

    This attitudes are triggers ofnegative energy !

    This energy is extremely difficult to control.

    Wrong attitudes to winning leads to:

    Over-arousal Negative performances High levels of fear No relaxation No mental calmness

    Right Attitude toward Winning and Losing(Attitude of Self-Challenge)

    Winning is important goal for me

    Obsession with winning is self-defeating

    My #1 effort winning

    My #1 effort , my focus, my goal

    = performing to the very best of my ability at any moment

    = doing the best at the moment

    Winning will take care of myself. I simply perform.

    Reality:

    I am performing against myself, not someone else.

    I will always be my own toughest opponent.

    Winning the contest with myself and my external world becomes

    possible when I learn to establish the right internal conditions.

    Impact on IPS

    Provides a non-interfering target for the athlete, target of doing

    the best he can

    - Lowers of tension and anxiety

    - Helps produce mental calmness (important to performance)- Help improves athletes concentration and focusing efforts

    - Reduces tension and anxiety levels during play.

    Note:

    Winning is, in fact, everything!

    But fact: an athlete that is preoccupied (obsessed) with winning

    will show deterioration of performance.

    Better performance comes when:

    - Focus on performing to your best

    - Proceed to establish and maintain right internal conditions

    (- reduce focus on winning).

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    2.5 The Right Attitude (cont) Attitudes Towards Mistakes

    Wrong Attitude Towards Mistakes

    Mistakes cannot be tolerated If Im tough, Ill never make mistakes If I punish myself for making mistakes,

    it will prevent me from making those samemistakes in the future.

    IfI dont get upset with myself, I will just keepright on making inexcusable mistakes.

    Dumb mistakes makes me furious Winners just dont make mistakes* To be a winner, I must stop making mistakes I must be perfectly competent and adequate*Impact on IPS

    Mistakes are inevitable part of participation

    Attitudes such at the above leads to:

    Anger Self-doubt Negative attitude. Over-arousal

    Right Attitude Towards Mistakes

    Mistakes are a necessary part of learning anything well.

    Mistakes are inevitable part of participation.

    If I dont make mistakes, I wont learn.

    Mistakes simply represent feedback.

    If I become upset (emotion), I cannot listen or adjust,

    I am therefore bound to repeat.

    Right Internal Climate -> minimized mistakes.

    Impact on IPS

    Attitude Mistakes are necessary part of learning anything well

    Stays calm and relaxed Stays positive and optimistic Continues to experience enjoyment in play

    Attitude Towards Pressure

    Wrong Attitude Towards Pressure

    I have little or no control over how muchpressure I feel.

    Ive never held up under pressure well Certain people, places and events are

    threatening to me. Thats just the way I am.

    I know I dont perform well in those situations,but its not as if I choose to react that way. It

    just happens.

    Impact on IPS

    With the above attitudes, an athlete can find

    himself

    vicitimized by pressure situations. Over-arousal Threat and Fun is not compatible.

    Right Attitude Toward Pressure.

    I understand thatpressure is something I put on myself

    Pressure (and any resulting anxiety) comes from the way I choose

    to see the situation.

    Whether a situation is seen as a THREAT or an exciting SELF-

    CHALLENGE is within control (my choice)

    When I see the situation as a THREAT,

    negative activators come to the surface: Tension, Anxiety, Fear.

    When the same situation is seen as a SELF-CHALLENGE,

    positive energy is released, producing opposite reactions

    The ultimate challenge of handling pressure

    is the challenge of mentally reconstructing the event or situationso that it is seen as a positive self-challenge

    rather than as a threat.

    Transforming crisis into opportunity begins and ends in my head.

    Impact on IPS

    Ability to see situation as self-challenge (rather than a threat)

    results in high positive energy Leads to lower anxiety and fear Lead to mental calmness Leads to appropriate relaxation Enhances having fun and remaining optimistic Challenge and Fun highly compatible!

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    2.5 The Right Attitude (cont) Attitude Towards Control

    Wrong Attitude Towards Control

    Winners never choke when it counts Winners dont fold under pressure Choking is a sign of weakness Choking is a true reflection of character To choke is the worst thing that can happen If I choke, I am not trying hard enough If I choke, I am not giving enough effort. Most things are caused by events and

    happenings outside myself

    Luck of fate determines my future in sportsmore than anything else.

    My opponent seems to get all the good breaks,all the good luck.

    When things go bad, I have little control overthem.

    Impact on IPS

    With above wrong attitudes

    Athlete often feels helpless as he struggles not to choke during competition. Pressure situations lead to anxiety and fear Athlete begins to dislike competition During competition, Athlete is quickly

    threatened, loses confidence and generally

    plays poorly.

    Right Attitude Towards Control

    Choking occurs when I perceive a situation to be a THREAT(thus triggering my fight or flight response).

    Choking is nothing more than my failure to maintain theright internal conditions.

    Choking is an indication that I am out there trying, taking arisk. Thats the only way I will ever learn to control it.

    I understand that finest athlete can choke on occasions. I can and will develop substantial control over choking I understand I will never be immune to choking The more I fear choking, the more likely it is I will experience

    it.

    Choking is not a weakness of character Choking is not a flaw in my personality

    Impact on IPS

    The above right attitude:

    Produces poise and control Learn to control choke by recognizing choking is

    merely failure to maintain one or more critical elements of

    IPS

    Positive Attitudes

    Wrong Attitudes (Negative and Pessimistic)

    I can only be positive when I am doing well,but when I start to make stupid mistakes, it is

    impossible to play well.

    Some athletes are just naturally even-tempered and positive.

    Ive always been a little negative, but thatsjust me.

    I tried being positive, but it doesnt work

    Ive played really lousy, even though I had apositive attitude.

    It will take some time and convincing to getme to believe being positive is really all that

    necessary.

    Impact on IPS

    Negative attitudes lead to poor performance

    No relaxation No mental calmness High anxiety Low energy

    Right Attitude towards being Positive and Optimistic

    Having the correct attitude requires me to make a choice. I have made the choice to have a positive attitude. Being positive and optimistic is important to performing

    well.

    Maintaining a positive and enthusiastic attitude is a learnedskill, not something that just naturally happens.

    I understand that I can eliminate negativism with hard work,practice and dedication.

    I recognize that eliminating negative mental habits taketime, but I will make time for this learning, and I will be

    successful.

    Impact on IPS

    Positive attitude leads to good performance. It is good to spend time, effort and energy to learn positive

    attitudes!

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    2.5 The Right Attitude (cont) Attitude of Excellence.

    Wrong Attitudes Toward Excellence

    I never get the breaks Nobody can work that hard It isnt really worth it So what if I give up, we werent going to win

    anyway.

    Impact on IPS

    Without element of

    Pride Determination ExcellenceThe High Energy and Control Requirements will

    probably be noticeably deficient over time.

    Right Attitude Toward Excellence

    I will always strive to give my best effort, regardless of thecircumstances.

    I am never satisfied with giving less than 100% effort I havepride in what I represent Im not a quitter, and Im willing to pay the price. I have set a goal for myself, and I am willing to put forth

    whatever effort is necessary to accomplish them

    I fully understand that success is not waiting for somethingto happen, its making it happen.

    My attitude is offensive rather than defensive I am active rather than reactive. Im going for it! My future as an athlete is in my own hands. What I accomplish and what I fail to accomplish is a result of

    me.

    I accept full responsibility for myself. My destiny is shaped each day by what I dream, what I think

    and what I do.

    I will be successfulImpact on IPS

    (1) Very powerful source of positive energy(2) Highly stabilizing control factor over performance.These attitudes continue energizing performance

    even thoughthings are going badly.

    The energy generated from these attitudes . are the only

    satisfactory substitute for the energy lost when the athlete stops

    having fun.

    These are the attitudes of the true professional, producing an

    element of control and consistency in performance that cannot

    be achieved any other way.

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    2.5 The Right So How Do You Acquire the Right Attitudes?

    Attitudes are nothing more than habits of thought

    Our attitudes (habits of thoughts) are formed principally in

    response to the ways in which we consistently construe the

    world in which we live in.

    If you tend to be a negative and pessimistic thinker, you learned

    it.

    Habitually thinking about your world in a negative way leads to

    the development of very strong and resistant negative attitudes.

    These negative attitudes can substantially alter our inner climate.

    Your habit of thought are blocking a particular way of feeling.

    If you frequently feelthreatened (in competition).you may more likely thinkabout (competition)

    in a threatening way.

    If you rarely feelfun or enjoyment (in competition),you probably rarely thinkabout (competition)

    being fun or enjoyable.

    If you consistentlyfeelvery undisciplined and lazy(as an athlete),

    you probably rarely thinkabout how disciplined and hard

    working you could be and eventually would be.

    If you consistentlyfeelnegative, frustrated and angryin response to mistakes,you probably rarely thinkabout how calm and cool

    you could be in response to mistakes.

    If youre frequentlyfeeling negative and pessimisticabout yourself and your future,

    youre probably not thinking

    challenging, inspirational or positive thoughts.

    Key to Changing Attitudes

    = Repetitiously think of the attitudes you wish to acquire.

    May not believe them when first start.

    The daily programming

    quickly begins to impact your belief systems,

    and eventually you will witness a very real and obvious change

    in the way youfeel.

    The true test for determining attitude change

    is the correspondingfeeling change

    Repetitiously Say Feeling Change

    I can do that Begin to feel like you really can

    I am getting more disciplined! Begin to feel like you can become disciplinedIn face of adversity, say I love it! Begin to feel challenged, inspired, and strong as opposed to feeing

    angry or threatened in tough situations

    I love (competition) Begin to feel more relaxed and calm in competition

    How to Acquire the Right Attitudes

    1. Constantly repeat the attitudes you want2. Read everything you can that pertains to

    the area you want to change

    3. Record the attitude you wish to acquire ontape

    4. Play it back daily5. Record that statement along with favorite

    song

    6. Makes signs/posters with key wordsrelating to new attitude (e.g. I love it!

    Place them in strategic places.

    7. As soon as find self thinking wrongattitude, say stop and replace it with the

    right one.

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    2.5 The Right Attitude (cont) How To Think About Problems and Adversity

    Competition = is nothing but a continuous presentation of

    problems.

    Your emotional response to problems

    will bring you either success or failure as a competitor.

    If you expect to enter the competitive arena and have everything

    go smoothly, youre in for performance trouble.

    You must learn to control your emotional response to

    problems.

    Ways to Think about Problems

    (that will trigger right energy response and sustain your IPS)

    I choose the way a problem affects me in competition. The right emotional response to a problem is 75% of the

    solution.

    Everyone is mentally tough when there are no problems;problems are the true test of my emotional skills.

    Problems will bring out my greatness no problems, nogreatness.

    To become a good competitor, I must become a goodproblem solver.

    I never lose; I simply ran out of time before I solved theproblem.

    When I think Ive exhausted all the options to solve aproblem, I know I havent.

    To love competition, Ive got to love solving problems. Im at my best emotionally when the problems are the

    worst.

    Im getting good at turning problems into opportunitiesduring competition.

    Give me problems I need the practice!

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    2.6 The Right Focus

    Thinking . Separate from . Doing

    We have become masters at living somewhere other than

    the present in our thoughts.

    Were just not accustomed to keeping our thoughts and

    actions together.

    We fail to be MINDFUL when we perform.

    Our thoughts drift to Past or Future, thinking of

    Past mistakes Winning or losing What people will think Winning the next point What will happen ifIncomplete Movements follow Incomplete Attention

    Usually, we stay with the momentuntil a certain time only: Footall receiver swm until ball nearly reach hand

    then think of touchdown and loses the ball

    Golfer at delicate putt swm until just before putt .then think whether it will be good or not .. and miss the

    mark.

    Archer think RELEASE .rather than increasing hisawareness that he is releasing the arrow.

    Thinking . Merged with . Doing

    But isnt it true that we immediately return to that

    special focus when the situation suddenly demands our

    best response?

    Eg mountain climber @ 2000 foot sheer canyon wall

    Eg race car driver @ 200 mphEg karate man breaking blocks.

    Focus = keeping our thoughts and actions together.

    Focus = moment-by-moment

    Complete Movements follow Complete Attention

    Performing well requires that our focus be

    moment-to-moment.

    The presence of NOW must not be disturbed

    by a thought ofwhat might be or what has been.The successful competitor must learn to

    savor every moment of play as an end in itself.

    Top performance requires mindfulness

    from beginning to end.

    Merge our awareness with what we are doing at the

    time.

    Each link in the performance chain becomes an end in

    itself, with full attention given to the activity until it is

    complete.

    Rushing occurs when

    we lose the moment and begin trying to force the future.

    When you successfully stay with the moment,

    There is no panic There is always enough time The finish is as important as the beginning.

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    2.6 The Right Focus (cont) From Mindfulness To Flow

    When we have Right focus = mindful of what we are doing

    Then awareness and action merge.

    IPS is tied to this merger.

    Consequence = flow

    Flow becomes possible when We act with total involvement When action follows upon action with no need for deliberate

    conscious intervention.

    Experience of unified flowing from one moment to the nextwherein we feel totally in control of our actions.

    Flow

    Flow is that special state where everything we do is right andeasy and automatic

    Flow often accompanies activities that are perceived as beingparticularly enjoyable and fu

    Flow results from a narrowing of attention wherein the past andfuture are clearly abandoned and the nowis all that remains.

    Flow is consequence of the special union of action andawareness

    Flow most commonly occurs during the performance ofwell-practiced and familiar routines, when action and reaction are so

    well-practiced that they become purely spontaneous.

    Flow is rarely experienced when a situation demands a responsethat is clearly beyond the limits of a persons skill and talent.

    During flow, movement simply seems to occur by itself, as ifsomething else were causing it to happen.

    Flow occurs when a person is aware of what he is at that time,but is not aware of his awareness. As soon as he reflects upon his

    awareness, the flow is temporarily lost.

    When we shift our focus to that of an observer, viewing from theoutside, the flow is blocked. Examples of this would be such

    statements as:I cant believe Im doing this or

    Is this really me? or

    Im really flowing.

    Ordinarily, the flow can be quickly re-established by properly

    centering ones attention.

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    2.6 The Right Focus (cont) The Right Focus and Its Effects

    When there is wrong focus (doing thinking)

    1. Mental ChaosThe racy fast accelerated feelings come

    from focusing on such things as winning

    and losing, how you look, whats going to

    happen if, and so on.

    2. High Anxiety anxiety results from wrongfocus. If you persist in thinking certain

    thoughts, anxiety is inevitable!

    3. Not Automaticyou cant think or analyzeyour way to top performance.

    4. Dull, Boring.

    We have the right focus when what we are doing is the same as what

    we are thinking.

    When the right focus is achieved and maintained, the following

    reaction occurs:

    1. Mental Calmnessstay with the moment2. Low Anxiety being mindful as you act reduces the experience of

    anxiety to a minimum.

    3. Automatic The right focus enables me to turn on the rightautomatic. This is important. Performing well occurs

    spontaneously, or it does not occur at all. The right focus (staying

    with the moment) insures that you will not become involved in

    highly deliberate and analytical thinking during play.

    4. Alertness and Intensity focusing as you act produces a highlyintense mental state, the same intensity which accompanies your

    best performances.

    Active concentration a state of actively

    trying to focus on your target.

    Goal = one-pointed form of concentration so complete

    that a total loss of self-consciousness occurs in the act of focusing.

    State ofpassive concentration a state of automatic mental focus.

    Passive concentration

    totally effortless and spontaneous focus

    deepest level of concentration

    mind is relaxedmind is one with the target

    Concentration is a learned skill!

    Ability to concentrate is close tied to

    Ability to control flow of positive and negative energy

    If you have trouble managing pressure,

    You no doubt have problems managing concentration as well.

    HighHigh Negative Energy

    Poor Concentration

    Tunnel Vision

    Attention becomes too narrow

    - focus on own fear/nervous

    High Positive Energy

    Good Concentration Success

    Unpleasant B A Pleasant

    D C

    Low Negative Energy

    Poor Concentration

    Mixture High Positiveand Low Positive

    Low Positive Energy

    Poor Concentration

    Easily DistractedAttention becomes too broad

    - cannot limit focus

    - become distracted by everything

    Low

    Anxious

    Angry

    Fear

    Nervousness

    Bored

    Disinterested

    Physically Tired

    Fatigued

    relax

    Leads to

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    2.6 The Right Focus (cont) Concentration Strategies During Play

    If you are concentrating and performing well,

    dontthink about concentration . Just perform.

    When problems develop, follow these steps

    1. Check Energy Level Note the kind of energy and its intensity Get positive energy flowing as much as possible Minimize negative energy to minimum2. Do whatever you can to be completely calm and quiet inside.3. Focus your attention on thepresent moment, not past or future.4. Actively focus your attention to the target Being totally attentive and mindful as you act (active

    concentration) will spontaneously lead to

    an effortless and automatic focus (passive concentration). This is your automatic goal.5. Keep your eyes very controlled during play. There is a very close connection between your visual focus and

    your mental focus.

    Keeping your eyes on target will help to keep you mentally ontarget.

    Concentration Strategies Off the Athletic Field

    1. Improve your calming and quieting skillsThis generally leads directly to improved concentration skills

    2. Practice MeditationSignificant number of athletes have reported that in addition to

    improving relaxation skills, meditation serves as a form of

    concentration practice.

    For example, Billie Jean King reports a tennis ball as her object of

    focus for fifteen to twenty minutes prior to playing.

    3. Any activity that required you focus your full attention as you actcan improve concentration.

    Concentration in sport is really the ability to remain totally

    MINDFUL during action.

    Examples: Focusing fully on your walking as you walk or focusingfully on your eating as you eat

    4. Practice focusing on your awareness, being totally mindful, indifficult or tough situations.

    Numerous opportunities arise each day to rehearse this skill.

    Focusing your attention under fire is precisely what is required of

    you to perform well in competition.

    Special Notes

    As soon as you start performing, establish a moment-by-moment

    focus there is no substitute.

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    The Primary AET Procedures

    3.1 Controlling Your Ideal Performance State

    Accelerating the Process AET Awareness Training Procedures

    AETP

    = designed to speed up the mental toughness process

    = Helps us to become mentally tougher in a shortertimeperiod

    = Helps us to become mentally tougher less painfully

    For this to happen, we make unconscious conscious

    Like going to the professional for coaching:

    He makes conscious what has been largelyunconscious

    Start increasing our awareness ofthings Im doingright

    Start increasing our awareness of things Im doingwrong

    This is how he accelerates process of change (beyondsimple trial and error learning)

    KEY to Accelerated Learning = Increased Awareness

    Awareness & Self-Control are linked.

    Most significant self-change first takes root in awareness.

    Awareness provides feedback

    We need this feedback to give us the information we

    need to accelerate to new levels of self-regulation andself-control.

    6 steps process to help us identify our IPS

    Step 1:

    Describe in writing and in as much details as possible whatyour internal psychological world was like when you

    performed in your FINEST HOUR.

    Step 2:

    Describe in writing and in as much details as possible what

    your internal psychological world was like when you

    performed in your WORST HOUR.

    Step 3:

    Fill out the following descriptive informationconcerning your FINEST and WORST HOURS by circling

    the number that best corresponds to how you feltinside at that time.

    Complete Steps 1 to 3

    Reread what you have written. Compare how differently you responded to the 12

    categories when considering your finest hour versus

    worst hour

    Contrast the differences inside yourselfwhen youre playing well to when youre playing

    poorly.

    Become acutely aware of how different and distinctthe two feeling states are.

    As you start tuning in to your inner world ofexperience and feeling during play, you are going to

    start understanding how changes in your feeling

    states directly affect your level of play.

    Step 4

    Fill out an IPS Monitoring Cardsimilar to the one following

    each time you play or practice your sport. Continue this

    procedure for the next 3 weeks.

    fill out asap after the game do this for next 3 weeks, then one month thereafter spend a few minutes considering each item

    (accelerate the process)

    Step 5

    For the next three weeks, you are to substantially increase

    your awareness of your positive and negative energy flow

    during play and practice.

    Step 6

    For the next 3 weeks, you are to substantially increase

    your awareness of what your internal feeling state is like

    as you play and practice.

    you are going to observe yourself. most important observation = how you feel inside

    affects how you perform outside!

    Every time you play / practice, make a conscious anddeliberate effort to understand how your level of play

    is linked to your changing internal feeling states.

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    Please spend a few minutes considering each item. Please spend a few minutes considering each item.

    Please spend a few minutes considering each item. Please spend a few minutes considering each item.

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    Low

    High

    PleasantUnpleasant

    High Positive EnergyHigh Negative Energy

    Low Positive Energy

    Low Negative Energy

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    3.1 Controlling Your Ideal Performance State

    From Awareness to a 3-Step Emotional Control Process

    Ultimate objective = develop control over my own IPS

    Increased Awareness

    help us detect if IPS state is present, or not. help us detect which element is missingIPS is nothing more than a particular way of feeling.

    At the most basic level, therefore, to become a mentally tough

    competitor, we are seeking EMOTIONAL CONTROL.

    3-Step Emotional Control Process

    seeks to accelerate control of the PS facilitates learning of a very special kind of emotional control.Step 1Relax, become very still inside, and practice triggering the following

    positive emotions (feeling states): (2 min on each state)

    1. Feeling ofjoy or fun2. Feeling positive and optimistic3. Feeling high self-confidence4. Feeling highly determined5. Feeling relaxed and loose (muscles)6. Simultaneously experience calmness, confidence, and high

    positive energy (joy or fun)

    1.5 minutes to get into feeling. (First try 67%, 10th

    try 100%).

    Remember, you control your feelings

    by controlling what you think and visualize.

    Emotion was triggered by focusing on a specific thought, image,

    sound or sensation that is associated with that feeling.

    Triggers:

    Persons face Particularly fun or joyous place A bodily feeling Sound of someones voice Particular piece of music Some other pleasant memoryEmotions was elicit by controlling the thought / visualization.

    The more vivid the picture and recall, the more intense the emotion.

    Objective (of rehearsing feelings of calmness, looseness, confidence

    and energy) is to increase your ability to produce them during play!

    Ultimate objective = to trigger a feeling state that contains all these

    elements simultaneously.

    As with physical skills, the more you practice, the better you get.

    Find my own Trigger,

    preferably within

    the trading arena.

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    3.1 Controlling Your Ideal Performance State

    From Awareness to a 3-Step Emotional Control Process (cont)

    Step 2

    Practice the following visualization exercises (4min each/12 total)

    1. Playing Well Visualization2. Visualization plus IPS3. Future visualization plus IPSVisualization:

    = thinking in pictures rather than in words.

    = Use your imagination to reconstruct past experiences thru images.

    = Controlled daydreaming (Chapter 4, page 105)

    Doing the exercises

    Eyes closed Very relaxed and quiet state Not likely to be distracted by things/people.2.1 Playing Well VisualizationVisualization to cover 3 areas:

    Visual recall Auditory recall Kinesthetic recallThese visualization exercises are very helpful in building mental

    triggers for your IPS.

    If you work at it, you will develop powerful visual, auditory and

    kinesthetic triggers.

    Visual recall

    Get a picture in your mind ofwhat you look like when you are

    playing well.

    When an athlete is confident on the inside, he shows it on the

    outside.

    When we play well, we carry ourselves better than when we do not

    play well.

    Auditory recall

    Listen to the sound you hear when you play well (internal dialogue)

    What is your internal dialogue like?What are you saying to yourself, and how are you saying it?

    What is your internal response when faced with adversity during

    play?

    Recreate as vividly all the sounds.

    Kinesthetic recall

    Recreate as clearly as possible in your mind all the bodily sensations

    you have when you are playing well.

    How do your feet and hands feel?

    Do you have a feeling of quickness, looseness, speed or intensity in

    your body? Often, your racquet, skates, bat, glove etc have a distinct

    feel when you are playing well.Trader: How does the market feel?

    Focus on any bodily sensations associated with doing well.

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    3.1 Controlling Your Ideal Performance State

    From Awareness to a 3-Step Emotional Control Process (cont)

    2.2 Visualization Plus IPSSimultaneously

    1. Recreate a time when you were playing very well, and2. experience the internal feeling state that accompanied it.As you visualized, you should feel yourself becoming emotionally

    aroused feel

    the confidence, the positiveness the intensity

    2.3 Future Visualization Plus IPSSwitch your visualization to the future. Duplicate in your mind, the conditions of play that you are likely

    to face in your next competition (opponent, field, weather, etc)

    Create the image of what you are going to experience as vividlyas possible.

    Now simultaneously trigger the IPS emotional feeling state thataccompanies your best performance.

    Fully experience that special combination of feelings as you picture

    yourself playing at your best.

    See yourself handling difficult situations during play While remaining calm, relaxed, focused, positively energized. Mentally and emotionally rehearse situations that have given

    you trouble in the past.

    Picture yourselfsuccessfully working through these toughsituations several times.

    See it happen, feel it happen. Dont worry, it will come! Dont become discouraged or disheartened if you are having

    trouble triggering the desired images or feelings

    Practice 10-15minutes 2 times a dayStep 3

    From this day forward, every timeyou play or practice your sport,

    you must make a deliberate and conscious effortto create andsustain the internal climate that accompanies your best

    performance. In other words, you are to trigger your own IPS.

    This is the most critical step No longer will you show up for practice and play and hope the

    mental skills will come.

    You are now taking direct control over the process, practicingmental toughness every time you play or practice your sport

    There is no difference between play and practice Every time you enter your arena, you have an objective to

    create and maintain your Ideal Performance State NO

    MATTER WHAT!

    No more trial and error learning about mental toughness The objective, purpose and path are clear. Make the commitment and start practicing.

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    3.1 Controlling Your Ideal Performance State

    The Power of Your Physical Presence

    Weak competitors:

    Lack strong and positive physical presence Project feelings of low intensity indifference Lack of confidence Negativism Poor self-image Uncertainty Absence of inner strength

    Questions to ask for improvement purposes:

    Do you like what you see?

    Do you like the image of yourself as acompetitor?

    Do you physically project strength, confidence

    and positive intensity?

    How do icons communicate power and

    confidence?

    What do you need to add to improve your

    presence?

    The reason we display outward negative

    emotions: To let everyone around us know thatwe are really much better than what we are

    playing.

    If I dont show them Im upset, theyll think

    thats how I play all the time

    This strategy undermines us.

    You end up locking in the negative emotions.

    You continue to feel precisely like you act:

    Miserable Upset Negative

    How an athlete appears on the outside is often an accurate picture

    of how he or she is feeling on the inside.

    Walk differently Carry head and shoulder differently Looks ofintensity Looks ofdetermination Looks ofconfidence Looks ofcalmnessOutstanding competitors:

    Have very powerful physical presence Physically exude confidence Strength Calmness EnergyOnce we have a clear picture of what needs to be added to improve

    a competitors image, we start practicing and rehearsing.

    Desired images:

    Fighter Strength Confidence No meekness No politenessWhy is physical image so important?

    Simple Principle. Powerful Results.

    Because of the powerful link between the mind and the body. We cannot affect one without affecting the other. When changes occur in our physical bodies, we will also have

    corresponding psychological changes.

    Being a mentally tough competitor means controlling how you feel

    inside (IPS). 3 primary strategies accomplish this.

    1. Controlling what you think2. Controlling what you visualize3. Controlling how you look on the outside (physical presence)Make a commitment to improve your physical image every time you

    play or practice your sport

    Improve your walk Your appearance of intensity Your looks of aggressiveness

    Improve competitive toughness

    By improving physical presence.

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    3.1 Controlling Your Ideal Performance State

    Act As If in Adversity

    You can also fool yourself into

    feeling weak, no confidence and negative!

    When the feelings arent there, act as if they were!

    You can fool yourself into

    feeling strong, confident and positive!The as if physical acting

    often triggers positive changes in the mental state.

    When you are feeling down (mental)

    When the world has turned against you (mental)

    When youve lost your confidence (mental)

    Fight the feelings by controlling how you look on the outside (phy)

    Start manufacturing confidence physically: Throw shoulders back Pick up your walk.Remember, you cant always control how you feel,

    but you can always control your physical presence,

    and that often gets the job done by itself!

    Work hard to develop and maintain the physical presence of a

    champion no matter how you feel!

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    3.2 Summary Roadmap to Mental Toughness

    Mental Toughness:

    Emotional Consistency Performance Consistency

    Athletes who have learnt how to trigger a very specific emotional

    state (IPS) during play are the best competitors

    Unusual response to continuou