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Changes happen personally from the

INSIDE OUT!

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Negative world view

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H o w t o C h a n g e Yo u rTh in k in g

THINKING

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Changes come from observing

logically in every situation

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This is going to be a wonderful day!

This is going to be a crappy day!

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If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t…YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford

THINKING

H o w t o C h a n g e Yo u rB e h a v io r

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline

C h o o s e Yo u rB e h a v io r

REACTIVE

Response

RESPONSIBLE

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Stimulus

Stimulus

S t e p s To w a r d C h a n g in g B e h a v io r

1. Unconscious Incompetence

2. Conscience Incompetence

3. Conscience Competence

4. Unconscious Competence

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

The New YOU!The New YOU!

Ad d P O S I+ IVE B e h a v io r

INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!

• Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives

• Focus on the good of each day• Stay out of the “feeding frenzies”• Say “please” and “thank you”• Practice EMPATHY• Evaluate YOUR behavior • Never miss an opportunity to complement

• Spread a SMILE around

Replace the BAD HABITS!

BEHAVIORBEHAVIOR

M o r e P O S I+ IVE C o n t r ib u t io n s

1. Is it true? 2. Is it harmful? 3. Is it necessary?

• Keep promises• Have a forgiving view of people• Keep an open mind with changes• Count to 1000 if necessary• See criticism as opportunity to improve• Cultivate your sense of humor

• Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things

Watch your definitions - they become thoughtsthey become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become wordsthey become words Watch your words - they become actionsthey become actions Watch your actions - they become your destinythey become your destiny

Remember to . . .

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