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THE POWER OF SELF THE POWER OF SELF CONTROLCONTROL
The Power of Winning CourseThe Kwanzaa Gallery Rite of Passage Program
Instructor: Frank M. Johnson
Introduction Introduction
Candidates in the Rite of Passage will learn to adopt and integrate personal skills like Self-control to enhance their capacity for good work and service to family and
community in this life.
Summary of CourseSummary of Course
Self-control is a self-management skill, which, when developed,
puts you in control of your career and environment.
Who is in Attendance?Who is in Attendance?
Candidates in the Rite of Passage will learning to adopt and integrate personal skills to enhance their capacity for good work and service to family and community in this life.
AgendaAgenda
Awareness Endurance Enthusiasm Change Perseverance Determination Knowledge Focused Prosperity Planning Optimism Self Control
Overview Overview
Candidates in the Rite of Passage will learn to adopt and integrate personal skills like Self-control to enhance their capacity for good work and service to family and
community in this life.
Connections Connections
Awareness
Endurance
Enthusiasm
Change
Perseverance
Determination
Knowledge
Focused Prosperity
Planning
Optimism
Self Control
VocabularyVocabulary
Awareness Endurance Enthusiasm Change Perseverance Determination Knowledge Focused Prosperity Planning Optimism Self Control
• We are emotional human beings. Our emotions seem to take control sometimes.
• Acknowledging this and understanding how to control your emotions will make life easier.
• At the root of a distressful situation is often a dominant need.
• Understanding our needs can be the beginning of positive self-control.
• According personal responsibility for our attitudes and actions will give us positive self-control.
• Our goal is to erect a Statue of Responsibility.
SELF CONTROLSELF CONTROL
• The person who admits a mistake and says "I'm sorry" is accepting personal responsibility.
• Qualifying phrases such as "If only…” creates weakness.
• Everything you do is habit. Your habits are formed over many years and take time to break. Determine which losing habits you want to eliminate and strive to develop winning habits.
• When our needs aren't met, we often become uncomfortable, upset, angry, or confused
• One of the best ways to break a bad habit is to replace it with a good one. Rather than trying to force out the old bad habit, concentrate your energy on developing the new habit, which eventually will replace the old.
• Life is a "do-it-to-myself program,” and take the credit and the blame for my position.
• Positive self-control is a self-management skill, which, when developed, puts you in control of your career and environment.
SELF CONTROLSELF CONTROL
OPTIMISMOPTIMISM Believe in God’s
Ultimate Control Think Positively
about the Outcome Affirm Truth Affirm Justice Affirm
Righteousness Affirm Goodness
PLANNINGPLANNING Have A Strategy Plan Together with
Other’s Who Impact It
Set Priorities Accordingly
Multi-Focus Prosperity
Set Priorities Know Daily What’s Important
MULTIPLE FOCUSED MULTIPLE FOCUSED PROSPERITYPROSPERITY
Spiritual Mental Physical Intellectual Emotional Financial Economical Social Family
KNOWLEDGEKNOWLEDGE
WISDOM: The Ability to Use Knowledge
God’s Wisdom, not Man’s Theories
Study Situations and Events
Study the Past History
Knowledge (continued)Knowledge (continued)
Apply Lessons Learned by Others/Self
Avoid Repeating Mistakes
Learn to Accept and Learn from Mistakes
DETERMINATIONDETERMINATION Accept Responsibility -
Do What You Must Have Courage to Stand
Alone Gain High Ground and
Hold It When You’re Right -
Standfast The Battle is Already
Won
PERSEVERANCEPERSEVERANCE
Repeat Correct Steps until it Produces
Avoid “Profit” Motive Don’t Make Gain
Your Goal Overcome Challenges We Are All Achievers Endure: Never Give
Up
THE THE CHANGECHANGE PROCESS PROCESS
Anger Denial Bargaining Depression Acceptance Knowledge Behavior Attitude
ENTHUSIASMENTHUSIASM
Full of Abundant Life Full of Agape Love Full of Zoe Appreciating Life in
All Forms Do Work You Like Enjoy The Challenge
of Achievement
AWARENESSAWARENESS
Understanding the Dynamics of Life and Living.
Recognizing the Law of Action and Reaction as it effects Life and Living.
SUMMARYSUMMARY
Self-control is a self-management skill, which, when developed,
puts you in control of your career and environment.
WHERE TO GET MORE WHERE TO GET MORE INFORMATIONINFORMATION
Other training sessions List books, articles, electronic sources Consulting services, other sources
FEEDBACKFEEDBACK
Request feedback of training session. Write
– The Kwanzaa Gallery 1419 Champion Pines Lane Augusta, GA 30909
Telephone– (706) 737-4747