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Wedding Cultures
INTERNATIONAL TRENDS
- Jean Oosthuzien
Weddings – All Around the
World
INTERNATIONAL WEDDING TRENDS
Agenda
Recap of Christian Weddings
Other Wedding Customs
Chinese Weddings
Pakistan Weddings
German Weddings
Planning a Wedding
Creating a Budget
Case study of the budget
John and Jane’s weddingTHE PARK HYATT, DEIRA, DUBAI
14TH FEBRUARY 2016
2.30 PM
How do we go about a themed Christian wedding ?
Let’s take…
Themes
Valentine’s Day
Hearts
Reds
Creams
Whites
Colour Schemes
Red Roses for bride’s bouquet.
Red Rose corsage for groom’s lapel.
White Rose bouquets for the bridesmaids.
Bridesmaids will wear red dresses.
Groom will wear a red tie.
* Flowers and Colours
Bridal Wear –
Vintage Parisienne Glamour.
Food and Drink
French champagne with strawberries for drinks reception.
Dinner Menu: Duck Foie Gras, peach chutney, brioche – Panfried Beef
Tenderloin – Grand crus chocolate mille feuille – tea, coffee and petit fours.
French macaroon wedding cake
Basic Floor Plan
Top Table
Each round table
will seat 10 guests.
The central round
table will display the
cake and will be
moved after cutting
of the cake to
make way for a
central dance floor.
The band will be
positioned near the
top table in the
evening.
The top table will seat 10
people: The Bride and Groom,
Bride’s Mother and Father,
Groom’s Mother and Father, 2
Bridesmaids and 2 Groomsmen.
N.b. civil ceremony has already taken place in prior to this
celebration so the couple are legally married.
1.45 Groom arrives at Marina Garden for ceremony with his
Groomsmen and parents.
2.00 Guests start to arrive and are seated. 60 guests in total
2.25 Mother of bride is seated, followed by bridesmaid’s entry.
2.30 Bride’s entry to a recording of “La vie en Rose”
2.35 Ceremony takes place, including 2 readings and exchange
of rings and vows as symbols of the Bride and Grooms marriage.
3.00 Champagne reception on the lawn. Jazz saxophonist
playing in background. Group photos taken on the lawn.
*Event Flow Summary
4pm Guests are seated for dinner
4.15 Starters are served
4.45 Main Course is served
5.30 Dessert is served
6.00 Speeches – Bride’s Father, followed by Groom, and finally best man.
6.40 Cake cutting
7.00 Tea, Coffee and Petit Fours served.
7.30 Bride, Groom and rest of wedding party mingle and speak to guests while band sets up.
8.30 Band starts to play.
12.00 Celebrations finish. Guests can continue in terrace bar which stays open until 2am or retire to their rooms. For those living locally and not staying in the hotel, pre-paid taxis have been booked to take them home.
*Event Flow Summary
Notes
Stationery will all be styled using Paris Metro style Font,
which will include invites, place name cards, table plan
board and thank you notes.
For the ceremony there will be a central aisle with an arch
decorated with white roses, under which the ceremony will
take place.
Guests will sit on white chairs, each having a red and white
rose tied to the aisle side with white ribbon. There will be 5
rows of 6 on each side of the aisle. Red and white petals
will line the aisle.
Notes
Open sided white fabric marquee will be set up for the
dinner to give shade while still daylight and to create
atmosphere in the evening with 2 large chandeliers hung
from central beam.
Favours will be small boxes of mini macaroons.
Table settings will include red ribbon napkin rings with white
napkins. At each place setting will be alternating single red
and white roses cut short in short vases. Centre piece will
consist of jasmine scented candles and rose petals.
The Look and Feel
INTERNATIONAL TRENDS
Other
Wedding
Cultures
Traditional Weddings
- China
The Proposal -Three
Letters and Six Etiquette
Three Letters
Request Letter
Gift Letter
Wedding Letter
Six Etiquette
• Request for Marrying the bride
• Request for Bride and Groom's Birth Dates
• Initial Gifts for the Bride's Family
• Formal Gifts for the Bride's Family
• Select the Wedding Date
Preparations Setting up the Bridal Bed
Combing Hair
• Their hair needs to be combed four
times and each has a special
meaning
Wedding Day Activities
Picking up the Bride
The Wedding Banquet
• Tea Ceremony
Traditional Weddings in
Pakistan
You may have already gone
though more detailed information
on this previously since you have
covered the first session on South
East Asian Weddings
This information on this culture of
wedding is just meant to help you
distinguish between this style and
other culture styles that we will go
through.
MarriageArranged marriage is mostly followed in Pakistan.
The whole family is involved in the wedding preparations.
Pakistani culture have adopted a lot of ceremonies and
traditions from the Hindu culture
Mangni & Mayun
Mangni
It is the engagement ceremony that marks the formal
engagement of the couple
Mayun
It is custom of the bride entering into the state of
seclusion eight to fifteen days before the wedding.
Uptan & Dholki Uptan
• It is a paste made from turmeric, sandalwood powder, herbs and aromatic oils, which groom's mother brings for bride.
Dholki
• It is a popular ceremony of singing traditional wedding & popular songs accompanied by two or three percussion instruments
Rasm E Mehndi Mehndi (Henna)is applied to the bride's hands and feet
and there is a lot of singing and dancing
Barat
A procession of family, relatives, and friends of groom that
accompany the groom to bride’s home for official wedding
ceremony
Nikkah
A purely Islamic official wedding ceremony that usually takes
place at the bride’s home.
WalimaA ceremony to announce the wedding to community
and friends.
German Wedding Traditions
Customs that take place before
weddingOld tradition that when a baby girl is born, her family should
plant several trees in her honor. At the time of her
engagement, the trees are cut down to pay for her dowry.
Engagement.
The Hochzeitsladeris sent around to personally
invite each guest to the wedding .
Wedding
Civil ceremony
“Polterabend "The night before the church wedding
Church wedding and reception
• Waltzing And Hochzeitssuppe At
The Reception
• Log Sawing, And Rice Mark The End Of The Wedding
African wedding traditions
• Africa is a large and varied continent containing some of the oldest civilizations on earth.
• It is home to a wide diversity of religions and
cultures, and this diversity is reflected in its
diverse and colorful weddings traditions.
• In many places in Africa young girls are
trained to be good wives languages that allow
them to talk with other married women
without their husbands understanding what
is being said.
• Depending on which part of Africa you are in, wedding ceremonies can be extremely elaborate, some lasting many days.
• Often huge ceremonies are held during which many couples are united at the same time.
• In Sudan and in other areas along the Nile a man must pay his wife’s family sheep or cattle for the loss of their daughter’s labor in support of the family.
• A wife may cost a man as many as 30 to 40 In Somalia a man is allowed to have as many as four wives if he can support them all, and it is not
uncommon for a girl to be engaged before she is even born.
• Bright festive colors, song, dance, and music are vital elements of many
African wedding ceremonies.
• Common to all wedding ceremonies is the concept of transitioning between childhood and adulthood.
• In many African cultures children are encouraged to marry as young as 13to 15 years of age, as soon as they have reach physical adulthood.
Scandinavian wedding traditions
• Traditionally Scandinavians don’t like to rush into marriage.
• Marriage is a serious business and in many parts of Scandinavia
an engagement may last three or even four years, allowing
plenty of time for the couple to get to know each other, to see
each other a their best and at their worst.
• The Gates of Honour…
• The Gates of Honor
- Many of the wedding traditions in the Scandinavian countries go back hundreds of years. In Denmark, for example, it is traditional for an arch of pine branches to be built in front of the bride’s home.
- This arch is known as the Gates of Honor. At the wedding reception in Denmark it is traditional for the groom to disappear during part of the ceremony so that all the unmarried young men can kiss the bride – and then it is the bride’s turn to disappear while all the single girls kiss the groom.
- To insure good luck and to ward off evil spirits it is required that a Danish couple cut their wedding cake together, the new husband and wife holding the knife together, and then for each wedding guest to eat a slice of cake.
- Two pine trees – the symbol of fertility.
- When a couple is married in Norway their friends and neighbors plant two small pine tries on either side of their young couple’s front door as a symbol of fertility.
- Also, a Norwegian bride wears a silver crown in silver charms hanging all around it. As she walks the charms tinkle, making a beautiful music sound which wards off evil spirits which love to cause havoc with newlyweds.
Pacific island weddings• In Fiji the groom is expected to present the bride’s father with a whale tooth.
In Fiji it is traditional for a young man to ask the girl’s father or her hand. It is also customary for the young man to present the bride’s Father with a gift.
• Custom dictates that the gift should be the tooth of a whale, which symbolizes status and wealth.
• Assuming a young Fiji man receives permission to marry from the bride’s father, the prospective groom is expect to prepare a lavish feast and to send it to the bride’s family. This is called the “warming.”
• Just before the wedding, it is tradition for the Fiji bride to be tattooed,
a sign of beauty on the islands.
• And what Fiji wedding reception would be complete
without the tradition drink of the islands, Kava.
• Kava is brewed from the crushed root of the native kava plant.
• At the reception there is much tradition music and dancing, with gifts exchanged between the bride’s and groom’s families.
Interesting facts about Wedding
Rings & Different Cultures
• In some countries such as Germany, Greece, Russia, Spain,
India, Colombia, Venezuela and Poland the ring is worn on the
right hand.
• Orthodox Christians and Eastern Europeans also traditionally
wear the wedding band on the right hand.
• In The Netherlands, Catholic people wear it on the left, all others
on the right; in Austria, Catholic people wear it on the right. In
Belgium, the choice of hand depends on the region of the
country.
• Greek people, many being Orthodox Christians, also wear the wedding rings on the right hand in keeping with Greek tradition.
• A traditional reason to wear the wedding ring on the right hand stems from Roman custom.
• The Latin word for left is “sinister”, which in addition to this sense also has the same senses as the English word. The Latin word for right is “dexter”, a word that evolved into “dexterity”. Hence, the left hand had a negative connotation and the right a good one
Planning and
Budgeting a
Western Wedding
1) Met with the happy Couple to get to know them better and to get a good
understanding of their vision and dream for their big day.
2) Following the consultation, create a Client File that contains important
information about the bride and groom. Information that formed part of this file
included:
• Where the couple met, how they met, their interests, dates of birth etc.
• Details of the wedding: date, theme, location (destination or local), color
scheme, type of flowers, number of guests etc.
• Budget
• Details of the wedding party
3) Create a Reference File that contains important documentation, approvals
and signed agreements, including:
• Passport copies and passport photographs of the couple
• Outlined proposed budget with confirmation of who will cover each category
• All confirmations and signed agreements / contracts for the wedding
• Magazine clippings, web images and swatches of styles and color schemes
Getting Started
Wedding Budget
Budget line
If you had to create a basic budget for a Wedding – what all elements would you do provide for.
Create a simple budget for a Wedding
Date: Friday, 26 November 2016
Time: Afternoon Wedding commencing at 2pm
Theme: Beach Vintage
Venue: One & Only Royal Mirage Hotel, Dubai
Colors: White /Champagne gold with hints of fuchsia pink
Flowers: Fuchsia pink roses
Guests: 200
Wedding party: 1 maid of honor and 3 bridesmaids ;
1 best man and 3 groomsmen
Wedding Budget
Make a Budget Sheet
Put down all the items and where possible estimate costs
Write down all the elements on a piece of paper
Explain how you would plan this event as well
Wedding
Budgets!
Date: Friday, 25 November 2016
Time: Afternoon Wedding commencing at 2pm
Theme: Beach Vintage
Venue: One & Only Royal Mirage Hotel, Dubai
Colors: White and Champagne gold with hints of fuchsia pink
Flowers: Fuchsia pink roses
Guests: 200
Wedding party: 1 maid of honor and 3 bridesmaids ; 1 best man and 3 groomsmen
• The wedding day was preceded by a rehearsal dinner two nights before.
• On the Wedding day, Pre-ceremony drinks were served in the hotel gardens.
• The Ceremony took place on the beach.
• Photos followed on the beach and in the hotel gardens.
• Pre-dinner drinks and canapés were served on a patio overlooking the lawns and
beachfront.
• The Reception dinner was held in the grand ballroom.
• A very important Function Sheet was created, which was updated throughout the
planning process, which consisted of dates, times, what was to be actioned and by
whom.
• This also fed into an Itinerary sheet that was made available on the day to all the
service providers to work from and refer to ensuring the order of the day ran smoothly
and was perfect.
The Details
The Elements
Breakfast, Lunch and Rehearsal Dinner
Scheduled two days before the wedding.
Out of town guests who checked into the hotel the night before were treated to a buffet
breakfast in a private dining room in the hotel hosted by the bride and groom.
Guests who checked in later that day were treated to a buffet lunch in a private dining
room hosted by the bride and groom.
A rehearsal procession was held late afternoon for the entire bridal party followed by a
rehearsal dinner on a cruise ship that docked from the hotel.
A light dinner was served with refreshments.
The rehearsal dinner was attended by close family and friends and all the guests who
have already arrived and were staying at the hotel to attend the wedding .
A live band was on board to entertain the guests
Day before the Wedding
A city and beach sightseeing tour was arranged for all out of town guests.
Guests were given the option of going on the tour or having a spa treatment at the hotel.
The bride and her wedding party had spa treatments in the comfort of their hotel rooms
which was imperative to ensure a relaxed bride.
The groom and his wedding party played golf in the morning followed by a fishing trip in the
afternoon.
Mobile therapists also gave the groom and his wedding party massages, manicures and
pedicures.
Wedding Venue
The Couple wanted an elegant timeless venue that was both modern and classic.
Decided on The One & Only Royal Mirage in Dubai.
To add an element of surprise so decided to use different areas within the venue for
the different parts that made up the day i.e. pre-ceremony drinks, ceremony, pre-
dinner drinks and canapés and reception dinner.
The venue supplied all the chairs, tables, cutlery, crockery and glassware.
Staff were trained and briefed personally on all aspects of the function including
serving and dinner etiquette.
Invitations and Stationery
“Save the date cards” were sent 6-9 months in advance to get an idea of how many guests to expect and create excitement. It also assisted guests with booking flights and accommodation well in advance as for some, Dubai was a destination.
A wedding logo of the couples initials was used across the stationery and decor scheme.
Printed extra invitations (for a B list).
Other stationery including menus, table cards, name cards, seating plans and thank you cards were all designed and printed by the same company to ensure the same theme was carried throughout.
A wedding website was created with all the necessary information. Included important details such as directions, the dress code, special dietary requirements, whether kids were invited and details for out of town guests such as tour information and sightseeing details.
Décor
• Throughout the venue, crystals, fairy lights, candles and chic lamps were used.
• A striking flower arrangement was used at the entrance and fairy lights and light chiffon fabric
was used against the stage backdrop. Each table also had a unique flower arrangement.
• Flowers in plain glass containers created an attractive, minimalist look. light boxes were
placed underneath each container for a romantic atmosphere.
• The venue boasted very large vintage looking chandeliers which added a glamorous touch.
• Fine silver cutlery and crystal glassware completed the look.
• The seating plan was painted onto a mirror in classic calligraphy. Guests could spot their
seat and check their make-up too!
Food and Beverages
• A menu tasting was arranged with the chef two weeks in advance to ensure that everything met the couples expectations.
• The budget, number of guests and the wedding’s style was taken into consideration as well as any dietary requirements.
• To add a touch of glamour we had a classic champagne tower. It served as a stunning center piece.
• Guests were welcomed to the pre-dinner drinks with a signature cocktail while snacking on canapés.
• A cocktail bar was set up in the reception hall where the couple’s favorite cocktails were served and guests could mix their own as a fun way to mingle.
• Dinner consisted of entrees and dessert (plated menu) and mains (served buffet style).
• At midnight savory snacks (mini pizzas, rolls etc.) were served for guests who partied into the night.
Wedding Cake
The cake was a traditional three tiered style made up of the couples favorite flavors:
vanilla, chocolate and caramel.
It was white and champagne gold with the classic wedding logo on.
Speeches
Speeches were made before dinner was served.
The speeches were given by both the bride and groom as well as both their fathers and
the maid of honor and best man.
Dress and Styling
Assisted the bride with finding her perfect wedding dress- researched magazines, bridal books, wedding expos and designers’ websites to find inspiration.
A hair and make-up trial was arranged once the dress style was finalised.
A trial was also done for the entire bridal party to see how long it will take on the day of the wedding.
Photographer and Videographer
At least 3 photographers and videographers were considered by looking at their previous work, not only best shots, but an entire wedding portfolio. We chose the photographer based on the type of work the couple preferred – an abstract, traditional look.
A pre-shoot was arranged to provide beautiful images for the “save the date” cards.
Music and Entertainment
• As the décor set the look of the wedding, we wanted the music to perfect the ambience.
• The day was brought to life with professional bands and musicians that reflected the couple’s
personal tastes.
• To get the celebrations going we enlisted a lively jazz duo at the pre-dinner drinks.
• At the reception we had a DJ in the ballroom area and a live band on the outside patio and
dance floor area.
Guests
• The compilation of the guest list started 9 months before the wedding day.
• We wanted to give parents peace of mind and keep kids happy with babysitters, a playroom
and a comfortable place to rest. The chefs created a special menu for the children.
Transport & Accommodation
• The bridal party, along with many guests, stayed at the hotel before the wedding. The
upmarket accommodation was also the ideal shoot location for bridal
• A vintage car was used to transport the bridal party.
• Ensured that there was sufficient parking for the guests. Shuttle transport was also provided
for on-site guests.
• Guests were offered the details of a reputable travel and accommodation consultant to assist
with their travel itineraries, accommodation arrangements and booking of sightseeing tours in
addition to what was arranged. Details of this was on the posted on the wedding website.
Wedding Favors
• The ladies were treated to
beautiful crystal costume
jewelry.
• The men received
engraved vintage looking
cufflinks.
• A small cigar bar was set
up for the men where they
could enjoy a drink and
savor fine cigars.
• A breakfast hangover bag
was the perfect midnight
gift for guests who partied
hard. The recovery kit
included a Saturday
paper, headache tablets, a
tomato cocktail, muffin,
energy drink and mineral
water.
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