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4 Ways to Better Your Relationship

4 Ways to Better Your RelationshipBy: Valery Molone Life Coachwww.valerymolone.com

1: Get RespectHow can we generate a steady flow of truth telling between the people and ourselves we love the most? Love, respect and trust all go together and if one of the links is missing the whole thing falls apart. The things about trust is that it needs to be earned, to know this feeling of content one must adopt a few conducts, patterns to build a better relationship. One of the important keys is to have open communication

2: Be Involved in the DetailsIts important to be able to ask for help and tell your partner what you need. When your partner meets those needs, it helps you grow closer as a couple. Remember that what you consider to love, behavior may not feel like love to your spouse. Find out what makes your spouse feel loved so you can show your love in a way that it will be well received. Maintain Privacy but Avoid Secrecy; everyone needs some level of privacy, however, secrecy should have no place in a relationship.

3: Never Give UpAccept the reality that while relationships have the potential to be fairly sweet and simple, they are often terribly complicated. When any two people with separate minds, pasts, and sets of baggage come together, the future will not likely be one smooth sail into the sunset. When it comes to deciding whether to call it quits on a relationship we once valued, the first things we have to ask ourselves are: How much are my own defenses at work? When approaching the actions you should take before choosing to break up, its important to adopt the attitude that the only person you can truly change is yourself. You control 100 percent of your half of the dynamic. Youre not a victim in a relationship; ultimately, you can choose to move on. Playing the blame game will leave you feeling powerless and going in circles.

4: Keep Your Relationship Exciting & FreshYouve have reached a point where all the excitement has worn off a little and its how you respond to that change that can set the tone for the rest of your future as a couple. Dont stop doing the little things, always give a kiss goodnight. Never stop hugging and saying I love you when you leave them to go somewhere. Keep the little things in your normal routine and really show them you mean it. Sometimes in a long-term relationship, you start to say things because its just what you do. But remember why you are kissing them goodnight. Remember why you hug them and say I love you. Dont take those things for granted. Create date nights with a twist. After youve been together for a while you find yourself always going to dinner and to see a movie. Make it fun but legal. Be daring and loud. Youll end up saying, We should do that more often!

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