TIPS ABOUT LOVE
By: BON JOVI Q. CALUYA
How to make a man fall in love:
1 Dress attractivelyMen are visual, and women know this better than anything else.
2 Be pleasant and smile oftenMen cant ever resist a cute smile. And if you can be pleasant and warm when youre with him, hell love you for it.
3 Dont be rudeMen are completely put off by rude or arrogant women. If you can be rude to your date or even a waiter, he wouldnt be able to help but wonder if its only the tip of the rude iceberg. Men definitely love a woman who can take a stand, but if its in the form of arrogance, hed stay a mile away from falling in love.
4 Connect with him intellectuallyFlirty conversations are sweet and cute, and the man you like will love the fact that hes able to make you blush and go pink. But all flirting and no seriousness can get boring after a while.
5 Work your eye contactIts been seen that romantic eye contact can actually make two people fall in love with each other in no time. The next time youre having a conversation with him, stare deeply into his eyes as he talks to you. You can smile or flirt, but every time your eyes meet, let the eye contact linger even if both of you arent exchanging words. It makes the guy feel warm and fuzzy, and would definitely stir his heart.
6 Lingering soft touchesIf theres ever a way of knowing how to make a man fall in love with you and be a flirty tease at the same time, this is it. Men cant resist a lingering womans touch. The next time youre with him, be it clasping palms, hugging each other goodbye, or just crossing the street, let your touch linger softly for a moment longer than necessary. Your touch would be incredibly exciting for the man you like, and youll spark a romantic chemistry in no time.
7 Dont be easily availableThis is tricky, but its definitely a great way to make a man fall in love with you. When youre in love with someone, you obviously want to be with that person and spend more time with them. But when you cant be with the person you like, you end up missing the person a lot more.
8 Show off your talentsIf you want to know how to make a man fall in love with you, learn to surprise him with your talent. He may like you for the person you are, but to completely make him fall for you, you have to let him know that youre a bundle of happy surprises, waiting to be explored.
9 Dont always agree with himCompatibility is of great essence in a happy relationship. But you dont always have to accept what the guy says or do what he wants to do. Sometimes, a minor disagreement can take him off guard, but itll make him respect your opinions a lot more.
10 Dont let him know youve fallen for himMen love the chase of a good romance. They take time to fall in love, but when they do, men fall hard in love. To understand how to make a man fall in love with you, you need to know the stages of love for men
10 Ways to make a woman fall in love with you
1. Display maturityIts always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.
2. Romance herMake her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You dont have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isnt a woman alive who doesnt adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that dont cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her youre thinking about her and cant wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special.
3. FaithfulDont ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their partners. Dont just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to a higher level.
4. Time spent with her is preciousMake it clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what youre doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you shed like to meet you because shes finishing work early and you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesnt mean you cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and arent afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5. Compliment herYou dont have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a lovely outfit shes wearing. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves hearing that shes looking good, you cant keep telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.
6. LaughterUse humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again, youre rapidly becoming an addiction, and thats just what youre aiming for. Its not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding you hilarious. Its more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the others sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. Its a great feeling!
7. Learn what turns her onAnd use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Dont ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, dont always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she will adore you for it.
8. Give her spaceDont be possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Dont expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her own person.
9. ThoughtfulYou remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when shes got a cold, and you land up with some when shes got the sniffles. Or shes told you how she adores a particular entre at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.
10. I love youAnd of course, whileshowingher should give her the message, theres a lot to be said forsayingit loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want to think about when youre first going to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You dont have to wait only till youre kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you tell her at that instant. She wont mind being interrupted mid-sentence!
10 Steps to Move On Peacefully
1. Practice releasing regrets.When a relationship ends, its tempting to dwell on what you did wrong or what you could have done differently. This might seem productivelike you can somehow change things by rehashing it. You cant.
2. Work on forgiving yourself.You might think you made the biggest mistake of your life, and if only you didnt do it you wouldnt be in pain right now. Dont go down that roadtheres nothing good down there!
3. Dont think about any time as lost.If I looked at that unhealthy relationship or the following decade as time lost, Id underestimate all the amazing things I did in that time. True, I was single throughout my twenties, but that made it easier to travel and devote myself to different passions.
4.Remember the bad as well as the good.Brain scientists suggest nearly 20 p