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A Journey towards Success

B y

GAMPA NAGESHWeR RAO

An Inspiring and

Igniting Compilation of

Success Secrets

FIRST EDITION

2013 May

COVER DESIGN

N. Sashidhara Rao

PUBLISHED BY

New Vision Publications

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Hyderabad-44.

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Pages : 184 Rs : 150/-

Be aChampionbyGampa Nageshwer RaoMA. (Psychology),M.A. (Counselling andPsychotheraphy),M.Phil. (Psychology)E - mail:[email protected]

NEW VISION PUBLICATIONS

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BE A CHAMPION NEW VISION BE A CHAMPION NEW VISION

Special Thanks to... D

My hearty thanks

– Gampa Nageshwer Rao

My parents who have given birth to me.

My brothers Dr.G.R.Lingamurthy, Gampa Ramesh, Gampa Damodar

My guide and ideal Sri Yandamuri Veerendranath

My supporter all the way Sri B.V.Pattabhiram

My hearty close friend Sri Yerram Mahadev, Smt.Padma

My close friend Sri Kotha Narsimham, Smt.Vasavi

My well wisher Sri Chokkapu Venkataramana

Social Servants: Close friend Sri Agir Venkatesh, Smt. Radha

Who has made it literal Sri K.Naveen Kumar

A.P. Psychiatrists Association

Lions Clubs International-Dist. 324-C5

Vasavi Clubs International

A.P. Arya Vysya Mahasabha,

J.C.I. Institute –U.S.A.

JCI Secunderabad

Vasavi Club Hyderabad Greater

Free Mason (Lodge Morland, Lodge Keys)

Winner Club

Hyderabad Management Association

My life partner supported me Malleswari.

My son Aditya Bharath, daughter Aasrita....

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7 Yes you are selected

15 Hesitation

18 Honesty is the true satisfaction

21 Life is a wonderful opportunity

23 Some people are old by birth

26 It is very important to have zeal

30 Having your own self

33 The awareness about future

28 Nothing is impossible

40 Health: Physical - Mental

44 Mental ability - The first test

47 Laugh and have a good sense of

humour

53 Workaholics-leisureholics

59 Attitude determines altitude

62 The impact of mental tension

69 Think once before you step ahead

73 This is the world of brave persons

only

76 Victory - defeat

79 The favourable attitude

83 Adverse attitude

86 Postponement

INDEX

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89 Bad Habits

91 Hard work never killed anyone

95 Winners - satisfaction

104 Criticism - Results

116 You must be positive thinker

117 The strength of unity

120 Goal principle

124 The tricks in selling

127 Achievement

129 Leadership qualities

132 The staff - Importance of training

140 If you can avoid despair the suc-

cess will be yours!

143 The basement of victory

147 Heros-Zeroes

150 The Boundless energy resides in you

153 Encouragement

157 The high class /medium class and

the lower class

158 The Merit of delight

161 Be unique

167 The habits - The obstructions

173 The imitating winners

176 Motivation

180 First step;

182 " I "

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However it is said,

Whatever the science says us is truth.

According to Human Anatomy

Man is an amalgamation of some millions of genes. Every genehas its own specialization within. It is at broad that the everynucleus has its own genre.

In this process there are some millions of nuclei which havebeen wasted then only we i.e., you and I or all have come intothis world. Therefore it means that we have already been selectedin that process.

OK, believe that you have been selected some way here.

After this you have been through lots of obstacles andhardships to reach here. So many fetuses are losing their life inthe womb. So many others have lost their lives as infants. Manyothers have lost lives in their childhood because of manydiseases. There are so many others who do not have anopportunity to study and lead such miserable life.

Comparing to the conditions of those people, you have gotopportunity to study. You might not become a doctorate butsufficient enough to mould your life that wants to be.

But it is not at all correct to worry for that someone has saidyou are not selected at some interview.

You are already selected for a purpose, and to achieve thesame is only life.

Just start thinking how to achieve this?

What is the purpose of life?

Why are we born?

What had been we living for?

For what purpose we have been given name of intelligence?

Why do problems come?

What is the goal of life?

You know what ? I've to remind you of something veryimportant.

Listening to the words “sorry you are not selected”!Most of the people get disheartened at once,disappointed and depressed.

What is this non-sense? Is this the way things are to be done?Do it with full concentration, is one more dishearting sentementsexample. Listening to these words, body’s Blood Pressure rises andone gets angry on those who speak like that.

In spite of doing that, you should get more annoyed withyourself.

You will get two experiences with one incident.

When you hear these type of words, a depressed feeling arisesin your mind quiet naturally.

But there is something you have to understand.

That is, the fact that you are already in the list of selectedpersons.

Do you want to know how this happens?

Just think for a while, how are we born?

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Our past experiences

All persons have their own experience in their day to day lives.The consequences of these experiences have the same impacton our minds. As bad experiences give bad memories and goodexperiences give good memories of ecstasy. Hence, if you askanyone about their past experiences certainly they remember badones at first and can explain them without mistake but theexperiences of amusement are explained very precisely and inshort.

How is it so?

My friend’s wife had lost her father in her childhood andher elder sister brought her up and supported her for some timedoing some job. But having other two more girls she used toshow impatience over them. Because of the reason that she hadlost her father at her early childhood days and because ofcarelessness of her sister she always feels that she has nobody onher side and this bothers her a lot. Aftermarriage her mother died. Even though herhusband was taking good care of her withcommon amenities like food, clothing andshelter and provided her a respectableposition in the society but always in someanguish which is bothering her a lot.

If you ask some middle aged person totalk about his life that would be mostlyabout his problems and troubles he hadfaced and his trial for solving out them andmost of the matter will consist of his failures and dishonor. Weforget the happiest experiences very easily comparing with badexperiences. But the bad experiences become firm in our mindmaking a deep impression, whenever we come across a smallincident of negative sense all those bad experiences will berecalled.

As a result, our self confidence can be ruined. When we meetwith failures once or twice we will come to a decision that theagitation that we are good for nothing will keep on increasing.

As a matter of fact there are some unknown defects andfactors inside you. These are not only present in a person whoattends interviews but also in so many people with greatexperiences and many experienced seniors also have to facefailures.

For example so many people have been laid off from theirjobs in the software industry and many lost their livelihood too.Most of these persons have managed to gain their livelihood insome software company. Some of them could not get theopportunities even if they tried so hard. But the reason for that isnot that they have no experience but there are so many factorsto be taken into consideration.

Whatever may be the field, getting an opportunity or havingmet with failures, there are so many reasons irrespective ofincidents.

Some of those, are mentioed here.

Self Confidence

Self Confidence is must foranything. The quantity of thisshould be more than the levelsof problems we have to face.To face an interview or ifentrusted with some work to beperformed you need to haveconfidence that you can do it.The same confidence has toreflect about you in otherperson. Certainly, then you can achieve it.

A young guy had consulted me, who was born with a silverspoon. He had spent lot of money on his studies and excelled infields of electronics and computers and completed his mastersof sciences. His knowledge of computers was appreciated bymany. But he is now wasting his time doing a Data entry job. If heis in a position to teach other his parents might have been givenhim a good private academy. Being affluent and fit, he also hassome weak points in him. Whenever he talks there is no confidencein his words.

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Unlike this, the qualities of a confident person are,

A persons confidence level can be judged by the way youwalk, you sit. The decency as this shows how much is one wellbehaved. Voice plays a major role in building up confidence inopposite person’s mind, louder and stronger the voice, moreconfidence will build in others’ mind. There should be respect forothers in his eyes. His tone must be like talking, not like quarreling.This means in your talks, actions and behavior there must becourtesy and respect for others.

For example,while you conduct an interview. One of these people might

looks smart, handsome and well dressed, wearing shoes and tielooking very good. But his shoes were making noise with bubblingsound in his walking to have caught a running train. Hand cuffsare not completely folded. As he approaches wished goodmorning in a very harsh and loud voice. With this greeting he hasdisturbed your mind of consideration. As soon as he entered andsat down in the chair without any respect, all these thingsembarrass you for a while. As a formality you may go through hisfile and everything may be right, but how can you respond anddecide. Just think of it.

All these do matter and will count to build your confidence. Itis better to stay aware of these things.

Presenting your concept

How much ever educated and talented you are, whatevermay be the abilities you possess, you should be able to explainand present them among others. To whatever extent you needto converse should not be neglected and your opinion must bepresented very clearly and should not speak unnecessary pointsand declare your opinions and mind about those which are notsupposed to be declared. Necessary things must be explainedvery clearly and be very precise to your best level. It is not goodto ponder over unnecessary things while facing interview. At thispoint I would like to share with you experience of one of my friend.

It happened long time back. He passed his Bachelor of Scienceas Chemistry his specialization. After which he got a call for a jobfrom a Chemical Factory. In that interview he has been askedquestions that why you have studied Chemistry. Our friend saidwithout any thought that there is no particular reason for that Istudied just because of I got admission into program specializingChemistry. With that answer it was clearly understood that hehad no interest in Chemistry as a subject. So can anybody givehim a job as a Chemist? Never, not at all!

We can see in recent times and understand how some peoplecannot utilize their knowledge.

For exampleThere were two young fellows who have completed their PG,

and have also completed all other courses which were availableto them. With my reference, since 6 years they have joined manyjobs and came out. They were not static in any of those jobs. Theywere not satisfied in any job. There was a lot of self confidence inone and there was no self confidence in another person. In thesame way their speaking style sounded very different from oneanother. I could not understand why they studied all thesedegrees, what have they achieved either practically ortheoretically? These days, there is a high demand for Animationin the market and many people are being attracted towardstheir training institutes. If there is no clarity of psychologicalconcept of their mind, nobody can change their fate.

If you want to change your future you have to change yourself.If you want to succeed in the animation field you have to describethe concept of which can take you to the world of dreams.

In general a movement or a scene shown in movies there musthave been 25 shots of photographs approximately. Andconcerning to Animation and movie cartoons all the pictures ofcartoons have to be drawn individually and then make picturesand then into movies. Only an artisan can enter into this animationfield. But everyone, who has seen the ads of animation and itsdemand are entering into this field, will not succeed.

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It is a necessity to have command on English language:This day in the society English has become general medium of

communication and naturally depends on how fluently we arespeaking. There are so many academies being established inhundreds on the name of spoken English. So many people arejoining these academies. Aside, there so many call center jobs ,and jobs in private Banks, Information Technology basedorganizations available in great metropolitan cities likeHyderabad where it is compulsory having fluency in English. Manypeople without fluency in English are losing good opportunities.

Once day I went to my friend’s house. His son was studyingPG. At that time, some of his friends were there and they wereconversing in English and the way of talking of one or two ofthem sounded to me that was not natural. Perhaps, they havegained a good command over English language skills.

Quite recently the intervieweror the company representativewhile conducting groupdiscussions estimated that thatthe candidates are wellbehaved among others aroundthem. In this kind of groupdiscussions the candidate’sconcepts and thoughts must be clear and well controllable andat the same time their criticisms should be reasonable and beapproved to put across all kind of tests. Like, will he get intodisputes with his co-employees, whether he is coping with othersperforming his best of duty and motivating them towards theirduties, whether he has very good leadership qualities andobedience should be considered when interviewed. You need todigest all these qualities.

It is not a problem to know whatever you must not. So youneed to work hard. Now a days most of the Telugu Channels aretelecasting discussion on these topics. In those, they do not givechance for others to talk by talking very loudly so that others feel

the blow of it. Forcing others to accept whatever you say bygiving more importance to your ideas than the point of thediscussion. This is not the way a leader must follow in the groupdiscussions. Let others talk and correct the mistakes with goodanalysis and clarify with suitable explanations. If your words arecriticized by others you can justify your talks with presenting suitablereasoning.

Be steady

It must be considered that not being punctual is great defectthat can be found in all. If you are applicant for a job, or a seniorwho applied for promotion, you seek good relation with familymembers and friends and must not let these defects get nearerinto you.

Those who apply for jobs must not be mentioned particularly.But being in a job if it has became habitual to attend his duties agood impression cannot be developed in the minds of hissuperiors. In cases of above mentioned persons doubts aredeveloped about the punctuality they can grow in their careernaturally. In the same way, the entrusted work is completed instipulated time period you cannot get such opportunity onceagain later.

Delay costs

Elections of Greater Hyderabad Municipal Corporation,(G.H.M.C) were held recently. All the parties declared names oftheir candidates. on this occasion the Telugu Desam Party hasdeclared name of candidate for the major position. Mr.Chandrababu Naidu has held a meeting of people to be swornas candidates. The candidate elected for major position hadreached late because of the reason that he had forgotten thetime as he was busy receiving felicitations of his followers andfans as he was being elected as candidate. Some leader withover expectations in his mind had exhibited a dupe of thatcandidate at place of him in that meeting. After Mr. ChandrababuNaidu came to know about this incident he rebuked thatcandidate and he had lost his opportunity to compete in thatelections. ●

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An attempt to protect human relations with othersbecomes too troublesome in all occasions.

Particularly, if whatever is being spoken to you, there is alwayssome agitation in your mind what others think of it, and becauseof this only you want to be good in their views will become areason for this hesitation.

A small example of this is that you are about to start to go toyour office, exactly at that particular moment some elder personin your neighborhood comes to you and requested you to drophim in the next lane that is on the way to your office. What canyou do now? Most of the people with hesitation as they have noother way will give him lift to next lane. After which he would belate for his office. He has to listen to all abused language from hissuperior. But keeping away with the hesitation and if you think fora while, you could have left the old person somewhere nearer tohis destination and you could avoid reaching late to your office.And at the same time you could also be helpful to others.

Mostly hesitation puts you into trouble in your day to day lifeand daily experiences. Suppose you have been taking anewspaper. In the morning when you get up from the sleep andyou find that families from neighboring house had been readingyour newspaper by diving it into several parts among their familymembers, you instantly get into intolerable anger at them. This iswhat we call anger. Being under an assumption that you wouldbe wrong and a bad mannered person by giving a strong warningto not to take the newspaper is not right. This is not good at all.

But one day, if you with full courage say to yourself to endliving fearfully, than you can gently convey your neighbors that ifthey want to read newspaper ask them to read it after you leavefor office so that you could be reading it at first . But they forsome time may not be free with you but your problem will besolved.

The main reason for such kind of hesitations is that because ofyour self-respect than your worry about others. The self respect isless than your agitation about others. For example, if you askanybody to write down some names of his favorable people andyou can observe that even though he wrote down two namesor wrote down two hundred names one thing is for sure that wecan say. that his name would not be in that list.

If you cannot respect yourself how can you achieve your needs,goals and objectives?

As long as you concentrateon satisfying others your life canbe stopped.

For good sake, you have toleave the hesitation, And alsoremove the thought of anxietyof proving yourself to be goodin others view.

For example

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Think that you have given some money as loan to your friend.After a stipulated period of time when it is time for him to returnback that money and he doesn’t then to maintain good termswith him in future you can wait for more one or two months, ifyou still feel hesitated to ask you cannot be excused. Only youhave to excuse yourself as you would be under loss.

If you can stop hesitating and collect enough power to insisthim for repayment. The power generated during this momentwill achieve all your objectives.

When you go for a movie and you stand in a queue for buyingtickets. Meanwhile you find some three persons have intrudedinto the queue claiming themselves as friends of some personbefore you, at this incident if you can oppose them by obstructingthem without fear and warn them that they cannot go to movietoday. As the saying raises their little bit pulses and bit of salt othersand neighbors will ask you for it sometimes.

When expenditure of food ration items and common amenitiesgo high. This can put so much trouble especially to women. Ifcannot say them once or twice that you have taken ration formonth, and we cannot help at this situation their attitude willnever change. If the hesitation that you and they have in themthey will not even come to you.

If you can conquer your hesitation and take it over you canachieve anything. ●

Under situation of troubles you always have to stayhonest.

Hesitation leaves dissatisfaction, honesty leads you to selfsatisfaction.

Until now you have come to know the problems which ariseout of hesitation.

And to conquer this hesitation, honesty is the best way to follow-which is done without hesitation- saying something acute.

Once upon a time, an elderly person was walking along theroad briskly. On the way some young person was sitting on theroad he wore a back spectacles and his dressing was also good.

The aged person coming was nearing to him; he queried time,saying what the time now is? Somewhat in a louder voice.

The old person stopped for a while 'I won’t say' he repliedrudely. And stepping forward pacing two steps and the old fellow

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looked backwards and observed that the same man wearingblack spectacles is walking with help of stick in his hand. Andthen only he could understand that the young fellow is blind, hefelt sorry for his mistake.

This way of behavior without any awareness is what we cancall wood breaking words which may hurt the thoughts of others.

Now how the honest sounds like.

In the metropolitan cities like Hyderabad senior citizens, womenand children travelling in buses must bear many troubles.

Youth must always be substitutes for power and zeal.But whentraveling by buses no such kind of atmosphere will be found. Evenif there is no place of an inch and there is a lady beside climbingwith a child in her arm and even though there are elder people,Even though they are unable to stay standing, without any mercythe youth does not leave their seats and are stuck to them. If theyfeel uneasy at having a look at the scene they will act as ifsleeping. Even if they are reserved seats for women there is noexception.

How do you feel seeing at this?

May be you do not like your childrento be one of them.

Such is the mode of persons withouthonesty.

In this we can recognize theproblems of others.

Quite opposite to this there is an example that is.

We shall enter into a Bank; there are ten persons in the queue.

One of the person’s mobile phone is ringing.

It is natural Ok, and starts answering the call immediatelywithout any delay.

The only word to other side person...

I will call you back later. I am in bank.

And immediately put off his cell.

What does it cost others if I talk to someone on the phone? IT

does nothing with me whatever troubles whom so ever is felt by

some people. Such kind of persons will have to learn how to

behave and develop a sense of honesty opinion about others’

feelings.

That is what called Honest personality.

Such kind of person will get respect in the society, and get

amicable relationship, friendly cooperation, and can get

appreciations of superior officers.

Based on the main principle “All for one, and one for all” the

achievers practice this as first lesson for reaching goal. ●

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Life is a struggle!

Life is an ultimate goal!!

Life is a purpose!!!Life is a delight!

Life is a sweet thing!!

Life is a beauty!!!

An amalgamation of all these is a successful life.

Life is the hoard of experiences.

It consists of feelings, faiths, fathoms, fantasies, dreams, failures,achievement, victories, gain and loss.

Life is a light illuminating energy.

Life is an ideal, a belief and an ecstasy.Like all these experiences and enjoyments there are so many

lives in the history of the world. To name a few Successful people:

Sachin Tendulkar

Amitab Bachan

Bill GatesLakshmi MittalAll these persons have been successful in their lives.Great Philosophers:Mahatma GandhiSwami VivekanandaNelson MandelaThese persons have utilized their lives at fullest for the world

peace.There are a few more like.World famous scientists: Who have contributed something to

this world? Thomas Alwa Edison (Invented Electric Bulb)Graham Bell (invented Telephone)Albert Einstein (Invented Molecular Energy)

Great personalities of the world

Hitler (A great dictator)Stalin (Great Emperor) who once ruled the whole RussiaBut quite opposite these personalities can be there. To be at

the first of this list is.“Satyam” Ramalinga RajuTamil Tiger PrabhakaranAjaharuddinBut for the satisfaction of individual choice we can enlarge

these lists.By above mentioned definitions the number a names in these

lists should be in thousands and more and that there are so manylives which have no identification in the world should be innumber of millions and this is known to all without any doubt.

Now the question is to know that in which list you would liketo enter into.

None of you can resemble any other person. You have to bethe same as you are. But do you want to lead the miserable lifeas always? Otherwise you step forward with self confidencemaking good decision for highest objective. Utilizing all yourtalents and adroitness and calibers you have to work hard untilyou reach your goal.

If it is so, let us start being a successful person ●

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Life is a golden opportunity you have. One is born;one is studying and doing some job as it is the routine.One gets married, gets house, fields, and has gotsufficient money will lead to his stable mind.

You have to take decision to think against this kind of idealogyat first.

At this moment we should remember our virtuoso Ramaiahwho is into IIT coaching.

At an age of 70 years too he has been donating education toothers. The main reason to achieve their goals in their lives.Selection of students who have come to him and limited numberof students in each class like things do not keep him a leader orfreedom fighter? There are So many academies. There are so manyprofessors but Ramaiah-IIT is only the sample for himself and hasno comparison.

You can now compare IIT Ramaiah with so many otherprofessors and institutions, which are successful, do you think?

In the same way, another example for this.

Swami Vivekananda

When he had visited Chicago to attend the meeting held onthe topic community of all religions Swami Vivekananda had

been the representative from India. He had thenmanaged to collect charities for travelingexpenses. After reaching to America he had noshelter to stay there. He had no money, evensingle dollor. As there was no other way he sleptin a goods wagon for one night. It was all right,but later so many people had become slaves tohis generosity. This is another thing, in meeting ofall religions many a great orators; philosophers

having addressed their speech only in the end Vivekananda hadbeen given a turn to address the audience. Through mouth ofextraordinary person Vivekananda was that, only one dialogue,

My dear brothers and sisters of America! By listening at this wordsof Vivekananda, not only the audience but every citizens ofAmerica were mesmerized, appreciated and highlighted him tolevels.

These two things are enough for example. You may decidewhatever yourself is what your life is to be.

Mere understanding is not everything. In this direction all stepsyou do meet with throns in the way. To the fact anyone who hasdecided to achieve his objectives has to face hardships in everyeffort made. In general for an ordinary person without any goalsin his life will also have problems, they can suffocate him. Most oftheir problems are because of insufficient financial resources andhealth problems. In very few occasions slightly hard obstacles theywould have faced. It is common that even for these too theycould not able to face they will get depressed and becomedespair.

If one wants to excel in his life and to achieve his goals he hasto face hard troubles that those should not be ordinary ones.Every step they make should be careful one. First of all you haveto expect the ups and downs which may occur and get readyfirmed to face them all. The steps of that kind of man should beexpeditious one.

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In childhood days we would have seen so many circus fetes. Agirl walks on a rope keeping a stick in her hands across. Like theseyou may also looked in circuses too. At the height of 6 to 7 feet ifthose girls miss her balance and fall to the ground certainly shewill break her bones. If it is in the circus that height can be around30 ft height the fetes they are performing on that rope missedtheir balance there must be net ready to take care of accidents.

But if you want to walk like on rope from the great height ofNayagara Waterfall how much courage you need to have. If youmissed and slipped down from that height certainly no singlebone recoveres then. That kind of adventure some Charles Blondes,a French man did this not for once but four times with every timemore challenging adventures.

Both for name sake and for money sake some people do thesekinds of adventures and remaining ordinary lot cannot do so.They don't even think of doing so. No one of you! Is it right?

Another example:

Bala Choudary.

She has to swim across in dangerous sea waters from this endto other end. That is what we called adventure.

The first Indian woman climbed the highest Everest-Bachendripal

The astronaut Kalpana Chawla

If we observe all these things we can understand one thingthat so much of energy resides in human being that is clear thatthere are skill, adroitness, in every one and that will make all theimpossibilities possible.

To walk on the rope must be the need ofbalance. Not only there, but for all aims to beachieved we need to confirm what work hasto be done, we have to keep concentratingon the objective only. For whatever theobstacles and ups and downs mighthappened, the concentration must not bechanged. ●

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there will be no hope, desire and confidence in dark. If this fact itis observed that until the rat observed it has hope in future andthe same has probed it kept trying to save its life.

In the incidents of Nazi’s deadly temples many people confinedhave been suffering many troubles since years and we will takethe opinions of one Judean, a Psychology Scientist Victor Frankelwho has escaped from there, alive. In general there is no oneafter confined by Nazis and been treated by them no one can beescaped alive from them. When we question Victory Frankel, whatis the reason that some of the jail bird persons can get out theirconfinement , he answered that age , health conditions, mentalability, craving for life, and so many other reasons were there heguessed but by last it was believed by him no one of them reasonsfor escaping from their confinement. At the end, what he hasconfirmed the reason for that the persons who had positiveattitudes to be alive had escaped out from their confinement.

Man making is mission Vivekananda had said in one of theincidents.

Now a day community has progressed in all directions withovercoming turning all the impossibilities to be possible. Never inthe past that there are so many facilities available. The medicalscience has developed unbelievably. By the result the longevityof human being has grown up so much. If the future can be wellconstructed with good plan all the comforts of living happily willbe available.

Even though today many of young person are not having anyplan. For very small reasons the youth have been committingsuicides. This kind of fickle minded and cow hearted personscannot achieve anything in their lives. To fortify these weak mindedpersons and by instilling confidence into their minds Vivekanandahad decided and declared as his aim.

In general that there two things which will give inspiration toman, one is good has to happened and other the idea that badwill not happened. Therefore, if we want to have self confidenceto strive for achievement of something in life need to recognize

To develop the spirit is to build character and to enableone to work towards knowledge of self realization. - M.K.Gandhi

If you decide an objective and for achieving that must bestubborn, a serious, and strive. That must have continuouslypiercing into your mind at every moment of time. If there is noobjective in your life to be achieved all the efforts must be takenfor granted. But to amuse somebody or to satisfy yourself thatmust be limited one only.

To understand this situation and affirm we will know about anexperiment in a lab.

In an ordinary bottle filled with water up to ordinary levels andkept a rat into that water. Till the rat was in that water they havetaken care that the surroundings to be dark. The rat has tried hardfor a little time get out of that water. Next time a rat was put inwater as is the case above. But this time that there was clearlylooking conditions. The rat has tried for a long time to get out it.

What has been observed by you from this experiment is that

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what can be good to us. And make it sole aim to achieve. In thiscourse of efforts the possible risks must be recognized and theremedial measures and alternate ways must also be constructed.

For example

Tthe Hyderabad girl Sania Mirza has gone up to the top of thelist of international levels within a period of few months. She hasearned name and fame. She has received the support from publicand government the cooperation, inspirations. Now if she iskeeping all the name and fame aside and being satisfied andput aside the hard work the future is not going to be purposeful.

Another example,

VVS Lakshman has gained fame in the national, internationalcricket. That there is talent in his cricket. That there is adroitness inhis play. He has been famous and recognized for his stylish brilliantbatsman. But now as he might have not shown his talents inmany incidents had to lose his place and cannot sustain place inteam.

You may remember that in the 90th decade in the field offinance the stock market was made disturbed so much with effectof turbulence of Harshad Mehta. Until the turbulence made bythe plots of Harshad Mehta having been to light the turbulencein the stock market reached the loss amounting value was morethan some thousands of crore rupees. Here the brilliance ofHarshad Mehta being diverted to follow wrong ways he remainedaccused and was kept in Jail.

Most wonderful things which has reverted are all the aboveincidents of examples,

'Satyam' Ramalinga Raju

The success have been achieved by him have got name andfame all over the world. His achievement has become basementto some millions of young people. Some lakhs of people havegiven their support for his progress. And had shown routes toamass cores of rupees of properties to him.

Ramalinga Raju has grown up to the status to be sat incompany next to the world richest, world famous Americanpresident George Bush.

But...

As his conscience having been diverted to wrong way, hefollowed wrong ways. The enemies were increased in his ownorganization. At last he could manage to keep secrets and foundin such irrevocable conditions later.

As there was no alternate,

He disclosed the truth and acquitted that he had amassedproperties through illegally and committed many mistakes.

With the effect of this, the organization has been bankruptedin American stock market, and all over the world. In India SatyamOrganization has gone quos.

Ramalinga Raju along with his family members and those whohave abetted him in these scams were put in Jail now.

Became in famous.

Had been blamed.

Having rose to paramount and fell down to abysmal.

The entire example that we have observed above, for someof them have achieved name and fame with their field wereselected by them. Some others like Harshad Mehta who haveselected wrong illegal ways and their talents were gone wastebecause of their wrong steps in order to amass the illegalproperties and finally became notorious. This kind wrongful wayslead them to become criminals in the history. Because of nothaving shown the due interest in crafting their lives like objectswere not taken proper care of, even though some of you do notlike this but this is an axiom.

Life can only be understood backwards

But it must be lived forward.

The true meaning of these words is that to say straight forward,the reasons for this should be overviewed later but every stepmust be made towards future only. ●

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of L.T.C facility to utilize that he had been to Tirupathi for theutilization of that. If you ask for the reasons he may say that hehad visited Tirupathi only because of force of his family members,or he could only have visited to that much only or as the like.Even though he is looking like that he has no belief in god , buthe has visited Tirupathi because of that he has belief , respectfor EnCana and by this only he could have been to Tirupathi.

In general, the surroundings of our family, climate, andcommunity will effect upon us.

At this point the importance of education and the real meaningof education, we should remember the principles under.

Education can instill self confidence. _ Rug EdamEducation will bloom self confidence.Unless until the light is illuminating it cannot lit other lights. –

Rabindranath TagoreEducation can develop mental abilities and mobilization –

Aravind GhoshThe prime aim of education must not be acquiring a job. It

must not become mechanical process. – Giddu Krishnamurthy

Have a look at the impact of education

The effect of family surroundings. Matter of fact the presentthe impact of social environment has been changed lot bit. Inthe past men would have followed the occupation of theirforefathers for their livelihood. This means that if his father wouldhave done business he has taken the business as his professionfor his livelihood. Now a day the trend has been changedcompletely changed. Still today the children of doctors andlawyer are having interest in the same professions respectively.

At present, it is because that there so much scope for educationnow a days. Once upon a time that there were so little number ofvillages which had schools. Now the situation is completelychanged and that there is at least one school in every villageeither private or government or missionary. These schools andcolleges are being established nearest possible areas. That thereare many colleges of occasional course in all districts now. Allthe universities are giving permission for Distance Learningcourses. As is always the students from villages are proving theircalibers in education at the rural areas. Now the governmenthas provided all kind opportunities to the girls students providing

In general life is limited to one person only.

The life of any one of you cannot be compared with any other’slife. Because of that the life consists everything in all walks of lifeas journey. Which mean that the every person has his ownthoughts, experiences, aspirations, objectives; behavior can drivetowards whatever the way they lead? As per the psychologists’opinion no one of these is feature of definition of true personality.As per the definition of psychologist a person behaved in differentoccasions has taken into consideration and then only they candecide that his personality. The father of Psychologists SigmundFraud has defined that the behavior should be there accordingto the impact of the subconscious mind. But there must be theconformity of these opinions to the same person.

For exampleSome one of you always declares that he does not believe in

god. And as long as you about that person there might not besuch kind of records that he was a devotee at all. He might nothave done any kind worship too. And he would have criticizedthe person who worship. But for the once he has got an opportunity

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You might have heard the name of great godly person to

the Blind people - Helen Keller.

She was blind by birth. But she has not lost her confidence. Shehad met luck with guidance of Anne Sullivan having the samedefects as her master. Although she is blind she has studied everysubject. Even though she is dumb she could have explained heropinions to others. She has earned masters from Rod Cliff College,Cambridge, Massachusetts.

It is necessary to tell you the words of Helen Keller. Once shewas asked, is there anything terrible than blindness? She answeredthat, is there anything worst than one could not see anythinghaving eyes.

The answer of Helen Keller can be applied to every one of us.We can see only with eyes. As far as our sight goes we can see.But one want to step forward in your life, you would have tothink ten steps in advance. Need have recognized the ups and

them reservation in order to bring them up as equal as boys. Bythe result, they are having as equal opportunities in all the fieldsas gents.

That there should at least the influence of all these upon thepersonality development. At the same way you may have specialinterest in one of the fields and to recognize that you mustremember the sentences given under and write down youropinions.

These only help you to know that in which field you haveinterest and awareness.

Craving for Machines, mechanical activities.I cannot explain my opinions clear to others when I am talking.I have so much interest in solving out the challenges and

critical problems.I have some my own personal thoughts, and ideas about

financial, political, and social conditions.I don’t have interest about dreams.I am very happy about scientific aspects.I enjoy playing with words and making fun out of conversation.I have enormous interest at work, whatever that may be.I would like to criticize myself and always be an introspective.I would like to solve out any problem within the specified

scientific methods.I like to be independent. I have lot of confidence about my

caliber, talent, and abilities.That I have not such kind of ability to convince others.I would like let know my ideas to others and I would like doing

the same.Whatever comes in mind I like to do the same.I can become a very good salesman if there is opportunity.My objective is to achieve it and for that I can convince anyone

whichever the way.I have interest for authority, status, and leadership.I am always ready to carry weights, and work hard. I think about others too. I want the environment, provisions, articles whatever around

me to be at the same position. ●

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downs.

I have been observing a person from very close and his agewas to work hard. Age of go flying colors in any career but henever tried for any job. He argues that if anybody comes forwardto employ me with good job then I do join. The true reasons forthat he has doubts which are obstructing from doing any effort.It is not like that he has no desire in his personality. But the fact isthat he has no clarity as to how to do efforts to catch theopportunities. Along with this natural laziness are main obstaclesmade him find out pretexts?

That there was another person who has carved his lifeprosperously in all directions to the best his satisfaction, I wish totell you. Even though he had no interest on education atchildhood. As he had no father, his mothers have brought himup with conferring love and affection on him. He led his life withmischievously. Meanwhile, got married too. After that there wasgown up a need for a small job for livelihood. But he could notwork hard more than he can as per his talents. At that movementhe had introspected himself. He has believed his talking power.Even though he has not experience he has taken up a newprofession. Today he has become proud owner of own house. Hehas been taking care of his family and leading sustainable andsatisfactory life now.

At this point, you have to know that the truth a man mustcarve his own life up to his satisfaction and lead delightful life.

As matter of fact some lives of others can be lead without anyeffort and like path of roses. Most of the lives there must betroubles, hardships, bad experiences, failures, and other problemsare very common. But with firm fortitude and stubborn hard workwhen the life have been lead in the decided way without losingyour self- confidence then only you can be successful.

In this effort, the first step is that having comprehensive visionof the future. The comprehensive, integral plan of future can beachievable direction an objective has to be decided. If it needs

the objective should be achieved through process of differentdivided stages.

In these kind incidents we should have to remember thedoctrine of Rabindranath Tagore.

Every Butterfly counts not months but moments, not evenseconds and still it has enough time.

Are aware of Abraham Lincoln who has become the worldfamous among the American presidents. He had achieved theposition of American President at his age of 53 years. He hadcompeted for the elections of presidency for 5 times and failedand then he could have obtained that position.

If we observe the fact of Lincoln’s lifethat you can understand that there wasa doubtful word like if. But we have tostep ahead correcting all kind of ifs inour lives. For doing so, the main featuresthat must be in you are as under.

You must have belief in you.

Must have desire for future.

There must be an anxiety of craving for highest positions.

Must be there sufficient hard work.

By looking at we may remember two cricket heroes. One isthe spin maestro Srilankan Muttaiah Muralitharan and another ismagic Harbhajan Singh. Both of these two heroes have provedtheir calibers in many of competitions. Whenever they havesucceeded the opposite team might have doubted about thestyle of bowling there have been disputes. The InternationalCricket Athletic Transactions Inspection Committee, (I.C.C) hasalready given clean chit to their bowling style still there have beendispute about their bowling.

Now you can agree with that the only self confidence theyhave in them stood them in the International cricket and letting

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them to go ahead. The experiences of these two cricketersestablishing another ethics. We should not astray our goals andobjectives based on the thoughts, opinions, desires of others. Youare opting to study one subject and by force of interest of yourparent’s sake you would have studied another subject. Somepeople say that wish to become cinema actor, doctor butunexpected we had entered the cine field. At any cost, eventhough in the changed fields when they excelled they could enjoythe success. But some others cannot achieve their objectives andin the field at present position they cannot stand. Hence you haveto take care of your objectives very piously and start workinghard until you have reached them. You have to concentrate onlyon your objectives.

But quite against to this, that there some persons have reachedgreat positions by taking these criticisms into consideration.Thomas Edison was lazy boy at his childhood days. His lazinesshas put his teacher to feel risk. That is why his teacher had sent aletter to Edison’s parents. In that letter it was written that ‘yourchild is worst boy. After his mother replied to the teacher that shecan teach my boy I she wrote a reply with a great confidence.You know the result. One of unforgettable name of scientists ofthe world Thomas Edison has failed so many times before to inventelectric light. But at last he has achieved success.

This means whenever our efforts are failed if we stopped tryinghow can get desired results?

Should not try to become abortive

If once you try that must be the last. This principle inspires us.

If we think of our forefathers for a moment and remember theconditions then with our fathers, grandfathers. Guess theconditions had been the conditions before the construction ofprojects at Davaleshwaram on Godavari River, and NagarjunaSagar Project. The Godavari had been overflowing over thevillages around it like roaring giant and thrashed all the houses in

those villages. Before to the construction of Nagarjuna SagarProject that area altogether was a thick forest. If we say that aTerrible forest, it does sound a joke. The altruism of Sir Arthur Cotton,and right vision had decided construction of project and hecompleted successfully. The districts of Godavari have becomeAnnapurna and became environmentally sustainable. Theboundless god owns food grains have been established there.The first prime minister of India has descripted that NagarjunaSagar Project as Modern Temple of India, it being between twohills producing sufficient electricity for the Industrial developmentin the state.

These two facts which say us that what is today is worthlesscan be made fertile in the future if we have vision of the future.Which means that no one of you are not worthless we should notthink like that. As cine poet’s said that if you work hard you canbecome great sage.

Are these opinions given under true? Or false?

Do you always decide positive objectives? For achieving theseobjectives you will be ready to face any kind of hard work inorder to achieve it.

To face problems utilizing your brains and recognizing answersis your habit.

That there is zeal, power covered in you like fire in the ashes.

You can easily mingle with others either known or unknownstart talking to them. You can tell your opinions very clearly andwithout fear.

You want to prove to be attractive, able, or talented to attractthe view of all.

You have enormous confidence in you. ●

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One of them is coming from high class family in respect of financeand education and another is coming from rural area agriculturalfamily. About these two persons, it was described in an edition ofEenadu News Paper, and May 14.

The first one of above two person P.Bharathi is doing job inSouth Central Railway as Assistant Commercial Manager. Havingstudied Engineering in Computer Science and being high positionjob, her interest for achieving success in Civils was not vanished.Even though she has failed two times and at third time she hasachieved success in civils. Do not to consider it.

Another candidate is Venkaiah Choudary from Guntur district,Bellamkondavari Palem village, and agricultural family. He hasdone his post graduation with History as specialization fromCentral University, Hyderabad. Having enthusiasm for civil serviceshe had attempted three times before this and failed at very firststep of preliminary tests. But without getting disappointment hetried again with zeal and hope and with patience for it andsucceeded.

Now every must remember one thing is that “A Quitter neverwins, and A Winner never quits. “

If you want to succeed in life stepping is not a rose way. Thereshould tides and downs for businessmen. The unexpectedsituations shall also be there. The greatest meetings, hugeassociation who conduct these also have to face troubles withouthaving any opportunities. At this conditions must keep fortitudeand strong hope on the future and before to that must haveover view of future having vision and that must be the optimisticone. If it is not possible then the failure can become permanentone.

The important things that a strong believer of success have.

A firm thought of achieving objectives.

Necessary enthusiasm, self respect, belief on the future forachieving them.

The nature of hard work to make it practical. The stubbornfortified practice until reach the goal. ●

Never say, Never Again.Like you all know there is a James Bond picture with this name.

But there is a lovely meaning of self confidence reflecting.

That there is nothing impossible in the history of humanity. Thesame can be recognized if you can observe the Guinness Book ofWorld Records. Making impossible possible is the evidence ofhuman talent.

In the past that it was talked among men that no one canclimb the Everest Hill. But now some hundred members haveclimbed the Everest Hill and so many can climb it.

In the same way, the Moon is there at the top of the sky. Hasnot man visited it? Neil Armstrong has proved now that, the talk,how great if we had visited Moon is made a word of past. Nowman is trying to make ready to start rocket service to Moon. Tryingonce or twice, many of us fall in despair that it cannot be achievedby them. Now you must have to know the experiences of twosuccessful persons who have passed civil services exams recently.

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Mental Ability, BoldnessDauntlessness, Health

Talkativeness

For obtaining all these that there is meaning of Prayer.

The same thing can be said in different words, that is HealthyMind in a Healthy Body.

When the body is healthy then the mind will be healthy. In thesame way, mind and thought are healthy then only the body willbe healthy.

At this occasion, one must be remembered. Nearly two yearsago a person with a crow bar piercing through his body nearbyhis heart passed from side to other side, you might have studiedin news papers. He was saved by the doctors of a Hospital inHyderabad doing a critical operation; this might also have beenstudied by you. The talents of those doctors is really appreciablebut you have to know that, if it were not there in depth of heartof young man , his hope, zeal for life, the hope at least to reachto the Hospital, and the great attempt to bear the painful

conditions for hours that it would have not been possible at all.The self confidence, faith upon the doctors, craving for futurehave saved his life, we must have to agree it.

Most of persons will get disappointed at when their superiors’behavior and become despair. At the same way some othersunable to bear the tension of work force. Some of these badincidents will make some persons helpless. Financial problems,health complaints of family members, unemployment and thelike will increase mental tension causing to so many bad resultsin their lives.

These incidents might have been faced by most of you.Recently a 21 years old woman Soma has committed suicidaljumping from the top of 14 floor building. The reason for Soumyastudying Engineering, and her suicidal has been found in herletter written as suicide note after is that her father was died fouryears ago and unable to bear loneliness she has committedsuicidal. Soumya has made her mother even more alone passingaway as her mother already lost her husband earlier.

We talk another of this type, some Muslim young woman isdoing job somewhere. Her younger brother is also some jobsomewhere. But her father was drunkard. She has become shockat the scene that her father had beaten her younger brotherbecause of reason he did not give money his father for drinking.She has decided that she could not change her father. Shecommitted suicidal.

If this kind of thoughts will come to your minds, first of all youhave to protect your mental health. Scientists hoped and havesuggested us some principle to follow that can be helpful.

If there are any insecurity thoughts in you have to substitutethem with secured ones. Commonly the fears are just generatedfrom suppositions. There should be very little reality in those. Thenyou have to write down real fears and supposed ones. And thenfinding solutions for the true fears and forget the anxiety and tryto solve the fears in the future.

Honestly recognize your strengths, abilities, weak points,defects. And then find out the ways to come over weak points.

You have practice a habit that there should not need todepend on others’ inspiration for every work you to do, you haveinstill zeal into your mind, accepting it as an initiative and to

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complete the work within a stipulated time. Fill your mind up fullywith self confidence. When you show your concern for others andin reverse whatever the reflecting response, loyalty andcooperation from them will helpful for your health a lot.

At this occasion, just study the sentences Diana Hayden at timeof Miss Universe Beauty Competitions

Realities start in dreams.

There must have concentration on achievement of equilibriumbetween our thoughts and actions. Acting against to our thoughts,or thinking which is impractical will not give any success andmoreover lead you nearer to failures. Difference in personalitieswill not any way be helpful to you in achieving your goals.

Do not hesitate to learn lessons from your experiences. Mostpeople do not hesitate to buy black ticketsto see cinemas. Sometimes you may beobstructed to enter into cinema theatre withsuch black tickets. In the same way if youbelieve the reservation shown by potter inthe general box you must have to get intodisputes. Hence habituate to travel safely bylearning something from past experiencesand making preplanned reservation.

Decide yourself first of all your life’s goal.Life without goal resembles a boat without

having and no one can say to which destiny that reaches. Justimagine the ecstasy and experiences When have achieved thedesired objective.

Rakesh Sharma is the first astronaut of India. When he hadreached to the ultimate space the then prime minister of IndiaMrs. Indira Gandhi asked him a question that how does the Indialook from there? The answer he has given back was the wonderfulwords, even though those words are not his own.

The answer of Rakesh Sharma

“Sare Jahase Achcha Hindustan Hamara”

How to know the condition of your mental health? Do youanytime questioned yourself. If can recognize your opinionshonestly about the sentences, you may come to know a little bit.

You have no total confidence on your abilities.

You think too much and get excited ponder over smallerproblems.

Get excited thinking of future.

You think too much to take decisions.

The ideas, opinions will change veryfrequently. For sometime delight, for a whilesadness, for a while enthusiasm and forsometime gloominess will come out bursting.

Do you feel insecure?

Even if you are among people still do thefearful thoughts will affect get you agitation.

Do you get agitation thinking of thatsome risks will occur in the future?

You cannot accomplish any work at single attempt. You cannotsolve your problems yourself.

You have a doubt that you have not planned about your future.

You do not like to take over the responsibilities.

You are dissatisfied with the society and the world around you.

You wish that the surroundings where you are working mustbe favorable to you.

The way of life you leading is not satisfactory.

You cannot be friendly and favorable with your neighbors.

You cannot tolerate someone say a single word against you.

Have you any doubts that all your family members thinkingthat you are an unsolved problem.

Do you concentrate your work?

Have you a habit of building castles in the air?

Whenever the adversity has come over you act against thereality.

The answers you told will disclose your mental health. ●

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to some bad habits to overcome their deficiencies.

That might be.

Cigarette Smoking, drinking, Playing Cards, Horse race, and

the like.

They will suppress their agitations by suffering thorugh the effects

of those bad habits.

They also know their addictions are just the consequences of

their weak points. They will also try to get rid of this.

But that effort would be like, Jagaram begins at rising from

sleep to the bed time in the night, like keep fasting from breakfast

to supper in the night.

Keeping abstinence of smoking from the

time of last cigarette smoke to the time lit

another one cigarette.

Their in-depth idea is keep away from their

weaknesses

But every time attempted will fail.

Even though ill-health become lethal one,

all the income will be vanished in the air, they

can just meet failure.

One of my friends he has started smoking at his youthful age.He had also habituated to drinking. At his age of five decades he

is suffering from deadly cancer disease.

Some other friend has been smoking continuously since threeand half decades.

Someone does not smoke will be born as he buffalo. A sayinggoes, of Girrisham words of Gurajada have adopted as their ideal.

In this long period of time he has taken some hundred timesfor giving up smoking and even sworn on the God but all the

times he has been failed.

It is common that the mental ability levels of

everyone must have to get tested time to time.Most of the people look healthy physically. The others who have

a look at them can also have same opinion about them.

The way of talking also looks very good.

But whenever one or two obstacles have come across them

then only the true weak point will come out. Most of the men

who will get aggressive on family members having this kind of

infirmity.

The problems, troubles, and failures which they have faced

outside will raise too much agitation in them.

The excitements are exposed under these conditions what we

call blood pressure.

People having these kinds of weak points will also get addicted

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One day, one week, and one month... does not make any

change.

If we want to achieve something we must have to root out

our weaknesses first.

Then only the mental capacity will

become stronger.

And then only we may step ahead in way

of approaching our goals facing through all

the troubles.

How terrible the hardship there might be

we will continue withstanding.

But how can be possible?

This is really a very big question.

To make money out the weak points of public that there are

so many counseling centers all over the modern community now

saying that they help these people out their troubles?

Leaving all these counseling centers aside, but our true concept

is so much important than everything.

We call this Mental Ability.

For this Self hypnotism can help you somewhat.

All these things are only techniques but the true solutions in

your hands only.

An alternative way? ●

The greatest medicine to protect your mental health

is the laugh. The words which give delight to your mind,the pleasant thoughts and words can control yourtension.

Now just remember your boss who always sits with tight mouthand gets angry for every this and that. Whatsoever the criticalsituation is troubling you that you cannot resist your smile on yourlips.

It is true only at very few occasions that the laugher is fourtimes bad, an old saying goes. But in all other occasions thelaugh is four times sweeter always. For example, suppose thatyou are traveling in a bus. Someone is sitting alone in the seat infront of you. He is laughing himself. For the first time you havetaken that he had to have looked at amusing incident to him.But every time you see he is being seen laughing, how feel aboutit? You thought that there is no doubt he has come fromErragadda, escaping. Is it true?

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In common Charlie Chaplin, Lauren Hardy, Relangi, RamanaReddy, Brahmanandam and today, Shankanarayana are makingyou laugh with their actions and euphemisms and follies. And thescenes of Bapu- Mullapudi are really extraordinary. The jokes ofJandyala are known to all of us. That there are so many jokesmade on Sikh conversations.

All these are made ready for you already. Moreover, that thereshould be so many jokes you had with your friends, familymembers, with your co workers at your work place the comicalconversations, satires must be in great number. But for the fact,the jokes which are divulged as new one at the time of worktension will have been a great comfort, and delight to us.

A small example of jovial conversation. In a coolest eveningtime someone was in effort of imparting a Vinayaka Prayer to hisson. When he said that “Anekadantham Bhaktanam Ekadanthamupasmahe” the grandfather observing his grandson’sproblems sitting by there, having so many teeth why do we needto worship Vinayaka having single tooth, he questioned like hedoesn’t know anything. By listening at his words that there waslaugher burst out inside the young man who was serious impartinghis son.

One of the greatest scientists Benjamin Franklin who guessedthat there must be electricity in the clouds of monsoon, here isjoke about this. As he tied up a kite with metal thread andhopped it into the clouds and got electric shock and proved thatthere is electricity in the clouds with a formulation. The writerMark Twain had come to know this, he said ridiculously thatperhaps Benjamin would have hopped a kite in summer he couldhave invented solar energy.

Another joke, in a hurry some person has come to a play writer.He asked that sir, you must write and give me a play very urgent.By mistake, he said that “ O Natiki instead of O Natika “ and thesame has been taken by the play writer and said OK , I will writeit surely some day.

Mocking of Sister in laws

Her sister in law is working under hot condition in Kitchen, shehas asked for a cup of Tea ( okka tea istava/ okkatistava) fromnext room, grew angry her sister in law said back to her comehere okkatistha.

A newly joined person in a job has been asked by his boss, areyou a bachelor? He answered back yes, I am Bachelor of Arts.

In some other incidents while we opted to laugh others withour jokes that may hurt their egos. In some of the incidents thejokes can reduce tensions and in some incidents that might be achance these jokes turned to be sarcastic. In this way jokes maysometimes turned to be oppressive.

Concentration, Meditation

If you can keep your mental health perfect you can easilycome over all the problems, challenges and mental tensions inyour day to day life. The most important thing is that you musthave to maintain concentration. Either mother or wife usuallywho cook food for the family has lost hertemper and the food will get salty for thatday. In city like Hyderabad the bus driverswho drive in this traffic like jungle, eventhough a two wheeler has diverted his viewfrom the road traffic and lost control, howcould be the result, you can expect.

There is cricket match going on, andremember the live telecast, sometimes abowler is running very fast and at oncestopped at the last moment throw the balland came back, you might noticed this, the reason for this thatthe bowler would have lost his concentration at that moment.In the same way that side screens which is to help the batsmanto see the ball clearly, if there were some of movements whichmay affect your concentration, at this kind of situations batsmantake him aside.

When the children asked to tell mathematical tables, ABCDs,or reading backs their rhymes if at once they face troublesbecause of loss of concentration, we will observe that. We saythem to keep their concentration and mind on the lessons. Butfor the fact most of the elders in most of incidents do not followthis principle. By the result, that there would not be quality andperfection in whatever work they do without having properinterest.

In this way that their works without quality and perfection,they cannot avoid rebukes from their higher officer. With their

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minds will get more disturbed. Its effect will have impact on theirhealth and talents.

These examples it is not needed to say again that they willinterrupt our zeal for doing things better. Having an aim in life,trying with utmost aspirations to reach the goals withoutconcentrating on the goal you cannot achieve desired resulthowsoever made efforts.

We can understand that what much extent we have toconcentrate on our objectives we would have seen that in theMaha Bharath, when the common Instructor for Kauravasa andPandavas Dronacharya has trained them because all of themare Kshatriyas princes. That there are so many specialist likeDuryodana and Bheemas experts of Mace fighting, Arjuna anexpert in Archery, has shown their talents in their respective fieldsof training. But all can know little about all the fields. At thebeginning of training Dronacharya has started teaching the lessonsof archery and put them some kind entrance test.

Dronacharya ordered them all to shoot a bird by its eye whichsitting on the branch of a tree. After that hehas called one by one asked them say whatthey were looking at. Some of them say theycould even see the tree, and some otherssaid that they could see the branches of treeand others said they could even see the skyoutside of tree. Dronacharya was not happylistening at their answers. But Arjunaanswered that he could only see the eye ofthat bird and nothing else and thenDronacharya has come to a decision that only Arjuna can excelin the field of archery.

Another example of the same kind, you might have seen thata patient being injected an intravenous injection or glucose. Ingeneral cannot be caught very easy because it will be stable.Moreover piercing of needle, very few will come to a doctorwithout fearing. Recognizing the nerve and pierce it with a needleshould be done at once. At this moment even small diversion inconcentration of doctor will make patient suffer pain. At the timeof operations doctors have to recognize every organ from nervesto internal organs confirming level and correct the defects ishow important doctor’s keeping concentration, you can imagine

it. That there is scope for a mistake to be happened withnegligence at least for a single moment.

Some great poet said so, who knows the fact that one of theworld best tourism spots Taj Mahal at time of it was beingconstructed how many labors were buried under the constructionof it. Such kinds of artisans who craft these handicrafts need howmuch meditation and concentration to do so. Some cine poetsaid that even to write cinema story one has needful passion andanguish. Then you can imagine the power of concentration ofAvadanis who can make fetes simply with words.

In my childhood days a story wastold that there were some disciplesunder training of a master. Some ofthem were allotted in educationactivities, remaining were allotted tolearn cattle feeding, ploughing fieldsand the miscellaneous works. Wife ofthat master used to give good sufficientfood for those who are doing hard allthe daylong conferring blessings upon them. One the masterhaving observed that he questioned his wife why this partiality.For that she answered that with gloomy face that they arebecoming tired working hard all the day. By listened her wordshe asked her to do one thing, while at time of sleeping all thestudents you keep butter in small bowls and keep them on theirchests each and see what will happen then. That there was nochange in their bowls which kept on their chest of who workedhard but there butter was melting in the bowls who have studiedunder the shadow. That is why the main thing about which wehave been talking is the severity of study than physically hardwork.

At present in the modern days that there is so much competitionfor doing any work, to gain the appreciation of higher authorities,and to show quality of work concentration of work is also veryimportant thing. If we can think of that a bank job should be sonice because we can count the currency notes all the time. But itwas there occur any small mistake we have to pay that short ofamount to the bank from our pocket. In the same way the menwho are in the executive jobs would have to face so terribleproblems sometimes and to solve them out they have to follow

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the ways can be looked to others feel very terrible.In our society these are so common that everybody will have

to suffer tensions. With this kind of mental tension can be causedto get ill health. Not only this bust also the relations between theindividuals i.e., human relations can be damaged. Most of thepeople will not show interest towards their families and theirchildren and they usually complain that nobody has any interestin him. If think that you went to your friends house, beginningwith welcome brother, and then continues all the complaintslike that her husband is not taking care about family, andneglecting children not taking responsibility of their education,even though if we got ill we have to take help of neighbors toget treatment visiting a doctor and so on complaints had beenlistened. The main reason for this that they have been trying toachieve success in their careers by neglecting everything.

For example,We have to know about our Krishna Rao uncle. He is in real

estate business. Once he was invited to a function by his brother’shouse. Because that was an auspicious day he had confirmed abusiness meeting some party has come his house. By suppositionhe could reach the function he said his wife and children to go toattend function. At the same time they have left to function , theparty have come to house. The negotiation would not have cometo an end. The apposite party having good interest had beenstubborn and continued the negotiation was prolonged. Hourshave gone. Amidst this his wife had phoned to him atleast fourtimes to remind it. He could not have left them any way. Howmuch he tried hard to send them and go to function he couldnot succeed. At last when he had reached to his sister’s housevery late, he could see only the satires, ridicules, and uninterestedwelcomes, harassments. From that day onwards his sister andbrother in law have been harassing him all these days. Recentlythere have been some normal relations resettled.

Life is a long eventful journey. It can be continued softlyas long as we maintain balance among all things and distancethen only it can be happy moving. If not so there should beturbulence. ●

We can see that there are two kinds of people.They too have two kinds of behaviors’ also can become

obstacle for your progress. Workholics means that those personsalways think about their work and never concentrate on otherthings. In some way they will be recognized for their work, andprove their talent in the work. They always want to concentrateon work and nothing else. And named to be workaholics. Thatthey can receive as many as appreciations of their co workersbut they have to face dissatisfaction from their family membersand friends. For man who runs after the work lose delight and restin the life.

In this present modern communities that the doctors havebeen warning that the main reasons for heart disease, diabetics,waist pain, neck pain are all the results out of mental tensionsand restlessness. Because of this that the alternative therapies likeYoga has been propagated as it has become as the alternativehealth protection.

Because of uncontrolled work tension will affect an individual

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and his family. If we take these thing in account then only wecan come to know what the importance of a planned way oflife.

How long you have worked is not important. How much youhave worked in prescribed time is more important.

The workaholics has to one thing that life is like boomerangi.e., a ball beaten to a wall. In the same way whatever the wayyou want to be your life your life will be so. Your thoughts, behavior,and all the works you have done will come to you. To prove thisthat there is small story.

Echo/ Resound

Besides of the repeated asking also hismother din't buy him what he wants. For thathe uttered that I don’t like you, for four timesand went far away towards hills. Still his angerwas not calmed. At the same time he criedat his mother, he cried again there verylouder. His cry has been echoed in those hills.He feared that someone is threatening mesaying that I don’t like you. Not havingdecided what to do, he has returned to hismother running and said that someone from those hills hasthreatened me saying “ I don’t like you. His mother has recognizedthe fear in his words. She told him to go to hills again and crysaying I like you. The boy did the same as his mother said by andthis time the echo has come back from the hills saying I like you.As you have been involved too much in work, we have talk aboutthe problems an example is there. After that we conclude withthe matter how to level all these problems.

You might have heard of Bill Gates. One of the worlds richest.The king of kings in the field of computers in the world. Somepersons who has worked in his company has given interview inradio telecast. He said working with great man like Bill Gates has

given great satisfaction to him. That there is no problems in salarypayments. But it is true we would have to stay away from ourfamilies for many days. For too many day we could not understandthe importance of this. But he has opined that after the birth ofhis daughter he had felt that his life must have to be in his lifestyle. After birth of his daughter he has got a new kind of delightof playing with his acute small child.

Good understanding in the family, love and affections shouldhave to be stayed for long time the properties of parents onlycannot construct the better ways to the future of your children.Still in this country that there are not developed so many asylumsfor parents in our country. Quite recently our community isrecognizing the importance of these.

Now I would like to say life style of one of my friends. His fatherwas an employee in the government company and his motherhas been also teacher in a affiliated school. His childhood hasbeen ended up by the hands of others. He has loved to be fosteredby his mother and to live with him for long time. But it could notpossible. Because of this an aversion has also developed alongwith his age. But he was not happy at when his mother opposedto his idea to go abroad for higher studies. That is why that therehas been developed an opposition and aversion towards hismother. Having developing this he has started behaving with hismother somewhat cruel, and inhuman. Now that young man isvery good position. But he does not happily with mother at all.But it is true, that there is not deficiency in his love towards hisfather.

To the fact, what has to be desired by the children from theirparents have to keep in mind the following principles for the wellbeing of their children.

Must offer love and affection to children.

Must have to provide confidence in them that there you areto support them.

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You have to allot a little time everyday to spend with them.That must be every day.

You have to encourage their choices of housekeeping, andtheir thoughts must be encouraged. Never say that they do notknow anything by keep them away.

By questioning their mistakes, congratulate their artfulness,creativity and independent attitude.

Impart them how to come over their problems , how tosucceed and how to turn the disadvantages into advantageswith explanations.

Good traits – Bad traits

If you want to develop in life you must have special traits,habits, thoughts you have to habituate. You should have interestto make it practical. Professionally, family, in community you haveto be recognized eligible, and faithful these traits are veryimportant.

First of all we should know them. At the same time we willdiscuss which traits are not good.

Good traits.

Honesty

Nature of understanding.

Acceptability

Knowledge and awareness

Patience to listen to other’s words and understand.

Friendly nature.

Generous behavior

Attitude to respect others

Skill, transaction of wisdom.

Educational style

Talking power with adroitness

Nature of helping others.

Bad traits

Arrogance

Dominance behaviour

Nature of Complaining always

Attitude of confinement

Too particular with traditional nature.

More particular about trifles.

Nature of Turpitude

Too much domination

Finicky conversation

Self boasting.

Complaining nature.

Being self obssessed.

How do you respond if others have these good traits.

You might have seen about some honest taxi driver. Apassenger has forgot and left his suitcase in the taxi. After thatthe taxi driver has observed this and not even opening that suitcasehe has handed over to the police. When the police opened thatsuitcase that there were many currency notes bundles lakhs ofrupees in it. All have appreciated him for his honesty becausethat amount does not belong to you and that suitcase is yourshow much you will scold him. If others have come against to youwill rise to the top. If possible you may shout over the opponent.Otherwise you may abuse. But for the other person being in thesame position he can also think the same way, will not show thatmuch common sense.

How do you think is this appreciable quality ?

We should not talk especially about the wrong doing of otherstudents. Most of the people will not have common sense to

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behave like giving way to others to get into Rails, buses. Now adays that there are so many people who are travelling by citybuses with daily passes. Most of them will not like to show theirpasses until they are forced to show it. May be they would feelshameful to get ticket out of their pockets, they afraid. Orotherwise they have not that much patience too.

Some years ago that there were many young scientists havecommitted suicides in some prominent Scientific ResearchOrganization at Mumbai. Their themes of researches havingadopted in his name by their owner they have felt despair andhave committed suicidal, all the newspapers declared. The hardworks of his subordinates exploited for his own purpose thesuperiors always be around you only.

You do not become one of them.

One of our relative’s wife was taken to a specialist for somereasons. She was trying to explain to doctor her problems andpains whichever come across in his life because of uncontrollableagitation. But that doctor having the principle of looking one byone in the order of priority after collecting the fees and intendedto write the prescription to his patients. The doctor did not showany patience to understand her agony.

Commonly to come to a determination about others all canact actively. But most of the people do not try to recognize theirdefects, and their nature of behaviors.

This kind of behaviors’ have to appreciate by themselvesonly but they cannot be appreciated by others. That there is thebest way to follow.

“Silence is the golden principle when you cannot thinkpositively”. – Mohammad Ali

EXCELLENCE IS NOT A SKILL. IT IS AN ATTITUDE. ●

The psychologists have classified the series of

thoughts into two groups.That is positive thinking and negative thinking. Whoever see,

listen and talk good and always thinking of things will happenedto be good are called optimists. Men with this kind of thoughtscan be helpful them and others to be good and act as altruistand get success in their lives and make their lives enjoyable.

Those who are against to them have only the thinking of goodthings but never try to keep that in practice and get despair. Theyhave strong idea of that there is nobody to help them. They alwaysthink of negative thoughts and develop negative thoughts followillegal ways. And by the result they will have to face doubts andaversions. Success will become out of the reach. The successeswhatever they have already achieved will also go futile.

A small example for this. Need to reach to office on time. If itis not possible to reach to there at specified time for that one hasto listen to rebukes of superiors. On the same one has to pay bill

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at somewhere else. You will have idea ofthat work can be finished in five minutes.But unexpected there have taken 15minutes more to estimated to completethat work. For compensation in order toreduce this late you have to drive vehiclebut the traffic signals can obstruct frombeing fast. After crossing the signal pointthere can be break down of your clutchwire. Fortunately you might found amechanic nearby there. Even though you have tried so hard thatcould be very late to reach to office on time. If the officer hadreached there before to you, might have happened to listen hisrebukes but fortunately he has been late. But for the fact he doesnot know that you have come late. What you can do then, youmay show your files to your boss with pride by posing that youhave been awaiting him. Is that true.

But this is not good to do so. Because of this being out oftrouble for one day temporarily may develop unnecessaryconfidence in you that nothing will happen being late. You maycommit these kinds of mistakes again and again. It is better tolet the truth known to your boss and requests him that you arenot going to be late again and it will be helpful to you.

You may think of that how great the temporary confidence is.Leaving thinking about these positive and negative thinking thatthere is another kind of thinking style is called autistic thinking.They only have needs, aspirations and thoughts. But they will nothave practical thinking.

What the 20th century taught is among others, to be cautiousabout the word “impossible “

These autistic thinkers do not have any moral values,truthfulness, punctuality and the like in their minds.

Now we must talk about some other failure story. My friendhas studied CA and for some time he has done practice too. Tosay his own words he has earned lakhs of rupees in his practice.

Out of his earnings has built a house and bought many otheritems. After some time it has come out that there are half of thepayments has been debt. The other items would also have goneto the market. That there is neither guaranteed job nor a practice.By the end he has become a workless lawyer.

This type of thinking has to be instigated by the pleasure huntingonly.

Men like this can become one in a lakhs and ends their withoutany proper goal. On the other hand some people starts their liveswith miscellaneous works and met with disappointments in theirfuture and would not be able to craft their lives effectively andwill be ended their lives.

Now we should think of ourselves, how much we are thinkingabout us with realistically the under mentioned sentences canhelp you. Try these honestly.

I lead my life satisfactorily and happily.

I have no any kind unhealthy features.

I will get sleep peacefully at nights.

I can withstand myself whenever it happened to face criticalproblems without taking any catalysts like (coffee, tea, cigaretteor other narcotics.

I can solve out myself with fortitude however the criticalquestion it is.

I am of nature to be very happy and take everything easy.

I have no special qualities with me to say.

That there should be some problem to trouble me.

I have so many negative and despair thoughts.

That there shall be many agitating incidents very frequently.

I agree with others decisions whichever either I like or do notlike.

In most of the occasions I will find faults with me and criticizemyself.

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In day to day life we do some work at every moment.

Even though at the time of our leisure, there shall be

continuous actions, physically and mentally.Whenever we take rest our body parts work can consume the

energy we can come to know all of them looking at these simpleaccounts.

When we are rest our mind will consume the 1/5 of total energyin our body. And ¼ energy will be utilized by the muscles in brain,and heart. The other ¼ blood should be purified by the liver andspleen in order to provide necessary protein, and other nutrients,vitamins, sugar, Iron and the like nutritious things that will protectour body.

If we want to be smiling face that there shall be three musclesmust be at working condition. If we want to laugh somewhatbetter we should give work to 37 muscles. If we want to laugh alot we have to work to atleast 80 muscles.

In general, we will consume this much of energy and in thewhole lifetime how much time energy has to be utilized throughoutour lives. If it be a LKG school teacher, labour in the mine, a farmerwho plough fields, even though a clerk working in the office willhave to work with hundred percent. Have to utilize their energyand has to concentrate on his work. In this way if we want ourwork is being done us should not be boring, mechanical we haveto enjoy the work to best.

Just remember what has been said by Sri

That there is not equal to the beauty of hard working life.

Is it not said damn sure.

We should have to take any work whichever we have toperform it whole heartedly. It has to be remembering always wecan see boards like work is worship in most of the offices. Wemay recognize same thing in Venkateshwara Swami Prayer thatduty is equal to divine.

The purpose of all these things is only the same. We shouldhave proper interest, zeal have to develop towards that. If it isnot so, talent, skill and highest qualities can be futile. If we wantto come over the tension it is necessary to concentrate on ourworks.

Most of the people when they are at work tension will worryabout their head ache. Along with the work tension they will alsosuffer the mental tension too.

There is an example of this. One of my friends is working in anewspaper company. As he is of middle class family he couldhave to make debts. In some of the incident he had to havesalary advance he had to approach his owner. By giving moneyto him he said one thing. If there is financial problems, the troublesin the family how could you concentrate on your work in theoffice. Just try to get rid of all these problems.

That there are two Shatakas in Sumathi about debts.

Function is done with debts can be troublesome to the fools.

Do not mortgage the gold

Should not be escaped from the arena.

Should not bargain like being in the market

Should not have friendship with a fool

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Like this also these problems of family. It is only the saying forthe good of all the employees. Forget all the troubles of family inthe family only, should not remember your family problems in theoffice. At the same should not remember the problems of officewhenever you are in the family. Otherwise you have to face manyproblems.

Everyone can understand the importance of these sayings. Withall these kind of problems many a persons are being addicted todrinking. This may give mitigation to your problems temporarilybut in the end this habit will lead to all kind of harms to you bymaking your body weak and make ways easy to develop diseases.It will also lead the mind become blocked. Those persons losetheir fragility.

That there some ways to come over all kind of these problems.

Whenever the daily routine works be felt bored it is better tostart working a new work afresh. If the habit of watching TV daily,because the articles and episodes have become that way. Youthey have switching over to reading books and listening to goodmusic will also give best results. In the earlier days, when someonegets bored would have been advised to do gardening. That thereis no availability of that scene of gardening in these kind ofmetropolitan cities.

Try to learn many other new skills. Now a day’s all have beenacquainted with using computer. Within short period thecomputer will also get bored. At this position it is better to drawpictures, reading jokes, watching cartoons, can also entertain usand your eye can also get rest that way. If you are bored withthese too you may try to some other things like astronomy,Geology, and geography and the like.

Tours, traveling will also get rid of your mental tensions. Themodern social man desire to visit new places. It is the tastingnew dishes will also get great pleasure. As a routine you travel bycar but if try traveling trails that you may get amusement. Whoeverresides in the cities like Hyderabad having visited too far awayrural areas and you may see the difference.

All these things have to be tried in order to reduce the worktensions, boredom, mechanical life, work pressure.

Some of you might have observed that howsoever you think

the people like you are being implied by the words of GeorgeBernard Shah.

The secret of being miserable is having enough leisure to botherwhether you are happy or not.

In this way they will get agitated for every trifle.

My friend’s wife will get agitated for every this and that. Fromthe rising from the sleep she would to worry about the how couldbe the things done in time or not and all the desired things couldbe done in time or not. That there so many things like this.

But everyone can observe the difference.

There is a difference between taking care and being full ofcare or completely worry-ridden.

Bernard Shaw on life time happiness.

No man alive could hear of it. It would be hell on earth.

Being away from anxiety…

The prominent physician in Canada Sir William Osler has agreedthat he can only be tension free on two days in a week.

Do you know what those are?

Yesterday, the day which is past now, because of thoseproblems have faced are out of my hand now.

Another one is Tomorrow, the day which has to come. Becauseof the reason the problems, obstructions, responsibilities,aspirations, to be taken care of that I have no caliber is availablein my hand right now.

And the only day have in my hand that is today only.

Everybody has to face and fight over the today’s problemsand challenges only.

Looking like two poles- Yesterday and tomorrow is to be foundas one that there should be fears, anxieties, and tension will haveto be faced, William Osler says.

Thus, if we want to lead our lives with the mind full of peacewe should have to live at present day i.e., today and then onlyyou can keep peace of mind. Observe carefully. To construct abuilding is not possible at a moment. You can only build up abuilding with joining the bricks together.

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That is why, we have concentrate on our work the presentday but we should have to think about the past yesterday andabout the future to be come, cannot be profitable in anyway.

That there was a wonderful thing in ourmythologies. All of you can know one thingthat Krishna is son of Devaki and Vasadevuduand born in a Jail kept by Kamsa. But youhave to observe one that the Kamsa wouldnot leave anyone of the offspring of Devakiand Vasadevudu. Not only for once but ithappened for six times. Even though theywere not worried about them but gave birthto 8th child Krishna or foe of Kamsa mighthave born so that he may become foe toKamsa. But with fear of life he would tried to kill the 7th birth eventhough it was female one. After that in the 8th birth Krishna hasborn and reached to the house of Nandudu at Repalle safely. Butthis was known to Kamsa. Trying to find out the unseen foe hehad wasted all of his energies.

Just think of the political world. Once stepped into politics shouldnot care for anything either victory or failures. Sometimes success,another time defeat, in this whenever they are in the successful wayor have met with defeats they would leave the politic.

Think of how Chief Minister N.T Ramarao has come to power.And lost his position because of political plot of Bhaskara Rao,but he did not give up trying and fought incessantly and afterthat he has come to power again. Like this way many a politicianshave lost the position and came back to power again after longefforts. Immediately after having come to power he would startworking hard.

In the same Rajendra Prasad once was at highest swing andlater he was kept away from cine field for a quite a long time.The cricket star Ali Khan Patodi of 1970 decade has lost his placein the team and later he has regained place in the team andalso has been praised as a team captain.

Because of that it is warned not to be nervous thinking aboutpast and future. But we should not forget about the fact oppositeto this. We should correct the house keeping when the light is on.And look at the sentence under.

Who is wise by day cannot be a fool at night.

What does it mean to you?

Intelligent person can be wise at day and at night be wiseonly. But for the fact, if you think of it carefully, this sentence cansuggest you how to balance the past and future. At the sameway, the person who is living at present will also have a viewover the future too.

You may think of ants, they would have to work hard tohoard food that is why they shall deposit the food for that season.All of you would have known a story of three fishes. The fish whichhas expected the future has reached the protected place at firstand others fishes which have no awareness about the future havebeen caught by the fisherman. And then they would have tosuffer a lot because of not having awareness. It is does not needto talk about the third fish.

To prove this thing that there some verbs.

Did is a word of achievement.

Won’t is a word of retreat.

Might is a word of loss.Can’t is a word of defeat.

Should is a word of duty.

Try is a word of each minute.

Will is a word of hope.

Can is a word of power.

As is our company is dependent of agriculture that there issaying like that nobody can know when the life goes and rainwill come. That is why farmers will hoard their craft the time ofdrastic period which comes in the future. Now a day’s such kindof caution is missing.

Whoever has worked hard and saved for the future when tthey were at their childhood and can also make their lives asthey want to be best of their choice.

Working hard when their young age having idea about thefuture and to be lived peacefully in their old age.

The most famous persons like who have been famous at

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Hollywood the actor, Clint Eastwood had worked a petrol bunkbefore he came into cine field.

The famous scientist Thomas Alwa Edison used to sell thenewspapers and fruit at railway stations in his childhood days.

At the end , we should know two most famous persons andtheir earlier days.

The forerunner of Birla family Ghanshyam Das Birla, 100 yearsago was born in a poor family in far off corner village in Rajasthan.He was not recognized to be ordinary students too. He has startedhis struggle for survival at his age of 12 years. At his age of 16years has started his own business. After that he has entered intoimport and export, cement, sugar, paper, machinery, tea, cyles,cars, aluminum and other all the sectors of business the Birlabusiness has been spread and earned cores of rupees profits.

The person who is the owner of Wipro Company, Ajit Premji isone of the richest persons in the world. When he was studyingengineering his father was passed away abortively. He had tostop his studies then. He has quenched his desire of completingengineering three decades later.

All these examples will show you how to utilize the presentopportunities and lay strong basement for the future to come.

Eight rules to be keep away from the troubles.

If you want to be stay away from the worries and lead lifehappy life. Some of them are under.

Give special importance to simplicity of your day to dayschedule.

Get rid of the extravagance which is more than your income.

You have to adopt your thoughts to be clarity and conformity.

Do not give more importance to be happened as it is youdesire to be.

To be possible to the best being peaceful, and try to getappreciated by others around you.

Try your level best to make others to be happy.

Concentrate on the works to be done today and on yourresponsibilities.

Adopt habits which will give hilarity to your mind and body.

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Amidst the troubles all over the life boat to beleading effectively you need to have activeness andmatured mind to balance the present and past andlead into the future with bright colors.

Man always likes ading his life peacefully. For the acquisitionof this one has to have incessant effort but whenever met withserious problems most of the people lose control. Most of thepeople think about the problems which have come nearer andnever try to think of precautions.

That there is one reason for that. Your concentration mostly ison the present only, but if you can develop your thoughts for thefuture...

The highest position has been acquired scientistEashwarachandra Vidyasagar; some incident happened in hislife, we should take for example.

In the year 1865 that there was a calamity has over in thecountry. At everywhere there was drought all over. Most peopledied of hunger. In those days Vidyasagar has visited to West

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Bengal. Then that there was lean person has come to him andasked for a paisa. For some reason there has been interest on him, he said that you have asked for only one paise but I will givefour paise and questioned him that what would you do withthat ?

With two rupees I will buy food itemsquench hunger and with remaining tworupees I will give my mother, he answered.

sagar has astonished for some time andif I give you two rupees ? Questioned again.I will buy rice with four rupees and take it tohome and I will give the remaining amountto my mother, he answered.

sagar has opted to test that boy more.Vidyasagar questioned the boy that if he hasgiven four rupees to him what will you dothem? He young boy said without hesitationI will buy food items with two rupess and with the remainingamount of two rupess I will buy some fruit and will sell themretailed and start business, he answered.

With his answered sagar was excited and he has put one rupeein his hand and left.

After two years later sagar has visited the same village someyoung man had come to me and introduced himself andexplained how he has developed his business showing theevidence to Sagar.

That is what we call the balance between the present andfuture times.

Are your own judge and you will be happy?

Mahatma Gandhi.

The troubles having been faced for most of the people, themain reason they cannot decide the order of priority of things.For that there is a very simple example.

If you have gone to supermarket with your wife but beforegoing there if you have planned a list of items to be bought theshopping can be easy then. Against to that after reaching theirstart buying things whichever they saw there will become a big

hole to your pocket. Some of them you need can also beforgotten and some of them are useless to us. By the result weneed to go for shopping again the next day.

To be escaped from this we have to plan our time available,and other things to be adopted for good, you have to followsome way of planned schedule.

The reasons behind the most cheerful men are the rich satisfyingand strenuous discipline.

Those there three main defects which cause turbulence in ourlives.

That we cannot decide which is most needful which meansfail to confirm order of priority.

That there has not been awareness give importance of decisionof priority aspects.

That there is deficiency of implementing the same. Which doesmean that the good and bad aspects will come under thisdecision? For whichever of these have to be given importanceand taking into effect and which one has to be dragged backlike discretion has defects. In general most of the persons havebeen occurred to face lots of troubles at a time. Some of themare to be done without interest. Some others could not be doneeven though interested to do. In some of incidences we behavewith doubts and fears. In the incidents of some doubtful thingswe should have to deny as per the priority if cannot do so we willhave to face unnecessary headaches.

Magic of saving- Get profits

If you are invited to your neighbor’s house and if there ispossibility of having faced with troubles which are unwanted? Ifyou hesitated you have to face troubles. Somewhat civilized, andsome bit wisdom you have to wish them taking your availabilityof time and explain the position is better than turning your face.

Otherwise if you go for buildups making debts you certainly

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have to face troubles. If someone wants to lead peaceful life willnot go for loans.

The guidelines for living.

First of all you have to learn how to be honest. At any cost youwill not have decrease yourself.

Get prepared to face troubles but do not try to escape them.

Make a habit of reading interested books, listening to music,having conversation with your friends.

Make a list of your problems. Try for solving them with honest.Then only you can find out the way to the positive results.

Decide your priorities very clearly. Leave the idea of solvingout all the problems at once. First of all you have to decide whichone problem should be solved you have to concentrate on that.Whatever the problem is found to be considered serious youhave to think of it over a lot.

It is good having baseless idea of solving out the waywhichever is only good. Be ready to accept that if anybody hasgiven better suggestion.

Keep your mind always delighted and should not allowdespair, and depression come near you. Then only you are impartialyou will be in position to take better decision.

If you have a habit of taking wrong just get rid of that. Ifanybody has given good suggestion you don’t have to think of itthat is only for misguiding you or degrade you.

Always keep this thing in mind.

Cheapest luxury for any person is laughing. It stirs up the blood,expands chest, electrifies the nerves, cleans the disturbancesfrom brain and the whole body system gets purified.

Dauntlessness is the true definition of success.

–Jawaharlal Nehru ●

The important writer Foidar Dostoy Wisky has been

for sometime in the Russian army as an officer.

In those days of there were fights against the Jar emperor. In

the fighting there was a doubt about the portion of Dostoy Wisky.

He was sentenced to be hanged and put in the jail. But in the

end he was transferred to confinement of army camp in Siberia

and sentenced with severe punishment. In that confinement he

was put to so many stringent punishments. That there was an

idea of that whoever goes to Siberia to be punished will not come

back. Moreover, the government had considered their foes if

anyone is slightly intelligent. They have been playing tricks to

threaten them of that way. They might have tied them with

clothes. If anybody has been obstructed them they would have

to shoot them up. Before to tied them with cloth they would

have been showed the army personnel. That is why they have

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been feared with having their lives in their hands counting downthe seconds. Some of them have been waiting for the last minutebut the death din't come to them. The reason for that the officerhave been acted up so that threaten them.

Time is very valuable. More precious than money, becausemoney even if lost can be earned back. But a moment oncegone lost forever and can never be called back.

– Swami Shivananda.

But some enjoyable moments and fearful times should beremembered again and again and can make it to be alive.Naturally we should think of forgetting the painful moments. Butwe cannot forget the enjoyable moments forever. If even thoughthem many times we cannot get them back .But to rememberthose thoughts and want to do the works with that inspiration.

Whenever we met with the adversecondition it is natural to get disappointed.But it is not good to develop the agitationand become nervous. Then we have toremember our successes and get inspiredwith them.

For this kind of situations we have toremember the words of Oliver Goldsmith.

Our greatest glory consists, not in neverfalling, but in rising, everytime we fall.

Some of them have to be remembered for improvement ofyour self confidence. Mahatma Gandhi has written a book namelyMy Experiment with Truth.

Jawaharlal Nehru has written when he was experiencing thejail life. Letter from a father to his daughter. An Autobiography,Glimpses of world History, Discovery of India.

About the Don Quixote the Spanish writer Selventis, RobinsonCrusoe the English writer Daniel Defoe, Marco Polo has writtenhis book namely the book of Space Marco polo from jail.

All these persons have suffered with the terrible punishmentsand have written for the well being of the future generations.

When the situation comes you must have to keep in your mindthe following.

To not worry about the seriousness of the problems in front ofyou. If there is anxiety in your mind you cannot concentrate onanything. Because of this it is very important you to calm downyourself first and then only try to solve out the problems.

First of all it is troubling problem and if you have seen that inthe magnifying glass that will a giant. If you have become cowardyou cannot try hard to solve out your problems.

To understand the problems clearly you have to write downthat on a paper. And try to find out the ways to solving it. In thisway you have to accept the pains and pleasures and easy andhard things have to be born and you have to select the best ofall.

When you are being troubled with troubles, you do not makea mistake by self criticize and do not welcome despair.

To follow cross ways in order to solve all your problems at once.The collective knots of problems have to be divided you havefind out measures. You must think about where from to start andwhich is the last priority to be solved out.

Always try to adopt the positive thinking. Keep trying toimprove your self confidence.

Only then you can walk on the edge of life’s sword

Face all situations. In this world we meet with all kinds ofsituations-pleasant or unpleasant.

Keep up courage all the time.

Swami Ramdas. ●

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A successful life does not wait for an opportunity, It

finds opportunity every day.

That there should be desire, to acheve something in life.

For example,

most of the people with an idea of earning lots of money will

join any small job which has come to them. Meanwhile there

could be developed a family as he entered into married life. From

then onwards the plans will change their tracks. There can be lots

of difference between the estimations and realities. With this the

confidence of his employer will be decreased at his work place

and he has to listen words.

Some lady has joined a clerk job in a private company. Because

of the reasons that her work tension and family tensions as much

as she has done her best the agitation and anxiety she had to

take so much. Files, papers have been looking at quos condition.

But unfortunately her officer could have been looked only the

mistakes. More to the work the situation will get you angry. Abuses

and rebukes.

But even at the beginning could not succeed that there could

have been any of reasons. The reasons for their failures, might it

be short of hard work ? or might be short of zeal ? But actually

what is the main difference between winners and defeated lives

? If you could have understood, you are the half winner.

What you need is confidence and energy. Despair is the road

to inactivity.

That there no comparison between

that which is lost by not succeeding and

that which is lost by not trying.

You might have not been successful

even if worked hard. That will not be

great crime. But against to this if you

worry about without trying to success that must great crime.

If the iron is utilized and kept idle it can get rusted. In the same

way the water which is kept in a pound without flow that can

also get spoiled. And in the same way if you do not try for in the

work is opted with modifications you will become lazy.

Hence get rid of your laziness. And decide to keep an objective

in your life. And keep trying reaching your goal with facing with

unerring efforts.

If we enter into history, that you might have seen a cinema

Mechanna’s gold. Like that many people have tried for gold in

the past and failed and some of them have succeeded too. They

have earned something else if not the gold instead. We might

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drenched out. Most of these incidents the successes had been

decided at the difference of a few feet at the end.

We all know that we are making bore for some hundreds of

feet in order to get water bore well. In the same way, having

failed so many times before reaching goals the scientists have

experimented many a times before their inventions.

That there is main principle.

If you do not succeed in first attempt, do, do, do and do until

you get it.

Last examples:

The great scientist who has invented the

medicine for Syphilis disease, Paul Ehrlich has

been given Nobel Prize and named that

formula 606. He has failed 605 times different

experiments.

Thomas Edison before invention of

electrical light he has been failed some

thousands of time in his experiments.

Knowing this reporter had teased him. He

asked him that you have been failed some thousand times before,

is it true ? But the answer for that was given that 'I have invented

all the unworkable ways.' ●

In our day to day life we should face so many upsand downs and to overcome those. We need to have afavourable attitude.

If you want to make sure that there will not occur any defectsin your behavior you have to understand your life, your friendswho stay around you, community, and the attitude of world. Asto a jaundice patient that everything looks to be green, that thesaying goes if you have favorable attitude everything will befavorable to you and if you have negative attitude thateverything will be looked adversely.

That there was story upon the devotee of Rama , Kabir Das.

One day Kabir Dass has been preaching to some people aboutthe Kathamrutham. It was then the turn of Sundarakanda.Kabirdas was describing the beauty of Lanka. That there were somany flowers there and some they were white like jasmine. Atthat moment it has happened there… is that…

That there is a strong belief that there will be Hanuman atover the story of Ramayana. And moreover that that is enchanting

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is best of the devotees. That is why Hanuman was also sittingthere enjoying listening the story.

Until then a devotee who had been shedding tears from hiseyes and shocked at that Ramadas said that there were whiteflowers in Lanka and he was not interested at this. As soon aslistening these he rose and said that there were no white flowersat all. As it was the dominion of demon king Ravana, that like hisregime that there were only red flowers only and opposed tothat.

By listening at his words he found who that person was. Ogreat personality that you could not found white flowers becauseyou were with angry at that movement. Because the reason thatRavana has kidnapped away the great virtuoso Sethamma, hegrew angry at that moment. Your eyes have turned to be redthen and for the same reason you could only seen everything redincluding with white flowers red in color.

Just observe the children’s play the female child would like tobe taking after her mother only and in the same way the malechild would like to be taking after their fathers. Only because ofthe reason the fostered quality of patience and loyalty that thereshould be placed in the minds of female children.

That these kind of changes are very common, to be proved

Bhramara – the insect justice.

That there was doctrine in Sanskrit.

You might have seen that a Bramara insect having revolvingaround itself. After sometime later that itself has turned to be abramara insect. But for the fact no other insect would notchanged to become as another one. Now the bramara has madethis insect as his food.

In the same if there are all the corrupted people and peoplewho are not diligent are around us. That is why the youth will alsoadapt to the same kind of mentalities.

Because of this the experienced persons say that it is possibleto expect the behavior of someone if know the thinking style andattitude of livelihood. In common that there are three kinds of

attitudes to be framed one’s behavior. For example, the life andthe attitude of someone about his friends to be framed at threestages.

First of all we should think of the thoughts and beliefs andopinions. Which means if his thought mainly concentrated uponthe physical pleasures or the moral values of the life he does notpart with ideas even if he had met with so many problems? Andin the same way if someone likes to be recognized as adventurousman among the people he would always concentrate on doingadventures only.

In athletics or in any of the fields his showzeal and fortitude can be understood veryclearly.

This may also be told that the evaluativeprocess.

If we think about his thoughts, desires,aspirations, and behavior and measures areto be taken for achievements. For example,if someone who has worked as clerk in thepast would be happy about his success inthe society and behaved generously. In thesame way, if joined into the teacher profession one may becomenearer to the idealistic thoughts. As someone joined into thePolice job will adopt the rudeness and stringent behavior. Knowmore examples of this kind.

All the information which has come available. That would haveinfluence his behavior a lot. The family members, the teachers, orfriends, and the books which are being read, the cinemas, TVprograms which are watched by him will also have impact onhis behavior. That there was great impact of the atrocity andprone sexual programs on the TV channels over the Americachildren.

The community or conditions which are around them will haveimpact on their behaviors. We should call this as defect ofcompanionship. For example a boy has been learning French andknowing this his friend also has started thinking of learning French.Inspired by the word of some other friend who has said about hiscall center job some other friend has turned to profession and

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enter into this field with making incessant efforts. As is the same,the people who have been staying in company with high classpeople would have been in the same way, and whoever beingin company of slum areas have become rude and cruelaccordingly of their situations.

To know your attitude is in which direction, if we overview thefollowing sentences honestly.

Whenever in the incidents, I have to approve the aspects ofothers I am ready to know all their opinions.

I believe strongly that all will agree to my decision.

I believe that, anything has been done with slow and steadyefforts will give good results.

I consider that behaving with courtesy is a great quality.

I have a belief that I can achieve whatever result desired byme.

I believe that there is in everybody the power of achievingeverything they wish.

If worked hard the result must come out.

That there should be a strong belief in everybody for achievingsomething in his life.

To accept the criticisms respectfully will make thoroughfare tothe success.

The timely done work will give good result.

I am always grateful to whoever has done well to me.

I would like to utilize the leisure time for reading books, orwriting something.

I believe that there are many of my friends are more able thanme.

I would like to be loyal to the duties which are entrusted tome.

You must have to change your vision to understand the worldaround you. Most of the people would like to see the surroundingwork through the eyes they like.

We hope that everyone will help us. But we should notremember whoever really helped us. Because no one can help usall the needs. ●

It is not good to develop hateful attitude.

You could observe that, in our past we never got a chance

to copy, the students have developed anger, after completion

of their education have been interviewed by the officers, and

grew anger on the superiors who have not given chance of

promotion, that those who have developed hatred on the

parents, wife and the persons who have been dependent on others

for every need. With these kind of people what good would

happen to the society.

We should have to follow moral values. Which means that

your study differs from your grasping every aspect? In this incident

the education, culture, moral values are to be understood briefly

I would like to tell a story is written by K.S.Y. Patanjali.

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That is in Vizianagaram district as it is down his district. That is

why the theme of subject is of Vizianagaram only. Having

completion of staying in the Metropolitan city like Hyderabad a

young person has come back to Vizianagaram district which is

his own place he was traveling by bus. He opted to sit by the

window but there was already sat down a rude farmer on window

side seat. The young person has even disliked sitting by that person.

That there was smell of cigars and soil from him. As there was no

vacancy in the bus. He has come to an idea

of that person has no manners at all. As the

proceeding forward after sometime he felt

that there is some uneasy in his stomach and

felt vomiting. He has vomited at once.

Having managed to exchange the seats by

sitting at window he could not control the

vomiting. At that movement the farmer has

kept his handkerchief covering his mouth

which is stinking with the smell of cigars and

the farmer’s hand also stained somewhat with his vomiting. But

he did feel any hatred. The young person has looked around there

all the persons but everybody has not shown any grace but hatred.

Then only the young man has come to a decision that there is

more culture in the heart of farmer who work with soil than the

educate person who wear the suit and boot.

That is why that there is saying goes that Madelanna is better

than educate person.

Develop your confidence. If there is not confidence, how much

you have studied and what much there is prosperity you cannot

be developed. Why because the education does not mean

degrees alone. Along with these degrees one must have grip over

the subject whatever studied. Earning degrees studying by heart

that there could not be any confidence over the subject and

their talents. Whenever you are talking the concept must be

disclosed there can be good results. As a saying goes, being asked

to utter omen, he did something else. Some of the habitual words

sometimes will lead to misunderstanding and dissatisfaction. For

example someone has made his habit to pronouncing Shubham

as many times as he can. But unfortunately he has said the same

when someone was explaining his problems to him, if you say

Shubham he may feel bad about. If you did not go an interview

with suit and boot which suits better to the modern fashion there

can be most possibility to lose your opportunity of getting a job.

Just utilize your common sense. In some way your dressing.

Whatever the work or whatever the job you have to faith on

the work. Only for the formality sake, forcibly, and for the salary

sake like opinion should not be developed in others’ minds.

For example,

If we take into consideration the Government teachers, that

they not only given have given responsibility of teaching but also

making surveys and elections duties and there so many other

responsibilities have been allotted to them. Some of them do

not like those responsibilities at all. Some others do not like the

invigilation duties and some of them do not like valuations of

the examination. But in that incidents the purposes are taken into

consideration that there will be so much profitable to them. In

this the survey to be done by going house to house. That there

can also a chance of making new relationships with new persons.

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In our house there would be turbulence of mind very frequently.That there could be heaped newspapers because of those wereto sell once in three or four months. Once this thought has beencome to their minds , if it might have been finished by the hisgrown up son. They could not find time to sell the newspapers. Inthat period of time, whatever much has been possible to havesleep is his idea. Whatever much the time is available that willnot be sufficient for leisure and having chatting with friends.

All these examples should not be found so much serious butwhoever could not take the precaution at time of small eventshow can they manage the bigger problems and can they settlethem out. Now days, most of the banks are giving credit cards tomany persons without proper conditions. Most of the persons whogot credit cards have been fielding out all the markets. Whenthe time of repayment the banks having recovered forcibly, theyget annoyed then. Most of the incidents this problem will arisewhen they did not pay the installments at the proper time.

Recently,

My friend’s son has thought that tosend an application to some company.It has taken three days for takingapplication. To fill it up that it has takensome three more days. And to get readythe applicable details it has taken somemore days. After completion of all thesearrangements he thought of posting butthe DD of bank is pending now and after great effort have beentaken being on fasting he could have managed to send that bythe speed post. All those things have been reached to the pointin time finally. If not so , what would have been the result if hewant it to be finished in one day. You can understand the resultof his negligence of putting the work in pending.

Most of the people make hand loans from their friends andneighbours for the temporary needs. That there is no wrong doing

In general this weakness is common for many.

This can also lead to so many problems. Moreover that there isits brother called “impatience “or hurry. When the result has tobe in our hands at the end of movement the result will be lost ofhard work. Being recognized this it has already been completed.

About the reason of the first weakness Mark Twain has warned

like this.

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today itself.

Which means you do not put for tomorrow when you canfinish the work today itself.

Most of the people delay in paying the current, telephone,

and water bills and at the end of the day they make so much fussabout that, we can observe this. In the same way most of thestudents have neglected to pay their fees until the last momentand this could get disturbance and get anger to them.

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so. But some of them have not an idea to repay that amount. Ifit is remembered they can annoyed. They can also attack saying,what do you think of us who are able to pay back. Might be anyreason for that, one has to pay atleast a part of the amount andask for some days time to be paid back. If it is not happened so,there could be occurred so much of repercussions.

Once up on a time that there was news like.

That those persons who have habituated to the negligence ofdelaying have made a society. They have decided to heldprogram by the occasion of new year in October month. That itwas also not sure could be done or not. The estimation numberof members in this society five lakhs but there were joined in this3,500 members only. In this agreement has been sent wasdismissed his membership. The wonderful thing is that hismembership was banished not for the present year but for theearlier year, the president has disclosed the fact.

In this way, the attitude of delaying of works would waste ourvaluable time to be futile.

Do it now is the right course for success.

But, a warning.

As is the saying goes a deer runs immediately after standing, itis not good to anything whichever comes to your mind. This is notat all profitable. We should have to think of to and fro and takingan overview of the demerits and merits and taking into accountthe profits and loss is necessary.

But there is saying goes like, it is being late could be nectar orpoison.

Slow and steady wins the race. ●

Some habits in the beginning will give very much

zeal.

After that they might turn to be addiction. From then onwardsall the results will be adverse only but no way could they givegood results. Naturally rising early in the morning we canappreciate this habit. But when the person having done duties inthe late night they could not able to wake up at the early in themorning. Even though the rising at early is a good habit, thebody needs rest after strenuous work, everybody knows this. Atthe same way one person having done duty up to early morningand slept for one and half hour late than the habitual time.

In the same way, having no certain time sleeping for hoursthe habit has not been recognized. Saying jolly cigarette andsmoking will give some enjoyment to people but if you can leavethe habit of smoking that means you have acquired your health.The money is saved by getting rid of smoking that can bepurposeful than the enjoyment of smoking.

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HABIT

If it is harmfulIf good keeps you activeIf bad makes you action-lessIf good becomes your friendIf bad becomes your enemyIf good protects your interestIf bad plays with your lifeIf good transforms your fortuneIf bad transforms your life to zero.If the habits are good that can help you as guidelines.If the habits are bad that they will become enemies to you

and lead you to destroy.Habit of hard work is a good habit.Laziness personality is bad habit.Having desires, aims are a good habit.The desires more than our abilities are to be followed illegal

ways will become a bad habit.Mingling with all, being a tongue in the heads of all is a good

habit.Hurting the hearts of others and thinking about self is not at all

a good habit.It is good to be helpful to al having achieved Ability, skillfulness

is a good habit.It is not a good habit thinking of that authority, domination is

good. It does not matter, when you rise and go to sleep.But how good have accomplished your duties whichever

entrusted to you is more important. Showing the skill andadroitness in whatever you have done and your objective will beachieved.

This way achieving the objectives has to be your habit.Good habits have to be continued.Bad habits should be removedThen only yours way of achieving your goal will be sustained.The success of life will come into your hand. ●

If work is done no pending, there will be result completely

successful.The life is not a way of roses for all , even there is wonderful a

way there are also some throngs will teach the lessons of the life.Anything can be achieved in anybody’s life must have to workhard. Some times blood can become hot at boiling point. Thatis why , the elders will remind the fact to their children that hardwork will give results.

If there might have been labors of delivery there would not bepossible birth. If you have spent or worked hard for then only youcan get good profits. But it does not mean that how much everhard work there can be that much results. Most of the studentswho study for the sake of name have been in the same position.Very few of them could have achieved the good results with verysmall hard work.

Whoever lives in Hyderabad have known IIT Ramaiah, theterrible hard work which has been put to his students is also knownto them. In some other words , they have to concentrate on their

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studies for 15 hours a day. Having this much hard work andfortitude very few of them only can success and could achievedseat in IIT. Even though they have not been selected for IIT beingfailed and in other studies they have to keep trying fighting couldachieve their objectives become success.

Because of that the training of Ramaiah will habituate thatkind of discipline. Could impart them how to analyze theproblems effectively and impart them to find out the otheralternative solution for those problems. In this way mixed withthese the self discipline, that those in the army training or otherplaces the training discipline would be very much differencebetween these two things. Even though theresult will be very troublesome or loss forwhichever work has to be done in whateverthe way have to have self-control and thatwill become as reasonably suitable energy.

At present in this kind social situations mostof the people think about these disciplinesas dictatorial conditions which wouldobstruct them in their progress. For thedecided the purposes of the future it is betterto have control over your discipline. In thisway for the long term benefits one has to stick to his hard sternrules and regulations in order to achieve their goals with success.In the school days , most of the principle of life ,we should observe.Some other after reaching a stage of their ages in order to securetheir health or with effect of their responsibility of duties will haveto be stuck rules and regulations even they are interested or not.

The physical exercise has to be done with pressure of parentsor for improvement of their physique they would have been tofollow from their childhood. Those people can not have that muchinterest later on, you may know that. But whoever wants toparticipate in competitions how much the hard work they haveto do, just remember. In the same way the police troops as longas they are in the training have to do the constricted discipline.But all these rules are to be followed unavoidably that would beapplied to the different purposes of practicality.

But it could not be proved that all these principles of life, socialvalues, financial dealings who have been following these canget all the purposes.

For example,

Just observe the nature of life. That there the patients will comethere without any difference of morning, afternoon, and eveningin a day. In some of occasions that it could be doubtful havethey any time to have meals. This is not only for the generalphysicians but for those who will take care of casuality cases,delivery cases the doctors will not have any particular times foranything their lives. In their lives they have to accustom to theterrible training and have to be stuck to theprinciples.

Hence the discipline is most importantthing to perform any work. We should notthink of this discipline is to be the part of ourmethod of life but it is also useful in thetransactions for sustainable and peacefulsuccesses in our lives.

Now days that there are credit cards,super Bazaars. We just have to prepare a listand bring them home. In the past we should go to markets andinquire about the quality of articles, and prices are taken intoconsideration, wherever the best quality available there only wehad to buy then.

Most of the people will get disappointment begetting a femalechild. But for the fact, in the past people believed that when afemale child was born, a Mahalakshmi was born.

From the birth of female child parents have to think aboutbringing up, education, marriage and other short term and longterm plans whichever will be found in front of them. Naturally,there are number of functions have to be done for a female child.There must also a big list of things like ornaments and gold andjeweler to be given to girl.

In the cities like Hyderabad the parents are taking theprecautions in order to be useful for education, at the time of

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birth. Because of the reason after completion of the kindergartenstudy there will be very higher fees for all the stages of educationin thousands of rupees.

L.I.C has adopted and introduced so many policies for thechildren. This is known to all. Now a days that there so muchexpenditures for the health purpose treatments that there havebeen in the market the medical insurance.

Most of the people will say that would like to spend their timewith watching TV, but is simply their words which have come outof their mouths. But these people will always think of their futureincessantly in their inner senses.

For everything there is a price.

If we want to get anything we will have to lose somethingelse. Just observe the daily routine of housewife. Husband has leftto his duty. Children have left to their schools. What can be thereany work? That there will be so many works to be done like washingclothes, housekeeping, and other things to be done at propertime. Without any supervising she herself does all these things, wecan see. If there is his husband in the house all these works willhave to be done properly, there is belief. It could be enough totake rest sleeping.

In this way the facilities, provisions, comforts have to be keptaside for a while some purpose has to be achieved with this.

No Gain without Pain.

Impossible.

With the stubborn and patience if you work hard you can getresults.

The farmer who works hard not taking care of rainy and summerseason doing tillage worked with soil and seeds and takes careof the fields. ●

Improvement of living standard is not the only motto

of life..But improvement of the standards of life must be everybody’s

goal. For that, first of all everyone has a confirmed goal to beachieved. There must be anxiety in you to achieve that goal. Justhaving a goal is not enough if there is not fortitude, you cancome nearer to the failure by yourself. Most of the people willcommit this kind of mistake unknowingly could not recognizethe mistakes they would have committed. These mistakes willlead them to failures. Against to this that there having a desirefor becoming a winner you have to get confirmed awareness ofit.

Most of the people think that gaining money is only the success.But for the fact that there are so many things to get done withmoney. In earning money that some of people will take overshould be gold in their efforts, by seeing at this the world will beastounding and will respect them with red carpet.

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You may easily remember the name ofEenadu Ramoji Rao who has been excelledin the fields of newspapers and cine field. Inhis direction that there were so many otherbusinesses like Priya Pickles, Ushakiran Moviesin production of cinemas, ETV in thetelevisions field he has acquired great nameand fame. But he could also not avoid fromdefeat. In making English newspaper “News Time” successful he could achieved

success.

The richest persons has been recognized Kerri Pauker he couldhave listened. That there were so many news in newspapers abouthis earnings of crores of dollars. Perhaps, that there could beanyone else to be satisfied than others.

The American president Bill Clinton when he was in power andnow he has become ex-president he has been a director for somany programs in different countries all over the world. If he wantssome of lives of people will be changed.

The power person Mile Tyson’s life is known to all. He couldonly developed muscles but could not gain any close friends inhis life. Even though nose is crushed with blows of fists, havinglost teeth he could have gained crores of dollars. But by the endthat there were only debts left. For getting out of these debts hehad not energy to fight again in order to gain money he has metwith defeat and agreed. He once tried to switching over tospiritual livelihood.

With all these examples are observed for some people couldmet success in some forms and some others got their defeats inanother ways. But all of them could stand example of guides tothe winners. That there is important thing to know from theirdefeats- not only to earn money in the way they have followedbut also observe the living standards they could have reachedand try to make efforts to reach that stages.

Life is what you make (of) it. A warning by Charles J. Dennisone of the English writers. The life has to be carved whatever youcould carve. The main thing of this books to impart the same.

Mostly it says about that the mainly whatever you want to achieveyour goal. And immediately after that there will follow anotherobjective to be achieved. For example at the beginning one hasto strive for earning enough for livelihood to survive. After havinggained that position that there should arise need of vehicle facilityand follows the need of own house and higher education forchildren. If all those things are going well there can be apromotion in jobs, one by one all the objectives shall be changedby replacing their places that they will stand us be in the race.This fact is said somewhat ridiculously by our elders that, “ If desiresbeing horses “ that there should not be rest for us. In this way theendless desires can only make us to run in race but the best of allof life ‘ mental peace “ will not be experienced.

Many of this type will be there around us. The full fledged anxietywill make their heart get agitated. For those persons that thereonly way to get peace.

Learn many more new knowledge , and trying for establishingcommercial schemes cannot give mental peace in some ofoccasions. Whenever trying for new things it is not good to neglectthe presently available things. Most of the people will run aroundthe new tastes and neglect the present available things. Theycould not even recognize the good features of the present ones.

Now a days it has become common to go to Dubai andAmerica for the financial purposes. It is good until this. No soonerthat those persons have visited to longer places they would easilycome to know that the far off hills are smooth. He could not ableto return back amidst. Meanwhile, the measures which have been

made by their family, even though howmany sacrifices his family members have todo. How many affectionate persons willhave to be lost?

Then we should have to approve ascheme to be achieved it is some waybetter doing sacrifices. In this matter youneed have to come to an understanding.The new pair who have just got married fortheir financial purposes they would have lost

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the time for somewhat long time to be stayed at different places,they cannot get that movement of married life will not beregained again. It is needed that what to gain and what has tolose that there can be drawn is the main thing with overview. Ifnot this, how much the success has been achieved that muchonly will be satisfaction but not the peace of mind.

Likewise if you are satisfied with whatever is available therewould not be any improvement in one’s life. Hence the objectivesmust have to be confirmed. And have to work hard to achievethem. In this trial of efforts for achieving goals you have to protectthe valuable things or otherwise your life can become fruitless.

Some of the young persons are old right from their birth, thegreat poet Sri Sri, has depicted one of the movies. The same thinghas been described by the English writer Henry David Thoru, as“None are as old as those who have out lived enthusiasm”. Themeaning of both verbatim is the same. Which means some ofthe old persons always be fragile and diligent with enthusiasm.On the other hand some young fellows always are unenthusiasticand unable.

I want to say something about some of my friends here. He is awell known writer, reporter, artist and critic RambatlaKrishnamurthy who stays in Hyderabad. I know very little abouthim. He is at his age of 70 years, has been a great orator who hasstartled the youth reports with speeches on their training classes.Before his enthusiasm that whoever has listened to him for thefirst time are nothing in front of him.

In the same the cine personality, and singer Sri PaladuguVishwanatham with his words and movements has been flownin his words. I have observed him on the roads many a times.That there will be activeness at his every step he made.

Some other person has retired from duty as language pandit.He could have spent with the same of enthusiasm with hiscontemporaries and the young fellows equal to his son. He couldenjoy the music which had been listened at his childhood. Hecould also enjoyed sitting besides his grandson and enjoyedlistening his songs with delight.

With whom is being despair, depression if you talk about the

enthusiasm and being fighting attitude he may get impatience.Most of the people who have met with defeats for once or twicein their lives will get disappointed. That they should think of thatthey have been in the deep problems and there will be no futureis left for them. Such kind of person have to introspect themselvesso that to find out their talents and abilities, and those featuresto be appreciable and other favorable things have to be madea list of them. In the same way you have to make list of deficiencies, bad habits, minus points have to be written in the list. After thatyou have compare with both of the lists and we have to starttrying efforts to achieved your desired objectives.

First of all write down in the list that we are still alive. Have tolive.

After that we are not in a disastrous position to be starved todeath for the want of food such is inthe Namibia.

The third point is that we are notilliterate is the fact. We own mind andthat can think.

Not only that there are some peoplewho can love us, should be confirmed.Their love should be continued for moretime.

Likewise this manifesto which can lead and encourage youshould be confirmed.

Then only that there should be love improved in you and thereshould be developed a desire for life in you then only there willarise a thought of life. That kind of thought can put a goal infront of you.

When your objective is confirmed an investigation for the wayto achieve these objectives will also start in your mind. Anenthusiasm in mind will arise.

Unemployment, poverty, debts and the like reasons the personswho have committed suicides you might have listened already.In the same way the simple disputes between husband and wife,property disputes, love failures, rebukes of higher officers some of

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the persons in some families would commit suicidal. Some otherpersons could not be able to find out solutions for those havinghabituated to the opium and drugs they can even spoil theirlives instead of finding out solutions. Some other persons beingwith their age could feel that they have become old and ourbody is not cooperating that is why we are not good for anythinglike concept has been developed in their minds.

In some person they could not even their talents and favorablethings in them , it is being in a huge gloomy lighting a smallflame of desire and can carve their lives very beautiful, that isreally a first step.

Martin Luther King in his life there happened a terrible despair,depression have come over. At that movement, and that moment

a flame of desire was lit by his wife made anew attempt. One day she has worn a blackdress which is the sure sign of distress. Hefelt perplexed at that and asked that whathas come over you worn this black dresswho has died now, he asked. Then sheanswered that the god might have beendied. What you mean he asked with surprise,Martin asked. The reason for the despair,depression have occurred in her husband,when I observed that I felt doubt that thereis no god, she told. Martin Luther has a lot

of confidence in God could recognized his defect. He haschanged his attitude.

If you want to know about yourself what thoughts are there inyou, just consider the sentences given under.

Have you confidence that you can become an actor.

You have no that much athletic quality in games.

Your behavior could be different from your inner self.

You can attract the attention of all when you are in a group.

You try all the measures to attract view of all others.

Whenever are in a group you should not make jokes, gossips.

You have the habit to tell whatever you opted to tell eitheranyone listen or do not listen.

That there are too many qualities of adjustment in you, thatthere are confirmed decisions or opinions.

If there will be arisen any troubles, changes in surroundingsthat there should be no difference in you or you do not like to bechanged.

With basis of your beliefs, compassions, values, personality thatyou will evaluate yourself.

Have got a clear awareness about your responsibility of dutywhatever you have opted to do.

Do you believe that there is so much knowledge, skill to beappreciated in your friends.

Do you show much interest to exhibit you with masks in orderto satisfy others.

You do not like changes in your dressings.

Do you prefer either to external beauty or personality whenyou are selecting your life partner?

Do have interest for taking responsibilities allotted withapproved and clarified ones?

The answers that you have given for these there can knowyour understanding about yourself.

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice, it isnot a thing to be waited for, and it is a thing to be achieved.

That there is saying, for ten cores of problems that there areindefinite number of cores of plans to take care of them.

Which means that there is not a common plan which suits tothe problems of all will be the main reason for the defeats?

Everyone has to confirm the suitable plans for achieving theirobjectives.

That we have to climb each one step of ladder.

In this effort..In this way by utilizing the talents and skillfulness in an order

would be good way for the achievement of success.

Such kind of features is there in you, if you want to know, justobserve the sentences given under.

Can you think of the situations which have come across withyou and analyze it or not?

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What is your opinion about the corruptedpeople and fraudulent and bogustransactions?

Have that kind of dare to adjust yourdefects and weak points favorable to you ?

Do have that much patience to acceptall the mistakes and weak points of otherswith humanitarian grounds?

Do you have interest to show yourcreativity adroitness at the time of day to day

programs?

Do you have natural concept of zeal, activeness, responselike features in you?

Is there any objective to be achieved in your life?Do you have a habit of taking over your shoulders the problems

and works of others?

Do you have the idea to depend upon the help and advice?

Have you confidence to deal with my own; is there such kindof mental resources for doing so?

Do you have the habit of revising the daily needs?

Have you an attitude of innocent artist, an infant child?

Do you have habit of comparing yourself with others?

Are your relationships and affections are passionate withothers?

Have a talent of talking with others humorously? Do you criticizeyourself humorously and smartly?

Is there sufficient insecurity complex, peaceful concept in you?

Even though the answers given by your honestly for the above,how many marks you have secured, the eligibility qualities shouldbe like given under.

Concept of Reality

That there are favorable planned concepts about and aboutothers.

By responding to the situations effectively and showing thecreativity in the appropriate time.

You have that talent of recognizing the order of priority to be

performed accordingly.You have sufficient ability to deal

with things by your own withoutdepending upon others.

Those persons will always reviseneedful priorities. The quality ofinnocence which resides in infants andartists there is in you. Do you haveinterest whatever they do not know? You know them.

Can you recognize the good and bad with others withoutcomparing yourself with them and utilize them for your betterment.

Whichever the relationship or affiliations have been developedwith others, do you give proper importance to amicableconcepts?

The habit of humorousness without hatred and adversity feelingsis their special. Their adroitness will not hurt anybody’s hearts, shouldbe smart.

The prime aim should not be adopting all these qualities. Theapproved objectives have to be achieved one by one as peryour needs but it should become aim to achieve them.

For this the method we have to follow.Be ready to adopt the necessary changes in you.

Be ready always to accept the responsibilities.

Revise your objectives from time to time.

Having decided which is really need you and strives for it withsingle angle.

Recognizing the good of favorable experiences and keeps thatin practice.

Quit the style of all will follow the same and exhibit your ownuniqueness.

Keep your concentration whatever transaction that you havetaken of responsibility.

You should not keep your enthusiasm; zeal concealed but keepsin practice.

Having measured the progress that you have achieved andthen only step forward. ●

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That there was one of my friendswho also used to criticize the dresses,language, and working style, exhibition,at every movement on any of the point.His behavior looks would raise anger tomost of the people. To criticize all theco persons and superiors andsubordinates was his work. Not to sayin front of him all the coworkers used to say him that the sadistcritic is coming. Some others who have accustomed to hisridiculous behavior they would care for those critics and his wordat all. But the new comers have been to enter into argumentswith him but with the times goes these agreements will alsodecreased, that is another thing.

The main reason for these criticisms is that there wouldnot be balance in their opinions about others who are aroundthem. This does not belong to men only but if you have entrustedto some other organization to count up the works done by workersand their personalities that the report must be dependent onwhoever has conducted on those persons and various things havebeen considered by them. If it is so, the impartiality and realityshould be understood the reports must be collected from thedifferent individual companies and making them unique is thebest way. That those person who always talk only good aboutothers humanitarian grounds like higher officers and thedeficiencies and defects were not taken into account in theirreports. The result in their reports should not be found realityreflection at all. On the other hand some other officer had onlyrecognized all the deficiencies and would have been failed inrecognizing the good about them will also get no profit.

That is why, as much as possible all the person must leavethe habit of one side thinking and adopt to do suitable opinionsabout whoever are around them. In this way, all have the energyto understand with equilibrium.

For example most of us think that all others are peacefuland they have not any problems, they believe. If any other asksfor some his help he says that you do not have need for my help.What could we do, they would take it easy not giving any help tothem. At the time of their need all must help them or otherwise

The ones who take care of us have the right to criticise

us.The meaning is that, if you have given importance to someone

that there can be right to criticize. If one has habit of helpingothers then only he has right of pointing out someone’s mistakes.That there was story in the Bible, that you might have also listenedthat. The morality of that story is, when only you are sinless youcan punish who commit sin.

The same thing to be said in the words of Abraham Lincoln:

He has a right to criticize who has heart to help.

The reasonable criticisms should not always be taken wrong.We are here to blame those persons who are wan tingly criticizeothers only for the sake of criticism, pointing out the mistakes ofothers.

Some people as their profession and behavior sake theywould keep criticizing others as their main agenda, that thereshall be despair and depressions developed in them.

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they think that all are selfish people and theycan also criticize all others are not loyal.

What is observed here and you have todo is here, understanding problems of otherswith helpful nature and if you could helpthem out their problems. But it is not correctand injustice to think that all theresponsibilities and hardships should beborne by others.

Not only the personal problems. All thepersons who in an organization there should be such kind ofunderstanding among all of them like mutual favorable opinions,helping nature can give profits to all.

We should also remember one saying of the Bible.

When we point a finger at someone else, note that three of ourfingers are pointing back at us.

Naturally that there will be differences in opinions and disputesbetween wife and husband and sometime there would also beoccurring clashes. In those situations, if any one of them is askedto talk, and asked to make list of defects of the other person theystart talking about complaints nonstop. If you would confine themindividually in different rooms and query about their merits anddemerits and ask them to prepare list of them and compare themcautiously. Most of the incidences they had loyalty on each other.And the number of liking aspects is uncountable of others. In thisway deleting the bad things by recognizing the good aboutothers and finding the balance of nature of thinking is the bestway to follow.

Is the person around important?

Are the points which recognized by you important?Whoever knows the perfect civilization say, people are more

important than principles?

Can you understand the mocking at you of peer groups whenyou are going with your family members on the road?

Can enjoy a game which is well known to you is going on infront of you having no rules and regulations at all.

That is why , if the life should be going steady even thoughthat it is liked or not some rules and regulations , restrictions

must have to be followed. All the persons in a family will cooperatein all the things all will get enjoyment. If not so there could not bepeace in that family.

In these occasions if any one gives suggestion to this way andnot like that be taken as critics there the outcome will be adverseresults only.

This is because of different interests, social statuses; theemployees from different area could be prevailed so much. Forexample, that there are ten workers in an office and dutiful thingslike punctuality, management responsibility, unity of work,integrity of worker are main for their duties. To make them tofollow these things that there were some rules and regulationsare needed. If any one of them have neglected any of those thatthere the weather should get polluted. At this point we have tobehave stubbornly.

Which means if someone wants to come forward in life, notonly his problems but also the problems of others, overall totalpurposes have to be understood they helped them can achievetheir objectives.

But with the notion of that the rules are to control others is notgood at all.

These kinds of thoughts and attitudes just for the selfish endsalong with our lack of control and inferiority complex ego arevery much important one. Think for one minute. The files canaccomplished without which it is not done otherwise both haveworked. One of both can do that work complete in short periodthan other and the other could not accomplish that work in thestipulated time. In general when the superior office asked forjustification that could be put on the late worker only. But thespeed worker performer has some faith orsomething else like that there are no suchill feelings could be reason for that speedyperformance could help late worker noone has to listen the rebukes of superiorofficer.

Quite recently under the outskirts ofHyderabad city that there were so manyburglaries taken place. You know this. Wifeand husband and small infant child have

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lost their lives in an incident of burglary. And there have beenfollowed some other cases of this type. By the result in some ofthe outskirt colonies some youthful persons have formed as groupto face these burglaries in their colonies by watching at nights,doing duties. The programs like this cooperation are not new tous. In the disastrous movements in some of the villages the youthhave formed as groups and protected their villagers, that therewere so many stories are going there.

In the same way that it is very common that having powercuts now a days. But in the situations like this that there would bethe most possibility of occurrences like thefts and assaults. Nowphoning to the current office inquiring the reasons for problems,and keeping eagle eye on the movements of who are going toand fro on the road. Having listened any agitation is found thoseten persons will reach there and obstruct so that the assaults andthefts should be happened.

Now in all these examples what we have to observe is whoeverwould like to live by their own that it is the struggle for live cannotbe possible but that it is connected with many others in the society.

The residents of city who are travelling in city buses everydaycould see so many incidents. That there some of them weretraveling by foot boarding who think of themselves greatdisturbing others.

The principle, unity will get pleasure! Wherever that may bein a family, in the office when all have followed this principle willhave enjoyed the real pleasure of life.

Do what you can, with what you have and where you are.

To practice this principle whatever the qualities you shouldhave in you and whatever the qualities are there and whicheverare not there to be known is important. Start politely.

That there so many others who are more competent than me.I would like to work everything in my interested own way.

I believe strongly that the first impression can make greatimpact on each other.

I do not take hurry berry decisions.

I have not that much confidence on my abilities.

I accept all the healthy correct criticisms.

I have idea of stabbing from backside.I have a habit of talking ridiculously with others.

I could feel happy if I would have been more beautiful andattractive.

I listen interestingly when the others are talking.

I would feel that there is solution for most of the problems Ihave.

I have no bad thoughts in my mind and won’t come.

I believe that if once comes an opportunity will not be repeatedagain.

My habit talking without hesitation and honestly.

Creativity is that could not be acquired by all. That could bepossible for those who are mostly like artists.

I believe if I did not initiated doing works that might have notfinished.

I have strong belief in myself.

I treat others politely.

Whatever I do and talk there should not be mistake at all.

I am ready always to face any kind of new challenges.

I believe that whatever the decision taken by me must be right.

I do not like to take extra burdens taking responsibility.It is the art of avoiding something with pretexts would not be

possible to all.

I think twice for one to start doing any work.

I tell always great about myself.

I cannot tell the same great about others.

I believe that criterion whichever told by my heart.

That there are not so many things to be talked great aboutme.

I can achieve whatever I want.

I will not hesitate to complain about something happenedfavorable to me and anyone would not have cooperated.

The marks are given for all these sentences will show the seriesof negative/ Positive thoughts.

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But how to adopt a positive way of thinking ?

Think like a man of action and act like a man of thoughts.

That there are so many persons who have impact on you. Atyour childhood day, the hopes, and the effect of situations, andafter that the family responsibilities, wife and children desires,your friends, relatives and their thoughts and the other like thereare so many angles which will have impact on you. As well asthese the community which around you also expect very muchfrom you. Confines you to be fixed in an orbit.

From all these bonds having come out of you have to thinkwhatever you want to be and in which position you want to be. Inthis way, the independent thoughts have been formed within youand then only can achieve your specialized goals. And thisspecialization only can keep at a different among all others.

In this way to achieving your goals some important hints aregiven under for you.

You have to overview all your future, aspirations, desires,objectives within yourself.

Do not neglect realistic surroundings, limitations, and others.By recognizing these and try efforts to come out of these limits.

As well as recognizing the good qualities and bad qualitiesin others and respect them but do not degrade them. Do notneglect them. Appreciate them of their capabilities wholeheartedly. Do not imitate.

Be ready to acclimatize to the actual challenges which are infront of you at every moment.

Improve your self confidence. Develop belief on your caliber.

Just accept the realistic criticisms. Do not respond at all forthe worthless criticisms.

Under any circumstances do not try the attacks from backside.

Whatever your qualities might be good or defective onesaccept them as it they are. Beauty or the defectiveness will becounted by the eyes which look.

Listen to whatever said by others. By the habit of interferencesometimes you may miss something important to know. Moreover,the relationships with others may be spoiled.

That there is a solution for every problem. That there is problemwithout solution.

Try to be busy with constructive programs always. Because ofthe reason, that idle mind is supposed to be a devils workshop.Keeping your mind busy that there should be also creativitydeveloped in you.

That is why, just get removed the polluted thoughts anddangerous attitudes from your mind and mind as quickly aspossible. Remember the three monkeys shown as example ofMahatma Gandhi.

Don’t hear evil -

Don’t see evil -

Don’t speak evil -

Life will not come again. Do not hesitate to enjoy the delightof life knowing the subject. That there not only be white and blackin life but all the colors have to be seen and enjoy their delight.

Do not get despair that there will coming such kind ofopportunity again. But try to utilize every opportunity whicheveravailable to you. Because of the reasons it is no use crying forlost opportunities. That there may be some other betteropportunity will come later, who can expect that.

Always be honest and encourage the honesty. Just not only inthe financial transactions but in all fields of and at every aspectthat there should be given importance for honesty.

The same mistake will not be committed again and again. Donot feel shame about learning lessons from your mistakes. In thiskind of incident, do not allow these three thoughts to come toyour minds which are given under.

I never do any mistake. The remaining all others will commitmistakes.

I always commit mistakes. The remaining all others will notdo any mistake.

I do not commit any mistake in some of the incidents. I domistakes now and then.

For your mental health disclosing your thoughts, ideas to betold is the best medicine. The ideas which have come from thedepth of mind they will not be wrong. By depending on your

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talkativeness, adroitness your honesty and righteousness will beproved. At all the times if you start keep counting your benefitsand losses, and troubles there could be lack of clarity in yourthoughts.

Keep away from doing whatever is liked by you. The same isto be said in the words of elders, do not allow your heart to ruleyour head. Do not start any work when you are in passion andanxiety.

The mind of being afraid about challenges is not beneficialat all. Be ready to face the challenges at every moment.

Get rid of the habit to depend on others. In all the thoughts,practices you have to build up your own style. In this way, howmuch is the success that will improve your self confidence, andwill drive you to achieve the more successes.

Do not try to escape the responsibilities showing the pretexts,or do not try to cover up the failures and defeats. If you do so thatthey can be developed misconception about you. And youracceptability will be marred. By agreeing with the truth and takeresponsibility proudly.

Get rid of the idea that you are only the worker and do notbelieve in if you were not there that will not be done any work.Whatever the work you have taken to be done and in whateverthe fields you are in you do not have to think you are only theable to do that and never forget that there so many others canalso perform that better than you. That there is possibility thatthis kind of misconception can become a hurdle in your wayprogress.

Do not be proud at you have been praised. Just get rid of theidea of accomplishing the works with praises. The value of the

praises is very temporary and will becomevalueless. Just remember most of the personswho are praising in front of you and maytalk about you on your back.

Develop the positive thinking your attitudein your talks, words and act in the same way.The talks and actions have come out of yourpositive thought will have greatacceptability.

By knowing and understanding lives of some importantpersonalities and factual things of their lives and their thoughtsand keep them in practice that will be beneficial in all kinds.

Shakespeare-The cowards die every day. The bold person diesonly once.

A comical conversation- This is a conversation was happenedat table in a hotel between a lady and gent.

Woman- Does a person who earned cores of rupees is happier?Or the person having six children will be happier?

Gent- Said certainly, the person having six children.

Woman- Why?That those persons who have gained cores of rupees will be

busy for earning more money. But the person who is having sixchildren does not want more.

The unknown: For the development or progress trying the todayis being invested.

Sigmund Fiord (a prominent psychologist) If there is confidenceon the victory and then only can be achieved the actual success.

Talking about the secret of energy, he said that theconcentration is important thing either battle field, or commerce,or any other fields. And it is very much important in humanrelationships.

Gandhi has said about the unity of work, the water dropshaving joined one by one and will become like a flow and therivers transfer to be spread as a vast seas. In the same the mancan also become great power transferred to be social work andcan achieve lots of extraordinary works.

The happiness of all and delight of all being adopted as hisaim, that he only gains happiness. – Subhashchandra Bose.

Gandhi said- The physical strength cannot be called trueenergy, but if there is strength of soul that is more than anythingelse.

Healthy is wealth- That there resides in healthy person theboldness, desire for future. – Arabian proverb.

The author who has written the novel Gone with the wind,Margaret Michel has revised the first chapter for 70 times. The

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author of a farewell to Army, Ernesty Heming the last chapter hasrevised for 39 times before publication. The author of Republic,the principles of regimes Plato has revised his first line for 50times.

Boldness- Strength of heart.

In 1896, Swami Vivekananda has been to France in his tour ofthe countries of the world and he had already learnt how tounderstand and speak in French. One day he was going in Horsecart for outing to the outskirts of Paris. Amidst the way, the driverof horse cart has got down and went to two children who werewaiting beside the road and took them in his hands and huggedthem and climbed the cart again. Swami felt wonder at seeingthis. Those children looked to be very affluent family and therewhat was the relationship between the rich children and driverof horse cart. He has enquired that with driver. The driver hasgiven reply that they are my children only. And not only he hasremembered the famous Bank’s name in Paris and that bankwas closed temporarily just some days before then beingbankruptcy. They are in work recovering the dues from theborrowers in order to do payments of depositors. In order to paythe lender the dues having concept to pay the dues back to thebank, he said he has been providing the needful income in adisguise so that nobody can recognize him. And this is one ofthose trails, he said.

Swami Vivekananda has got so much of happiness out ofwonder. He has developed a boundless favor for that personeven though being in such kind of critical positions he could bebold enough striving for self livelihood.

Kiran Bedi,the adventurous lover of challenges.

I never thought that knowing the depth of the tide jumpinginto it. If there is challenge in front of me whatsoever fearful likehurricane I would like jump into it without hesitation. Myconscience also says the same. The first of the entire IPS officerwho has entered into the police department in our country, KiranBedi. These are the words of adventure. Born on 9th June, 1949 inAmritsar says that the life with full of challenges is better than thelife without troubles.

Accordingly she has crafted her life right from her childhood.Her grandfather is a rich arrogant person. Having grown angrywith her sister has been joined in Christian convent School hehas expelled his son (Kiran Beda’s father) from his family. Thefather of Kiran has worried lot about the situation of women in hisfamily. He had opted that they need freedom and respect forwomen his family. He told his father, even though interfere in mylife but do not interfere into my children lives and came out ofthe family saying so. He has got three female children. KiranBeda is middle one. Their family has experienced the frugalconditions for quite a long time. Kiran Beda has observed theconditions of the family when she was studying at 6th and 7th

standard. She had worked hard steadfast sothat no single paisa is not misused becauseof every single paisa spent on her hardearned. She has utilized every opportunityfor the best of level at High School. She hasexcelled in Tennis and NCC. She has lost anopportunity of participating in Tennis Asianchampionship, Wimbledon competitionsbecause of some coach. She has beenparticipated the domestic competitionstraveling through third class compartmentsin the country. She used to give her the prizemoney comes from winning. Kiran Beda being intellectual ofeducation she could also worked as lecturer for some period.She has entered into police department at her age of 23 yearsthat have been so many successes in her service. Even thoughshe was awarded the great Mega say not less than person likeKiran Beda there would be exception of women discrimination.She has experienced financial problems too. But nothing hasobstructed her from achieving objectives in her life. Not beinginterested in wasting time with gossips, and time lecturers, KiranBeda has recognized the value of time. She said that if we couldnot come forwards giving inspiration ourselves, we could not besaved without latte charge. If is not great at all to accept all butto give is great. Indian woman, this aspect must have to beunderstood and improve herself the society will be changed.When she studying in the school she usually had to go to schoolby cycling more 30 km. But she achieved all the successes withrocket speed. She owns a life as great as that could standinspiration for the nation. ●

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Team is the strength of Unity.

A small meaning of four words.

But.

T-TOGETHER

E-EVERYONE

A-ACHIEVES

M-MORE

The true meaning of this that the work done by many handswill be more than work done by a single hand.

This is the main principle for the achievers.

Guideline.

Training is essential.

Not only for achieving one, two and three successes.

To confirm the sustainable buy and cell relationships with others.

Having studied until this stage are you afraid of anytroubles?

Life itself is bunch of troubles, and more to that becoming

successful; do you think it is very hard?

If you get panic, that it is not a wonder. But only the winner

has to gain self confidence which can be achieved.

After that nothing can make you afraid at all.

That is why, whoever want to be a winner must have

acquired the weapon of self confidence/ powerful heart.

Hence, why late?

Step ahead. ●

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Doing the same work again andagain.

To achieve many works at a time.

Not only to achieve some result.

To gather the successful diligentachievers

Interest, steadfast diligence is theprime thing. The goal of getting accustomed to them is calledtraining.

The personal competence, occupation, skillfulness, can onlyachieve the extraordinary results. That is why all have to adoptthat these kind of leadership qualities. This could not be possiblein a single day. And should be stopped with approbation of thathave acquired it. This has to be continued forever.

That those persons who have taken the responsibility of carvingout the futures of co workers have to observe one thing. We shouldalways hone our capabilities every day and also hone the calibersof co worker who are staying around us. This is only the immediatething to be done.

That there is the world with leadership qualities prevailingaround us. The professionalism is that to stand as guide to thatthose who have been achieving successes.

Training – Performance.

The best results that we have achieve.

To work collectively and to achieve the comprehensive resultthe final goal to be achieved.

The principles to be followed.

Principle-1

Collective Energy

Why the flake of grass does not work.

But after made the thread that can try anything.

Why does a single brick not work? And then some thousandsof bricks bound together and will become a wall and the beautifulbuilding will be constructed.

In the same way all the persons in a company will workcollectively can achieve the highest results.

If there would be achieved success between any two coworkers, it will take many days. In the same way a relationshiphas to be achieved some principles has to be followed valuesplay key role. Have to be stuck to the unity and then only thedesired results would be achieved. That kind of fortitude relationmust be developed between the relationship leader and coworkers. This not only for achievement of collective goals butalso useful to achieve the individual purposes.

This is only the attractive main principle.

Accountability- Acceptability.

The persons who have an ideal adroitness of work will onlyhave acceptability.

Nobody can develop confidence on you only because of yourwords but the works and the adroitness you have shown, thediligence, and the concentration like things will helpful to believeyou.

Psychological amicability.

Show your loyalty to all of your co workers and help all others.

Then only they will come idea of they can come out their troubles

and achieve their goals with your help.

Encourage everyone’s goal is goal for all and lead them.

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This can be possible only when all work together.

There cannot be any secrets with anybody. You have to tellyour thoughts openly. And give chance to your co workers to telltheir thoughts openly. That kind of freedom and fearlessnessconditions should be there.

For achieving you have to talk about it. With needful questionsyou have to encourage them to open minds.

To achieve their objectives with help of their inner thoughtsuniquely, you have to explain them.

For achieving this follow the smart principle.

SMART

SPECIFIC- clear

MEASURABLE-confirmed

ACHIEVABLE-

REALISTIC-

TIMEBOUND-

Ask them to write down their objectiveson a paper. There must be help for achievingthe goal. If some of them are not writtenshould not be taken consideration.

Prepare the agenda and stipulated timefor achieving it.

The time for overview has to be confirmed.

The agenda will be dependent on yourdiligence.

Concentrated diligence.

Objectives- aspirations.

The objectives that can controlled – that are uncontrolled haveto confirmed.

Practice depends lies in our hands. And the result will be underour control.

An agenda has confirmed taking into consideration thepracticality of objective, desired goals.

Principle of habits.

Values..

As a leader one has to try to improve the skills and calibers ofthe co workers.

That effort must be like great trial that must be done with yourpassionately.

When the he stood by the co workers then only the leader isrespected. For the achievement of this that you are to work hard.You have to try them to work for your faith, and your guidelines.

It is not your duty to find the accounts but you to hone your coworkers as skillful performers.

It must be your objective to make them as skillful as you.

With your co workers on the monthly basis or on the stipulatedtime limit some overview meetings have to be made.

Recognizing the important persons in your co workers byconducting meetings.

Talent should be given top priority.

Talent is like a opium. Being recognized it that will go upwards.And it can encourage them to achieve better results.

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The aim of this opium is that how many times , and how manyworks have been done that should not stop until reaching thegoal and it does not let us to take rest at all.

In this way to show their talent to the coworkers should begiven opportunities again and again. All the way the team spiritmust be given to all the members of team.

Discipline…

Recognizing the form of discipline.

The methods of training should be accustomed to your coworkers.

Rectangular Income.

Income principles, financial facility is their priorities. Their job isonly for the income source. An instrument for financial progress.

The indirect income principles. For all these financial conditionsshould be helpful to you in this concern.

Only the financial independence is their prime aim. They ownan independent institutions. That institution should be stand helpfulto them. Everybody shall be ready to help you then.

Affluent concept.

You may understand the main difference between the poorand the rich. Mainly their the attitudes of their thoughts can beexplained. If the money is sufficient enough that can be additionalqualification for the rich persons. The style of thinking there shouldbe power and calibers resides in them but not in the lucky lane,or in the decisions of god.

You can come to understanding about how can you changeyour goal of life practicing for the success. Being affluent or not

The poor think that it is their life only.

2. The rich would like to win with their money.

The poor will try to get out their troubles with their money.

3. The rich persons would like to rich only.

But the poor would like try to become.

4. The rich will think great.

But the poor would live for their smallest desires.

5. The rich people will wait for the opportunities.

But the poor would try to get out of their obstacles.

6. The rich people will appreciate the achievers.

But the rich will take those rich persons and achievers astheir ideals.

7. The rich persons would like to walk with positive thinkers.

But the poor would like to stay with negative thinkers.

8. The rich people go forwards with keeping their values astheir investment.

But the poor should not keep their view over those things.

9. The troubles whichever come to the rich very small.

But the troubles come to the poor can be seen very big.

10.The rich would show interest to know anything.

But the poor should not show any interest for those.

11.The rich will expect the results according to theconsequences.

But the poor would expect more result than whatever theydone.

12.The rich people would observe the two angles.

But the poor will consider one of those two angles.

13.The rich persons will keep their view over biggest values.

But the poor will keep on smallest values.

14.The rich have a concept of giving

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having the fortitude for fighting for theachievement there could be lots differencebetween them. We can only earn money asto how much we can work hard. Earning isnot like a rocket. Earning money is like ascience.

14. The main differences.

1. The affluent persons think of that theygive life to others.


not give results the way of salesmanshipto make every persons must buywhatever is being shown to them. In thissection the features of salesman.

For achieving success all these thingsare very important.

In this kind of competitive world thatall the persons are vendors, vendees and commodities, servicesor the like to be sold by them. When we are buying the kiranamitems in a kiranam shops , the shop owners would the services ofcomputer section.

The primary transactions of these buy and sales everybody canbe either a salesman, a team leader or a consumer.

That there are some common principles to be followed by allthese persons for the best profits.

For the achievement of these some Psychology expert hasprincipled as under.

111-44-11-111

This is not a telephone number. But it is said that the way tosuccesses.

Decide (1)- which means an aim.

Hungry ( For success) (1) – Incessant trial

Ask (1)- Questioning mentality.

These are the first series of numbers

Commitment- Communication-Confidence- Concern-Enthusiasm- Excellence- Education- Ethics- Prospects- Purpose-Passion- Positive Attitude- Patience- Personal Effectiveness-Professionalism- Performance- Pain-taking, -Process- Problemsolving.

These are the 11 personal qualities.

Benefit- Profitable to the either parties.

The sales profession is very much a skillful job to be

performed.There should be salesman in everybody of us.

To the fact every person in the world will sell some always.Some of them will sell physical work, and some others can selltheir valuable adroitness and some others sell their adroitness oftheir mind.

To sell something which is with us does not mean talking toomuch about it.

But to explain them the value and quality of that item and thepurposes of that should be clear to the others. But matter of factit is art.

Whoever has taken the profession of salesman should belooked like a salesman always.

In this way, a salesman could be able to stay unlike a salesmanthen only he can get special recognition among others. It does

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This is the plan of collective purpose.

Urgency of Action-

This is only the method of success.

Reference-

If it may be one or ten member it is compulsory.

All these the principles collectively 111-54-11-111

The main features of Team.

If you want to reach the greatest positions and to get highestrecognition in the community and in the life the team spirit is veryimportant.

Nobody can achieve anything alone. We can shave our beardbut we cannot manufacture the blade.

Is that true !

In achieving our goals that there are four important things willplay a key role.

Those are.

Human resources.

Raw materials.

Investment- is in the form of finance but theimportance of human resources is unlimited.

The human mind is the modern equipment or the computer,

or a machine which can be the method of achievement.

We can achieve the good results with the human inspiration

as the method of achieving the results of quality.

Beside the motivational and idealistic human power that there

is human mind, skillfulness, adroitness, talent and the ability or

the some method of machine. Until today that there was which

is made of man would have been stood to be the alternate for

those mentioned above natural qualities.

The artificial divisions, offices, computers or any other modern

equipments have to be worked must need the help of human

energy.

For the constructive energy has to be developed by the

collective spirit in the team is the most important. If there lacks

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the cooperation of the co workers, they did

not show proper interest and zeal to do the

duties of staff the team cannot achieve good

results. One for all and all for one, everyone

has worked who has followed the common

principles their team will succeed at

everything.

They had the idea of that he is a machine

which can work for hours if money is given.

They had not found that they have minds and that can think and

that every individual there should be adroitness.

Now, it is different. The mental calibers which encourage the

marvelous results will be achieved, the modern experts strongly

believe in this thing. Now days, everyone of human resources has

been considered as the valuable property

The leader who leads the team should have to adopt

some compulsory measures.Must be a money saver. Either an employee or an owner must

have to cut down the extravagance and keeping the prime aimto achieve good results.

The control of finance plays key role either for the developmentof the individual or for the development of collective purposes.

Because of the impact of the extravagance will cause thefinancial losses, and by the result the delightful moments in thelife will be decreased.

Take care of penny, Pound will take of itself. The proverb isbeing extensively used among the English people.

Quality measures. That might be in the personal behavior, styleof transaction, and be able to drive us to go through theprofitable way.

We would have seen so many teachers in which the institutionswe have gone. One of those teachers had advised you as guide

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than a teacher who have given theneedful hints for the best of future life,such teacher can have an lifelongimpression on your mind so that youcould not able to forget him.

We should only worship such kind ofteacher in terms of mind, words, and inactions.

That there so many of that kind, in the time of incidents thedoctors who have given best treatment might be one. One ofthem has made a strong impression in their hearts.

In this way such kind of sustainable place has to be owned inany field those must have to follow some quality measures to beexcelled in that field.

Those teachers only can teach with whole heartedly as teachersbut they could not become an idea teacher.

As a doctor to be excelled in their professions they should haveto give most importance to their patients would only be calledas good doctors. But for the money sake suck the blood of thepatients that must have been called blood suckers only.

Some ordinary office which is designed to work for the commonpurposes of the people either it might be the private one or theprivate undertaken ordinary commercial organization the staffthere must have to perform the duties in time, if the expert workersof the organization are diligent in nature the staff would alsoobtain progress every day.

One single person of good quality is enough...

One spoon of milk of cow is enough...

Social Responsibility.

Man is a social animal.

Man is gregarious animal and would like stay in groups. -Aristotle.

This means that the man is social being. To live alone he is noteither a lion or elephant. Everybody in the has some rights and

some duties. The rights and duties whichare given are limited. But there aresome compulsory duties towards coinhabitants. Only the humanity isrecognized of them. Whichever thework we are performing we should notescape from these duties.

For example

When we are traveling on the road if anybody has got injuredgive them the first aid treatment. If it needed should be sent tothe doctor, it is the duty of man to give some drinking water tohim.

Someone behave in this way will have no obstruction to getname and fame in the society.

Mother Theresa has been worshiped by the many persons atall corners of the world. All knows the main reason for this is hernature to service to the all.

Within the short period of time had reached to the highestpositions, the then Prime minister, Lal Bahadur Shastri would havebeen ideal for all, that there was only one reason. He had madeall the people including with the ordinary fellows utter slogan ofJai Jawan, and Jai Kisan.

The collective purposes have been given highest position. Theperson who are conducting the responsibilities of leadership willhave to remember one thing. Striving for achieving the collectivepurposes and inspecting for the wellbeing of everyone by helpingthem out suitably and could show the solution for the problemsof the society, such kind of adroitness and patience must have aleader.

Everybody in the society are found to be like a family membersshould be rendered help to each other. Then only they could solvetheir problems collectively for the purpose. ●

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The training must be needed to the human resources.To say in other words, well trained staff only can achieveextraordinary results.

Along with loyalty, honesty, talent abilities there must beskillfulness and moral norms a team leader to improve in him isthe duty of the leader.

That there must be protected self respect among the co workersmust be the responsibility of leader. In this matter the leader musttake special interest with diligence. In the modern world all arebecoming ready to face all kind of problems to secure their selfrespect. If someone is given proper respect and recognition theyare showing any interest to work there. This thing must beremembered always and must try to change their style oftransactions.

Principle of Victory.

As per the opinion of the great conqueror Napoleon that thereare three aspects which will affect the success.

Strength of Arms.

Training strength

Mental ability.

The mental strength in employees havingkept at optimum position would not bepossible completely. To improve the mentalstrength in the team a team leader alwaysstrive hard to the best.

To say in other words the mental ability isthe concern of the hearts. It depends on theway of passionate thoughts. In the same way for achievement ofindividual or collective the confirmed the results that should bedependent on the mental ability. For the collective purposes ifthe team is willing to have interest in achievement of the ultimategoals all of these collectively considered to be highest measures.

The ability of the staff should not only be found in utilization ofthe equipments but also to understanding the mental attitudesand awareness and adroitness to be improved training shouldbe given to the staff. Not only this also helpful to inspire the zealand collectiveness.

The training must be helpful to the staff to show their adroitnessof precision and clarity in their performances of duties.

According to the needs of world the thoughts beingconsidered should be made well trained.

Like a robot the men working mechanically should bedeveloped the highest quality ability in them.

Not only the present duties but for the duties will have to beheld in the future that training will be ready for them.

Must be shown the proper interest on training so that it mayimprove their ethical enthusiasm.

The distance of defeat is just 10 feet !

Defeat is so terrible. If remembered one will get debility.

But for the fact that should be nearer to all and should beshown in front of us.

As per the estimation of the intellectuals that is at distance of10 feet.

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Perhaps, if you have cramped three times by swelling of yourfeet.

The defeat shall be stood in front of you.

If once its eye laid on you it is very troublesome getting out ofits confinement.

Many a persons will try to get out it but very few of them cancome out of it. Must have to try. And try to withstand.

Diligence begets result.

Every human being must have the habit of working hard isprimary thing in life. That the god too does help to them whodoes work anything. That is why that there a chanting like, thework is worship and the meaning of this being committed to thework will give success.

Throughout the day the farmer works in the fields and with theresult we all could have to have two times meals a day.

That it is said by the great poet of India Sri Sri , that there isnothing like beautiful than the diligent life.

If you want to enjoy that you have to work hard at first.

That the pleasures and distress should be equal in quantity inonce life. These have been called as pots in a Kavadi. Must haveto face one by one. But if someone has the habit of working hardshould not be down at the time of troubles, and when havingfaced pleasures does not be overenthusiastic.

The true meaning of this one must have to stay unchanged atthe both of the above two situations by training hard to getachievements.

Affluence of education is forever.

This is the truth for all seasons by the intellectuals. Either in theown country or in the foreign country it has been acceptable.The education is only the wealth which could be secured forever.Nobody can steal this and can be donated to so many person asyou can it does not be decreased at all. That is why it is called thetrue affluence forever. Now the education does not mean merelythe degrees. Whatever the talents which are utilized for thelivelihood that can also be called education.

In the history that there were so many persons who have visitedmany countries and have made their lives prosperous andrecognized as great doctors, professors, scientists, engineers andrecently so may have excelled in the field of informationtechnology in all the countries of the world.

That there were so many in hundreds have done their businessesin all the countries of the world. Whoever have not propereducation and the labours have expertise in buildingconstructions, trained nurses , and many ordinary lot have visitedabroad and are visiting now.

Most of them not having not adroitness or ordinary labours,who have experienced desperate lives here and in desperationthey have left to foreign for the livelihoods have returned backto home countries. But whoever have some kind training in oneof the fields are excelling in abroad and are being continued inthe way of progress.

Education must be considered as skillfulness.

Wellbeing should be there only through righteousness. The truemeaning righteousness whatever the occasion, in whichever theway that should be accepted by many and that must only beconsidered.

A small example for that, suppose that we have entered intoa train and there is no seat available to sit and not even theproper place to stand. That there so many others like us but oneperson has behaved rudely with all and threatened all and gotsomeone who ill out of his seat and occupied his seat.

In that kind of incident whoever are standing there have gotthe idea of he has done correct. But for those who have beenobserving conditions of that old fellow became angry at that.Might they could not able to condemn that but it must not becalled righteousness.

That there are so may students in thousand of number havebeen studying for their examinations throughout the year. Someof them are passing with malpractice or buying the questionpapers before to the examinations held and after that bribingthe valuators and it is another thing. Their success might have

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given the satisfaction temporarily but the permanent victory, thedelight of life with respectful future will be owned by them forever.

Those who are having honesty might not be owned thetemporary satisfaction the recognition which come out of thehard work should be owned by the persons even though whateverthe position they have reached.

Either donation ? or Gain ? which one you want ?

If something given by other is accepted is called donation,that something has come for nothing pains, does it givesatisfaction? That whatever is earned by hard work is our own.The property of others will be burdensome always. Earned propertyis respectful.

Anger- loss of work

Recently that there are found many boards of smiling picturessuspended over the walls describing that do not get angry andhave patience. Its sole idea is that because of the behavior ofangry people will affect the concentration of the staff workingthere and to be restored the good position it must take atleastten minutes. That will also affect the speed the speed of theprograms being done there.

In the incidents of that to correcting the works this principlehas so much importance.

In some of the elders that the impatience should be shownvery frequently. With these kind of people that could be a test forour patience. Most of the incidents many a elders say the principleis that whoever can wait for only can become achievers.

If postponed is lost forever !

This kind of habit what so much able can him to failures.Beginning at the proper time as well as completion of the workshould be adopted their nature of every trainer. Then only thepractitioner can obtain the cooperation of the co workers withcompliments of his superiors. From the time of starting for officeand till reaching the appointment in time every minute shouldbe run equal to the watch and then only the success can come

near to you and the defeat will get away.

If the housewife stopped work postponing her works all themembers of the family would have to face troubles and lose theirpeace of mind. From rising in the morning and until the night’sdinner will be made ready how punctuality she would have tofollow, could be given proper result is the fact one mustunderstand.

We should have to keep our concentration as much as theperfection a machine could have.

Those who works hard only have the right to eat.

This may be sounded very bad to be listened but it is true,either in the house or in a office that there are so many attitudesof exploitation of hard work of human beings. There should notbe peaceful weather. The elders, senior persons and whoever is illin a family may deny the works as that they could not do anythingand behave with laziness. In the same way some workers wouldact like lazy fellows and they would postpone their works. Not

having accomplished those workers intime that there should be anxiety willbe developed in officers. That is whytheir work has to be divided a bit andentrusted that to whoever do diligentlyis the common thing to be found. Notdenying the words of officer that leadsthere will be cooperation and integritydisturbed among the workers.

The elders in the family instead of saying that they could notable to do anything they do small things like paper settings,supervising the home works of the children, remembering themto have medicine like things will reduce the burden of others.

Because of the reason in the past that the old persons used tosay like that there is no right of living for lazy fellows.

Even though there have been so many desires.They should not harm others. This is the common principle that

must be followed by the all as social being. That everyone hasdesires. That may be earning money or amassing the boundless

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properties or to secure maximum marks in the examinations. Toachieve our objectives it is better way to follow the way thatshould be acceptable to all.

A small example of this. We have entered into city bus. Thatthere so many persons before and behind us. All are being thrownto either sides and with the anxiety to go alone forwards shewould have given so much inconvenience to many others. Thereshould be any wonder that if anybody dashes that same way wewill get angry for sure but we do not remember when do so.

That there is a simple reason to do so is just the nature. Nothingwill work before that and everything should be considered as atruffle before that.

Leaving a bit of own profit, Gurajada had already said thesame in the past.

But it is we have to follow it.

Only the power of the place but not own like saying is listenedfrom the mouths of people. How much it is true we can interpretfrom our own experiences.

If your father has been retired. From then onwards the dailyactivities like bathing, fetching of coffee, meals or to makeready the meals and tiffins are given the priority should bechanged then onwards. Wait a minute, son has to leave to office,and daughter has to go the college and children have to go toschool saying drag you back.

Until the retirement of officer havingmanaged by that officer at his gestures afterthe retirement the same officer has to askeven the clerk for coffee and has to ask thembeseeching. Whatever much the greaterposition we are in but when have visited ahospital we should have to depend on mercyof doctor and nurses.

That there should be no differencebetween high position employee and lower

grade employee and if we can understand fact our the self egowill be decreased. This healthful and beneficial to all.

We should cut rid of the evil right at beginning. Otherwise thatcan spoil the society around us. The evils should emerge fromvery smaller things in the beginning. We should buy ration fromthe newly opened shop. If the others person says that no changeplease, we will leave from there saying, not to mention. Matterof fact in general all most all the incidents the other person willwait for the incidents to say that there is no change.

Now a days there is change with many people. The reason forthat change is not available. Most of us having change in theirpockets could be bearable. If it is currency notes it does not matter.With this reason they should amass all the change that is collectedthroughout the day and throw somewhere in the house and forgetand this results the main reason for the short of change.

In the same way we would give chocolates to the children todo their home works and encourage them to secure good marksin their examinations encouraging declaring the prizes like watch,cycle, cell phones, and the like will increase their interest to studylonger so that they may get very marks in their examinations. Thiskind of habit will be found at every incident ask for theconsideration to do anything and it could become a bad habit.

In this way they are habituated for the bribes that there willbe developed certainly a corrupted society.

Concluding..

All power resides in you. If think that you are able can achieve.

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Healthy mind in a healthy body.

Self hypnotism helps.

How long you have worked is not important. How much youhave worked within prescribed time is more important.

Excellence is not a skill. It is an attitude.

Positive thinking- Favourable response

Negative thinking- Adverse response

Optimist – Pessimist

Autistic thinking –

What is the 20th century thought among all, to be cautiousabout the word impossible.

The secret of being miserable is havingenough leisure time to bother whether youare happy or not.

There is a difference between taking careand being full of care or being completelyrid of worry.

Who is wise by day cannot be a fool bynight.

If today is perfect, tomorrow can also besame.

Did is a word of achievement

Won’t is a word of retreat

Might is a word of loss

Can’t is a word of defeat

Be your own judge and only then will be happy. – M.K. Gandhi

The reason behind the most cheerful men is the highly satisfiedand strenuous disciplines.

The cheapest luxury for any person is laughing. It stirs up theblood, expands chest, electrifies the nerves, cleans the updisturbances from brain and whole body system gets purified.

Time is very valuable more than money because if money islost can be regained but a moment is gone away is lost forever,and never be recalled back. – Swami Vivekananda

Life is pile of feelings, faiths, fathoms, fantasies, failures,

gains, successes , awards and rewards and many more.

Whatever you think, you will be so.

If you think you are weak you will be weak. Be bold and strong-Swami Vivekanada.

To develop the spirit is to build character and to enable oneto work towards a knowledge of self satisfaction. –M.K Gandhi

Education will bloom self confidence.

Unless until the light is illuminating it cannot lit other lights. –Rabindranath Tagore

Education can develop mental abilities and mobilization –Aravind Ghosh

The prime aim of education must not be acquiring a job. Itmust not become mechanical process. – Giddu Krishnamurthy

Enthusiasm is the energy , work until the goal is reached- SwamiVivekananda.

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Our greatest glory consists never in falling but in rising everytime we fall.

My experiments with truth- M.K.Gandhi

An Autobiography

Written in Jail, Letters to his daughter, Indira Gandhi

Glimpses of world history

Discovery of India . - Jawaharlal Nehru

Face all the situations. We have to face every situation eitherpleasant or unpleasant. Just keep up courage all the time. -Swami Ramdas

A successful life does not wait for an opportunity, it finds outopportunities every day.

Never put till tomorrow what you can do today itself.

There is no wrong time to do good and achieve your goals.

“ Hard work never killed anyone”

Everything which is done deserves value

No pain , No gain

Satisfaction Guaranteed.

Life is what you made out of it.

He has a right to criticize who has a heart to help.

Do what you can, with what you have and where you are.

An idle mind is devils workshop.

Take care of penny, pound takes care of itself.

Everyone desires to be victorious in their lives.Whichever the work they have started they would liketo be successful.

All we want is just victory.. victory.. !Everybody can experience the difference between Desires and

realities.

For some people the victory should be like the grape out ofreach.

For some others that should be like doubtful either within thereach or not.

For very few persons that should be like ornament of wrist.

When some victorious persons display the smiling face andthers will have to be adjusted and satisfied with partial successes.

Most of the people will be remained to be defeaters.

Where is the difference?Approximately that all the human beings have the same kind

of construction of body. And the all the five universal elements

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will give equal response to all! All the minds of are striving hardfor achieving the success only ! but why this variation ?

Yes, there are some answers being listened to me.

Strength of horoscope.

Is that true ?

Do some of them are remaining to be winners and some ofthem are remaining defeaters? Do the your palmistry, fate, orthe planets which have spread over at the time of your birthdecide your successes and defeats irrevocably ?

Yes true, yes true again..

What you said is just true.. by this so , I would like to coincidewith you for a while.

Do you believe strongly, only with the horoscopy alone withoutthe help of anything else can achieve your success ?

Success is not like a gift it is like a lifetime journey.

– Ben Sweetland.If there is strong concept not only the palmistry, fate also will

be changed.

The desire for interpreting the world, the desire to changehuman progress are the prominent inspirations.

– Bretrund Russell.But the fact is, if it an effort is there you can achieve so much

! You have to take everything as poison which weakens your mindand throw them all out of your minds. Said Swami Vivekananda.

He did not stop at that point he would have explained that inwhich of methods we should think.

You are the omnipotent, for what youhave been searching ? All the energies arewith you whatever you need. If you havedecided to become successful that there isnothing can obstruct you. That resides in yourhands only.

How wonderful words ! The greatinspiration that would have given the great

new kind of hilarity which is effected by thegreat research done by the omniscientpersonalities.

The spears fi l led with energies. Thepassages which have luster.

We do not have to think about.

You have to understand one thing, thatit is more than enough having confidencein yourself.

And then I can take them into the another world.

Change is natural phenomenon and sometimes it is only theimportant. – Shakespeare

That there were one or two companies when the scooters havecome to our country. Unlike now a days that were no showroomsso that they could buy those scooters and ride on the scooter athigh speed. That those who were willing to buy a scooter had tovisit to the office of company and had to pay the advanceamount standing on the queue for enrollment his name and iftheir house is nearby the office they used to come to house bywalk or by the bus. And after that 2 to 3 months their scooterswere to be delivered. That there were models like Alwyn Pushpakand Suvega. With the competition has been increased that therehave been come so many companies into the market in thefield of automobiles.

Therefore the change is more important and inevitable thingto be happened.

“Even if it is from the change from bad to good that thereshould not be possibility without having occurred anyinconvenience. - Richard Hooker.

It is inevitable to welcome the change if you want to be awinner.

That it is only the change that should not be changed in theworld and it is the ultimate axiom.

If we neglect that kind of axiom how could we becomewinners ?

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Some of the people would think that they have no sufficientmoney to achieve, if it were I could have achieved a lot “ theysay.

Just remember one thing. That there is nothing that can obstructthem from achieving anything.

“ The law should dominate the poor. The rich will dominatethe law. – Gold Smith.

How much money have been with Bill Gates at the time ofbeginning ?

How much money the founder of Reliance, Dheeru Bhai Ambanihaving at the time of beginning ?

Did you ever think of it ?

Some others will get disappointed as they are not havingcompetent degrees.

That there were so many persons who have achieved big haveno degrees at the end their names and they have never seencolleges at all.

It has to be remembered that you are omnipotent and I canachieve everything I want. These words will be remembered.

Even though the sea is so big , the fins of a small fish is verysmall!

How much height the sky is

In front of a small bird should look very small !

Sirrivennala Seetharamashastri.

The truthful words:

That there is nothing greater than self confidence.

That there is no powerful energy than concept.

That there is no more truth than change.

One who have hope in this can achieve success.

You might have studied hundreds of books by heart. A great heart of knowledge has been made, but the youthfulyoung people of my country ! Even if you have not practicedhard you should not get development. The prosperity withoutpractice is fruitless.

“Such kind a big tree like banyan should be sprouted from asmaller seed is the truth, you should not forget. Said SwamiVivekananda.

“Dream”Now Slogan by our beloved Past President. – AbdulKalam

Just close your eyes.

But why ?

Just close, I will say.

“ I have closed”.

What have been seen ?

Do you say? Nothing, just dark !

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Think once again, should not haveseen someone you love most!

Yes, looking.

Then who is that?

Why would they have come to yourmind?

Along with your thoughts whateverthe views or persons have been seen?

Has the conquering cricket team seen?

The beauty queen heroine of the cinema that you have seenlast time is seen?

Has the hero who has fought wonderfully seen?

These things must not have seen in your mind.

But that must be seen the dream of your achievement.

That you have an aim to be achieved!

That there are some desires!

There is also an objective!

You have desires, in and out

B U R N I N G

Practice makes a man perfect.

The Yogi Vedanta had said that the works should be doneonly with practice.

Man is what the evolution of his thoughts, the way he thinkshe will be. –Gandhi

You should think of yourself. You must think of whatever youwould like to do and whatever you would like to achieve.

What have you seen, that there would not be seen at first. Butif you try for some time you can see yourself.

You can also recognize whichever you want.

You must not fail in your trail.

Say now.

How would you have seen to yourself?

Perhaps, laughing, being shouting hilariously you have seenyour face.

You must keep clarity of your goal then the success will byitself.

Napoleon

To remember a hero or someone you like should be very easy.Looking you should not be as easier as looking in a mirror! Moreoverit is very tough to us than any other or to be guessed others shouldbe easier that can be convenient and facilitated one, do youagree that?

That will come to be known with the practice done now.

That we should not think of ourselves.

Even though we are not thinking about ourselves we shouldthink a lot about others.

How much time is being wasted?

WASTE:

W- Wanting – Craving for useless things

A-Accepting- Compromising with present conditions

S-Static – Not adopting changes.

T-Talking- Doing things for time pass

E-Eliminating- Losing the possible opportunities.

Do you think how some people are able to reach their goals?While some others are achieving the successes every at ease, andwhy?

I love and honor learning if rightly used it is the noblest andmost powerful acquisition. - Montaigne

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Now it needs that you need to have an estimation

of your energy.

That there should be boundless internal energy inside everybody.But we could only utilize very little amount of that energy. If wewant to utilize that total energy we should have to know ourstrength at first. Then we should strive to utilize our overall energy.This will belong to the all age groups either sex.

As per the scientific evidences that there are ten thousandcores of cells in our brain. And every cell will work havingconnected with some twenty thousand other cells. If it is estimatedthat there in a book there are 1000 pages which means that thereis in the brain the information out of some 90 lakhs books. That itis meant if the energy of our brain is measured roughly that shouldbe equal to an atom bomb. So many super tankers together willnot work as equally competent with human brain does.

Say no to fear!

A coward will die not only 24 times a day but die 1440 times a

day. But a brave man will only once in hislife.

“That there is only sin in this worldthat is fear” explained in the Upanishads. Thatis why you do not get scared. In thosesituations if you think about yourself impartiallythe debility, fear and the like things you canto a clear understanding about.

All the members who have participatedin this area between the ages of 20-35 years. All they have beenkept in different rooms for two hours and observed how theyhave lived.

In every closed room that there was only a TV set in it.After two hours all they have been asked how they have spent,asked about their opinions how they have experienced in thoserooms.

In this way this was experimented among some 60 personscoming from different kinds how many types they would havebeen behaved in the rooms with same conditions has come withawareness. Their opinions as large.

Some of them said, that they have roamed to and fro awaitingthe end of those two hours period, they have seen at watch nowand then. Not only that they would not think about why thisexperiment is being held.

Some of them have watched TV. Even some of them havechanged the TV channels very frequently they have not seen anychannel completely. After completion of this experiment whenthey have been questioned they said that they felt bored. One ofthem said that he has wasted his time unnecessarily coming here.

Some of them had enjoyed watching TV and went intosleeping. They have lived up these two hours very happily. One ofthem a professional said that he could not enjoy the watching TVand a healthy sleeping because of work tension but today thatthose two desires are accomplished. I have no interest about thisexperiment, he said. And he had given a clear certificate that

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there will be nothing profit conducting these kinds of experiments.

Some of them have seen TV programs sitting before themkeeping the windows open. They could even try to makerelationship with who are staying in the next rooms throughwindows and very interestingly tried to understand motive of thisexperiment.

When their opinions and experiences are analyzed.

Some of them have no goals at all. They could not utilize theirmind. They will not do whatever said by their conscience.

Some others have no any interest on any work. They will showram’s generosity that there nothing cannot affect them at all.

Some others think about themselves only. They will also expectothers to think about them only.

To face

Challenges Constantly

Assess yourself

Realign your attitudes

Change your beliefs

What are the goals you have?

What are the objectives?

What do like to achieve?

How would you like to live?

Are like things have been decided and then what are theeligibilities and merits you have?

After recognizing these, what are the weak points you haveand your defects?

A person is pulling a cart ful of load.

The road is very slant. Moreover the wind also was against tohis direction. In these adverse conditions he has been strugglingto forward with severe effort. Whole body has become wet withsweat. He is taking pains being not able to drag that cart.

At this moment someone was coming on that way. He hasgone away from there even if he did not see at this strugglingcart puller. He has no interest over the things happening aroundhim.

After sometime later some other person has come throughthat way and said seeing at the cart puller, brother drag withforce, Hoist and you are a traveling soldier he has encouragedhim. And feeling he could encourage a person, he went awaywith the same kind of enthusiasm. Meanwhile some other personhas started pushing that cart from backside. Until then, hardlymoved cart has caught a good speed. In the very short periodthe height way has been passed through with ease. Immediatelythat has pushed the cart has went away in his own way.

If you were in the same position what would you do?

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The four men at above incident were of different mentalities.You have to understand the things given below.

What you have to know is.

What are aims you have?

What are the goals you have?

What are the objectives?

What do like to achieve?

How would you like to live? Are like things have been decided.

And then what are the eligibilities and merits you have?After recognizing these, then what are the weak points you

have and your defects that should be known.

The two great movers of the human mind are the desire ofgood and the fear of evil.

SWOT – Analysis

S- Strengths

W- Weaknesses

O- Opportunities

T- Threats.

What do we need?

If you think you have visited a restaurant. The waiter hasbrought a menu to you. You have ordered some items from thatmenu selecting. That there some are liked by you and some otheritems are very costly. The needful items for the moment were alsothere. Suppose if you are giving such kind of order what wouldthink of? Sometimes the amount is enough to pay supposed billshould have to be taken into consideration. Is that right?

We should try to give order thinking properly so that there wouldnot be wasting of time a decision should be taken.

Whichever are our desires should be our objectives only.

Our desires and dreams can only be our objectives.

If they are avarices there will result to be left the despair. Thereality of those desires is joined with diligence all the objectiveswill be transferred as successes. All these objectives are made outof desires based on the limitation of period only.

Some of them are constructive andsome others are not. We should onlythink only of meritorious of them.

Most of the people will hesitate tokeep an objective and hesitate to workhard to achieve that.

A student can be sufficient with theminimum of percent of marks. Just likebackward student he would lead his life. Some others will besatisfied with a small ordinary job.

Even in love, they would show same kind of method in orderto obtain it. There should not be an objective for them.

What can they achieve?

Most of the people would be afraid to decide an objective intheir life. That there are so many reasons to do so.

Pessimism

Fear of defeat

Postponement of work to be done at present.

Submissive nature (inclined to others’ opinions )

Lack of perception of consequences.

We must know the destination

If we think that we are traveling by the train. We should taketickets at first. That there are mentioned the details like the nameof destination, train number, name of train, and date, and wherewe have to get into the train and so on. As that there is a ticketwith us if we climb any train we should not reach the destination.Whichever train selected or in which train we would like to travelin you have taken the ticket you must get in that train and thenonly you will reach your destination. Is that true?

SMARTY

S-Specific:

The destination must be confirmed and clear. That there shouldnot be chance of getting confused or meaning shall not bechanged. If you want to give up cigarette smoking that there a

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certain way to be followed. First of all you should decide yourselfthat you must give up smoking and ever since that you havetaken that decision you have to try hard giving up smoking. Youshould not go nearer to those persons who smoke and if anybodyoffers you a cigarette just say no firmly. It is better you should notsee at those who smoke. Go to the place where the people whohate smokers or travel by the train should help you to give upsmoking. Because that the smoking is prohibited in the trains nowa days. You should give secret smoking too.

The objective should be like this clear and firm.

M- Measurable: There must be found a satisfaction of goingahead for the achievement.

Achievable

The decision must be realistic, reasonable, in the scope of thatshould be achievable.

R- Realistic: The student who have selected his dream as hisaim and worked hard studying for some years and step by stephe would become a doctor. That is what we call reality.

T- Time bound: That there must be ample time to reach theobjective. We know that will be the result if someone is too fatwould have tried for losing weight within a short period by fastinghimself. They could not even to reach their objective but alsothere will be very much expenditure.

Y-Your Own: You should decide your aim. You should not takeothers’ aims to be yours. If you want to make your daughter adoctor, your aim should be amassing the money for making yourdaughter a doctor.

The high class- the medium class – the lower class.

That those who respect themselves are high class people.

That those who will understand themselves are medium class

people.

That those who hate themselves are the lower class people.

That those who feel sorry about themselves lowest of low class

people.

Achieve

Achieve

Achieve

Achieve

Losers

The integral losers the modern losers

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Some days ago a boy called Vijay has come to me. He hasjoined in the work shop “Impact” which had been lead by me.After completion of asking how about, I have asked him whyyou came here.

“Sir, it so much troublesome with my mother, he said. Youshould come to our house and talk to my mother once, hebeseeched me.

Then I have enquired about what is the matter, he startedsaying as follows.

Sir, my father passed away when I was being in the womband from my birth onwards my mother has brought me up withher hard earned without taking any help from outside relatives.Brought me up to this stage. But now her behavior is troublingme very much. She does not laugh at all. She should not minglewith the people. I have hardly seen that she has spent happilywith anybody talking happily. I am doing a job in Hyderabadcity and she would not like to come there to stay with me. But forthe fact who is there for me except my mother, he worried a lot.

I could understand the love they havetowards each other with your words but theremust be some reason for she is willing tocome to you. We must have known whatcould be that at first. I have consoled himsaying.

He said that I have known the reason; shesaid that she has no eligibility to be happy inher life.

I said ok, Vijay I will come to your housetomorrow and talk to your mother. But you have to behave withher as normal as you are always. And after that I went to Vijay’shouse. I have tried a lot to make her happy but all were in vainshe could only answer with moody and with despair words. Shesaid I have no eligibility to stay happy, it was understood that shehas believed strongly.

But with stronger efforts I would have taken her into the waythat is another thing.

Just observe, those people who ever met with some defeat ormet with disaster they would come to a decision that they havelost their eligibility to be happy in their lives and as they thoughtthat cannot be come back they make their lives to be hell. Theywould allow the despair their shadow. That there are some peoplelike would have come across you in your life. Not only they worrythemselves but also bother those around them.

You should not allow despair, that there is no other big enemythan despair in the way of progress.

– Ramakrishna Paramahamsa.

Self deceive is the lowest of all low things. – Plato“If you can be like a spectator instead of a player in your life

that there could be found solution to most of problems in yourlife”.

The hardships are common to all in their lives.

You must get rid of these qualities.

In this effort, read the most successful autobiographies in thehistory and then only you can come to know how the troublesthey have faced in their lives. You will get some kind of comfortfrom comparing their troubles with yours. There should be

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improved your self confidence.

Mingle with others

Laugh a lot

Do the works which interest you most.

Share your thoughts with others and improve.

How the losers behave like we should know now.

If we observe their behavior deeply and if we analyze themthat there could be found some important aspects as under.

The negative way of thinking.

Imitation

To be explained clearly the effects of negative thoughts.

We are by birth having lots of energies but with the effect ofour parents, our friends and those who stay around us we couldnot be able to know our strengths. You could not do that work;you cannot do this work like these words should restrict us to belimited world.

Have ever seen the circus animals? How the ring master evenbeing a common man he could play lions, tigers, bears, verypoisonous snakes, you could observe?

Having a hunter in the hand standing in front of tigers, lionswould have been sitting calmly and played all the wonderfulfetes. The most powerful animal like elephant shall behave like adog. How could be possible?

First of all they have bought them from the forest catching.Suffering them with hunger and torched them with hunter theywould take them into their ways.

Taking over rest should make the brain to get rusted. – Sir WalterScott.

Most of the people discourage themselves thinking

that certain things could not be done by particularpersons, how can we do that?

They only believe whatever others say, but never think own.They should follow whatever is done by the neighbors they wouldnever try to analyze the good and bad was there in what hasbeen done by them. Because of the reason that they have notheir own thoughts as being lazy.

No one can become a great person imitating others. – SamuelJohnson

I would like to say one of my own experiences here.

In those days when I was studying our teachers, lecturers weregiving home works to me. But those home works were done bythem very few only but the most of them have written by seeingthose. And after all these days when I have observed one of myclassmates that those who have done their home worksthemselves could have studied higher studies and could reachedto the highest positions in their lives but whoever could not

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complete their works have been backwards in their lives. Someof them are settled in the fields that are unconnected to theirqualifications. That is another thing.

The winners will welcome a change.

The losers will be compromised with a change.

If we welcome changes that they can brought someopportunities along with them. The delight will wish you.

If do not welcome change there will not be seen opportunities.The despair and depression will come over us.

“ The talent, adroitness, mind should come out at some time.– Simmon

Hesitation

We must know that the hesitation is only one of the weaknesses.If you have decided a stipulated a particular time to performsomething. At the same time someone who knows have cometo your house and happened to waste your time not allowingyou to attend that program. That is the clear sign of hesitation.You could not be able to say no to them. Therefore it is very muchimportant that to impart your children right at their childhoodthat they should not be hesitated at the time of needs.

The difference between the impossible and the possible lies ina person’s determination. - Tommy Lasorda

The outright losers

The defeat is the common phenomenon of that might havebeen at one of the stages of evolution.

But for the fact that the defeat itself is the basement to thesuccess.

The outright losers having mercy over themselves is really worstthan anything else. That is only the greatest enemy of ourdevelopment.

Men like this will think of themselves as most unlucky fellow.That there are no one can help them they would have beenworrying always.

They do not have habit of making efforts.

They cry at watching serials in the TV. They would cry morefor the troubles faced by the hero than the hero of the serial.

They should not care for those poor around them.The most lovely sentences for these people are.

“ What can I do now ?”

“ I am waiting his call”.

“ All this occurred because of my luck is not good, my palmistry,Vastu and the fruit of preceding like is good enough. I could notavoid experiencing the consequences”.

“ I have become to be scrap which is worthless to anybody“.

“ I just waiting for the call of the almighty god”.

Most of the people who have been successful said that theycould only become successful learning from lessons from theirfailures. In this way whoever will make efforts incessantly couldonly achieve success in their lives. The people like these arevery less thousands , lakhs or in crores in number out of many.Most of the people are being outrightlosers only.

The main features of these peoplesshould be like.

The answers given by these outrightlosers should not be straight. Becauseof the reason that there are two personsin one man. One of them is exhibitingand the other stays inside that is calledconscience.

In this way who is acting ambiguously differently betweenoutside and inside should be become a winner in his life. Thatthose who live for the living sake are called outright losers.

All are looked to be cheats. For most extent these kind offeatures should be shown like a old crook but there would notleft the shades of clouds.

They are not able to digest good things

Not even though whoever are helping them also they shouldbe cautious.

Why should one help for nothing ? That there could be somework with me”. That is the way they usually think.

They cannot expect that who are friends and who are enemiesto them.

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They cannot differentiate between thegood and the evil.

And most terrible thing is that these kindof thought can pollute the situation aroundthem.

Just question yourself.

Do I doubt others or not ?

Yes

Yes now and then..

Frequently…..

Always ……

For any country or any man who wants to be going throughthe progressive way the satisfaction must be stood the first stepof success. - Oscar Wilde

That those who depends on the acceptance of others.

It is the an incident which happened at my childhood days,that there was a person in our class namely Naveen. He had avery good calligraphy but he was very pale in complexion. Onceour teacher was going outside said us to write down a subject ina book with whoever having beautiful hand writing and wentaway and as the teacher said we all have finished writing thatlesson and was awaiting the teacher.

Meanwhile, Naveen has come to me and said that his writingis better than my writing showing his writing to me. I said thatyes, Naveen writing is better than mine. Not leaving it to be thereNaveen went to all others and shown his writing said that hiswriting is better than all of them.

But to the fact his writing is so good.

But in the depth of mind, why he asking everybody like that ?felt inside.

This time Naveen came to Ravi who is powerful and said thathis writing is better than his writing showing but this Ravi hasslapped on his cheek with strength he fell down to the ground.And the Ravi inclined over Naveen and said that I am powerfulthan you imitating somewhat like Naveen.

The whole class has filled with full of laughs.

The role of Naveen has been analyzed even though that hehas caliber and he had very good calligraphy but after gettingacceptance of all he could not able to believe himself. Couldnot have satisfaction.

Likewise some people would say others that they are facinglots of troubles and have an idea of that they only had hardshipsin life but they do like this only others to accept that.

“ If anybody says that you are facing really great troublesthey would feel very happy at that.

This is not unwanted. Unhealthy.

If there are any troubles must be faced and come out, and nootherway.

Another world,

Another world,

Another world has called you!

Walked passages,

Walked towns,

Cross the all the forts !

Rivers and seas,Forests and hills,

The great deserts can be hurdles to us ?

-Sri Sri has inspired us.

Go forward.

Depress :

“ Somewhere, sometime a goal has been achieved if youexamine it that should taken as revolutions, the work would havebeen done at the stage of maniac.

-Peter Driker

I myself too add some light to be burnt for, I should shed atear for the distress of the globe cried like a throat of madness!

This kind of satisfaction should be our own we must havesufficient zeal.

The brothers whose bones have been spoilt, became old , jutdie!

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Blood is boiled , filled with energies the soldiers just forward !

Sri Sri has welcomed them.

Go forward and go forward pushing, like king cobras, like wilddogs go ahead like Dhanunjaya ! he has inspired us.

That whoever could understand the time should notmisunderstand life. - Johnson.

You question yourself.

I say my problems very frequently ? in which say ? to whom ?Do I feel desperate? if so why ?

Do I feel sorry about you? in whatever incidents ?

The Modern Losers

That there is nothing I could do to the world – The completelosers.

Whatever I could do in this world that there would nothappened change- They are also losers! This is the nature of thecomplete losers.

The important aspect with the complete losers is that they couldnot be truthful even with themselves.

They should find reasons for their mistakes by their conscienceis being calmed down.

What are the main features of the modern losers ?

They could not accept their defeat

They could not be responsible.

Greed and avarice

Abused behavior

They should not accept their defeat.

The modern losers do not accept their defeats and they shouldsimply avoid saying that the grape is sour which is not within thereach. Initially they should try for something and later if theyhave achieved they would have felt there is no one in the worldto be compared with him. If they would have been failed theywould not feel nothing about that and talk that does not matterat all.

You cannot give anything which you have not. Even if youhave no happiness how can share it with others.

They were so many people of different mentalities

to my work shop namely(IMPACT ).Once person called Praveen has come to there. He usually

come there late and went out twice and thrice between theprogram. By this there would have been difficulty to all others.Whenever I asked for the reason why he does so he would haveshown so many for that.

For example.

“Why Praveen, you have come late today?

“My vehicle is punctured sir”.

But for the fact he would have been coming to office by busonly, he himself said that two days ago.

Leave it that is OK, why should you go out in between theprogram? I asked him.

The reason for that, he would have thought for a longtimeand that he had to phone to his mother and sister, sir I do callthem when I remember it.●

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Never ever fear for anything that should indicate your weakness. – Nehru

The Modern losers-

That they would like others to believe whatever they said tobe true and for making it true they fabricate many a fables tosupport them.

They would try to throw the mistakes upon others.

It is very bothering that to accept the mistakes. But the fact isthat kind of nature is too much in these kindof people.

You should criticize your friend when heonly is with you. But appreciate your friendwhen he is among many people. -Siros

I could have tried hard however possibleto me , but if the time allow ..

If my father studied me well… The time isnot auspicious.

The words like this you could have also saidbut the truth is that those who achieve shouldnever say these.

If we accept our mistakes proudly this means that we arereaching nearer to our success

First of all you should have to be honest and recognize yourmistakes and try to correct those mistakes.

The success must be met.

The modern loser should not be honest with themselves. Theynot only try to conceal their failures but also they would not liketo have look at those, they usually commit great mistake. But noone can escape from their conscience.

Lack of Responsibility.

What is the use of culture without having clean soul.

What is the use of confectionery without having neat bowl.

What is the use of worship of Shiva without havingconcentration.-Vemana

The greed and avarice.

That there are two types of greed. One will develop thedifferences and another will lead to destructions. The greed whichwill be helpful for our development is to be acceptable. But thegreed out of control will lead to their downfall.

The greed and avarice will decrease our longevity.

– Bible

Indecent behavior.

Generally these modern losers will act very awkwardly. Beingcoming late, should not be thankful to those who have helpedthem and they should not agree their mistakes, like are theindecent behavior.

Just have a look at what Benjamin has said about late coming.

“ We can say that the guests come late how they are. A manwho has been entrusted with good work and criticalresponsibilities must come right at stipulated time. But against tothat those who have not any work should come very late or willnot come at all. A person who is in the job without developmentin it should come late by quarter or half an hour.

These people act like that they should not follow anything andsay pretexts for all and troubling themselves with greed inside , ifwe observe them that there are four main reasons are found.

Lack of interest

Lack of plan

The postponing mentality

Irresponsibility

Lack of Interest.

Most of us work so hard but that for a while. After that they willas usual that for the formality sake they do all without interest. Ifyou want to work hard until the reaching the success that theremust be interest. If this interest is not there the hard work shouldnot be possible. If you can adapt all the troubles as likes thatthere will not be problem.

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it. That might be a foot away or might havetaken half a second.

It is very folly to leave it amidst withouthaving proper plan, how foolishness it is ?

We should not say that time utilized tosleep and work best utilization.

There should be progress if we do anythingknowing that which work must be donewhen and how.

It does not need that much big works .

A certain work would have to be selected and perform it asper the plan. Whatever smaller that work is.

The mentality of postponement.

The postponement means that a work has to be done now isput off for is called postponement. Those who are lazy do thesame.

That there are two types of lazy persons.

Lazy by nature.

As is the matter with Karna the Kavachakundala the lazinessto these persons.

They feel sorry for those who work hard.

They should say that the hard workers are just block heads , itis better to stay like me, they said proverbs with the level ofGresham.

Even though the sky is having fallen to the earth they shouldnot do their work on time.

The works like bringing the vegetables, looking after thehousehold works, and bringing the household items from themarket are very silly mites.

“ That a father of boy said, that my son is ready to play cricketthroughout the day under the hot summer but if he is said to dosome simple work like bringing the vegetable or anything fromoutside he refuse to bring showing the pretexts like it is very hotoutside or the he has headache or any other. I could not bearwith him.

The opinion of a father.

The best way of solution for problem having known the secretof that problem. – Frank Clark

But for the fact the responsibilities are the applications whichwill divulge the energies which are in you.

Responsibility:

Most of the people fear to take responsibility of the works.Such a person having fear to take the responsibility made batchwith others and given collective responsibility he would enjoy it.Which means being one among many is their way of thinking.

If any work is entrusted to anybody have to take responsibilityof that whether it is good or bad. But those who are acting likeone of the many would have no responsibility at all and they cansimply say they could have done the work successfully. That is themotive of these persons.

If there is not evil in you how could you see that ? _Vivekananda

Some three months ago a girl has come to me. She said thatsir, I want to become a doctor but my father would like me tostudy engineering. I could not able to understand what to study,she said.

I said that there is nothing to think about! You must studywhatever you have interest in. You should take decision inwhichever field you can be happy.

She said again the same story I would like to study and becomea doctor but my father wants me to study engineering, sir. I askedher which subject you want to study actually ?

Medicine sir, she said.Just study that only. What is the problem

with that ? I questioned.She said again but my father wants me

to study engineering, sir.It is you have to study but not your father,

I will talk to you father , I said. She said thatsir, if I cannot study well in medicine our fatherwill scold me sir.

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confidence over studying medicine. She could not be confidentto say her father that she can study medicine well and wouldpass it, could not be able to take responsibility of the repercussions.If she could do this, her would have agreed to her decision. Nowhere that she has to take determination about what to study butshe is lying the responsibility on her father. It is clear a mistake.

Most people would think of responsibilities as burden.

But for the fact these are the responsibilities which can divulgeyour calibers out of you. Those who cannot take the burden ofresponsibility will not be great persons.

The change which has been brought responsibility.

To think of good about always is our generosity. – Amma

Accept the responsibility.

You should not bother about the results and would not try toescape.

It is so much better to be failed after trying than without trying.

That those do not accept the responsibilities do not have powerto catch the opportunities.

The failure of today is the initial step for tomorrow’s success.

Few imitating winners would think of themselves

that they are only the great persons. Broadly thinkingthat there is no lot of difference between losers andimitating winners.

Lack of honest, artificial behavior and looking very simpleabout the others these two types of people are found to be same.

If we consider the acting winners that there should be somefeatures.

Boasting.

They would like to propagate their simple achievements tothe greatest successes, we will observe in many persons.

We can see this kind of behavior mostly in political leaders. Ifa projects has been inaugurated some years ago and havingfinished now the politicians now a days that they would say ithas been completed successfully because of their effort.

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If anybody appreciated them as they have addressed hisspeech, they would boast like at their childhood days if he wouldhave applied for the competition of elocution that the otherswould have to try only for the second prize.

While Self praise leads to destruction the self criticism will leadto well being. – William Henry Smith.

That there is nothing irritable thing than a person who argues.

-Rabindranath Tagore

You should not talk like this.

There are two doctors talking like this standing on the passage.One of these seeing at a person coming lamely nearer to themsaid, he leg is sprained, without serious.

The other has said it is not true that he has polio. In this waythey have been arguing about that person who is lame until hehas reached there. After having reachedthem, they have enquired about his lame,he answered that his sandals is cut and thatis why I am laming.

Did you understand that how absurd ofhast.

That whoever would not change theiropinions have self love than the truth. Joseph.

It the nature of imitating winners to getsatisfied very fast. This is the quality thatbecomes obstacle in their development.These people will be excited for very smaller successes. And afterreaching a position the zeal to learn anything will be vanished.The desire for achievement will be dried up.

Once upon a time I have been invited to be judge for thecompetition of elocution. And at the end of the competitionsthe award was being presented to the first prize winner, I saidboy that your voice is very nice and it should be far better if youimprove your pronunciation, I have advised him.

He said that, even if I were this much standard that there noother completion to me in this college who can give speech likeme. He has become content with that much success.

These kinds of people would have been sparkled for sometime and will be vanished forever later.

This kind negligence should be two types.

Ethical negligence

Physical negligence

The Ethical negligence

It is very hard to be recognized this negligence. The main reasonfor this negligence is diminishing of values.

The Physical negligence.

In common the Indians think that they have become oldcrossing the 50 years of their age. By reaching 60 years will getbed ridden with some kind of disease. These kinds of peoplecould achieve nothing after their 50’s in their lives.

Most the retired people think of that they have done so muchin their service and they need not do more in their lives, theysimply would like to take rest of their lives. This is really a wrongnotion one should not follow.

The imitating winners have two different faces. One of those toshow others and the other to be shown internally.

If we need further clarification, these are:

They are to be shown differently internally and externally.

Covering their deficiencies inside and act like great personsexternally.

The smaller successes which have been achieved by themthey would propagate to be so great successes.

The boasting behavior, the words like so polished so that mostof the public could believe.

Do I have habit of boasting why?Am I taking immediately decision about others? If so, why ?

Am I getting satisfied for very small successes? if so, why ?

Do I behave differently internally and externally? but why ?

What I have to leave these defects?

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If life is a journey, the fuel for that journey is motivation.There is no doubt without this, the journey of life should not be

in right path. We should divide motivation into three parts.

Self motivation

The motivation can make changes to our agenda. At themotivation should give initiative and then only the agenda startworking. It is not possible to get motivation only with inspiration.Recently the government of Andhra Pradesh have enacted thatwearing of helmets is must in Hyderabad city, the traffic policemade it mandatory that the bike rider must wear a helmet andthe driver must wear seat belt. And to get this followed thatthere have given counseling and later fines have been imposedon the defaulters. With this kind of change that there was occurredlot of difference and most of bike riders have been workinghelmets now. We must have to agree to that not only for thesake of fines you should wear helmets but this also save you fromthe pollution for at least some extent.

As per the psychologists: That there are two types ofmotivations.

Internal motivation: That should be emerged from inside yourmind.The internal motivation is called self confidence,positivethinking that should be recognized and enjoyedsomething.

External Motivation: That should be emerged from the externalworld. The work, the recognition of your work, a and the incentivesyou have been given should be called external motivations.

The motivation which is received from others.

The self satisfaction, recognition of your work and praises andthe confidence with responsibility.

I can achieve whatever I want.

The recognition should come to me.

It is the better way to motivate ourselves. Doing hard workwith belief and confidence the success will be yours. The selfmotivation should be called a permanent one. If You couldhave done your work promptly that there should be quality andproductivity energy in your will be improved.

To motivate others.

It is very important to know that what would motivate whom.Keeping that some things in the view we should have to motivatethem accordingly. The important things to be remembered.

Incentives – Money or gifts

Praises , respects

You should take care of that the work is given by you must beinteresting.

Keeping the target to them

But you should not give help them in their works.

De-motivationThat there are so many factors that should kill the motivation.

These are called as de-motivation factors. Some of them are.

To criticize them for no reasons.

To criticize in adverse attitude

To insult in front of many others.Giving the promotions and the like to those person who have

no that much ability.

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The fear of becoming unsuccessful.Not having confirmed goal.Utter poverty.Lack of self respects.Unable to recognize the priority.Office politics.Attitude of negligence.Short of facilities.Transfers.Increasing the responsibility by diminishing the powers.Not getting response for diligence and talent.All the things above should not belong to single person or a

institution. It is better to recognize that as there are motivatingfactors there should also be de-motivating factors. If there is suchkind awareness in you can utilize these along with some others inyour experience.

Success is simple. Do what’s right the right way, at the righttime. – Arnold H.Glasow

A poor person is there. He would have thought of to build abungalow at any cost. But any way could have won over is desires.But in the way to achieve his goals he would have to commitsome illegal activities and treacheries. Is he eligible to be calledas winner as think to do so?

can recognize that ?What is your aim?The financial security,is it independent life ?is it success ?is it happiness ?

We should not enter this kind of personalities into the list ofsuccessful persons.

If it’s called success to make a name in the society that thehead persons of the society should be winners.

But for the fact is very different to that.

The officers who accept bribes, the political leaders who misusetheir powers forgetting the service to the country.

In general the winner is ...Must be affluentShould be name and fame in the

society.These two qualities are enough and

no other is not need like idea is deeprooted in the minds of people.

Lucre is the base of all things in theworld!

The winners, the defeats, the ordinary people should believethat there is nothing valuable than money in this world. The peoplewho give value to the other things are very less. You believe thatyou have money can do everything and can buy all things andbelieve that improve your weight in the views of others if youhave money.

That it is only the desire in you that should motivate you toachieve everything in your life.

Not only the income but also the income source should alsobe high and then only that there should be value whatever youhave achieved in your life.

If your aim is clear and you try hard having fortitude there mustbe success.

Hence, never, never ,never give up! - Winston Churchill.For the better understanding that the anger and impatience

is the pair of enemies. - GandhiThat there are prevailing the opportunities everywhere but

having recognized them and utilize them is the main quality ofwinner.

The true success…These opportunities should be either little or big, the little ones

might become bigger ones and they should always be in front ofus. But what we have to do we must be aware of recognizingthem.

Find out the other form for the name and fame.If the smaller changes are made you should go nearer to the

success.There should be obtained the way to the success from the

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You are omnipotent, that there everything in youwhatever you need, the help which is needful to you isin yourself only.

You are the sculpture of his own fate. -Richard Steele.Switch over the new life from today onwards.From today itselfYou are the rockYou are sculptureYou carve yourself.If the thought of that whoever think of has come to mind we

should not stay peacefully. For example, the incident which hashappened in our own family.

Once upon a occasion of Sankranthi Festival all the relativeshave come to our family. To observe them I went to our auntand said Aunt that your dress is not good. At this our aunt grewangry and said back to me that my dress is not good at all withouttaking me for fun. And said me to take care of that at first verybluntly.

After while I went to my brother and said that, hey brother,your dress does not sound good to me. With the effect my brother

has grown confused at and said does it? sodo you want me to change it ? But gotperplexed because of that only the dress hehas bought for festival, what to do now ?And I went to my sister who is sitting outsideand said, sister that I do not like your dress atall as is usual.

For that she said, what I have to do forthat should be your problem and not mine.

Most of the people around should be likeour aunt they will not be quite until to shut up their mouths.

Why do not I bite if put your finger into my have should be theway of these people.

And like our brother that there most persons around us seekthe approval of others who around you. These people do nothave their own opinions and they will not frame their objectivesat all. Becoming like puppets will depend on the others remotecontrol.

Even though Indira, has praised himself will become a flake ofgrass.- Chanakya

The winner

The achiever should be a part and parcel of solution. He saysthat wait he will do your work.Says that there is answer to all theproblems. Says that it is hard but possible. If made a mistake heshould accept that it is mistake. Be responsible to his duties.Dreams. Say that he has to do anything. Work together with all.Always look for profit.Look forward for opportunities. Expectsuccess from two sides. Look forward for future.

The loser

Those who lose always be a part of problems. Say, that itcould not be done by me. See problem in every answer. Say thatcan be done but very hard. When they commit mistake they saythat is not a mistake. Always make oaths.Make plans. Say it isbetter that someone would do that. Stay alone without minglingwith others. Expect only loss always. Say that if someone is lostthat we will win. Look into the past. ●

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We want to achieve success at everything. It isnatural.

You must behave like to whatever you want to be.

The change is two types.

It is because of compulsory to do so.

It is because of desired development.

Inspire yourself that there all power is you and you areomnipotent- Vivekananda has preached the world.

The same is the essence of Bhagavat Geetha.

That much big tree like banyan should sprouts from a smallseed.

How could the inhibited power in you should be taken out ofyou ? Such kind of questions should be come to most of thepeople.

The answer for all these questions is only these qualities. Somepeople could not believe in this. Is there that much power in

these three qualities?

Everybody has to be adroit in some field. Should be talentedthan others in that field.

The boldness is the best of all the good qualities. All the othergood qualities should be dependent on thatonly.

You can achieve everything.

These words are simply to misguide you.

From the time immemorial of Vedic timesto the modern human beings the fact is that,the you should know that.

Improve yourself respect.

The respect should not be earned orbought.

The respect should be given by others.How could be the opinions in different subjects?How could be your response to different incidents?How are our habits?What are the aspects in you which are liked by others?What are the matters and deficiencies only known to me about

us? Likewise questions should be come forwards. We must haveto answer them without having partiality.

These answers should help us to develop.That those who have self respect.That those who have dare to accept their mistakes.That those who have habit of accept challenges.That there should shown boundless self confidence.They could accomplish any work with happiness and very

diligently.They can face all the hardships with ease.They would like to others should not question their work. With

that kind of fortitude they can accomplish their entrusted workswith perfection and should complete their work in time. And theycan get respect.

The self confidence should give a wonderful motivation. – John Milton.

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We must know that when others facing troubles how shouldwe help them.

We should respect others and learn how to respect each other.The love is not like a thing that should be given others but thatmust be achieved by us.

The love is help to get rid of your our weak points. That shouldget our out of troubles which are troubling us most. For examplethat how to talk, how to walk and how to read should be possibleonly because of the love of mother.

If you want to give gift to your children that must be only thehilarity. – Bruce Barton

FACT

That there is so great meaning of powerful personalitydevelopment in the word fact.

F- Fairness - Being impartial.

A-Accountability - Be responsible

C-Courage - boldness

T-Truth - factAll these qualities are there in one’s mind he can have total

personality. That the person whoever have these four qualitiescan change to be powerful person.

If you want to develop the relationships with others these fourqualities must and should. Then only you can say others to be so.

For this you should remember your inner Energy.Those who cannot know their value do not know the value of

others. – Shankar.Whatever the ways you have followed should be followed by

others.This principle is applicable at all times.If whatever is not done opted by you the relations should not

be affected at all.In the practice to develop the human relations you do not

hesitate to ask anything others.At the same way you should not mar out your relations with

others by protecting them. You must accept your mistakeswhatever done by you. Saying sorry many times will not beaccepting that you have done mistake and be a champion. ●

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