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May/June 2013 Issue 88

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RECRUITING NOWSuccessful ‘business mum’ is

seeking 5 working partners to workpart-time from home, alongside &

without compromising familycommitments or current career.

If you have a supervisory,managerial, sales, marketing,recruitment or self-employed

background, or you wish to developan extraordinary lifestyle,

please call Diana Page01235 533362

Covering North Surrey and the boroughs of Richmond, Kingston and Hounslow

Call your local Stagecoach to Enrol Chertsey 0845 265 7081Hinchley Wood 01372 238 238Hounslow 0845 078 0804Kew 020 8487 1456

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Well, finally, after a long struggle, Spring is finally here and what better time of year to think about organising a party!

This issue we bring you our annual, bumper kids party feature, complete with directory of local party providers. Here you should find all the ideas and practical tips you need to organise the most memorable party ever! On page 13, there’s also the chance to WIN a birthday party for your child and friends at The Little Gym in Hampton Hill.

Do you know how to recognise if your child is under stress? Why is respect so important within a family? How should you talk to your child in the event of the loss of a loved one? All these things and more are explored in our Family Health and Wellbeing and Parenting sections.

This issue also comes complete with information about camps, workshops, courses, activities and events available during May Half Term, as well as a sneak preview of what will be available during the long Summer Holiday. You can also find all the most up-to-date information about local clubs and classes for the rest of the summer term.

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4 Family Health and Wellbeing 8 Parenting Respect and Why It’s Crucial in Families 9 Supporting Your Grieving Child10 Family Food and Nutrition Meal Planning Made Easy Cooking With Small Children12 Safety and Hygiene in the Kitchen Giveaway! Copies of Annabel Karmel’s NEW book “Quick and Easy Toddler Recipes”13 Kids Party Feature Competition: WIN a birthday party for your child at The Little Gym14 Take the Stress Out Of Party Organisation – just SMILE!15 My Best Party Is…16 Fabulous Party Ideas for Kids of All Ages18 Create Your Child’s Perfect Themed Party19 Party Directory23 The Search For a Good Venue Competition: WIN tickets to The Foodies Festival at Hampton Court 24 Clubs, Classes and Activities News Round Up Children Meet Their Favourite Authors at Little Star Writing Workshops

25 Children, Health and a Love of Sport Ready, Steady, Go Like the Aussies! Teddington Dance Studio: Where Dance Is Life26 Clubs, Classes and Activities Directory29 The Families Property Guide30 Moving House With Kids Is Your Family Home In Need of a New Family?31 Property For The Next Generation Competition: WIN a copy of the book: “Property For The Next Generation”32 Camps, Courses and Workshops May Half Term and Summer Holiday Preview34 Baby Pages Put The Books Away and Hold Your Baby Instead!35 Would You Risk Your Child’s Life? Competition: WIN a copy of the book: ”The Bluffer’s Guide to Fatherhood”36 What’s On

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TWEAKED TO FIT

You may have heard people commenting that if you eat a balanced diet, you shouldn’t need vitamins and minerals. Having spent the last 8 years helping people fight weight problems, increase energy and enjoy a healthier lifestyle, I have certainly encountered this resistance.

But there ARE some very good reasons to take supplements:

Fruit and veg are picked

unripe, flown long distances and then stored, all of which depletes the nutritional content: an orange in the supermarket can have ½ of its original level of vitamin C.

Animals and fish are fed wheat (not a natural food source for them) which alters the composition of nutrients they offer: a farmed salmon can be deficient in Omega 3 oils (which are essential for brain development).

You cannot see, feel or taste this lack of nutrients in food.

If your body becomes deficient in nutrients, negative symptoms will eventually result and disease can take over.

Unfortunately, people still negatively associate vitamins, minerals and essential fats, in capsule form, to prescription drugs. But essential nutrients are essential to life!So which supplements should you choose?Some supplements on the market have less than the optimum quantities of beneficial ingredients. Additionally, not all supplements are created equal when it comes to absorption and can remain undissolved in the colon, unused by the body. The better quality and usually more expensive supplements generally provide better value for money in the long term.

Supplements help our bodies cleanse and detoxify so that the

Are you a runner that’s trying to cover the same distances at the same speed that you used to when you were younger? Perhaps you are starting to run again after a break or are simply noticing that, as you get older you don’t seem to be able to cover ground as quickly. You may even be feeling disheartened and thinking of giving up running altogether. Don’t. All you need to do is look at

your running from a slightly different perspective.

When you are in your 20s, your aerobic capacity is greater, so you can exercise at a higher level of intensity. Your muscle mass and muscle elasticity is also greater, so you have greater stride length and leg strength. Your running performance peak is somewhere in your early 30s. After that, it is normal for your running speed to decrease by about 1% a year.

There is a simple tool you can use to measure your performance against the optimum performance of someone of your age and gender. This is called age grading and it is an alternative and more accurate measure of your fitness than comparing how you are running today, to how you ran in earlier years.

You will see from the table above that if you ran 5km in 24minutes 40 seconds when you were 30, you would have achieved an age grading of 60%. To perform at the same level at age 40, you need to run the 5km in 25 minutes 33 seconds.

So take heart. There really is every reason for you to continue running. You are probably performing at the same level as you were 10 years ago, which means you are as fit as you were 10 years ago too. Add to that the list

5kM TIMIngS In MInuTES FoR A FEMAlE

AgEAge grading as a % 30 40 50 60100908070605040

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cells - the tiniest living units - can be as fully nourished as possible. This allows the cells to grow, repair and to perform their functions with the best possible efficiency, so that we feel and look better and are more able to prevent and fight disease. Once the body begins to clear itself of toxins, it can more efficiently absorb nutrition.

Nutritional supplements such as Herbalife’s Cellular nutrition provide All the nutrients needed to EVERY cell in the body. The kindest habit you can adopt for your health is a daily multi-supplement; it’s the most authentic all-year-round form of health insurance you can find.Enjoy health!

Nevil Kapadia is a Wellness Coach and owns and runs Think Slim and Trim. Nevil provides programmes and support to guarantee success. For more information, visit www.thinkslimntrim.co.uk

Vitamins and supplements – Vital nutrients or expensiVe con? Nevil Kapadia tells us more.

How fast sHould you be running? By Helen Maguire

of benefits that running offers: reduced risk of heart disease and diabetes, lower blood pressure, improved bones, muscles and joints, to name but a few.

And if you aren’t running yet? Well, now is the perfect time to start!

Helen Maguire is a Personal Trainer, Running Coach and the owner of Running Fit, which holds running courses in Hampton Court. Running Fit can help you start running or get back into it after a break. For further information, visit www.runningfitcoaching.co.uk

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Perimenopause is the time of transition from fertility and a more or less regular menstrual cycle, to the time of menopause when the ovaries stop producing eggs and periods cease. It lasts anywhere from a few months to several years (average length is 4 years) and the way women experience this period varies greatly.

Perimenopause generally starts in the late 40s to early 50s but can begin earlier or later. When a woman has gone through menopause and her periods have stopped for at least 1 year, she has reached postmenopause. Remember that although fertility declines in perimenopause, it IS still possible to fall pregnant.Symptoms of PerimenopauseDuring the perimenopause, periods become irregular, occurring anything from every couple of weeks to every few months. Other features include hot flushes, vaginal dryness, decreased libido, recurrent bladder infections or incontinence, mood swings, fatigue and difficulty sleeping.

There can be other underlying causes

for a change in periods, so if you have any concerns consult your doctor, in particular if your periods are very heavy or are accompanied by blood clots, last several days longer than usual or if you experience spotting between periods or after having intercourse. You should also see your doctor immediately if you experience any vaginal bleeding after your periods have stopped for 1 year, as any bleeding in the postmenopause is abnormal and must be investigated.

Getting regular physical exercise and enough sleep and relaxation, stopping smoking, decreasing your alcohol consumption and maintaining a healthy weight can all make your journey through perimenopause easier. Hormone replacement therapy can also be prescribed if you require additional help. This can be tailored to your individual needs, using the lowest dose needed for the shortest duration of time and only using bio-identical hormones to minimise side effects. Other medical options are low dose antidepressant medications.

Try to stay positive and treat this period of your life as yet another valuable experience.You ARE equipped to deal with it – just like you dealt with puberty, pregnancy and childbirth.

Exercising during your pregnancy is extremely important for both you and your baby and Pilates is an enjoyable and safe way to help you stay toned, relaxed and healthy right up to the birth of your baby.

Each trimester of your pregnancy places new demands upon your body. As your baby grows it can begin to place stress on your spine, especially

your lower back. Balance can be affected

too and your posture may change. Pilates can help your body cope with these changes by building the strength you will need to support your skeleton, as well as helping you maintain good movement in everyday life, which can contribute to a positive experience of pregnancy.

If you are thinking of an active birth, Pilates can help to encourage your baby to get in a good position, making childbirth easier to cope with. Useful breathing techniques, rest and relaxation exercises can also help ease the tension of labour.

Pilates can also help you to learn more about your body so that you can support yourself

are you in perimenopause?

extraDr Nele Dumpert is a Consultant gynaecologist and obstetrician at Richmond Practice which offers consultant-led gynaecological and obstetrics care. For more information or to book an appointment, visit www.richmondpractice.co.uk

Dr Nele Dumpert explains the symptoms.

wHy is pilates good for you during pregnancy and beyond?By Sarah Duley

in the birth of your choice. Everyone’s experience is unique, so your Pilates class should be designed and adapted to your own personal needs over the 40 weeks that your body is changing. It is important that you look for a suitable class.

Following the birth of your baby it is a good idea to return to a gentle exercise program as soon as you are able. This is usually about 3-4mths after birth.

There is a lot to cope with in these early days and you need to set aside a little time for yourself! Pilates will help you to relax, unwind and focus on your pelvic floor muscles, as well as helping you regain strength and good posture.

Life with a new baby is both challenging and rewarding. Pilates can help you gain a healthy body image and tone your body, welcoming you into motherhood. Exercises can be both harmonising and energizing, a perfect combination to help you look after yourself and, in so doing, look after your new family too.

Sarah Duley and her team at Pilates Plus in St Margarets, Twickenham, have been successfully guiding clients through pregnancy for over 10 years. For further information, visit www.pilates-plus.co.uk

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Children are born free from dental disease, yet, by adulthood, 95% of the population has active gum disease and most people have experienced some tooth decay and even tooth loss.

Luckily, tooth decay and gum disease can be prevented if effective dental care starts early and regular dental visits are maintained. Families should be encouraged to take their children to the dentist for their initial visit as soon as their first teeth appear. When to Start BrushingBy teaching children effective brushing techniques from a young age, they will take these skills into adulthood.

Start early! As soon as the first tooth appears, introduce your child to a toothbrush and toothpaste. Children up to 3 years old should use a toothpaste with a fluoride level of at least 1,000ppm (parts per million). After that we should all use toothpaste that contains between 1,350ppm and 1,500ppm.Children should use a pea-sized amount on their toothbrush and babies just a smear. How to Brush a Baby’s TeethBabies love putting things in their mouths, so hopefully they will automatically attempt to put their toothbrush in there too! Make teeth brushing fun and if all they want to do is chew on the brush to start with, let them

Make small circular movements with the brush, covering all tooth surfaces. Brush your own teeth at the same time as your child to encourage a good brushing style. Brush teeth twice a day and keep an eye on your child’s technique until they can be trusted to brush thoroughly on their own, at around 7 years old.FluorideFluoride occurs naturally in some foods, such as fish, and can help prevent tooth decay. Fluoride in toothpaste is very effective at reducing decay and some locations have fluoride added to the water supply. SPIT, DON’T RINSE after brushing, as rinsing washes away the fluoride in the toothpaste.

3 Top TipsReduce sugarParticularly damaging are sweet drinks (especially those in a bottle or with a sports cap), sweets and lollipops.limit juice to mealtimesFruit juice contains natural sugars that can cause decay. Dilute juice with water and limit it to mealtimes. Milk and water are best between meals. Eat sweets/chocolates in one sitting, rather than throughout the day This ensures that teeth are not exposed to sugar for as long.

caring for your cHild’s teetH: tHe first 5 years By Colin Houston

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our children do not enjoy the same kind of freedom we enjoyed as children. The world has changed and this is having a huge impact upon them.

From an early age children are under intense pressure to excel not only in academic studies but also with their outside activities, such as sport or music. The results of SATS tests and 11+ examinations have become so important for primary school league tables and for politicians who are constantly demanding better results, that children are often coached to get through these, at the expense of other learning. Pupils fear these tests as they pick up messages that they are critical to their future. If they don’t get good results, comments such as “I’m useless - I only got a 3” are not uncommon.

All children feel stress but react to it in different ways. Some exhibit negative behaviours such as anger, tantrums, or emotional outbursts, whilst others become irritable or even withdrawn. Others seem to combat stress or even perform better under stressful circumstances. Much depends on genetic make-up, psychology and the environment in which a child lives.

It’s normal for a child to demonstrate occasional signs of stress. However, if a child shows a range of stress-related behaviours (especially for no apparent reason) then parents may wish to

introduce simple stress-beating strategies. If problems persist, then professional support such as a psychologist or child therapist can be beneficial.

A young brain has to process vast amounts of information and in processing information, children, like adults, often take short cuts. In so doing, they can fall into using negative thinking traps. Do you recognise your child doing any of the following?Fortune-telling: predicting things will turn out badly. Mind-reading: assuming they know what others are thinking and that they are thinking the worst of them.over-generalisation: using words like “always” or “never” to describe situations or events eg ”I always get my maths wrong.”labelling: using negative words about themselves such as ‘loser.’

Instead of falling into these traps, a child needs to be encouraged to take a more rounded view of situations. For instance, examining all aspects – the positive, the negative and the neutral. This helps children think more rationally and view their environment in a more balanced way.

Beliefs and thinking patterns influence emotions and behaviour. By helping children address problematic beliefs and thoughts, behaviour and experiences can be altered for the better.

Signs of Stress in Childrenl Aggressive behaviourl Temper tantrumsl Loss of appetitel Nervousness/anxietyl Clumsinessl Regressing to baby talk/stutteringl Bedwettingl Thumb suckingl Hair twirlingl Cryingl Not sleeping/nightmaresl Lying/defying authorityl Stomach aches, headaches, illnessl Loss of concentrationl Change in academic performancel Lack of motivation/stop activitiesl Don’t want to go to schooll Difference in behaviour at school and home

Coping Strategies You Can Introducel More sleepl Better nutritionl More of your time to talk/be with theml Listening without judgingl Offering cuddles, reassurance, securityl Helping them to develop their emotional vocabularyl Relaxation gamesl Limiting stimulation of television/computerl Making things and painting/drawingl Reading storiesl Diverting attention to peaceful thoughts/places

Rowan Johnson co-owns Yellow Brick Road, a coaching practice for children that assists them with issues of confidence, behaviour and motivation in the areas of academic and life achievement, health and wellbeing and social and emotional development. For more information, visit www.yellow-brickroad.co.uk

could your cHild be under stress? Rowan Johnson advises.

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I was out walking last week and I overheard a father berate his son with the words: “What are you whining about now?” I am sure he was tired and feeling stressed but it struck me that this response really disrespected the feelings of his child and was consequently potentially damaging.

It got me thinking about the things that I personally have said or done that are disrespectful to my family members. Like smirking or laughing when one of them is speaking or talking over someone else. And teasing or discounting someone’s input.

Many people think about respect in a hierarchical way. In other words, the people at the top are the authority figures. They have more skills and therefore more power and those at the bottom, must therefore defer to them. In the past, families operated in accordance with this model, with parents as the authority figures.

A much more modern and effective approach is the team model, and this is the one we operate in our family. We are

all equal members of the same team. Parents are team leaders but everyone in the team is entitled to the same amount of respect. In this equal relationship, we treat each other as we would treat our best friends. We behave, act and interact respectfully. We point out the good and the bad we see in things and we respect each other’s views. If we don’t, cracks will appear in ‘team family.’

When I was at school we used to ‘have to’ go to visit a care home. I remember that it seemed like a huge sacrifice. However, the teacher that took us to this home is one of the people who taught me most about respect. She spoke and, more importantly, listened carefully to the elderly people at that home. She was really present with them. She looked in their eyes. She remembered their names. They were thrilled to see us each week and particularly loved this teacher of ours.

Children do that. They learn about respect primarily by watching their parents cultivate respect in their relationships with others.

As your children get older, it is important to respect their

decisions and they will respect your views far more if you can do this. Many times they will display as much maturity and good sense as you, and sometimes more. Children will also learn and grow from their mistakes, which will help them to make more mature decisions in the future.

Rewinding back to the father and son on my walk. What might have been a more helpful response from the father to his child? He could have acknowledged how his child was feeling by saying something like: “You sound fed up/frustrated.” For some children, hearing a parent acknowledge how they feel, is enough for them to move

on. Perhaps this father may have needed to go further and say something like: “Wouldn’t it be great if we had a magic carpet that picked us up and took us home when we are tired of walking!” Acknowledging the way his son felt again would have given him the sense that his father was meeting him exactly where he was emotionally, thus allowing him to let go of the negative emotion he was feeling.

Respect is so important in a family because it helps children to grow into adults who feel self-assured and can, themselves, respect others in society. It also fosters emotionally mature adults that can handle emotion because they are comfortable with their own feelings.

Alison Banks is a mother of 3 and founder and owner of Parenting Tutor which runs parenting and personal development courses for parents. These courses help them develop and nurture their interpersonal relationships in the healthiest, most fulfilling way possible. For more information, visit www.parentingtutor.co.uk

By Alison Banks

Sharing information to help the other person in a relationship or family develop skills and knowledge.listening and being receptive to how a person is feeling.not taking people for granted.Being polite and remembering to say “please” and “thank you,””hello” and “good-bye,”“good morning” and “good evening.”Allowing family members to make their own decisions, when appropriate. For example, respecting your teenage daughter’s choice in boyfriend, even when you don’t approve, but being there to support her if things don’t turn out so well.

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Recently a tragic accident at a local school resulted in the death of a young pupil and highlighted to parents the importance of knowing how to talk to our children about loss and grief.

It’s a sad fact, but at some point in their young lives, our children may lose a loved one. How do we help them process this loss and manage their grief?

There are as many ways of grieving as there are children. Everyone grieves in their own way, at their own pace. Most children model their parents, especially younger children. Very young children tend not to understand what death really means and so cannot accept that their loved one has gone. They think this person will be back. This changes when they get to about 6 years old. Then they begin to understand that the person who has died, isn’t coming back. They will have feelings about this but, at this age, can struggle with verbalizing them.

Honesty and direct, real language is the key to communicating with children about their loss. As parents, our natural instinct is to want to protect our offspring from sadness and loss, but most children do actually prefer to know what is going on. This gives them the chance to ask questions, and gives parents the opportunity to explain things.

Be clear with the words you use. Don’t be afraid to say ‘death’ and ‘dying’ otherwise your child will be confused. If you say you’ve ‘lost’ someone, a child may think this person can be found. If you say someone has ‘fallen asleep’ a child thinks the person can be woken, or they can be scared to go to sleep themselves.

Art can be very useful therapy

Supporting Your Grieving ChildBy Dan Bordoley for grieving children. When the

words run out, drawing a picture can be a way of communicating feelings. A useful exercise to do with your child is to divide a piece of paper into three sections: one to represent ‘before,’ one to represent ‘during’ and the third to represent ‘the future.’ Get your child to draw a picture in each area. It helps you to start a conversation and acknowledge what has happened but, importantly, reveals to your child that there is a future. This exercise can take some children 10 minutes and others much longer.

Take comfort in the fact that, it is more than likely that your child will be okay. Yes, theymay be changed and the experience will stay with them for life, but they will be okay.How sHould i talk to my grieVing cHildren?Tell them the truth. Excluding them can make them feel left out and resentful. By talking to them YOU control the information and keep communication channels open.use clear, real language. Don’t be afraid to use the words “death” and “dying.”let your children know it is fine to ask questions. They will have worries and concerns and verbalizing them can help keep these in perspective. Younger children will ask the same question over again. Be patient and prepared to repeat yourself often. Don’t hide your emotions from your children. By showing you are upset, you are giving them permission to show they are upset too. keep your boundaries in place. Children become confused when the boundaries they are used to disappear. If they’re badly behaved, tell them. If they’ve got a routine,

stick to it. You are helping them by offering stability at a time when life feels very unstable. look out for changes in behaviour – anger, anxiety, worry, fear of being abandoned. Their

fears may be irrational but listen and respond in a straightforward and truthful manner.

If you feel your child isn’t communicating or coping, then do seek professional support.

uSEFul WEBSITESChild Bereavement Charity www.childbereavement.org.ukChild Bereavement Network www.childhoodbereavementnetwork.org.ukWinston’s Wish www.winstonswish.org.ukCruse Bereavement Care (Richmond Office)www.crusebereavementcare.org.ukSurrey-based charity www.jigsaw4you.org.uk

Unfortunately, there is no manual for bringing up children and most of us find ourselves floundering sometimes and wishing there was an objective, knowledgeable and non-judgemental person we could consult about our parenting questions and issues.

In the light of this, Families upon Thames will shortly be introducing a new, interactive, parenting forum to its website called Ask Anne Denny.

Parenting expert and owner of Positive Parenting, Anne Denny, will be answering all your posts to Ask Anne Denny at www.familiesuponthames.co.uk. No question or issue is too great or too trivial!

Anne has spent her professional

life finding the best ways possible to help families overcome challenges and live life to the full. With a background in psychotherapy and an interest in child development, Anne is passionate about supporting parents of children from 18 months to 18 years and is established locally as the “must see” parenting specialist in the Surrey/Middlesex areas.

To find out more about Anne, visit www.annedenny.comand follow us on Twitter, Facebook and online to hear more about the launch of this new forum.

ask anne denny your burning parenting Questions!

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We asked Menus4Mums, the family meal planning gurus for their top meal planning tips.

The golden rule for a successful, happy and stress-free cooking session is to allow yourselves lots of TIME! Rushing when cooking by yourself is stressful and is 10 times worse when you have little hands trying to help!

Children are never too young to get involved in the kitchen. As soon as toddlers can sit in a highchair, they can be pulled up to the counter (away from the hob) and offered a colourful small mixing bowl with some soft ingredients and a soft spoon.

This is a great time to establish the rule that cooking with clean hands and clothes go together, so always start by putting on your aprons and washing your hands together. Remember those little fingers will be venturing in and out of little mouths to satisfy curiosity, so take care that your toddler’s ingredients are easy to swallow and don’t present

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a choking hazard. Chopped, soft bananas are great in a small bowl as they can be squished up further and are delicious to taste!

At this age it is advisable to keep young children well away from the hob, hot kettle, detergents , knives and other sharp cooking implements; there is plenty of time ahead to explore this side of the kitchen with less chance of injury. Although very young children should be protected in the kitchen, cooking with them provides the perfect opportunity to start to explain and warn them about the dangers

associated with no-go areas in the kitchen, using simple words with expression eg “hot,” “sharp,”“stingy,”“sore.”

As your young toddler develops, encourage him to role-play outside of the kitchen

using a miniature kitchen set, plastic fruit and vegetables, table settings, apron and hand washing toys. When helping in the kitchen, toddlers are keen to be really involved in mixing and measuring, so allow them to stand on a chair helping to spoon out the ingredients and take the time to discuss the colours, textures, flavours and names of ingredients, as well as practising counting. Allow lots of bowl and spoon licking too, as this encourages children to explore new flavours and textures. Children’s taste is more sensitive than adults so be conservative with flavours, introducing a little more over time.

If you remember to keep things simple and allow lots of time, cooking with your toddler will be a pleasurable experience and you will be rewarded with lots of smiles!

Menus4Mums can offer you extra help with meal planning. Membership starts from just £6.95, with shopping lists linked up to online supermarkets. For more information, visit www.menus4mums.co.uk and don’t forget to visit their blog at www.menus4mums.co.uk/category/top-tips if you fancy trying out their Pasta and Pancetta or Chicken Risotto recipes.

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Tip 1: Write a list of the family meals everyone likes – that way you can just cook the 1 meal each evening.Tip 2: If you’re always cooking the same 5 meals, resolve to try one new recipe each week, but make it quick and easy to avoid stress. Set aside 15 minutes of quiet time one evening every few weeks to take a look at recipes on the internet or in your recipe books.Tip 3: Think whether everyone will need feeding each night? When will you need a quick meal after an after-school activity? A speedy supper such as Pasta with Pancetta and Crème Fraiche is perfect for these types of evening.Tip 4: Plan a suitable meal for each day, ensuring that you have a good balance of protein (eg meats, fish, pulses), carbohydrates (eg potatoes, rice, pasta), and vegetables. Think about a range of interesting tastes and textures. The Eatwell Plate (pictured below) visually displays the proportions of each food-type needed for a well-balanced diet.Tip 5: Make sure you plan to use your leftovers in your meal plan. For instance, could you make a roast chicken on Sunday and use the leftovers for Chicken Risotto on Monday? Could you use leftover chicken in sandwiches or a salad for lunch the following day?Tip 6: Once you’ve made your plan, stick it on the fridge!Tip 7: Use your plan to make your shopping list, adding in household extras.• Remember that after a while, organising your meals in this way will become effortless and you’ll get the satisfaction of knowing you are feeding your family healthy, nutritious meals and making the most of all the food you buy.

Do you want to get organised in the kitchen and serve delicious, nutritious meals for your family? If so, meal planning is for you! Not only will you buy only the food you need, avoiding impulse shopping and wasting food and money, but you’ll also eat more healthily by planning ahead. You should also feel less stressed because you’ll know what you’ll be cooking for dinner and will have the food already, so no more frantic trips to the supermarket and wracking your brain for ideas at 5pm!

Cooking with Small ChildrenBy Susan Carmichael

Cooking with our children can be memorable, pleasurable, educational and messy – but the benefits far outweigh the flour spread across the counter and the sticky trail left on the kitchen floor!

Susan Carmichael owns Sassy Stirrers which holds Sassy Stirrers Cooking Club for children every month on a Saturday afternoon in the kingston and Esher areas. Sassy Stirrers also runs 2 to 3 hour holiday workshops and cooking parties, as well as lunch time and after school clubs in local schools. For more information, see pages 20 and 26 or visit www.sassystirrers.com

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When cooking with and for the family, safety and hygiene are paramount. But it’s not always easy to know how to ensure this and what kitchen utensils and equipment can help. We’ve teamed up with Titchy Kitch (www.titchykitch.co.uk) which offers cooking utensils and equipment especially designed for kids, to suggest the following solutions to your problems. ProblemMy child isn’t tall enough to reach the counter and I’m worried about using a chair or stool. How can I solve this problem? SolutionIf your child still uses a high chair, you can bring it as close to the counter as you can and get him to mix, pour or measure using the tray on his chair. Older

children can stand on the kind of plastic step that is often used for teeth brushing in the bathroom. If neither of these options work, Titchy kitch sells a great FunPod (pictured above), which safely elevates children aged 1 to 6 years to worktop height on an adjustable safety platform.

ProblemI can’t find a small enough wipe-clean apron for my little one.Solutiongone Digging (www.gonedigging.co.uk) offers personalized wipe-clean aprons in two sizes and the toddler sizes measures 15 inches wide by 26 inches high. Slightly cheaper and available in 5 fabulous colours, Titchy kitch wipe clean aprons (pictured above) offer the perfect start to any child’s cooking experience.

ProblemI cry when I chop onions? Help!SolutionBuy a Progressive onion Chopper. This is a great gadget which avoids tears by, containing containing the smell and vapours from the onion in a neat little compartment. These are available from www.bedbathandbeyond.com or www.titchykitch.co.uk.

ProblemAfter using pans on the oven top, my pan handles are too hot for my kids to handle. Is there a solution out there?SolutionYou need silicone ‘pan handles’ that neatly slip over your saucepan handle giving you a protective layer of silicone that won’t get too hot. These are inexpensive to buy - the Titchy kitch version (pictured right) is heat resistant to 300°c, dishwasher safe, guaranteed for 10 years and only costs £5.00.

ProblemMy hands smell really bad after I’ve been chopping smelly things like garlic, onions, and fish. My kids hate the smell on their hands when they cook too. Any ideas how to solve this?SolutionStainless steel is a great odour-eater. Onions, garlic and fish contain sulphur and this sulphur binds with one or more of the metals in stainless steel, to remove the offensive smells. Simply run this ‘soap bar’ under warm water and rub your hands together to shift the odours. You can buy one from www.prezzybox.com or from www.titchykitch.co.uk

By Linda Stone, Editor

ProblemHow do I stop cross-contamination of food during preparation?SolutionIt’s important that you have

ProblemMy oven gloves don’t protect my hands from the heat sufficiently.

SolutionYou need to look for some silicone oven gloves. These can withstand extremely high temperatures of up to 220°c.Titchy kitch silicone oven gloves (pictured left) come in green, pink and purple and have a removable, washable exterior and dishwasher safe interior for added convenience. You can also buy silicone oven gloves from lakeland (www.lakeland.co.uk) and other good kitchen suppliers.

a separate chopping board for fish, meat, vegetables and poultry. Labelling each board helps you keep cross contamina-tion to a minimum during food preparation.

If so, this is your chance to WIn one of 6 copies of QUiCK ANd EASY ToddLEr rECiPES, a brand new book by the UK’s number one parenting author and expert on baby and child nutrition, Annabel karmel’s published by Ebury Publishing (RRP £9.99). This is the first in the Quick and Easy series by Annabel Karmel.

The 144-page full-colour recipe book features over 100 delicious, nutritious, time-saving recipes full

Try out this delicious recipe from Annabel karmel’s new book QUiCK ANd EASY ToddLEr rECiPES and don’t forget to enter our competition to WIn a copy of this book for yourself.Recipe makes 8-10 frittersIngredients1 egg50g self-raising flour1 tbsp milk1 tbsp sweet chilli sauce100g courgette, grated50g carrot, grated4 spring onions, sliced2 tbsp canned sweetcorn, drained50g mature Cheddar, gratedA little oil, for frying

Carrot, Courgette and Sweetcorn Fritters

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⬣ Beat the egg in a mixing bowl, then beat in the flour and milk until smooth. ⬣ Add the remaining ingredients and season.⬣ Heat the oil in a frying pan. Take spoonfuls of the mixture and fry them for 2-3 minutes each side until lightly golden, turning over halfway through. You may have to do this in batches, so keep the cooked fritters warm while you cook the rest.

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To Enter: Go to our website at www.familiesuponthames.co.uk and answer the following question:How many pages are there in “Quick and Easy Toddler Recipes?”

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of natural flavour, using everyday kitchen ingredients and covering breakfast, healthy snacks lunch and dinner. With easy-to-follow instructions, it includes tricks to encourage children to eat well and experiment with new flavours, as well as chapters focusing on key food groups.

Safety and Hygiene in the Kitchen

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Trixibelle Harrowell, Age 9, TwickenhamA tip for parents is to do something for your child. Let them decide what kind of party they want and how many people to invite. They can be very creative and will do most of the planning if you set some guidelines!

S – Supplies. Make sure you get more supplies than you think you

need, whether that’s food, paper plates and cups, balloons, candles, invitations or plasters/icepacks. There will always be one parent who ignores the invite for one of their children and drops them all off instead, one child who bursts all the balloons right at the start, or one that drops their plate on the floor and loses all their food! The key to a successful party is in the preparation and, once you’ve purchased supplies, 75% of the preparation is done.

M – Music. Whether it’s party tracks to get the children dancing

and running around, or calmer music to encourage a relaxed mood while they eat, the right music at a party can make the difference between a fabulous atmosphere and no atmosphere at all. Music can also help control

the mob! Give strict instructions at the beginning of the party that whenever the music stops, the children must stand still. In essence, this turns the party into a 2-hour version of musical statues, but children of any age understand this rule, it saves you trying to shout over their noise, and turning the music off is a great way of signalling that the party is over!

Aadam Shahzad, Age 7, HamptonIf you’re having your first party, don’t have too many people because it could get chaotic. If this does happen the best way to control it is to put your hand up and count to 5. Tell the guests they should be silent once you count to 5! Also, when it is the end of the party, there could be lots of presents waiting for the birthday boy or girl, so make sure you take plenty of bin bags to put them in!

I – Invitations. Invitations might seem like a pretty obvious party essential, but

nowadays they need to include a lot more information than the date, time and location. Make sure you leave space to request contact numbers in case of an emergency, allergy details, and strict instructions for parents to collect children on time and ensure they wear suitable clothing!

Alice Fraser and Shakira Rose nsiyakala, Age 10, richmondOur idea of a perfect party is to involve your child as much as possible – let them make the invites, fill the party bags and make a cake. Or instead of making a cake, you could make a biscuit tower!

L – lists. With the above details from your invitations, create one

list with the children’s names and

tick the ones that are attending. Include their emergency contact details, allergies, or other instructions from their parents (like if they have to leave early or go home with another parent), then you can carry the list with you and have all of the information in one place.

Take The Stress Out Of Party Organisation – just SMILE!

Melanie Taylor and some of her Little Star Writers offer their advice.

E – Entertainment. You don’t have to use most of your budget on a clown

or magician. Of course, there are plenty of professional entertainers available, but alternatives include your local leisure centre, sports club or soft play centre, where the children are cared for by professional childcare experts in a safe environment. You could visit a pottery café where they help children make beautiful ceramics, or choose from a wide variety of themed parties. You will find many suggestions for local providers in these pages! Or

Organising your child’s birthday party can be stressful. Your child is likely to have a very clear idea of the kind of party he wants, with no regard to timeframe, budget or your sanity! With SO many party ideas to choose from and fierce competition between children at school to have the “best” party, it’s very easy to get wrapped up in wish lists, or spend hours on research, when the elements that make up a successful party are actually pretty simple.

Siobhan Wing (Parent): Get a mobile number from parents and text them details a couple of days before the party, providing directions and confirming timings. This reminds them of the event and prevents last minute phone calls on the day from confused parents!

YOU can become the entertainer – you know your child the best, after all. Bring together their favourite things and host the party at home, following it with a birthday meal with their favourite foods.

Millie Tolmie, Age 9, TwickenhamI had a Moshi Monsters Disco, which sounds quite stressful but was so much fun. We bought party cups and plates from Amazon and danced to the Moshi Monsters album. We bought some picky food from the supermarket and put Moshi Monster treats (also from Amazon) into party bags.

Parties don’t have to be stressful – just don’t forget to SMIlE!

Melanie Taylor runs the little Star Writers creative writing programme in Surrey. Melanie will shortly be commencing Saturday workshops in Twickenham and Walton. For further details, see page 24.

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lily Scott, Age 12, Hampton HillI love swimming parties because I enjoy swimming and having fun with my friends. You can go to Pools in the Park (www.poolsonthepark.com), Hampton Open Air Pool (www.hamptonpool.co.uk), or your local leisure centre, and when you have built up an appetite, you can refuel by having food with your friends.

our Suggestions: Elmbridge Xcel Leisure Centre in Walton and Kingfisher Leisure Centre in kingston (www.dcleisure.co.uk).

olivia Weeks, Age 10, WhittonThe best party for children under 8 is at Heathrow Gym or another kind of indoor play centre. Children can play all day and have fun without parents having to entertain them. My invitations are always cool – they have balloons in the shape of the age I am going to be.

our Suggestions: Snakes and ladders (www.snakes-and-ladders.co.uk) in Isleworth, Teeney Weenies Play Cafe (www.teeneyweenies.co.uk) in Teddington, little Hamsters Play Cafe (www.littlehamsters.co.uk) in Ham, The Pod Soft Play (www.thepodatymca.org) in kingston and Piglets Play Centre (www.pigletsplaycentre.co.uk) in Hersham.

Abigail Malkinson, Age 9, WhittonFootball parties are the BEST way of celebrating a birthday. Even if you’re not a football fan, you can enjoy trying new tricks like keepy-ups and high kicks.

James Fraser, Age 8, richmondMy favourite party was my football party. At the end we played a match. I scored the winning goal and I got a trophy. My mum thought this was a great party because she could just relax and not do anything. My top tip for parents would be to give the party bags to the parents when they collect their children so the kids don’t empty the contents and mess the room up as you are trying to clean!

our Suggestions include: little kickers (www.littlekickers.co.uk) and Footie Tots (www.footie-tots.co.uk) and rugby parties on offer from Rugby Tots (www.rugbytots.co.uk)

Sushmita Chandramouly, Age 7, richmondI like having make-up parties where the kids do each other’s make-up. You can put left over make-up in the party bags and the cake can be an edible make-up box made out of icing. Make sure you remember make-up, towels, music and mirrors!

our Suggestions: The orange Tree Clinic (www.orangetreeclinic.com) in Teddington offers Pamper Parties for girls who may also enjoy a disco and karaoke party from Popstarz (www.popstarzparties.co.uk)

Jude Rimmer, Age 11, PetershamGo Karting parties are the best! You can race around the track and have fun on the karts with your friends.

our Suggestions: kiddi karts (www.kiddikarts.co.uk) offers

parties locally. Or for children over 8, try a Mini Tank party from Mini-Tank Elite (www.minitankelite.co.uk)

Cordelia Broom, Age 10, TwickenhamFor my 10th birthday I had a roller disco! It was really easy to host because all you have to do is pay for the party and then drop your children off. You roller skate around for a while and then you play some games.

our Suggestions: Thamesmead School leisure Centre in Shepperton offers roller disco parties (www.blueleisure.com)

katya Medved, Age 10, TeddingtonI prefer parties that have a theme like jungle, fairies, pirates or a spooktacular party! I also like tea parties where the food is fun and different – like different shaped carrots and cucumbers, delicious cookies, sandwiches and sweets.

our Suggestions: Bedazzled Events (www.bedazzledevents.org.uk) offer fabulous bespoke themed parties tailored to your child’s vision!

natalie Sholaongpet, Age 10, Twickenham‘Party’ is the definition of fun. Firstly you need a good theme, like The Wizard of Oz or Harry Potter. You’ll also need good

decorations. You can either buy some or make your own with paper, colouring pens, blue tack or tape. You could also make your own games or buy costumes for guests to wear.

Try A Party Palace (www.apartypalace.co.uk) in Sheen for all your party supplies as well as fabulous dressing up costumes.

Maisie Veitch, Age 9, TwickenhamMy friend had a Pizza Express party in year 2. I’m now in year 4 and I would love to have that party! You make pizzas and have different toppings to choose from. Then your masterpiece is cooked and you get to eat it!

Sassy Stirrers (www.sassystirrers.co.uk) and Busy Bakers (www.busybakers.co.uk) offer baking parties for kids locally.

With thanks to Melanie Taylor from little Star Writers, for facilitating the contributions to this article.

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My Best Party Is... We asked children from the Little Star Writers creative writing programme to tell us about their favourite parties.

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IMPRESS YouR FRIEnDS!Take to the High Ropes at Hobbledown! For Children 1.3 metres high or taller!If your child has outgrown a typical kid’s PARTY, consider an action-packed party at Hobbledown, the kids adventure park and zoo in Epsom.

At a High Ropes Adventure Party, party-goers can master the daring, high ropes challenge, an aerial obstacle course on which only the bravest children balance from walkway to walkway elevated between the crooked towers of the Hobbledown Village. Party goers will enjoy exclusive use of the high ropes for 45 minutes, followed by 45 minutes for a Hobbler Party Feast in one of the themed party rooms. Hobbledown takes care of everything you could possibly need including invitations, party bags full of goodies, a host a nd a free gift for the birthday child.

Plan to make a day of it, because as well as the party, you will be able to enjoy all the other attractions Hobbledown offers, including The Hobbledown Barn, a 14,000 square foot indoor play area, with two enormous play frames and 3 enormous outside play zones, The Hoblings Play Village, The Mining Village and the Hobbledown Village, which offer the prospect of adventure, intrigue and investigation at every turn. And don’t forget to make time to say hello to Hobbledown’s unique selection of animals!

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Fabulous Party Ideas For Kids Of All AgesTurn your local leisure centre into Silverstone for the day! For children aged 4 to 8Children as young as 4 can safely handle the easy-to-operate go-karts operated by kiddi karts. With one pedal to stop and go, and nothing else but steering to master, your child and friends will soon be zooming around Kiddi Kart’s inflatable circuit. All that is required is a little bit of co-ordination. And if kids do need a little help, one of the Kiddi Karts staff will be on hand.

Each party starts with a short instruction session, and then the go-karts are off, 4 at a time, around the track. Driving lasts about an hour and all children receive medals at the end in a special presentation session, with the birthday child also receiving a trophy.

Kiddi Karts parties have the perfect ingredients for a fun, engaging and memorable driving experience and can be held either inside or out, meaning weather is never a concern. Use your back garden or bring the party inside at a local leisure centre

ACT lIkE THE BIg guYS!Drive a mini British Army Tank on a specially designed track! For children aged 8 upwardsApps Farm in Walton upon Thames now houses the first and only specially designed Mini Tank track in the South East of England – and you can have a party there!

An adrenalin-pumping alternative to go-karts and quad bikes, Mini Tank parties, offered by Mini Tank Elite, allow children to

ride genuine miniature versions of the real military tanks used in the British Army. Great fun for children (and adults), the tanks are completely safe for

children to operate alone. 90 minute sessions are offered for parties, during which children take turns riding the Mini Tanks. They won’t be bored when not driving either because, whilst waiting their turn, Mini Tank Elite sets up mini shooting games in its marquee which can also be used to serve food after the driving session.

These parties offer brilliant outdoor excitement and the tanks can run in all weathers (even snow), so parents can relax knowing their children are safe driving around in tanks designed for the job.

Mini Tank Elite is run by local husband and wife team, Angelina and Phil, who were inspired to set up their company after a visit to Duxford Airshow with their son, who rode in a Mini Tank there. He was so captivated by the experience that Angelina and Phil spotted a new business opportunity for the family and Mini Tank Elite launched in November 2012.

3For further information, visit www.minitankelite.co.uk

and Kiddi Karts will bring its fully mobile unit to you. Alternatively, head for Elmbridge Xcel leisure Centre, Tolworth Recreation Centre or one of the other Kiddi Karts partner venues in the local area.

‘Wow’, ‘absolutely brilliant’ and ‘the best party ever’ are just some of the words used by children (and parents) at the end of their Kiddi Karts party.

3For more information, visit www.kiddikarts.co.uk

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We are lucky enough to live in a part of the world where there are opportunities at every turn for our kids to tap into their creativity.

DRAW AnD PAInT IT!The Art Class ([email protected]) in Sunbury, Lynette Pitzolu offers bespoke art and craft parties

from sculpture, to sewing to collage, for children ages 5 to 12 from her own purpose-built studio and with work with you to tailor a highly individual and memorable party for up to 20 children. Alternatively, ceramics cafes/studios offer great party packages for kids of all ages allowing them to be creative, have fun with their friends and take home their creations at the end of the day. Great venues include Ceramics Café, kew (www.ceramicscafe.com) The Happy Potter (www.happypotter-ceramics.co.uk) in Teddington and The Pottery and Craft Studio (www.thepotteryandcraftstudio.

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Be a soldier for the day. Drive miniature British Army tanks on a specially

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Fabulous Party Ideas For Kids Of All AgesBy Linda Stone

IMAgInE IT!If you are looking for a party that will captivate the attention of your baby, or stimulate the imagination of your toddler/pre-schooler, then gymboree (www.gymboree-uk.com) offers Play and learn parties tailored to a theme of your choice, whether it be princesses, pirates or Peppa Pig! Encouraging imaginative play, Gymboree’s specially patented equipment becomes a pirate ship

Check our directory on page 19 for more details about these parties, as well as many other party options!

com) in Thames Ditton. PERFoRM IT!Themed drama parties are available for children from age 1 upwards! Local favourites include Stagecoach

(www.stagecoach.co.uk), which offers dance, drama and song for children between 4 to 8 years and Perform (www.perform.org.uk) which offers parties for children from 1 to 12. And not forgetting the impressive Theatrebugs (www.theatrebugs.co.uk) which offers story-based adventure

or royal castle as your child races away from the pirates or dances at a ball! Babies can enjoy their favourite songs and activities, balls, bubbles, parachutes and tunnels.

Gymboree also offers offsite Play and Learn parties at your home or in a venue of your choice.

nEW! gymboree St Margarets is now working with local restaurant, Brula, as well as a local cake maker, to offer fully catered parties with a comprehensive menu for a one Stop Shop party solution.gRooVE To IT!Little ones between 2 and 4 years will love the magical parties on offer from babyballet (www.babyballet.co.uk). These parties entertain with a selection of your child’s favourite babyballet dances and songs as well as classical party games.

BE PART oF IT!Jam packed with rugby-themed play and party games, Rugbytots (www.rugbytots.co.uk) birthday parties are suitable for children as young as 2 and parents are encouraged to get involved, which for many is an added bonus!

“Ben’s party was fantastic,” says Caroline from kingston. “All the children had so much fun and it was great that the parents could get involved too – such a nice touch! I’ve been recommending Rugbytots parties to everyone and we will definitely be in touch again for my younger one’s birthday – he loved it!”

Carolina praises the coaches for their professional approach. “Martino’s party was a real blast. Everything was super organised and the children weren’t distracted for a single minute. Parents were very impressed with how well the coach handled the children while keeping them entertained.” And a Rugbytots party isn’t just for children who know or like rugby. Rebecca in Barnes says:“My son James had his 7th birthday at Rocks Lane. There were a lot of mixed ability boys, some who knew rugby well, and others who were learning it for the first time that day.

And the Rugbytots training really helped make the day very special.”

FOR THE CREATIVE parties for 2 to 3 year with songs, instruments, parachute and bubbles, and drama games, improvisa-tion and dressing for those aged 4 to 8. Alternatively, Storytelling Adventures (www.bridgeac.com) brings to live your child’s favourite book in an interactive storytelling and drama party.DAnCE IT!Dance parties are very popular and kate’s School of Dance (www.katesschoolofdance.co.uk) offers themed dance parties incorporating various dance styles or a dance fitness party with Zumbatomic, whilst Enerjetix (www.enerjetix.co.uk) offers parties for 1 to 11 year olds. Popstarz (www.popstarzparties.co.uk) offers a high-energy disco dance party with karaoke, lights and bubbles and wacky party games!

ESPECIALLY FOR THE 0 TO 5s!

MoVE To IT!Pre-schoolers love to sing, jig about and make lots of noise with instruments, babies are entranced by music and toddlers can’t sit still! These things combined make music parties, with their opportunities for movement and plentiful supply of colourful props, a perfect option for the 0 to 5 age group. Monkey Music (www.monkeymusic.co.uk) offers music parties for pre-schoolers throughout South West london and Surrey, whilst growing independent, Caterpillar Music (www.caterpillarmusic.com), focusses on Hampton, kingston, Richmond, Twickenham and Teddington.

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The most important step is to choose a theme, which could be your child’s favourite characters, colours, seasons or perhaps a combination of all three! I am going to use a Space & Planet party we recently designed as an example.

Now it’s time to get inventive and imaginative. Our first port of call is always the fabulous site Pinterest.com, where we create a mood board around the chosen theme. This is an easy and creative way to organise your own ideas as well as be inspired by others. Once your party is over you may wish to revisit the site to share your own images, I warn you it can get a little addictive!

Once you have the theme, break down your budget across the different elements of the party. For us, this breakdown

differs from party to party as each family likes to put the emphasis on different factors. For example, for some the decorations are most important, whilst others

focus on catering, or party bags. Make sure you give careful thought to how you want to spend your budget and what will make the party personal and special for your child. Once you have the mood board and budget break down, get planning!

For the Space and Planet party, we started with a colour scheme of blue, orange and red, with a white space rocket to design the invitations. This gave us a clear starting point from which to design the other elements of the party. You can have your invites specially designed, or if you are whizz on the computer, you can design them yourself and then have them printed.

To ensure our theme runs throughout the party, we love focusing on every small detail, including the tablecloths, napkin holders, labels, party bags and even bows! An easy, effective way to create an impact at your venue is to buy several metres of

one material that fits your colour and theme, then cut it to make tablecloths for all the tables, for instance, the party table, sweetie table, party bag table and so on. With the left over material, tying bows on other items at the party, for example, the juice jug or even on the backs of every chair, can be really effective. Once the party is over you can then wash the material, perhaps recycle for another party or get creative making cushions!

We use themed freestanding backdrops, 3D props, flooring, balloons and bunting to create a magical environment in the party entertainment area of the venue and then, depending on budget, extend the theming out to the rest of the venue. The theming is designed to appeal to not only children, but also the adults. We do this by using a variety of props displayed at different heights with

some items at eye level for the children and also huge, larger than life items, for example, an astronaut at our Space and Planet party which the children loved and the adults found impressive! If you haven’t got a huge budget for theming but would still like to decorate your venue, you and your children can make amazing DIY decorations. Take a look at this great website for ideas www.danamadeit.com/tutorials.

Make sure you allow yourself plenty of time to plan the party and try not to leave anything until the last minute. Preparing a check list is always useful, as is going through everything the day before to make sure everything is good to go. This way you can relax and enjoy the party too. Don’t forget to book a photogra-pher or appoint a family member to take photos of your happy child at the perfect party!

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Create Your Child’s Perfect Themed Party!We asked Juliet from party-planning company Bedazzled Events to tell us how to create your child’s perfect themed party just like the professionals!

extraJuliet is the Founder of Bedazzled Events, a London-based party planning service that plans unique parties for all ages, working to your chosen budget and theme of your choice to create your perfect party. Check www.pinterest.com/bedazzledevents/space-party to find out more about Bedazzled’s Space and Planet party. For more information, visit www.bedazzledevents.org.uk

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action and adVentureHobbledown HigH Ropes AdventuRe and Hobbledown Hobblings plAy bARn pARtiesAges: For High Ropes: Min height 1.3m and maximum age 13 yrs. Party time: 2 hours + full day entry.A High Ropes Adventure party is the ultimate way to spend an action-packed birthday and perfect if your child has outgrown a typical kid’s party. The birthday child and their friends enjoy exclusive use of Hobbledown’s daring high ropes course, as well as enjoying all of the other attractions that the adventure farm park has to offer, plus a Hobbler Party Feast in a themed party room. Younger children can have a Hoblings Play Barn party, enjoying a fun-packed hour in the Hobblings Play Barn and another hour in one of the themed Hobbler rooms or themed tables for the party feast.In: EpsomContact: 0843 289 4979 www.hobbledown.comKiddi KARtsAges: 4 to 8. Party time: 1 hr of driving.Kiddi Karts has the perfect ingredients to create memorable driving experiences for children. Safe, easy-to-operate go-karts are set up in a challenging inflatable circuit, all under the watchful eye of fully trained, CRB registered staff who manage everything in a fun and engaging way.In: kingston, Teddington, Richmond, Twickenham, Chessington, Staines, Walton and leatherhead.Contact: Laura Palmer01932 770770 www.kiddikarts.co.ukMini tAnK eliteAges: 8+. Party time: 1.5 hrs.Mini Tank parties allow children to ride genuine miniature versions of the real military tanks used in the British Army. The tanks are completely safe for children to operate alone. During parties, children take turns riding the Mini Tanks. Whilst waiting their turn,

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Mini Tank Elite sets up mini shooting games in its marquee which can also be used to serve food after the driving session.In: Walton Contact: Angelina 07783 293866 www.minitankelite.co.ukart & craftARt ClAssAges: 5 to 12. Party time: 2 to 2.5 hrs.Bespoke parties covering a broad range of activities from sculpture to sewing to collage. The Art Class will work with you to tailor a highly individual event for up to 20 children in its purpose built studio and will ensure a truly memorable party about which everyone will be talking. In: SunburyContact: Lynette Pitzolu07971 475373 [email protected]: All. Party time: 2 hrsSet your child’s imagination free and watch a masterpiece be created, whilst Ceramica puts the ‘art’ into their birthday party. Creative, fun-filled party packages cater for a variety of budgets and needs. Large parties (8 or more painters) are held on Sundays, with a minimum charge for up to 8 painters and a price per head thereafter. Bring your own party food and cake or arrange for a local supplier to deliver to the café.In: ClaygateContact: Hannah Young01372 462447 www.ceramica-claygate.co.ukCeRAMiCs CAféAges: up to 16. Party time: 1.5-2 hrs.Ceramics Cafe is an ideal venue for kids parties. Party groups of any size can be accommodated. Painting ceramics offers children opportunity for creative fun and expression.In: kewContact: Joanna Wronka020 8332 6661 www.ceramicscafe.comHAppy potteRAges: All. Party time: 1.5 hrs.

A great way to entertain kids of all ages. The party pack includes bisque, paints, glazing, firing, food, drink, party bags, invitations and balloons.In: TeddingtonContact: Una Fagan020 8973 1468 www.happypotterceramics.co.ukpotteRy And CRAft studio tHAMes dittonAges: 4 and up. Party time: 1.5-2 hrs.The party package includes a piece of pottery for each child chosen from 3 ranges and the birthday girl/boy gets a party plate. The parties are available during open hours and on Sundays and advance booking is essential.In: Thames DittonContact: Sue Lewis020 8398 6681 www.thepotteryandcraftstudio.combaby & cHild deVelopmentgyMboReeAges: 1 to 5. Party time: 2 hrs.Gymboree offers Play and Learn parties tailored to a theme of your choice, whether it be princesses, pirates or

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Peppa Pig! Babies can enjoy their favourite songs and activities, balls, bubbles, parachutes and tunnels. Gymboree also offers offsite Play and Learn parties at your home or in a venue of your choice. Gymboree also offers Art and Craft parties for toddlers to children aged 7 years.In: Richmond, kingston, Hounslow areas and north and West SurreyContact: St Margarets 020 8607 9995, Surbiton 020 8398 9360, West Byfleet 01932 353313www.gymboree-uk.comtHe little gyMAges: 1 to 12. Party time: 1.5 hrs.Fun, gymnastics-based parties in The Little Gym’s purpose-built facility. Each party is led by 2 instructors and the birthday child and their friends will have The Little Gym® all to themselves to enjoy games, music and fun activities created especially for them. In the bright, cheerful surroundings,The Little Gym’s team will be on-hand to ensure parents get to sit back and relax and that the party goes like clockwork.In: Hampton Hill Contact: Lorna Sutton020 8977 0099 www.thelittlegym.co.uktoddleR sense teddingtonAges: 2 to 5. Party time: Variable

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Toddler Sense parties are full of variety, action-packed and fast moving. They also vary according to the age of the children and the chosen party theme. Toddler Sense parties can be easily adapted to suit any theme from pirates to princesses. The alternatives are endless!In: TeddingtonContact: Sarah Taylor07970 796606 www.babysensory.co.ukcookerybusy bAKeRsAges: 4 to 12. Party time: 1-2 hrs.Busy Bakers provides bespoke party entertainment available in your own home or any venue with kitchen facilities. A unique party experience is guaranteed, combining art and craft,

baking and traditional party games which are guaranteed to put a smile on every child’s face. In: london and the South WestContact: Jessica Meyrick 07766 135907 www.busybakers.co.uksAssy stiRReRsAges: 5 to 12. Party time: 2 hrs.Truly memorable cooking parties in which children are entertained with bowl-licking fun for 2 hours with very little stress for parent. Sassy Stirrers provides all the ingredients, equipment, aprons and fun! Children take home party bags loaded with their freshly baked treats and recipe cards. Very popular, so book early!In: Richmond to guildford.Contact: Susan Carmichael07789 792676 www.sassystirrers.comdancebAbybAlletAges: 2 to 7. Party time: 1 hr.Magical babyballet parties for 2 to 4 year olds will entertain your child and guests with a fantastic selection of their favourite babyballet dances and songs, as well as all the classic party games. For 4 to 7 year olds, babyballet Groovy Disco Parties combine a mixture of funky dance routines with classic party games and guarantee the funkiest party around.In: new Malden, Wimbledon, Epsom, Reigate, Redhill, Dorking.Contact: Ayse Somra01737 227039 www.babyballet.co.ukKAte’s sCHool of dAnCeAges: 4 to 12. Party time: 1-2 hrs.Dance parties can be designed around a theme, if requested, and can include street dance, contemporary or jazz

dance styles or even a dance fitness party from Zumbatomic. Free dance class voucher for each child!In: Isleworth, Richmond, Chiswick and surrounding areas.Contact: Kate Broughtonwww.katesschoolofdance.co.uk twinKle toesAges: 2 to 7 Party time: Variable.Enchanting and magical parties for boys and girls which can bring to life a theme of your choice through stories and adventures, with dancing games, props, costumes and a fantastic variety of music. Set price for up to 14 children and additional price per child. Parties can be held in halls, homes gardens and parks! Twinkle Toes will run the full party and parents can sit back and relax.In: Richmond and surrounding area.Contact: Jessica Williams07879 521456 [email protected] and storytellingbRidge stoRytelling AdventuResAges: 2 and up. Party time: 1-2 hrs.An interactive, drama-based workshop devised around your child’s favourite book. The storyteller takes the children on an ‘adventure’ through the story book during which they take on the roles of the characters. With the birthday boy or girl in the starring role, the child adventurers act out scenes from the book, create the atmosphere / locations, singing and dancing their way through the story.In: Richmond and surrounds.Contact: Amanda Wright020 3222 3085 www.bridgeac.com

peRfoRMAges: 1 to 12. Party time: 1 hrPerform parties are high energy, fun and totally infectious and kids just can’t resist joining in all the activities. Based around a colourful theme and involving lots of lively games, Perform uses the power of children’s imaginations to get everyone involved.In: Esher, Isleworth, kew, kingston, Richmond, Sunbury, Surbiton, Teddington, Twickenham, Weybridge0845 400 1284 www.perform.org.ukstAgeCoACHAges: 4 to 16. Party time: 2-2.5 hrs.Packed full of fun, lively party entertain-ment including dramatic games, fabulous songs and fun for everyon, each party is specifically tailor-made for a particular age group. Whether your child wishes to be a fairy, princess, pirate or detective, there’s a Stagecoach party to suit.In: Chertsey 0845 265 7081, Hinchley Wood 01932 254333, Hounslow 0845 078 0804, kew 020 8487 1456, new Malden 020 8540 7791, Richmond 020 8332 6741, Staines 0845 055 6356, Twickenham 020 8224 6905, Weybridge 01932 422664. www.stagecoach.co.uktHeAtRebugsAges: 2 to 8. Party time: 45 mins to 1.5 hrsTheatrebugs offers a full range of exciting, imaginative and affordable party packages. A Theatrebugs party for 2 to 3 year olds is a story based adventure, jam packed with puppets, song, rhyme, fingerplay, instruments, parachute time and bubbles. A Theatrebugs party for 4 to 8 year olds is an interactive, fun-filled journey, jam packed with unique drama games, improvisation, dressing up and good old fashioned fun! 10% discount in some areas in May/June!In: kingston, Richmond, Teddington, Claygate, oxshott, Thames Ditton, WeybridgeContact: greater london 0800 975 5290,Epsom & Surrounds 01483 882244www.theatrebugs.co.ukentertainmentoCtopus pARtiesAges: 3 to 10. Party time: 1-2 hrs.Octopus Parties takes children on a journey through: time, oceans, jungles,

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space, forests or fairyland! With interactive storytelling mixed with activities, music, dance, song and party games to suit your child’s passion and age, Octopus Parties turns every party into a special one!In: Surbiton, kingston upon Thames, Epsom, Wimbledon, Putney and other surrounding areas in Surrey and london.Contact: Johanna07807 055858 www.octopusparties.compopstARzAges: 5 to teens. Party time: 2 hrs+Get ready for an unforgettable party packed full of musical mayhem and madness including dance routines, X Factor krazy karaoke, groovy lights and bubbles and wacky party games such as dress-up and relay games. Tailor made parties to suit any theme and budget at your home or hired venue.In: greater london & Surrey Contact: Adrian Maha07785 790898 www.popstarzparties.co.uksilveRbAll leisuReAges: All. Party time: VariableSilverball Leisure is a total entertain-ment solution, providing bouncy castles, face painting, snow machine, bubble machine, giant garden games and Surfboard Simulator. Full scale, fully interactive “proper” disco, with dance teaching, instruments and props, makes this a party everyone can and will join in.In: greater london and SurreyContact: Richard Holmes07770 232616 www.silverball-leisure.co.uktiM bARnesAges: All. Party time: 0.5 to 2 hrs.Tim has been entertaining children both across the UK and overseas for over 25 years. The laughter is loud, the fun is non-stop, and the smiles are always a mile wide! Tim can offer just a magic show, or a full party with games, music, bubbles, balloon modelling, party bags and more. Watch as a birthday cake is baked by magic, a bowling ball appears from

thin air and a member of the audience is levitated right in front of your eyes! In: greater london & SurreyContact: Tim Barnes020 8568 5706 www.timbarnes.bizfarm & animalsboCKetts fARMAges: All. Party time: 1 hr + farm visit.Fantastic party package includes a day at Bocketts Farm Park, birthday lunch or tea, private animal handling session, free adult entry for every 2 children, a Bocketts balloon and animal mask and invitations. At Bocketts, children can get up close and feed animals, as well as enjoying 2 large play barns, one with astroslide, a Young Tractor Drivers Zone and Supersix trampolines. Outside there are swings, slides, climbing frames, sandpits and a maze, as well as tractor and trailer rides.In: leatherhead01372 363764 www.bockettsfarm.comHounslow uRbAn fARM RoAdsHow pARtiesAges: All. Party time: 2 hrs.2 party styles to choose from! Enjoy a birthday party on the farm, catered or uncatered, abd you get to choose 3 of the following activities: an animal encounter, pig race, egg hunt, meet the owl session, scarecrow making or a farm tour. Birthday child gets a free family pass and for every 10 children, 6 adults are admitted free and thereafter at a discounted rate. Minimum booking 10 children. Alternatively, The Urban Farm can bring snakes, lizards, mini-beasts, frogs and a giant python to you for an animal encounter. An experienced handler will explain the behaviour and habitat of the creatures and how they are fed and cared for and children can handle them under supervision. Can be tailored to specific age ranges.In: Surrey and MiddlesexContact: Alice Purdy020 8831 9658 www.hounslowurbanfarm.co.ukpARK lAne stAblesAges: All. Party time: To suit.Parties begin with the children being

fitted with safety equipment. Then they are introduced to the horses and shown how to groom them by a BHS instructor. This is followed by a birthday ride in Bushy Park, during which children learn all the basics of riding, such as stopping, walking and turning. The children will also play games such as Eye Spy and Simon Says and the birthday girl or boy rides back to Park Lane Stables to a chorus of Happy Birthday from their friends. After the ride, children can have party food in our private party room, which you can decorate to your own taste. Depending on location, ponies can also be brought to your home. In: TeddingtonContact: Natalie O’Rourke07796 842328 www.parklanestables.co.ukglamouroRAnge tRee glAMouR pARtiesAges: 7 to 16. Party time: 2 hrs.These parties are a real treat for young girls who can enjoy being pampered in a beautiful clinic with their friends. They can relax to the sounds of calming spa music or listen/sing to their favourite tracks whilst having a facial, nail paint and hand massage. There is the option to have food/drink, so all that remains is for parents to bring the cake and relax in our quiet room. All parties include invitations and free goody bags.In: TeddingtonContact: Parul Gandhi020 8943 9459 musicCAteRpillAR MusiCAges: 0 to 5. Party time: 1 hr.A combination of simple birthday party games, action songs, instruments and amazing puppets for every child to use, provide a special party in which young children can join in as much as they want. Each party is run by 1 member of the Caterpillar Music birthday team and includes a fun pass-the-parcel game and a surprise present for the birthday child!In: Hampton, Hampton Hill, Richmond, Twickenham, Teddington, Ham

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Contact: Tim020 8979 9139 www.caterpillarmusic.comMonKey MusiCAges: up to 4. Party time: VariableMonkey Music’s parties are great fun for children and babies of all ages. Each party is individually tailored to suit each separate occasion and always includes the birthday child’s favourite Monkey Music songs.In: kingston, Surbiton, Banstead, Claygate, Esher, Weybridge, Cobham, Hersham, Molesey, kew, Richmond, Twickenham and TeddingtonContact: kingston and Surbiton 020 8224 3971, Banstead, Claygate and Esher 01932 223309, Weybridge, Cobham, Hersham and Molesey 020 8224 0096,kew, Richmond, Twickenham and Teddington 020 8847 4031 www.monkeymusic.comtiny tunesAges: 3 mths to 5. Party time: 1-2 hrs.Tiny Tunes parties are customised to include well-known favourite songs, rhymes, props and puppets. Hide under a parachute, shake the maracas, dance with bubbles and sing along! Party games can be added including musical bumps, musical hoops, pass-the-parcel, a treasure hunt plus other classics, depending on the age of the children and your requirements.In: South West london, Middlesex and SurreyContact: Lisa Morris07977 585020 www.tinytuneslive.comsportbACKflip peRfoRMeRsAges: 2 to 12. Party time: 1 to 2 hrs.Katie Cannon’s BackFlip performers brings dancing, funky games and fantastic upside-down gymnastic skills to your child’s birthday party.

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While the birthday child has fun with their friends, parents can relax knowing they are in safe hands. Parties come complete with colourful mats, soft equipment and great party tunes!In: Richmond, kingston, Hounslow areas and north SurreyContact: Katie Cannon020 8940 7998 www.backflipperformers.comCAtCH-A-bAllsAges: 18mths to 5. Party time: 1 hr.Make your child’s birthday full of fun and laughter with a Catch-a-Balls party. See children run, jump, catch and throw using favourite games from Catch-A-Ball classes. Catch-A-Balls provides all the equipment and a coach and ensures that everyone enjoys the fun!In: Richmond, Twickenham, kingston, Teddington, Thames Ditton and SurbitonContact: Heather or Roz020 8398 3034 www.catch-a-balls.co.ukfootie totsAges: 3 to 10. Party time: 1 hr.Footie Tots teaches basic ball skills, scoring lots of goals and having fun on the way. For your party they will provide the coaches, trophies/medals, equipment and help with party venue selection.In: Richmond, kingston, Hounslow areas and north SurreyContact: Andy Scates07931 707720 www.footie-tots.co.uklittle KiCKeRsAges: 2 to 7. Party time: 1 hr.Little Kickers football training birthday parties take the effort out of organizing party entertainment and make the

perfect birthday experience for toddlers and young children. The 1 hour party sessions include tried and tested fun and varied, energetic football-related activities and games suitable for both boys and girls, helping them burn off all that party food!In: Richmond, Twickenham, Hampton, Teddington, Ham, kew, Sheen.Contact: Lewis020 8979 8048 www.littlekickers.co.ukReAdy steAdy go KidsAges: 2 to 7. Party time: minimum 1 hr.Birthday packages include: choice of any 2 sports from the Ready Steady Go Kids program to be incorporated into a minimum 1 hour session of sport, fun activities and games, Ready Steady Go Kids birthday invitations, a Ready Steady Go Kids t-shirt, wristbands and cap/hat for the birthday boy or girl and a minimum of 2 CRB checked instructors with a minimum Level 1 coaching qualification.In: Richmond, kingston, Hounslow areas and north Surrey.Contact: Kathy Bees088 690 6591www.rsgk.co.ukRugbytotsAges: 2 to 5. Party time: VariableRugbytots parties are fast-paced, fun and involve everyone. They follow a slightly different approach from standard Rugbytots classes, placing even greater emphasis on play and party games for your child and their friends. There a number of package options available and all packages include invitations and a unique gift for the birthday child. No rugby experience necessary!In: SW london, Richmond, kingston, Hounslow areas and north Surrey

Contact: Lorna Belchambers0845 481 6444www.rugbytots.co.uksuppliesA pARty pAlACeA party supply shop which offers a marvellous range of children’s party bags and fillers, pinatas, children’s partyware themed with characters such as Fireman Sam, Thomas, Hello Kitty and Disney Princesses, as well as lots of other themes and characters. The shop also offers a very wide selection of children’s fancy dress and balloons which can be delivered to your home.In: East SheenContact: Adrienne De Souza020 8487 8260 www.apartypalace.co.ukCAndy stRipeAn online party boutique which will help you create a fun and memorable party for your little ones. By supplying inspiration and the very best of products from around the world. Candy Stripe ensures that its customers enjoy their party as much as their guests.Contact: www.candystripeparty.co.ukpARty bounCeParty Bounce hires bouncy castles, inflatable slides and much more to private parties, school fetes, village fairs, festivals and corporate events. It has recently introduced new and exciting party bags (from £2.00 each) and delicious sweet trees for children’s parties and other special occasions. Please book early to avoid disappointment.In: Richmond, kingston, Hounslow areas and north Surrey and surroundsContact: Betty Philpott020 8399 5679www.party-bounce.co.uktHemedbedAzzled events And pARtiesAges: All. Party time: Variable A bespoke party planning service which

www.busybakers.co.uk [email protected] 07766135907

creates unique parties for all ages, working to a budget and theme of your choice. Package might include entertainment, such as themed games, parachute, dancing, puppets, magic, balloon modelling; decoration of your venue to include large freestanding backdrops, 3D props, character cutouts, flooring, balloons, bunting, as well as incorporating the theme into your party bags, personalised invitations, sweetie tables and catering. In: london-wide including Richmond, kingston, Hounslow and north SurreyContact: Juliet07964 708505 www.bedazzledevents.org.ukVenueslittle HAMsteRs plAy CAfeAges: 0 to 5 Party time: VariableLittle Hamsters can accommodate parties after 2pm on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays and from 10am onwards on Tuesdays and Thursdays. All the facilities at the play café are available for parties, including the full range of toys/activities. Food can be catered or parents can organise their own. Little Hamsters has a flexible approach and will try to accommodate the required arrangements, wherever possible.In: HamContact: Helen and Beth07432 354274 www.littlehamsters.co.uktHe pAvilion CAféAges: All Party time: VariableSituated in the beautiful surrounds of Claygate Recreation Ground, The Pavilion Café is a venue that is available for a wide range of events, from birthday parties to christenings and can be fully-catered by professional chefs.In: ClaygateContact: Fanny Stocker01372 464999

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A great introduction to swimming, we run 30 minute lessons during term-time for your pre-schooler, whatever their ability. Suitable for: non-swimmers and beginners from 3 years of age.Where: Stanley Primary School, Teddington. This is an indoor, heated pool of constant 1m depth.WheN: Mondays; 9.30am & 10am. Mondays & Tuesdays; 12 to 3pm (last lesson starts at 2.30pm).CoSt: Lessons are payable termly in advance at £132.00 for a 12 week term.We also run CraSh CourSeS during school holidays, for all ages and abilities. If you haven’t done a crash course before, you will be amazed at how much progress is made in only one week!

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It’s not always easy to find the right venue for your function, whether it be children’s birthday party, christening, cocktail party, pre-wedding

gathering, class reunion or small business function.

Innovative businesswomen and foodies, Fanny Stocker, Helen Ayres and Lisa Buhr, proprietors of

The Foodies Festival will be returning to Hampton Court Palace on 25, 26 and 27 May 2013. The UK’s largest celebration of food and drink will see visitors flock from the surrounding areas to feast on the vast array of culinary activities for the 5th consecutive year at Hampton Court Palace.

There will be an exciting mix of food, drink and culinary talent at the festival, with top chefs, including Ed Baines of Randall & Aubin, TV’s gennaro Contaldo of Two Greedy Italians, Martin Blunos of Iron Chef fame, Michelin-starred Steve Drake of Drakes, gary lee of The Ivy

as well as katie and giancarlo Caldesi of Caldesi restaurants and cook school will cook their signature dishes live in the Chefs’ Theatre and explain how amateur cooks can prepare the same dishes at home. There will also be a Drinks Masterclass, Cake & Bake Theatre and plenty for the kids, including Children’s Cookery Theatre.

The Search for a Good Venue By Linda Stone

The Pavilion Café in Claygate have the answer. They are making the café available for catered events, offering those interested the opportunity to share their passion for cooking and good food, with packages tailored to individual budgets. Perfectly located, in a peaceful, classically English setting, with the Claygate Recreation Ground forming a picturesque front garden, the café is an attractive venue at any time of year, and, as you can see from the above photo, even looks glorious in the snow!

The Pavilion Café opened a year ago to cater for the many visitors to the recreation ground and children’s playground nearby, as well as local visitors from the village. Already an increasing number of visitors are arriving from the wider neighbourhood, having caught a whiff of the aroma of coffee (Musetti, no less!) and heard about the quality of the café’s beautiful homemade cakes.

If you are looking for a venue for a children’s birthday party,

Fanny reports that parties at The Pavilion Café are particularly good fun as the team work closely with a local Montessori school teacher who provides great entertain-ment and can supervise art and craft activities or party games. Once the tables in the café are pushed back, there’s also enough room for a dance or drama-based party too! In good weather, children can also spill outside onto the Recreation Ground for outside games.

And for those of us that would like to enjoy the café during the evening, Fanny, Helen and Lisa are planning a Pop Up Restaurant at the venue this Autumn with visits from London chefs who will be cooking for restaurant –goers. “It’s going to be very exciting” says Fanny.

Watch this space for more information as there are signs of tasty things to come!

3For further information, call The Pavilion Café on 01372 464999 or read more about it at www.familiesuponthames.co.uk

W i n ! C O M p e t i t i O n ! W i n !this is a chance for 3 families to win family tickets to the 2013 foodies festival at Hampton court palace.

To enter: Go to our website at www.familiesuponthames.co.uk and answer the following question:not including 2013, how many consecutive years has The Foodies Festival been held at Hampton Court Palace?

Closing Date: Monday, 20 May 2013 (Terms and Conditions Apply)

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on 22nd May, Melanie Taylor celebrates the first anniversary of little Star Writing, her creative writing course for primary school kids.

A professional writer and one-to-one creative writing tutor, Melanie set up little Star Writing in 2012 when she realised how few opportunities children have to explore creative writing at school and because she wanted to show them that literacy could be fun.

After graduating from university, Melanie wrote prolifically, producing a trilogy of books for teens and a series of 25 books for younger readers, as well as securing a literary agent. At the same time, she also tutored children and, as she spoke to them about her stories, she was inspired by their eagerness to sit down and write their own. “They were constantly asking me questions about how to create a believable character or how to write a good ending” she says. “This was when I realised there was a huge focus on reading, spelling and handwriting at school, but not so much on the

creative side of writing. It’s a shame because if children wrote a story each half term, their handwriting, reading and spelling would improve at the same time” she says.

So Melanie decided to combine her passion for writing and experience as a tutor to implement workshops that nurtured students of different abilities, supported individual ideas and expression, and promoted the rewarding nature of creative writing. “The name ‘Little Star Writing’ flew to the forefront of my mind as if it had always been there, hiding in the shadows just waiting for the right time to present itself, and the journey since then has been incredible” Melanie reports. little Star Writing Workshops were launched as after-school clubs in a number of schools in the Richmond borough and were immediately a sell-out. More encourage-ment followed when Little Star Writer, Kyra Kerezovic, age 8, won the Arts Richmond Young Writers Award in 2012. Serena Saupin, also age 8 was shortlisted for the Award and also won the Twickenham Storytelling Festival, with Natalie

Sholaongpet, age 10, as a runner up, whilst Raphaella Simon, age 7 was shortlisted for the BBC’s 500 Words Competition.

However, the highlights of Melanie’s year have been more subtle.“Some of my proudest moments have come from watching a reluctant writer read their work aloud with pride, and witnessing a 7-year-old work with an 11-year-old to give each other ideas and write a really wonderful story together” she says.

Now, Little Star Writing has just launched weekly Saturday Workshops for children age 7 upwards at Twickenham library and will be launching in Walton on Thames later this year. These workshops offer an exciting opportunity for children to let their imaginations soar, work together to exchange ideas, and watch their writing skills improve weekly.

Each Little Star writer will see their work in a professionally-bound book at the end of the term, as well as receiving a special certificate. Sponsorship from the largest children’s publisher in the world, Random House Children’s Books, will also allow Melanie to bring a number of authors along to little Star Writing Workshops to meet the children there.“I can’t wait to see the student’s faces when they get to meet some of their favourite authors, and I can barely contain my excitement about the year ahead!” says Melanie.

For more information about little Star Writing Workshops, see our listings on page 26 or visit www.littlestarwriting.com

Children Meet Their Favourite Authors at Little Star Writing Workshops!By Linda Stone

NEWS ROUND UP… NEWS ROUND UP…NEWS ROUND UP…☛Kids play café, Teeney Weenies (www.teeneyweenies.co.uk) in Teddington is now CloSED on Wednesdays.☛New little kickers (www.littlekickers.co.uk) classes on Sundays at The Girl Guide Hall, Grotto Road in Weybridge! 9.05am for 18 to 24 months and 10.00am for 24 months to 3.5 years. ☛Toddler Sense has new venues in Thames Ditton/Esher on Wednesdays! 9.30am for 1 to 2 years and 10.40am for 2 to 3 years at the All Saints Weston Church Hall. ☛Catch-A-Balls, (www.catch-a-balls.co.uk) is offering a new class for 2.5 to 3.5 years at The Vera Fletcher Hall, 4 Embercourt Road in Thames Ditton on Mondays and for 18 months to 2.5 years, there are additional classes at The Claygate Village Hall in Claygate at 10.10am on Wednesdays and at The Vineyard Church, The Vineyard, Richmond at 11.05am on Tuesdays.☛Ceramics Café in kew (www.ceramicscafe.co.uk) is now CloSED on Mondays, except for Bank Holidays and Half Term holidays.

☛Enerjetix (www.enerjetix.co.uk) Movement and Dance classes for 1 to 3 years teach the fundamentals of movement, agility, balance and co-ordination in Claygate and kingston. New class this term at Claygate Martial Arts Centre at 11.15am on Mondays.☛New Monkey Music (www.monkeymusic.co.uk) class at United Reform Church in Twickenham green on Tuesday mornings. Anyone signing up for the first term, will be entitled to a Monkey Music membership for just £1! (normal price £17)☛New Tiny Tunes (www.tinytuneslive.com) drop-in music classes for 3mths to 5 yrs in Whitton on Fridays at 10.00 to 10.40am and on Tuesday 10.00 to 10.40am in Isleworth. Two new classes opened last term in Weybridge on Wednesdays at 10.00am and 10.50am.☛New Babyballet (www.babyballet.co.uk) classes for age 12 mths to 5 yrs starting on a Tuesday in Molesey. For further details, visit website.

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In September 2012, a new dance studio opened in Teddington and is already introducing new classes. Teddington Dance Studio’s motto is “Where Dance is Life” and this is reflective of the passion of Principal, Natalie for introducing children to the beauty of dance and her belief that it can offer lifelong flexibility, health and happiness.

Teddington Dance Studio offers classes in ballet, modern, tap and street jazz in a friendly, vibrant environment. Pre-schoolers can enjoy Melody Movement and Tiny Tappers classes from 2.5 years.

Natalie holds teaching qualifications with the I.D.T.A and the I.S.T.D examining boards and has 100% pass rate with all students she has entered in their exams. Students at Teddington Dance can work towards grade examinations in ballet, tap and modern.

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www.teddingtondancestudio.co.uk

Australia’s largest, most reputable multi-sport program for pre-schoolers Ready Steady go kids, launched in the uk in January and is now offering classes in kingston, with Richmond classes coming soon . A proven success in Australia, its physio-designed program ensures that children have fun whilst learning many beneficial skills

The business was brought into the UK by Surrey locals, Kathy

and Matthew Bees. “As parents, we’re passionate about the need to introduce sport and an active lifestyle to children before they reach school age. The Ready Steady Go Kids program ticks all the boxes for us, because it uses sports as a platform to teach children vital developmental and social skills and promotes health and fitness. Ready Steady Go Kids aims to instill positive attitudes towards exercise that its participants will carry with them for life!”

Ready Steady Go Kids develops a child’s ability to concentrate,

Fun fi lled, high energy, interactive Movement and Dance classes for toddlers (walking to age 3)Boost your child’s rhythm, co-ordination and creativity!Claygate and Kingston!

Contact: [email protected] 761402

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Children, Health and a Love of Sport

Ready, Steady, Go Like the Aussies!

gym memberships, boot camps and diets form the basis of many adult health regimes but is this really fun? After all, how often do you really WAnT to go to the gym? luckily, there is an alternative. Play sport! Those who play active sports like tennis, football or golf stay naturally fit and healthy throughout their lives.

As a 5 year old, I distinctly remember watching Bjorn Borg, Jimmy Connors and John McEnroe at Wimbledon in the late 70s and being desperate to have a go. In those days, there were no computer games on which to play tennis, so the only choice was to actually play! My older brother was also keen so we used to knock the ball against the garage

wall and when I found a piece of chalk and drew a net, I really thought we were at Wimbledon! He was Borg (and later Lendl) and I was McEnroe which always seemed to work as he inevitably won and I would always have a tantrum!

This love of tennis at an early age has held me in good stead as I still love playing sport and have never needed a gym membership!

Despite the Olympics last year, today’s children participate in sport less and less, but you can encourage them by enrolling them in a structured sports program at a young age. Many would quote obesity rates and hours spend sitting in front of the television as reasons to do so, but

listen, follow directions and grasp the basic concepts of colours, numbers and shapes, which increases school readiness. Kids also learn sportsmanship by taking turns, playing by the rules and co-operating with their peers.

Classes are 45 minutes and cover the fundamentals of football, tennis, basketball, hockey (Uni-hoc), golf, rugby, cricket, t-ball and athletics, whilst developing age-appropriate motor skills.

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IS LIFE”I prefer to stay positive and just say that such programs are fun and healthy and you will notice the benefits to your children very quickly.

And you never know, you may even have the next Wimbledon champion in the family!

Matthew Bees is Director of Ready Steady go kids uk, a multi-sport program for children between 2.5 and 6 years, now available in kingston and coming soon to Richmond. For more information and to book a FREE trial, visit www.rsgk.co.uk

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ART & CRAFTART CLASSAges: AllFun art classes and workshops with 1:1 tuition, working with your children to nurture creativity and ability. Children can experiment with materials in a safe and creative environment and be introduced to a world of new ideas, materials and techniques. Classes held in brand new, purpose-built studio!Popular “Portraits for Father’s Day” Workshops on Sat, 1 June and Sun, 2 June at 10.30. Toddler classes arriving soon! See page 33 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: SunburyContact: Lynette Pitzolu07971 475373 [email protected] Ages: All Cosy, unique ‘paint your own ceramics’ studio which can bring out the artist in everyone! Bright, colourful studio designed to inspire even the most unartistic, it’s the ideal place for a creative get-together. Services include studio painting sessions, an annual membership scheme, gift vouchers, baby hand and foot print sessions, birthday parties, evening painting sessions for adults, off-site functions, ‘take home’ packs and commissions.In: ClaygateContact: Hannah Young01372 462447 www.ceramica-claygate.co.ukCERAMICS CAFÉ KEWAges: AllChildren have the opportunity to create something unique. Starting with a plain white bisque shape, they paint on their design using ceramic under-glazes, it is then fi red in the kiln, and their piece is ready for collection within 2-4 days. Please note: now closed Mondays, except Bank Holidays and Half Terms.In: KewContact: Joanna Wronka020 8332 6661 www.ceramicscafe.comHAPPY POTTER WORKSHOPSAges: AllPottery painting at After School Club every Thursday. Children make a different piece each week. Messy Play for Toddlers every Tues and Thurs £6. See page 33 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: TeddingtonContact: Una Fagan020 8973 1468 www.happypotterceramics.co.ukTHE POTTERY & CRAFT STUDIO THAMES DITTONAges: AllFriendly, relaxed studio for all ages. Ceramic painting, baby hand/foot prints and casts. Free refreshments!In: Thames DittonContact: Sue Lewis020 8398 6681 www.thepotteryandcraftstudio.comBABY & CHILD DEVELOPMENTBABY SENSORYAges: 0 to 3Programme specifi cally designed for babies to stimulate all the senses and assist baby development, including listening and communication skills.In: Staines, Lower Sunbury, Addlestone and WeybridgeContact: Jo Ashe07810 540352 www.babysensory.comGYMBOREEAges: 0 to 5Play and Learn, Art, Music and Sensory Play for Babies. Classes are designed by experts in early childhood development to help young children learn as they play and teach parents/carers fun and interesting ways to engage with them. See page 32 for Summer Holiday Workshop details at St Margarets!

Contact: St Margarets 020 8607 9995, Surbiton 020 8398 9360, West Byfl eet 01932 353 313 www.gymboree-uk.comSINGING HANDSAges: Babies & ToddlersIntroduction to baby signing through songs, rhymes, stories and games. Babies have a natural tendency to use gesture (eg. clapping and waving bye-bye.) Baby signing builds on these normal patterns of communication. Toddler Classes also available.In: St Margarets, Twickenham, TeddingtonContact: Suzanne or Tracy020 8288 1706 www.singinghands.co.ukTHE LITTLE GYMAges: 4mths to 12yrsFun, gymnastics-based, non-competitive development classes, fi lled with movement, learning and laughter. The age-appropriate curriculum is designed to facilitate on-going skill development and maximum fun. Children progress at their own pace, developing their confi dence as they develop new skills. See page 33 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Hampton HillContact: Lorna Sutton020 8977 0099 www.thelittlegym.comTODDLER SENSEAges: 13mths to 3yrsFrom the providers of Baby Sensory, a fast moving action packed programme for toddlers with great music, great equipment and imaginary adventures like climbing a snow mountain, going on safari, swimming with dolphins and hunting with dinosaurs. Emphasis is on mobility, excitement and exploration. In: Addlestone, Kempton Park, Teddington, Cobham and NEW in Thames Ditton/Esher!Contact: Sarah Taylor 07970 796606 for Teddington, Cobham, Thames Ditton/Esher and Jo Ashe 07810 540352 for Addlestone, Kempton Park www.babysensory.comCOOKERYSASSY STIRRERS Ages: 4-12. Monthly Saturday Cooking Club for kids, after school and lunch time cooking classes in local schools and 2-3 hour holiday workshops with food cooked to be taken home.In: Kingston/Claygate/Surbiton/Thames Ditton areasContact: Susan Carmichael07789 792676 www.sassystirrers.comCREATIVE WRITINGLITTLE STAR WRITING Ages: 7+ Creative writing workshops for primary school children, which offer an exciting opportunity for them to let their imaginations soar, work together to exchange ideas, and watch their writing skills improve weekly. Popular children’s authors will also be invited to attend and share ideas with the children. All children will receive a certifi cate and their stories will appear in specially-bound book at the end of the term.In: Twickenham (starts 27 April) and coming to Walton on Thames later in 2013Contact: Melanie [email protected] www.littlestarwriting.comDANCEBABYBALLETAges: 6 mths to 5yrsAward-winning movement to music programme for little ones from 6 months. Fun and educational, programme designed to encourage babies and young children to enjoy the benefi ts and joys of song and dance and provide them with the opportunity to express themselves.In: Wimbledon, New Malden, Reigate, Epsom, Dorking, Redhill, Cobham, Esher, Walton, Weybridge, plus NEW classes in Molesey on Tuesday mornings for ages 12 mths to 5 yrs! For more details check website.

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Contact: Miss Jennie 01932 866609 for Cobham, Esher, Walton, Weybridge, Molesey and Miss Ayse 01737 227039 for Wimbledon, New Malden, Reigate, Redhill, Dorking, Epsom www.babyballet.co.ukBROOKS DANCE ACADEMYAges: 2.5 to 5Petites Pointes ballet classes, with music and props, based on traditional tales such as The Three Little Pigs, Jack and the Beanstalk and Goldilocks. Familiar repetitive rhymes and creative imagery make classes easy to follow. Parents and carers are encouraged to join in to help younger children feel comfortable. After-school classes in Surbiton coming in September!In: KingstonContact: Laura Brooks07958 530962 www.brooksdanceacademy.co.ukENERJETIX Ages: 1 to 11Led by ex-professional dancer and physical theatre artist, Eleanor Dowling, vibrant, fun, interactive classes for both boys and girls for little ones age 1 to 3, full of action, rhythm, props and plenty of clapping and bopping! Parents love joining in too! For 6-11 year olds, classes incorporating street, contemporary, hip hop and theatre. Eleanor gauges her classes to each age group to ensure that they are physical, engaging and most of all fun. NEW Monday class in Claygate!In: Claygate & North KingstonContact: Eleanor Dowling01372 202162 www.enerjetix.co.ukFLIPSIDE DANCEAges: 2.5 to 18Ballet, tap, hip hop/street, contempo-rary/lyrical and jazz classes for children of all ages. Non exam-based school with emphasis on performance and competitions. Professional, friendly environment. See page 32 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: CobhamContact: Deborah Rich07759 502508 www.fl ipsidedance.co.ukKATE’S SCHOOL OF DANCEAges: 2 to 9Kate’s School of Dance offers enjoyable and structured lessons in a supportive and friendly atmosphere. All students are encouraged to the best of their ability. The goal is to engage children’s imagination and instil a love of dance. Watch out for Kate’s Step It Out Street Dance crew who are performing at the

Marlborough Primary School Summer Fair (www.marlborough.rbkc.sch.uk) on 18 May and competing in the National Dance Challenge (www.dancechallenge.co.uk) on 23 June. See page 32 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Isleworth, ChertseyContact: Kate Broughton07957 639460 www.katesschoolofdance.co.ukTEDDINGTON DANCE STUDIO Ages: 2.5+A vibrant, new dance school that teaches all students to enjoy the art of dance. Students of all ages are welcome and encouraged to learn and develop their dance technique in a fun and friendly environment. Ballet, Tap and Modern are taught and students can study for IDTA and ISDT grade exams in these disciplines.In: TeddingtonContact: Natalie07887 353950 www.teddingtondancestudio.co.ukTWINKLE TOES BALLETAges: 6mths to 10yrsOffers babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers a magical experience full of fun, imaginative, theatrical ballet. Classes are designed to develop musicality, balance, coordination, and self-confi dence.In: Richmond, Kew, Sheen, TwickenhamContact: Jessica Williams07879 521456 [email protected] & STORYTELLINGBRIDGE STORYTELLING ADVENTURES Ages: 1 to 5Be transported to another world every week as these interactive, drama-based workshops ignite your child’s imagination. See page 33 for May Half-Term and Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Twickenham, RichmondContact: Amanda Wright020 3222 3085 www.bridgeac.comPERFORMAges: 3mths to 12yrsA unique mix of drama, dance and singing specially formulated to bring out every child’s true potential. Classes are kept small to ensure lots of individual attention by experienced teachers. In: Esher, Isleworth, Kew, Kingston, Richmond, Sunbury, Surbiton, Teddington, Twickenham, Weybridge. See page 32 for Summer

Holiday Workshop details.0845 400 1284 www.perform.org.ukSTEP ON STAGEAges: 3 to 16+Dedicated to encouraging young people to reach their maximum potential in a fun and friendly setting and through the use of Drama, Music, Dance and Creative Movement. Weekly workshops with trained teachers, theatre practitioners and education professionals who are dedicated to making your child’s experience at Step on Stage fun, exciting and rewarding. See page 33 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Hampton HillContact: Emma-Louise Tinniswood020 8408 0633 www.steponstageacademy.co.ukSTAGECOACHAges: 4 to 18Caters for the needs of young performers, whether rather reserved or budding talents. Classes concentrate on singing, dance and drama, rather than rehearsing for end of term presenta-tions so every child has their chance to shine, to learn and to develop. See page 32 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Chertsey 0845 265 7081, Hinchley Wood 01932 254333, Hounslow 0845 078 0804, Kew 020 8487 1456, New Malden 020 8540 7791, Richmond 020 8332 6741, Staines 0845 055 6356, Twickenham 020 8224 6905, Weybridge 01932 422664. www.stagecoach.co.ukTHEATREBUGSAges: 3.5 to 8Stories and class plans are designed to

ensure they are age appropriate for each of the 3 different class structures. Stories are fi lled with characters that children love, such as pirates, explorers, sharks, fairies, superheroes and princesses. See page 33 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Kingston, Richmond, Teddington, Claygate, Oxshott, Thames Ditton, WeybridgeContact: Greater London 0800 975 5290, North Surrey, Epsom & Surrounds 01483 882244 www.theatrebugs.co.ukHORSE RIDINGPARK LANE STABLESAges: under 21Although an offi cial Pony Club Centre where children can learn on a weekly basis about horses and pony care as well as improving their riding, and working towards a variety of badges and achievements, anybody of any age can come and enjoy a ride at the stables. Children with special needs very welcome. See page 32 for School Holiday activities.In: TeddingtonContact: Natalie O’Rourke07796 842328 www.parklanestables.co.ukMUSICCATERPILLAR MUSICAges: 0 to 5Music classes for babies and young

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children, taught by West End performers, experienced teachers and mummies. Classes offer a unique introduction to music with exciting themes, colourful instruments and amazing puppets.In: Hampton, Hampton Hill, Ham, Twickenham, Teddington, RichmondContact: Tim or Emily020 8979 9139 www.caterpillarmusic.comCHRistinA’s fun witH MusiCAges: 1 to 5Classes have a good mix of ages and are structured to give the children a secure platform for learning. Puppets, music, rythmic movement and percussion instruments are used to encourage each child’s growth and development.In: RichmondContact: Christina Northcott020 8332 2275 www.christinasfunwithmusic.co.ukMonKey MusiCAges: 3mths to 4yrsProgressive and educational 4 stage curriculum is designed to nurture a lifetime love of music. Age appropriate classes. By age 4, children have developed a sound base from which to build a musical future.In: kingston & Surbiton 020 8224 3971, Banstead, Claygate & Esher 01932 223309, Weybridge, Cobham, Hersham & Molesey 020 8224 0096, kew, Richmond, Twickenham & Teddington 020 8847 4031 www.monkeymusic.co.uktiny tunesAges: 3mths to 5yrsPay As You Go baby and toddler music and movement classes for little ones! Hide under a parachute, wave pom poms, shake maracas, dance with bubbles and sing along! As well as favourite rhymes and songs, Tiny Tunes gets the little ones dancing to some pop classics! In: Richmond, Teddington, Barnes, Thames Ditton, Twickenham, Surbiton, Cobham, Weybridge, Epsom, nEW Isleworth and Whitton!

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Contact: Lisa Morris07977 585020 www.tinytuneslive.complay cafeslittle HAMsteRs plAy CAféAges: 0 to 5Relaxed environment, coffee, cakes, lunches. Soft play shapes, ball pool, ride-on toys and various exciting and stimulating table-top activities and puzzles, in a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere. Outdoor playground. Indoor and outdoor seating. Free parking, Free Wi-Fi Monday, Wednesday, Friday 10am to 2pm term time only.In: HamContact: Helen & Beth07432 354274 www.littlehamsters.co.ukteeney weenies plAy CAféAges: 0 to 7Indoor and outdoor toys including trampolines, soft play, bouncy castle, slides, sand and water tables, baby corner and more. Free parking, Free Wi-Fi. Open Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, 9am to 1.30pm all year except bank holidays. Please note: Now closed on Wednesdays.In: TeddingtonContact: Maha07940 348726 www.teeneyweenies.co.uksportbACKflip peRfoRMeRs Ages: 2 to 12BackFlip Performers’ staff are unique. They specialise in teaching basic gymnastic skills but in a fun and interactive way. All staff are ex-gymnasts which gives them the ability to demonstrate the skills to the children, so that they can learn in a visual way which can be one of the most effective ways of learning.In: Bedfont, Petersham, Weybridge, Thames Ditton, Barnes Contact: Katie Cannon020 8940 7998 www.backflipperformers.comCAtCH-A-bAllsAges: 18mths to 5yrsBall skills classes to prepare toddlers and pre-schoolers for a range of different sports and to encourage a healthy active life. Classes teach ball, racket and movement skills like throwing, catching, aiming and

bouncing, with a variety of objects including balls, bean bags, scarves and hoops. New classes added in Thames ditton, Claygate and richmond!In: Richmond, Twickenham, kingston, Teddington, Thames Ditton, Claygate and Surbiton Contact: Heather 020 8398 3034 for Richmond, Twickenham, kingston, Teddington and Roz 020 8972 9223for Thames Ditton, Claygate and Surbiton www.catch-a-balls.co.ukfootie totsAges: 2.5 to 5An introduction to the world of fitness and football, teaching basic skills, scoring lots of goals and having fun on the way. All classes are held indoors. See page 32 for May Half Term and Summer Holiday Workshops details.In: Hampton, Teddington, Twickenham, Heathrow gym, Esher, Thames DittonContact: Andy Scates07931 707720 www.footie-tots.co.ukgbMAA MARtiAl ARtsAges: 4 to 14The Great Britain Martial Arts Academies are at the forefront of Martial Arts in the UK. Li’l Dragon Programmes ages 4 to 6. Kids Zone ages 7 to 8 and Children’s Programme ages 9 to 14. Children work on their own personal development through non-violent resolutions to conflict, building self-confidence and self-discipline, respecting others, setting goals and working as a team. In: CobhamContact: Saffron Power0845 177 5001 www.gbacacemies.co.uklittle KiCKeRsAges: 4 -7The real goal of Little Kickers is to use football as a fun forum to instil extra confidence, co-ordination, control and a sense of camaraderie whilst also recognising that every child is an individual, and that children develop their skills best when playing with other of a similar age and ability. NEW Sunday morning classes in Weybridge! See News round Up on page 24 for more information. See page 32 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.

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In: kingston, Richmond, WeybridgeContact: Helen Kelly, 020 8286 6038 for kingston, Graham Ware 020 8979 8048 for Richmond and Claire Richardson 01932 847439 for Weybridge www.littlekickers.co.ukReAdy steAdy go Kids Ages: 2-6Structured multi-sport program offering 45 minute classes which cover the fundamentals of football, tennis, basketball, hockey (Uni-hoc), golf, rugby, cricket, t-ball and athletics, whilst developing age-appropriate motor skills and learning about the concept of sportsmanship, by taking turns, playing by the rules and cooperating with their peers.In: kingston, Epsom and coming soon to Richmond! Contact: Kathy Bees0800 690 6591 www.rsgk.co.ukRugbytotsAges: 2-7Rugbytots is a specifically designed play programme using the multiple skills of rugby to create fun and enjoyable environment, whilst developing basic core motor skills. New classes coming soon in St Margarets!In: Twickenham, St Margarets, Surbiton, Hersham, HamptonContact: Lorna Belchambers0845 481 6444 www.rugbytots.co.ukspRingboARd swiMMeRsAges: 3+Top quality, friendly and professional weekly swimming lessons and crash courses suitable for non-swimmers and beginners. These courses teach children to swim well and not just pass badges. Small groups of 3 children and excellent teachers. You will be amazed at how much progress your child will make. Mother and Baby and Toddler groups through to teenager squads and every available ability in between. See page 33 for Summer Holiday Workshop details.In: Teddington, Twickenham, HamptonContact: Karen Duane020 8255 7455 www.springboardswimmers.com

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From the first time you think about moving, to the day of the move itself, careful planning, open communication and the inclusion of all family members in age appropriate decision making and responsibilities is the only way to ensure that you don’t end up making your next home a room at The Priory!

Small children get very excited when being shown a new house, and this can be utterly distracting for you, particularly if the occupier is still living there and all you can concentrate on is limiting the damage your little ones are doing whilst investigating their new surroundings. So the first thing I would recommend is, wherever possible, leave the little ones at home while you are viewing property. There’s time enough to introduce them to what will be their new surroundings once you’ve made your choice, when it’s a good idea to take them to their new home a couple of times before moving in, to make the whole thing more real and familiar.

I do think it’s a good idea to discuss the move with older children as early as you can to give them as much time to get used to the idea as possible. Small children are unlikely to object, as they depend totally on mum and dad for their security, but it can be more tricky to contend with older children in the same situation, particularly if the move will involve them going to a different school and/or losing their friends, which can feel like the end of the world to them. Listen to their concerns, and treat them with respect, otherwise you might end up with a rebellion on your hands.

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MOVING HOUSE WITH CHILDRENSamantha Avery offers her advice

little children that their toys are just being put in boxes so they can be taken to their new home, otherwise they may worry that they are disappearing or being taken away from them. Having moved myself with 3 children, I’d advise packing these things up when your Little Darlings are not around and stashing them out of site, otherwise everything gets removed from the boxes as quickly as it is packed away!

Moving Day has arrived! Once the children have said ‘goodbye’ to their old house, arrange for younger children to be looked after, and bring them into the mix a little later on, when they can join in with the excitement of seeing their new house filling up with their familiar things. Slightly older children can decide where to put things in their bedrooms and do some unpacking of their own. However, you may find they get bored with this quite quickly, so ensure you have one box that stays with you all day containing a few of their favourite toys, books and pencils. It’s a good idea to include drinks and snacks too – and a bottle of wine and two glasses for mum and dad at the end of a busy day!

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Is Your Family Home in Need of a New Family? By Linda Stone

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With the cost of property in london continuing to accelerate rapidly, it will be increasingly difficult for our children to buy their own property locally. Many parents resort to buying property for their children themselves, but if you don’t want to empty your own bank account, you need to teach them about property as an asset and a business opportunity, rather than the financial and emotional burden that it can be to many people.

Here are a few tips:3 We need to teach children the difference between good debt and bad debt. Good debt puts money in your pocket. Bad debt costs you money.3 Does your house put money in your pocket? No. It is a liability. Yet we are taught that owning your own home is an asset. In fact, owning a property rented out to a tenant is an asset, but when you live in it then you have to pay the bills!3 Think of property as a business opportunity as well as a place to live. For instance, when your child becomes an adult, if they can’t afford to buy property where they want to live, then they can buy it in a location they can afford, rent it out to tenants and use the income to rent in their place of choice.3 Talk freely about money with your children. Explain why you are being financially successful and, if you are struggling, explain to them what has changed. These are the real lessons about money that children need to understand.

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3 When you start to explore property investment as a business opportunity you must understand ‘return on investment’ as a way to compare one opportunity with another. Return on investment or ROI is an equation which shows you what you will get back in return for investing in a particular opportunity. 3 understand the impact of inflation and house prices on your family’s wealth. For example, if house prices are not increasing and inflation is between 2% and 4% then your home might actually be losing value in real terms. But, if you invested in property that made a 10% to 15% return, then you’d be borrowing money at 5% to make 15%. These are just examples, so make sure you do your own maths.3 Always take responsibility for any investment you make. Never just hand money over to

someone else. Check the viability of an investment and do your homework. Encourage your children to do the same.3 never sell a house - always consider it part of your portfolio. If you do have to move, always explore whether you can rent your property for a profit.3 If you have cash resources or available equity, start investing now. Interest rates will eventually increase and so

you need to find properties that will generate over 10% return on investment in order to compensate. These will generally be found outside London.3 If you have children under 10, then they will not be eligible for a mortgage in their own name for at least 8 years. By that time the recession will be over and property prices will start rising. If you buy property now (with your children’s future in mind) you could either re-mortgage or sell those

In 20 months, single mother, Vicki Wusche has gone from a single mother on a limited income, to financial freedom and a property portfolio worth £2m. Vicki has been investing in property herself for many years and runs a successful business sourcing property for other investors and teaching people how to invest in it. She is author of 3 property investment books and has helped her daughter buy her own property using the techniques she teaches in her book Property for the next generation. Read how to win copies of this book on page 30. For more information about Vicki, visit www.vickiwusche.com

properties in 8 to10 years and use the profit to pay a deposit on a property for your child.3 If you don’t have money to invest now, start saving and then buy smaller properties as soon as you can afford them, buying with your children in mind.extra

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Camps, Courses and Workshopsmay Half term and summer

Holiday previewOur extensive summer camps, courses and workshops feature in the July/August issue provides the

low-down on the huge number of local activities available to your child during the Summer Holidays.However, some activities book up early and some parents like to get organised, so here is a sneak preview of just a

few of the options on offer, as well as more information about what’s happening during the may Half term.

Park lane Stables (www.parklanestables.co.uk) in Teddington offers pony rides for all the family during school holidays, as well as Pony Mornings which will allow children to get ‘hands-on’ with the ponies, as well as riding them. You don’t have to belong to Park Lane Stables in order to enjoy its facilities; it offers riding for everyone at a very affordable cost – family

rides start at £15. It also welcomes children with special needs.

Footie Tots is running its highly successful half and full day Footie Winning Ways Football Camp in Thames Ditton during May Half Term and the Summer Holidays. Call 07931 707720 or email [email protected]. little kickers is holding a 5 day football camp in Teddington for children ages 2 to 7, starting 5 August from 9am to 12 noon.

Children aged 8 to 18 can enjoy hip/hop, street, contemporary, musical theatre, commercial, jazz, break and even basic tumbling such as cartwheels and somersaults at the Flipside Dance Summer School (www.flipsidedance.co.uk) in Cobham. Running 8.45am to 4.15pm from 12 to 16 August, this serious, but fun summer school, for children who have been doing some dance for a year, is taught by highly qualified teachers who are current or ex-West End performers. For younger children, Flipside Dance will be offering a fun and funky Summer School for children aged 4 to 8 from

kate’s School of Dance (www.katesschoolofdance.co.uk) is holding weekly Summer Dance and Creativity Workshops from 29 July and 9 August in Isleworth for children age 4 to 10 years. Children will learn a different dance

style each day, make backdrops and props, play dance games and put on a performance for the parents on the last day. Book by 31 May and receive a 10% discount!

9.30am to 12.30pm from 21 to 23 August at which students will learn parts from West End musicals such as Matilda and The Lion King. No experience is required and the workshop includes some ballet, a little gym tumbling, rhythm beats and jazz/pop. No specific dance wear is needed and children will have the opportunity to work in both groups of similar age and of similar ability. Early Bird Rate up to 30 June!

A 5 day camp is also planned for Twickenham from 19 August from 9am to 3pm. Call 020 8979 8048 or email [email protected].

gymboree St Margarets is planning 5 to 6 weeks of workshops for children aged 3 to 6 during the Summer Holidays. With weekly themes such as Wacky Science, Theatre Arts, Crafty kids, Dance and groove, children will learn and develop a new skill over the 5 day period. Each workshop lasts an hour each day and parents can drop and go! Call 020 8607 9995 or email [email protected].

Popular drama school, Stagecoach will be running workshops at various local locations throughout the Summer Holidays. Richmond (www.stagecoach.co.uk/richmond) will host a Welcome to the 60s Workshop from 29 July to 2 August, with music, costumes from the era and, of course, performance from 29 July to 2 August. In East Molesey (www.stagecoach.co.uk/hinchleywood), Just Dance will run from 10am to 4.30pm from 29 July to 2 August and Put on a Show from 10am to 4.30pm from 12 August to 16 August. Both workshops end with a performance for friends and family.

Perform will also be visiting the classics this summer, with a 5 day Aladdin, Jasmine and The genie Summer Workshop for 4 to 8 year olds, in Esher (29 July to 2 August) and Teddington (5 to 9 August). Experienced theatre professionals will help the children combine live original music, inspirational dance, quick witted improvisation and colourful costumes into a mini performance on the final day.

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To register for a class that is right for your child or for more information visit: www.flipsidedance.co.uk or contact us at [email protected]

For all ages and abilities. Boys and Girls.

We also offer jazz and tap classes for all ages.

Classes take place at Cobham Village Hall (KT11 2LU).

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The little gym in Hampton Hill (www.thelittlegym.co.uk) is running a gymnastics-based camp for children 3 to 7 years on Wednesday, 29 May.

koosa kids Clubs (www.koosakids.co.uk) is running fun-packed, affordable, Ofsted-approved multi-activity clubs with over 350 activities on offer for children 4 to 13 years throughout May Half Term and the Summer Holidays. The clubs run from 28 to 31 May, then weekly from 25 July to 31 August at Shene Sports Centre, Teddington Sports Centre and orleans Park Sports Centre. A standard day

26 children attended Bridge Storytelling Adventures (www.bridgeac.com) Easter Workshop Alice in Wonderland in Twickenham, a tribute to its professional standards and growing popularity. Between 27 and 31 May from 10am to 12 noon each day, Storytelling Adventures will be offering Peter Pan Adventures in Twickenham, a fabulous

workshop, which will include storytelling, drama, singing and art and craft. Meanwhile, it is planning 5 day Jungle Book Adventures in Twickenham weeks beginning 29 July and 5 August from 10am to 12 noon each day.

runs from 10am to 4pm, with an extended day from 8.15am to 6pm also available. Children can attend for 1 or more days or a full week with an 8% discount! 3rd child goes free!

It’s the perfect time for your child to learn to swim! Springboard Swimmers May Half Term swimming course runs from 27 to 31 May in Teddington and throughout the Summer Holidays. Suitable for non-swimmers and beginners aged 3 to 8 who are unable to swim a streamlined front and back crawl, instruction takes place in small groups of 3 children. Tutors are in the water with children and parents can observe poolside. Call 020 8255 7455 or email [email protected]

Packed with exciting activities, the camp is already booking fast! Looking ahead, The Little Gym will be offering specially created 3 hour, Ofsted-approved camps for 3 to 6 year olds from 22 July to 31 August. Children will enjoy games, crafts and gymnastics-based activities organised around a fun weekly theme.There will also be a special program of classes running all summer for under 3s and over 6s.

Something different is offered at FunTech Summer Camps (www.funtech.co.uk) for ages 7 to 16 in Richmond. FunTech is an extra-curricular computing school, described by the BBC as having “a solid reputation

for both using the latest technology and innovate teaching techniques.” Technology is at the core of all the camps which are taught by staff passionate about computer science. The FunTyper camp offers a series of fun and creative games which also teach kids valuable touch-typing skills, whilst the lego nXT camp challenges children to build the ultimate robot whilst simultane-ously learning valuable ICT and programming skills.

Suitable for children 3.5 to 6 years, The First Ever Whale Story Workshop featuring pirates, sea fairies and the Queen of the Sea forms the basis of Theatrebugs Summer Holiday Drama Workshops (www.theatrebugs.co.uk), 5 fun filled days of acting, singing, dancing, dressing up and art and craft. Workshops take place in kew and kingston (5 to 9 August

9.30am to 12 noon), Cobham (5 to 9 August 9.00am to 12 noon), Claygate, (12 to 16 August, 9.00am to 12noon), Epsom, (12 to 16 August 1.30pm to 4.30pm) and Weybridge (19 to 23 August 1.30pm to 4.30pm). 10% sibling discount. 20% Early Bug discount for Cobham, Claygate, Epsom and Weybridge.

Recognising that children’s classics like The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe and Charlie and the Chocolate Factory retain their captivating appeal today, independent drama school, Step on Stage Academy (www.steponstageacademy.co.uk) in Twickenham offers children the chance to become familiar with these stories through performance! This Summer Holidays, Step on Stage will offer The Selfish giant Workshop (13 to 15 August)

and Treasure Island Workshop (20 to 22 August) for children age 3 to 8. Multi-talented in the arts, Principal, Emma Tinniswood has co-written a musical called Caught in the Crossfire (5 to 10 August) about evacuees during WW11 and this workshop will be on offer to children age 5 to 11. For 11 to 18 year olds, Broadway Baby (5 to 10 August) explores the world of Broadway and the West End from 1900 to 2013, whilst glee (29 July to 2 August) is a song and dance extravaganza in which 8 to 16 year olds can sing and dance their way through various vocal and dance styles including jazz, rock and pop, developing their skills and technique.

The Art Class in Sunbury, is offering May Half Term Workshops on 28 and 29 May from 10am to 3.30pm and

on selected days throughout the Summer Holidays from 25 July. Suitable for ages 5 to 12 years, workshops explore a range of mediums and subjects including printing, sculpture, painting and the work of a range of artists as diverse as Andy Warhol and Gustav Klimt. Email lynette@the_art_class.co.uk or call 07971 475373.

Happy Potter Ceramics (www.happypotterceramics.co.uk) in Teddington will be running creative 3 day camps during May Half Term and the Summer Holidays, where children can try their hands at pottery and pottery painting, decopatch and t-shirt design. Children can attend per session or per day.

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Louise (top right) and Wendy (bottom right) are NHS midwives who also run Teddington Midwives, which provides private ante-natal classes and post-natal visits in the Richmond and kingston areas. For more information, visit www.teddingtonmidwives.co.uk. Louise and Wendy would like to thank the 16 mums whose thoughts and advice make up this article.

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What advice would you pass on about pregnancy?The overwhelming majority of mums recommended attending good antenatal classes, in order to feel more prepared and to meet other mums and make friends. The other unanimous tip was to sleep as much as possible during pregnancy, as you will get very little chance when your baby arrives!

Rebecca, Mum of Lexi, 7 months: ‘Enjoy every moment! Research the birth process, attend antenatal classes and don’t worry! There are so many books that tell you different things, that you shouldn’t hold your baby too much, that you need a routine or that your baby will never sleep through the night. Just go with your instincts.’

What strategies would you recommend for coping with childbirth?The advice of most mums was to go with the flow, be flexible, expect the unexpected and try not to worry!

Many reported that their babies came early, very quickly (resulting, in one case, in an unexpected homebirth following a 90 minute labour), or very late. So their advice was to either forget about a birth

plan or keep it short and don’t be disappointed if the birth doesn’t go accordingly. Mums also reported that staying calm and in tune with their bodies, and focusing on breathing techniques was very helpful.How was the first 6 weeks of motherhood?Without exception, everyone stressed how physically tiring but also amazingly rewarding it was! ‘Relentless’,’ overwhelming’, ‘mind-blowing,’ ’an absolute roller coaster ride,’ ‘a whirlwind’,’ wonderful,’ a magical time,’ ‘exhausting,’ and ’a blissfully happy, sleepless haze’ were just some of descriptions of this period.

Most mums found breastfeeding much harder (and more painful) than they expected in the beginning and it took a few weeks to master it. However, almost all were glad they persevered and several mums stressed how important it had been for them to seek breastfeeding help.

Angela, Mum of Erin, 5 months:‘Early motherhood can be a confusing, emotionally and physically exhausting time so be sure to communicate with your partner about how you are feeling and ask for help.’

What was most challenging about early motherhood?Many mums spoke of their initial lack of confidence and the difficulty of being confined to the house for long periods, particularly those who had previously been out at work. Most recommended getting out and meeting friends, or joining baby groups and classes.

kate: ‘Just parent in a way that suits you, your baby and your lifestyle.’

Several mums advised resisting the pressure to establish a routine.

By Louise Nunn and Wendy Burman

What are your “must-have” baby care items?The most popular ‘best buys’ were Babybjorn’s carrier and bouncer which most agreed was ‘expensive but worth every penny.’ Baby sleeping bags, Widgey breastfeeding pillows and baby entertainment centres were also favourite items. A decent breast pump, Lansinoh nipple cream and good quality breast pads were also all cited as essential buys! Is it true you forget the pain of childbirth?No, you never forget that it hurts! But pretty much everyone said that you definitely can’t remember how it felt almost as soon as you have given birth and that the pain seems completely justified when you hold your little baby for the first time!

With the wealth of information about pregnancy, birth and baby care available, it’s difficult to decide what to take on board and what to ignore. With this in mind, we asked some new mums from our antenatal courses to tell us what tips they would pass on about the realities of giving birth and coping with the first few weeks of motherhood.

Put The Books Away and Hold Your Baby Instead!

kate, Mum of Hannah, 8 months;‘To start with it was a whirlwind of feeding and changing nappies with a large dose of ‘I don’t know what I am doing’, before suddenly everything just fell into place, the cries began to make sense and then Hannah started to become a little personality - magical.’

Rebecca, Mum of Lexi, 7 months: ‘If I could do anything differently, I would have put the books away and held my baby even more! They really do find their own routine and so do you’.

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With the current measles epidemic in Wales, immunisation is a current hot topic amongst parents. So we asked the nHS in Richmond to tell us more about it. Immunisation is your child’s first line of defence against preventable childhood diseases. Unknowingly, some parents expose their child to these diseases by not

immunising, putting their child’s life at risk. Last month’s European Immunisation

Week aimed to raise awareness of the benefits of immunisation in preventing disease and protecting life. In England, all children are eligible to receive routine vaccinations against 11 different diseases including measles, mumps and rubella (MMR). This vaccination programme aims to protect children from diseases that not only cause an unpleasant illness but that can also lead to a stay in hospital and, in severe cases, result in disability or death.

As a parent, you would do anything to protect your child so why is it that some parents choose not to immunise? This can often be because they are concerned about the safety of immunisation and are not aware of the facts.

Would You Risk Your Child’s Life?

3 Childhood vaccinations against disease are safe. 3 Vaccinating a child against more than 1 disease at a time does not ‘overload’ a child’s immune system. In fact, in some instances, it can help to increase the protective effect of a vaccination. 3 Your child will need more than 1 vaccination for each disease as research shows that this helps to maximise protection. 3 Your child will benefit from receiving booster vaccinations. As they grow older, a booster helps a child’s immune system to remember how to tackle a disease and so extend protection into later life. 3 If you’re pregnant, vaccinations for whooping cough and flu don’t harm your unborn baby. In fact, they protect your baby

For more information and for advice about the best time to get your child immunised against childhood diseases, visit nHS Choices at www.nhs.uk

from whooping cough and flu for the first few months of life.3 Immunising children against preventable diseases protects not only the child but prevents the spread of disease in the community. This helps to protect other people in the community who may be at increased risk of catching these diseases because their immune system isn’t working effectively, for example, the elderly or people going through cancer treatment.So don’t take the risk with your child’s life: immunise for a healthy, happy and protected child. Talk to your GP or immunisation nurse to book your child’s immunisation appointments. In Richmond, you can also take up the MMR vaccine free of charge if you are under the age of 25 years and previously missed the vaccine.

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From ‘how to change a nappy in 17 easy stages’ to ‘simple ways to avoid being assaulted during childbirth,’ this is a must-read book for both men on the verge of becoming a dad or knee-deep in kids already. It will have both mums and dads laughing out loud!

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Venue detailsBEDFONT LAKESClockhouse Lane, Bedfont TW14 8QA07887 410811 www.bedfontlakes.co.ukCLAREMONT LANDSCAPE GARDENPortsmouth Road, Esher KT10 9JG01372 467806 www.nationaltrust.org.ukELMBRiDGE MUSEUMChurch St, Weybridge KT13 8DE01932 843573www.elmbridge.gov.ukHAM HOUSEHam Street, Ham TW10 7RS020 8940 1950 www.nationaltrust.org.uk/hamhouse

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HAMPTON COURT PALACEEast Molesey, KT8 9AU0844 482 7777 www.hrp.org.uk/HamptonCourt-PalaceKiNGSTON MUSEUMWheatfield Way, Kingston KT1 2PL020 8547 5006 www.kingston.gov.uk/museumOSTERLEY PARKJersey Road, Isleworth TW7 4RB020 8232 5050 www.nationaltrust.org.uk/osterley-parkPAiNSHiLL PARKPortsmouth Road, Esher KT11 1JE01932 868113 www.painshill.co.uk

eVents and actiVitiesFRi 10 MAYCLASSiCAL BABiES iN TEDDiNGTONLandmark Arts Centre, Ferry Rd, TW11 9NNTime: 11-11.40am. Cost: £10, Babies free.A spacious, relaxing environment where you and your baby can enjoy hearing live, classical music played by professional musicians.Nadine 07732 058705 www.classicalbabies.comSAT 11 MAYFAMiLY BUSHCRAFT FUN AT PAiNSHiLL PARKFor Ages: 5-13. Time: 10am-1pm. Cost: Adult £12, Child £8.Explore the wild woods and discover the art of bushcraft. Learn how to survive in the natural environment and work as a

team. Booking required.GROW A CiNDERELLA PUMPKiN AT STRAWBERRY HiLL HOUSEFor Ages: Under 5. Time: 1am-12pm. Cost: Free.Listen to stories, decorate your pumpkin pot, make a label and sow your pumpkin ready for Halloween or to take you to the ball.FRiENDS OF JACK AND JiLL SCHOOL MAY FAiR ON TWiCKENHAM GREENTime: 10am -4pm Cost: FreeEnjoy “Jolly Jars,” food stalls and fun rides and raise funds for Shooting Star Chase, Great Ormond Street Hospital and Malaika Kids.FRi 17 MAYALCHEMY, ASTROLOGY AT HAMPTON COURT PALACETime: 6-9pm. Cost: Adults £10, Children £5.An evening of storytelling, alchemy and

astrology with films, fairy tales, talks and tours. Ghost tours, talks, the chance to make your own astrological clock and listen to traditional fairy stories told in unique surroundings.SAT 18 MAYCHiLDREN’S CiRCUS WORKSHOP AT THE RivERHOUSE BARNRiverhouse Arts Centre, Manor Rd, Walton KT12 2PFTime: 10am- 3.30pm: Cost: £7 for workshop, £2 for performance.Solo Circus is a one-man circus run by Mark Russell aka Mr Doo. He will be running 3 circus skills workshops and teaching juggling, plate spinning, diablo, unicycling and performing.01932 253354 www.riverhousebarn.co.ukPLAY TiME! AT RiCHMOND THEATREFor Ages: 3+. Time: 10.30am-12pm. Cost: Free.

Fun, free, family art and craft and storytelling with different theme each month.WiLDFLOWER & BUTTERFLY WALK AT BEDFONT LAKESTime: 11am. Cost: Adult £4, Child £2.Walk around the lake with rangers and learn about the wildflowers growing in the park, as well as the butterflies that accompany them. Booking required.SAT 18 & SUN 19 MAYJACOBiTE REBELLiON RE-ENACTMENT AT CLAREMONT LANDSCAPE GARDENTime: 10.30am-4.30pm. Cost: Normal Admission.Skirmishes, battles, guns, an army camp and Redcoat displays over 2 days. Period actors recreate the Jacobite rebellion against the Duke of Newcastle in the amphitheatre.SUN 19 MAYTOWPATH TRUNDLE FAMiLY PARTY iN WALTONTime: 11am. Cost: Free before 10 MAY.A free entry sponsored walk for the Princess Alice Hospice plus Family Fun Day with Peppa Pig, Teddy Bear’s Picnic, music, bouncy castles and games.01372 461855 www.pah.org.ukSOW & GROW FOOD FAiR AT HAM HOUSETime: 11am-5pm. Cost: Normal admission.Seed sowing, storytelling, craft and posy-making for the kids at this food fair and spring gardening day. Garden and cookery demonstrations, tours and stalls selling local produce including cakes, chutneys, sausages and cider.CHiLDREN’S SPRiNG GARDENiNG WORKSHOP AT PETERSHAM NURSERiESChurch Lane, Off Petersham Rd, Richmond TW10 7AGTime: 10am-12pm. Cost: £25

RiCHMOND THEATREThe Green, Richmond TW9 1QJ020 8332 [email protected] WiSLEYWoking GU23 6QB0845 5260 9000 www.rhs.org.uk/wisleySTRAWBERRY HiLL HOUSE268 Waldegrave Rd, Twickenham TW1 4ST020 8744 1241 www.strawberryhillhouse.org.ukSYON PARKBrentford, TW8 8JF020 8560 0882 www.syonpark.co.uk

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Half term actiVitiesSAT 25 to MON 27 MAYFOODiES FESTivAL AT HAMPTON COURT PALACEExciting mix of food, drink and culinary talent including Michelin-starred Chefs Theatre, Drinks Masterclass, Cake & Bake Theatre and Children’s Cookery Theatre.0845 600 0650 www.foodiesfes-tival.com/hampton-courtSAT 25 to THU 30 MAY ADvENTURE TRAiL AT OSTERLEY PARKTime: 12-4pm. Cost: Normal admission plus £1 per child.Put your spirit of adventure to the test by completing the holiday trail. Win a prize.SAT 25 MAY to SUN 2 JUNTRAiL AT CLAREMONT LANDSCAPE GARDENTime: 4pm. Cost: Normal Admission plus 50p per trail.Enjoy the themed children’s trail around the garden. Free entry for children dressed as a pirate or princess.SPRiNG SPECTACULAR AT BOCKETTS FARMYoung St, Fetcham KT22 9BSCost: Adult £9, Child £9.60. Daily bird of prey flying demonstrations and pony parlour. Friendly animals, fun farm activities and plenty of play indoors and out, including heated indoor playbarn.www.bockettsfarm.co.ukA FAMiLY ALLOTMENT AT KEW GARDENSTime: 2-4pm. Cost: Normal Admission.Explore many of the edible plants that both children and adults can easily grow at home. Get hands on with roots, leaves, stems and fruits, and experience how it feels to be an esteemed Kew botanist by undertaking cool scientific investigations!020 8332 5655 www.kew.orgSUN 26 MAYDANCE iNTO A FAiRY TALE WORKSHOP AT RiCHMOND THEATREFor Ages: 3-6. Time: 1-2pm. Cost: £20Step into your glass slippers and dance into the fairy tale for your first ballet class on stage with the English National Ballet.SUN 26 & MON 27 MAYCHiLDREN GO FREE AT SYON PARKFree admission to the gardens and house for maximum of 2 children per paying adult.FAMiLY DiSCOvERY DAYS AT OSTERLEY PARKTime: 12-3pm. Cost: Normal admission.Creative fun days for families with a different theme each time.FAiRY TALES AT STRAWBERRY HiLL HOUSEFor Ages: Under 5. Time: 1pm-2pm. Cost: £3.50.Fairy tale fun.MON 27 MAY to SUN 2 JUNHALF TERM AT LONDON TRANSPORT MUSEUMCovent Garden Piazza, Covent Garden, London, WC2EStorytime - Time: 11.00am and 2.00pmOpen to all families but most suitable for those with children aged 3 to 7 years.Cedric Shopping Bags is on a trip around London but he can’t find any peace and quiet! Come and meet Cedric and the poster people he encounters on his journey. Find out about the stop that was missed, an adventure on the escalator and see if Cedric will ever escape the hustle and bustle.Make and Take - Time: 11.30am and 2.30pmOpen to all families but most suitable for

those with children aged 4 to 12 yearsWork with air-hardening clay to create your own tiny Poster Person and bring it to life. Make it walk, dance, clap or wave and use it to tell your own stories, before taking it home to dry off.www.ltmuseum.co.ukPEPPA PiG AT THE WATERCRESS LiNEThe Railway Station, Alresford, Hampshire SO24 9JGTime: All day Cost: £14 Adults £7 Children (2 to 16) Family Ticket £35Children’s favourite Peppa Pig will be making personal appearances and after you’ve seen the cheeky little piggy, you can visit the petting farm to tickle the piglets tummies and enjoy the piggy washing! Plus Peppa Pig colouring activities, DVD shows and face painting and rides the BIG steam trains all day!More info: 01962 733810www.watercressline.co.ukTUE 28 to THU 30 MAYCHiLDREN’S CRAFT WORKSHOPS AT CLAREMONT LANDSCAPE GARDENTime: 11am-1pm. Cost: Normal Admission plus £1.50 per craft.Children’s craft workshops in the Thatched Cottage.WED 29 MAYFLOAT YOUR BOAT DAY AT CLAREMONT LANDSCAPE GARDENTime: 11am-1pm. Cost: Normal Admission plus £1.50 per craft.Bring along your own non-powered model boats or join the Guilford Model Yacht Club and have fun sailing miniature sailing boats on the lake.KiDS’ COOKERY WORKSHOP AT BENTALLSLower Grd Floor, Bentalls Department Store, KingstonTime: 10-11.15am (5-7yrs) 12-2pm, 2.30-4.30pm (8-11yrs). Cost: £10 per child.Fun and informative cookery workshops for kids in which they prepare a selection of homemade delicious treats for friends and family. Book early!www.bentalls.co.ukSURvivAL SKiLLS AT BEDFONT LAKESFor Ages: 8+. Time: 9-3pm. Cost: £8 per child.Learn how to make shelters, what’s safe to eat and how to keep warm in the outdoors. Under 16s must be with a parent. Booking required.GOTHiC COMiCS AT STRAWBERRYHiLL HOUSETime: 11.30am-3.30pm. Cost: £15.Develop a short story through role play, object handling and costume. Then, with the house as a back drop, use photography to create your very own Gothic Comic Strip.THU 30 MAYviCTORiAN FUN & GAMES AT KiNGSTON MUSEUMAges: 4-10. Time: 1-4.30pm. Cost: Free.Discover what Victorian children in Kingston did in their spare time. Make a Victorian theatre and try out some old fashioned toys.KiDS’ COOKERY WORKSHOP AT BENTALLSGelateria Danieli’s, 2nd Floor, Bentalls Department Store, KingstonTime: 2-4pm. Cost: Free.Enter a colouring competition and design you own sundae. Sample delicious handmade Italian ice-cream and take home a voucher and a wooden spoon to decorate. www.bentalls.co.ukSAT 1 JUNSTRAWBERRY STORY GLASS ATSTRAWBERRY HiLL HOUSEFor Ages: 8+. Time: 1pm-3pm. Cost: £4.95.Take inspiration from the House and paint

your very own Strawberry Hill piece of stained glass (clear acrylic) to decorate your home.POND DiPPiNG & MiNi BEASTiNG AT BEDFONT LAKESTime: 1pm. Cost: £3 per child.Explore the meadows and dipping pond. The rangers will teach how to use the equipment and talk about the creepy crawlies they find.TUDOR COOKERY AT HAMPTON COURT PALACESee the historic cooks toiling in the Kitchens of King Henry VIII, preparing exotic dishes for his majesty as well as the plainer, yet still lavish, food for the court.SUN 2 JUNTHAMES DiTTON MiNiATURERAiLWAY OPEN DAYClaygate Lane, KT7 0LETime: 1pm. Cost: Free entry.Picnic in large grass field and ride on steam, diesel and electric scale trains. Single ride £2.50, unlimited rides £6.50, Family £23.www.malden-dsme.co.ukTHU 6, 13, 20 & 27 JUNTEDDY BEARS PiCNiC AT CLAREMONT LANDSCAPE GARDEN

Time: 1.30pm. Cost: Normal Admission plus £1 per child.Bring along Teddy and a picnic followed by storytelling in the Thatched Cottage at 1.30pm.FRi 7 JUNCLASSiCAL BABiES iN TEDDiNGTONLandmark Arts Centre, Ferry Rd, TW11 9NNTime: 11-11.40am. Cost: £10, Babies free.A spacious, relaxing environment where you and your baby can enjoy hearing live, classical music played by professional musicians.Nadine 07732058705 www.classicalbabies.comART & CRAFT FAMiLY FUN AT ELMBRiDGE MUSEUMTime: 2-4.30pm. Cost: £1.50Find out why the Tudors made Tussie Mussies and create your own. Choose which plants you will use and go home smelling as sweetly as a tudor!FSS FAMiLY FUN PARTY iN ST MARGARETSGymboree, 133 St Margarets Road, Twickenham, TW1 1RGAges: 4mths-4yrs. Time: 9am-12pm. Cost: £9 per child.

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KEW MiDSUMMER FETEKew Green, TW9 3APTime: 11am-6pm.Traditional village fete in the lovely setting of Kew Green with vintage fairground rides, side shows, dog show, tug of war, craft marquee, food and drink and live music.www.kewfete.orgHAM FAiR AT HAM COMMONTime: 11am-4.30pm. Cost: FreeTraditional village fair boasting a wide variety of stalls with entertainment provided by local schools and other groups, including a companion dog show, art display, music and dancing.STORYTELLiNG WORKSHOP iN TWiCKENHAMTwickenham Library, Garfield Road, TW1 3JTFor Ages: 4-11. Time: 11am. Cost: FreeThe Storytelling Workshop presents Alexus Rose and his Creepy Tales. Booking required.020 8734 3340 [email protected] MiCHAEL STEiNER SCHOOL SUMMER FAiRHanworth Park, TW13 6PN

Delicious homemade cakes, afternoon tea with scones, strawberries and cream, Tombola, Lucky Dip, raffle, children’s games and craft, toys, plants and books.020 8893 1299 [email protected] 23 JUNSiLvER CROSS PRAMATHON iN TWiCKENHAMMarble Hill House Twickenham TW1 2NLFestival of family fun including a 5km pram push with live performances and entertainment including Peppa Pig, Roary The Racing Car and the Milkshake team.www.pramathon.co.ukSAT 29 JUNAFRiCAN OPEN DAY AT THE RivERHOUSE BARNRiverhouse Arts Centre, Manor Rd, Walton KT12 2PFTime: 10am-4.30pm. Cost: Workshops Free, Performance Adults £8, Children £6.Celebrate African culture, food, music and dance. Kakatsitsi Master Ghanaian Drummers will teach basic drum rhythms, chants and dance moves ready for a performance later in the day, which will showcase their latest fusion of electronic and traditional sounds.

01932 253354 www.riverhousebarn.co.ukTEDDY BEARS PiCNiC AT THE SEMAPHORE TOWERChatley Heath, Ockham Common.Time: 12-4pm. Cost: Children £10, Adults free.Dress up those teddies again! Enjoy a fantastic live production by Cat’s Grin Theatre, bouncy castle, nature trail, face painting and wildlife activities. Booking required on 01483 795471.www.surreywildlifetrust.orgKiDS CLUB AT THE HEARTHeart Shopping Centre, Walton-on-ThamesAges: 6 and under. Time: 11am-3pm. Cost: FreeKids will learn how to decorate cookies and cakes that the whole family can enjoy. Kids participate free and receive a goody bag and a membership card.www.heartshopping.co.ukECHELFORD PRiMARY SCHOOL SUMMER FAiRPark Road, Ashford, TW15 1EXTime: 12-3pm Cost: Over 12s 50p Under 12s FreeAttractions include A Great British (Echelford) Bake Off, fairground rides, arena displays and sideshows and stalls.www.echelford.ik.orgSAT 29 JUN to SUN 14 JULiN THE NiGHT GARDEN LivE iN RiCHMONDRichmond Old Deer ParkTimes: 10am, 12pm, 2pm, 4pm. Tickets: £12.50-£29.50Igglepiggle, Upsy Daisy, Makka Pakka and friends are all brought beautifully to life in this musical theatre experience.Box Office: 0333 300 0023 www.NightGardenLive.comSUN 30 JUNDiSCOvER BEES AT PAiNSHiLL PARKTime: 12-4pm. Cost: Normal admission.Discover fascinating facts about bees and learn all about beekeeping.FAMiLY FUN DAY AT TWiCKENHAMDiamond Jubilee Gardens, The Embankment TW1 3DUProposed programme includes music & dance performances, children’s activities, food and craft stalls.www.twickenhamalive.comSAT 6 JUL TO SUN 7 JULWATERCRESS LiNE TEDDY BEARS PiCNiC WEEKEND The Railway Station, Alresford, Hampshire SO24 9JG

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watermans40 High Street,Brentford TW8 0DSBooking info: 020 8232 1010 www.watermans.org.uk EACH PEACH PEAR PLUM5 May. Adapted from the book by Janet and Allan Ahlberg, “Each Peach Pear Plum” is a game of ‘I spy’ for little ones and their families. For Ages: 3-7.DON’T LET THE PiGEON DRivE THE BUS12 May. After a 4 year break the Pigeon is back to cause more cheeky mischief and mayhem! For Ages: 3+.LiTTLE RED ROBiN HOOD19 May. A merry mix up in the forest involving glove puppets, false teeth and a frying pan. Why is Robin Hood wearing girls clothes and what is lurking behind the trees? Is it the Sheriff of Nottingham or the big bad wolf? For Ages: 4+.ARTHUR’S DREAM BOAT24 May. Based on the book by Polly Dunbar. A tale about Arthur’s amazing dream about a beautiful pink and green boat with a stripy mast, which then starts to grow on his head, getting larger and larger by the minute. For Ages: 3-7.

tHe polka tHeatre240 The Broadway, Wimbledon SW19 1SBBooking info: 020 8543 4888 www.polkatheatre.comCHARLiE AND LOLA’S EXTREMELY NEW PLAY27 April to 17 August. Don’t miss everyone’s favourite brother and sister who are back on stage with their new show. Enter a magical journey through the seasons, as Charlie and Lola discover that everything is different and not the same. What will happen when Lola and her best friend Lotta absolutely promise to look after Sizzles the dog? For Ages: 4-7. LULLABY3 to 25 May. Cocooned within a charming setting and layered with musical and visual surprises, this playful experience will take you on a gentle journey of discovery with singer-performer Natalie Raybould. Engage and share with your baby, with chill-out dreaming time!THREE COLOURS26 June to 17 August. Take your place at the very centre of a vibrant, sensory experience, with wonderful imaginary landscapes where you can swim with fish, feel frogs nibble your toes, catch grasshoppers and listen to a gentle heartbeat, magically created out of the colours of light. For Ages: 2-4.

ricHmond tHeatreThe Green, Richmond TW9 1QJBox Office: 0844 871 7651 www.atgtickets.com/richmondMY FiRST CiNDERELLA25 to 26 May. Everyone’s favourite rags-to-riches story in a beautifully adapted version for young audiences produced by English National Ballet. Prokofiev’s score is accompanied with narration to ensure everyone enjoys this classic tale.

tHe rose tHeatre24 High Street, Kingston KT1 1HLBox Office: 08444 821 556 www.rosetheatrekingston.orgSPOT’S BiRTHDAY PARTY7 to 9 June. It’s the Birthday of everyone’s favourite puppy! All Spot’s friends will be here: Steve the Monkey, Helen the Hippo and Tom the Crocodile plus Spot’s mum and dad, Sally and Sam. For Ages: 2 and up.TiDDLER AND OTHER TERRiFiC TALES27 June. Under the sea, out on the farm and into the jungle, these terrific tales are woven together with live music, puppetry and a whole host of colourful characters from their best-loved titles: Tiddler, Monkey Puzzle, The Smartest Giant in Town and A Squash and a Squeeze. For ages: 3 and up.

tHe riVerHouse arts centreManor Road, Walton KT12 2PFBox Office: 01932 254198 www.riverhousebarn.co.ukTHERE’S A MONSTER iN MY PiANO22 June. Question: What do you do when you hear a strange munching noise inside a piano? Answer: Call the Piano Doctor of course. He might be able to help with his bag full of ears and his collection of weird and wonderful tools. But when he looks inside, imagine what he sees? The musical notes are running away. But why? For Ages: 4+

tHe cecil HepwortH playHouseHurst Grove, Walton, KT12 1AUBox Office: 020 8398 6470ALiCE iN WONDERLAND AND THROUGH THE LOOKiNG GLASS16 to 18 May. Spectacular production of “Alice In Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass” which will be performed from 16 to 18 May on the very site where Alice made her movie debut in 1903. Special matinee on Saturday for children 12 and under.

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diary dates for parentsFRi 10 MAYHOME-START QUiz NiGHT iN CLAYGATEClaygate Village Hall, Church Rd, Claygate KT10 0JP Time: 7pm. Tickets: £12 includes fish and chip supper.Home-Start Elmbridge fundraiser includes supper and cash bar for beer, wine and soft drink.01932 235802 [email protected] 16 MAYLWWD SHOPPiNG EvENT AT WESTHALL, KT14Westhall, Parvis Rd, KT14 6EZTime: 6-9.30pm. Cost: Free.Love What We Do is a group of entrepreneurial mums with a passion for bringing their local community together with unique shopping and social events. Sample the range of bespoke, handcrafted, local and unusual offerings amidst a welcoming, friendly atmosphere. Wine and complimentary canapés available. No booking required.07768 392686 www.facebook.com/LoveWhatWeDoWED 22 MAYHOW YOUR BABY LEARNS TO TALK iN TEDDiNGTONTeddington Library, Waldegrave Road, TW11 8NY Time: 2pm. Cost: £2.Dr Foster outlines the stages of language acquisition from birth to 5 years. In collaboration with St Mary’s University College.www.richmond.gov.uk/librariesCHiLDCARE & PRE-SCHOOL EXPO iN TWiCKENHAMWinning Post, Chertsey Rd Twickenham, TW2 6LSTime: 7.30pm. Cost: £4.50.Biggest and Best Childcare/Pre-School event in the Richmond borough. The event will include Nannies, Childminders, Au Pairs, Nurseries, Pre-schools, and parenting expert Anne Denny.www.forsanityssake.com/eventTHU 4 JULYFSS PARENT’S SCHOOL BALL iN TWiCKENHAMCabbage Patch, London Rd, Twickenham, TW1 3SZ Time: 8pm-12am. Cost: £10.Let your hair down with other parents from your nursery, pre-school or children’s school year and ask your girlfriends along too. It’s club night at The Patch with For Sanity’s Sake. Live music, dancing and DJ.www.forsanityssake.com/event

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