FIVE STRONG REASONSWHY YOU MUST MARRY

MR. RIGHT!

Omowonuola Omoghene

Fivestrong reasons why you must marry Mr.

Right.                

Omowonuola Omoghene

Five strong reasons why you must marry Mr. RightCopyright © 2020, by Omowonuola Omoghene

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DEDICATIONTo God Almighty, the source and giver of

inspiration.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTSMy darling husband, Mr. O, thank you for allowing

me to give expression to my God-giventalent.

Zoe, thank you for being patient with mommy andher laptop.

Baby on the way, thank you for being a constantreminder that now is the best time

to work on this.

INTRODUCTION

This little book is for you if you have gone from one relationship toanother, experienced heartbreak after heartbreak and you arebeginning to wonder if the kind of man you desire and deserve is outthere. He is and I do not want you to settle for less. You shouldn't have tomanage in any relationship and this book will show you five strongreasons why. Are you ready? Let us dig in!

The right man will enhance your life in every way while the wrongone will hinder you. When I was single, this was one strong reason that helped mecontrol my feelings and focus on the facts before saying yes tocourtship and marriage. I knew God has big plans for me. I knewmy calling and I knew I needed someone who is more than willingto go all the way to support and enhance it. I had seen examples of women who could "have gone far" in theirlives but for their husbands who don't add any value, yet hindersthem due to insecurity issues. I decided that wasn't going to be me. It doesn't have to be you either. God has big plans for your life, andHe knows that as a wife those plans will have to be submittedunder your husband's authority.Hence you must make a firm decision that you will marry the rightman for you. No matter how long you've waited, it cannot becompared to the remaining years you have on earth.

So, you must ensure that this guy you're considering will enhanceyour life, dreams and goals. You must ensure that he will nothinder you. You must ensure that he'd be an addition not asubtraction, a contributor not a destroyer, an up lifter and promoternot a hinderer.

To enhance your life,dreams and goals.

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Here's what the Bible says about this: "Two people are better off than one, for they can help each othersucceed" Ecclesiastes 4:9 NLT And you can know from now if this person will help you succeed.Just answer these questions honestly:

Does he listen when you share ideas, goals, projects God lays onyour heart etc.?

Does he share ideas with you about how to implement such?

Does he check on your progress in the things you're doing now?

Can you sense or see that he prays for you?

Do you even feel comfortable enough to share ideas and rub mindswith him? Or is he already a distraction and a derailleur?

Is the relationship causing you so much trouble that you can't eventhink of personal plans and goals? Answer honestly! I am blessed to be married to a man who enhances my life. I knowthe blessing of being married to someone who is invested mentally,physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually to see that Iachieve the things God lays on my heart to do. I am able to pursueeverything I desire because he helps me, just as I help him too.

With all my heart, I want you to experience this as well, so pls, forthis very crucial reason, put your feelings aside and take anothergood look at his character and behavior towards you before youdecide. The right man will enhance your life while the wrong one will hinderyou! You will not make the wrong choice in Jesus name.

Your children are going to be responsible for the consequences ofevery choice they make in life, but there is one choice that willaffect their lives positively or negatively that they can't make forthemselves. Only you make that choice for them: who will be theirdad?

I cannot begin to stress the importance of this. Every father leavesan indelible mark on their children either positively or negatively.Their presence leaves a mark and their absence does too!

Sis, you are not just choosing a husband for yourself, you must letit sink that you are choosing a father for your children. What kind ofdad will this guy be? What kind of model will he be? Would youwant your son to be just like him?

Hear what God has to say concerning this: "Didn’t the Lord makeyou one with your wife? In body and spirit, you are his. And whatdoes he want? Godly children from your union. So, guard yourheart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth". Malachi 2:15 NLT

Did you see that? God expects godly children from the marriageunion! So, ask yourself is this someone I will be able to raise godlychildren with?

To secure your children's future.

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Put aside all the love feelings you have for that guy for a momentand ask yourself, what kind of father will he be? Does he haveenough self-discipline to instill discipline in his children, or willanything go with him? Read what God said about Abraham as a father in Genesis 18:19!That is the kind of father you should choose for them. Furthermore, does this guy have the inner strength to stick throughhard times or will he bail on them when they need him just becauseits uncomfortable or tough? Assess him by his current character. If your mother had chosen him to be your father, will you be proud,or would you wonder "why mom"? You owe it to them to choose someone they will be proud of,someone they can look up to, someone that will inspire them toreach for their highest dreams and fulfil their calling. So, do not let this decision be about just you, or how he makes youfeel. Choose with them in mind, because your choice will affecttheir lives.

For this second very crucial reason, you must decide that you willinvest in knowledge to ensure that you choose the right man.

To secure your children's future.

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You would either be changed positively or negatively by it. Of all the physical influences for change in our life, I believemarriage to be the strongest. And it all has to do with who you areand who you choose to be married to. Being married to the right man encourages and enhances yourgrowth, because even though Mr Right isn't perfect, just as youaren't perfect, he will be willing to work through issues with you. He wouldn't just throw in the towel and give up when the goinggets rough. He will want to grow with you as you both find betterways to deal with issues. God uses your relationship with the right man to grow and groomyou not just into the woman your husband needs, but into thewoman the world needs.

Mr Right will also be supportive of you as you deal with yourpersonal shortcomings, but the wrong man will always find areason to aggravate and exaggerate your weaknesses. It'd be anopportunity for him to bring you down just to make himself lookbetter. If you've experienced something like this, you'd know whatI'm talking about.

Your marriage will never leave you thesame way.

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You're not perfect. You have weaknesses, just as he does,therefore you need a man who will grow with you, be supportive ofyour personal growth and be an honest and loving accountabilitypartner as you seek to become better. Here's what God says about this: "If one person falls, the other canreach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble".Ecclesiastes 4:10 NLT When you fall in character, Mr Right will be there to help pick youup and encourage your growth, but the wrong man will only kickyou down further. You really are on your own when you're with thewrong man. Be wise!

Your marriage will never leave you thesame way.

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The fourth reason why you should be keen on marrying the rightman is because life is a battlefield and marriage gives you theprivilege of having your own personal back up in battle.

Here is what God says about this: "A person standing alone can beattacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back andconquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is noteasily broken". Ecclesiastes 4:12 NLT

Marriage to the right man means you will not have to fight alone,you will always have someone in your corner, someone on yourside, and with God you both can stand and conquer whatevercomes your way.

The wrong man however will be the battle. Rather than help solvethe problems, he'd help create them. So, when other life problemscome, you both will be easily defeated and broken.

Life is not a walk in the park, challenges will definitely come. It isfoolishness not to know this because even Jesus said to us "in thisworld you will have tribulations". John16:33. The best thing you cando for yourself is choose a fighter who will be on your side, who willfight alongside you not against you, who will not give up untilvictory is realized.

Life is a battlefield.

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This is the fifth and final (for this season) reason why I believe youshould be keen on marrying Mr Right, why you should be unwillingto just settle for anyone, why you should patiently wait to be foundby him. Here's what God says about this: "..Enjoy the wife you married as ayoung man." Proverbs 5:18(MSG). If he's to enjoy you, you'resurely to enjoy him as well. Challenges will come, that's a given, but through it all, you will havethe one person with whom you can be joyful in the midst of trials,with whom you can laugh in the face of adversity, with whom youwouldn't have to hide your tears if there are some.But for the most part, you will enjoy life with him, you will not haveto painfully endure each passing day.

Before I got married, I heard this statement and it stuck: it is betterto be single and waiting to get married, than to be married andtrying to get out. There is no tearing apart of a marriage (i.e.divorce) that won't hurt like hell.

Life with Mr Right will be enjoyed notendured!

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Most people rush into marriage because they want to enjoy theirspouse, but if you rush to choose Mr wrong, you will find yourselfenduring instead. So, wait and ensure (by putting facts overfeelings) that this person is the right one for you!

Life with Mr Right will be enjoyed notendured!

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If you settle down and think deep about this matter, I'm sure youwill realize other strong, personal reasons why you shouldn't settlefor just any how guy.

No matter how far you've gone with the wrong guy, it cannotcompare to the number of years you have left on earth to bemarried to him. Be wise, run in the opposite direction before it's toolate. After the vows are said, it's too late to complain.

In case you're wondering, "how do I know if this guy is right orwrong for me?". That's something I can help you with.

I am hosting a webinar titled: HOW TO KNOW YOUR MR RIGHT.Of course, I cannot teach it all in one webinar, but it would get youstarted and lay a solid foundation for the kind of courtship andmarriage you desire.

Click LINK BELOW to watch it today!https://mailchi.mp/6d5e464210d4/howtoknowyourmrright

Let me know how this book has blessed you, by sending me yourcomments at omowonuolaomoghene@gmail.com.

God bless you.

In Conclusion...

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Omowonuola Omoghene is arelationship counselor who isfocused on helping youngChristian ladies identify theright man to marry, so thatthey can build a God glorifyingcourtship and marriage. Sheloves to open the eyes ofyoung ladies to see thebeautiful, mutually beneficialand long lasting love that Godhas in mind for them.

Although a holder of a Bachelor of Physiotherapy degree(Honours),Wonuola teaches and mentors on relationship issues from a verypractical and relatable point of view, having courted her husband for alittle less than seven years and experiencing firsthand all the strugglesand effort that goes into building a courtship that honors God andblesses both individuals.

She is the author of several books including Keys to building a greatcourtship, Five types of men that will break your heart, God's ownwoman etc. She is also the creator of courses such as, Is he God's will forme and Identify Mr Right: A comprehensive guide to identifying the rightman for you.

Omowonuola and her Mr Right are blissfully married and blessed withchildren.