SELF DIRECTING 3.3 SELF DIRECTING EMPOWERMENT SEPTEMBER 2014 MARCEL VAN DER POL

KERIDWEN, ENLARGE YOUR FRAME OF MIND

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Self Directing Empowerment Women Weekend Self Directing 3.3 - Budapest, Sept. 2014

Are you EMPOWERED!? “Then you have to know what to do. If you don’t know what to do you have to find out. If you can’t find out you (…) make it up and

then make it so.” (China Miéville, author)

There are

So Many Ways

to Kill

a Good Idea!

Self Directing Empowerment 3.3 - Sentry & Lamppost √ Your Story as Frame of Mind

- The Dance of the hero √ Enlarging your Frame of Mind

- The Gordian Egg √ Optimal Performance in an Enlarged Frame of Mind

She who dares to wander, find new ways

Lamppost Sentry

Self Directing 3.3 -Sentry & Lamppost Your Story as Frame of Mind

1. Pleasure • Fun, no rules

2. Education • Culture, Morals, Reflection

3. Self Directing • Change in Perception & Reality

4. Magic • Unspeakable, Wisdom

Sentry & Lamppost 4 Levels In Storytelling: Story ≼≽ Real Life

Tales As Teaching Tools Stages of Transformation 1. Open Story

• My possible version of reality 2. Closed Story

• My story is true 3. Frozen Story

• This is how it allways goes. 4. Liquefying the story

• Enlarging my Frame of Mind: different stories are possible, too.

Liquefying the Story, The Biggest Challenge?

Saint vs. Outlaw

How will they tell their separate stories?

Helper Dragon

Self Directing 3.2: The Dance of the Hero Enlarging Your Frame of Mind

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• Self Directing Empowerment • Woman Self Directing 3.3

• Changing Perspectives

• Shifting Paradigms

• The Living Story • You!

Get outside your box!

This Story of Faces

Excluding Mind Frames

Children & Rain

Grown ups & Rain

Differences in Frames of Mind

•Innocent •Orphan

•Wanderer

•Lover

•Caregiver •Warrior

•Builder •Cleaner

•Magician

•Ruler

•Sage •Fool

12 Hero(in)es = 12 Mind Frames

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The Dance of the Hero

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Home Departure

(leaving/aiming) Context

Dragon & Treasure Call (who/what)

Sentry (stop!) Traveling Companions?

(friend/foe) Encounters

Events Developments Helper (stijl)

Arrival (change?)

•Basic Movements in Stories

Even Little Red Riding Hood knows her Heroes...

...and she knows her Life Questions, too...

•Innocent •Orphan

•Wanderer

•Lover

•Caregiver •Warrior

•Builder •Cleaner

•Magician

•Ruler

•Sage •Fool

Self Directing Empowerment 3.3 - She who dares to wander, will find new ways -

Direct Your Own Life Adventures: from ‘Question’ to ‘Answer’

Actor(s) Audience

Self Directing 3.3 - The Gordian Egg Optimal Performance in a Greater Frame of Mind

Sometimes it’s good to know a Guide, who can support

you to get past the Dragon and claim your Treasure.

The Dance of the Hero helps you to shoot your

Educational Arrow in the Bull’s Eye

Welcome

Marcel van der Pol www.KERIDWEN.com

www.THEDANCEOFTHEHERO.com