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The Art of Self-Coaching @ Stanford GSB, Class 9: Endings

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The art of

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self-coachingEd Batista

Class 9: May 29, 2015

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Class 9

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Endings

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Where are we

William Bridges on transitions

Chris Peterson on life

Closing remarks

going?

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How will we

Group activity & discussion

Final conversations with partners

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get there?

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Small groups 35 mins

Concepts 10 mins

Partner conversations 30 mins

Closing remarks 25 mins

Agenda

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Mind map

What is self-coaching?

What have we learned here?

What will we do going forward?

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Endings

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Everything ends badly; otherwise it

wouldn’t end.

~Cocktail

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The end of a melody is not its goal.

But, nonetheless, had the melody

not reached its end it would not

have reached its goal either.

~Human, All Too Human

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Transitions

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TransitionsChange is situational. Transition is

psychological. Changes are driven to

reach a goal, but transitions start with

letting go of what no longer fits the life

stage you are in.

~William Bridges

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TransitionsTo become something else, you have

to stop being what you are now… Even

though it sounds backwards, endings

always come first. The first task is to

let go.

~William

Bridges

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TransitionsThe process of transformation is

essentially a death and rebirth

process rather than one of mechanical

modification.

~William

Bridges

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Just a change?

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Or a transition?

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Find your Profl. Partner

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A conversationHow will you manage this transition?

and

What feedback do you have for each

other?

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Find yourPersonal Partner

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A conversationHow will you manage this transition?

and

What feedback do you have for each

other?

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Logistics

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Final paper5,000 word limit

30% of your grade

Due Wed June 3, 6pm

The content is up to you

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EvaluationsAxess: http://axess.stanford.edu

Until Thurs June 4, 11:59pm

Truly meaningful to me

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Closing remarks

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Days are long…

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Everyday life poses demands & I am not

saying that we should ignore those we

do not like. I am saying… Don’t sweat

the small stuff, & most of it is small

stuff.

~Christopher

Peterson

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Habit

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HabitCould the young but realize how soon

they will become mere walking bundles

of habits, they would give more heed to

their conduct while in the plastic state.

~William James

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Boundaries

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Saying Yes & No

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In service of what?

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Moments

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One last exercise

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Thank you!

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[email protected]

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