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Sex
in
th
e C
ity
Is N
ot
Just
A M
iam
i V
ice
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
h.D
.w
ww
.mar
ciab
rade
n.co
mBr
enda
Fin
ucan
e, M
S, C
GC
ww
w.el
wyn
gene
tics.o
rg
Satu
rday,
Ju
ly 2
8,
2012
2:0
0 –
3:1
5 P
M
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They
hav
e no
inte
rest
in se
xA
dults
with
ID a
re “
inno
cent
” an
d do
n’t e
ven
know
wha
t sex
isA
s a le
gal g
uard
ian, I
hav
e th
e rig
ht to
mak
e d
ecisi
ons a
bout
se
xuali
ty, c
ontra
cept
ion,
and
repr
oduc
tion
for m
y ad
ult
son
or d
augh
ter
Adu
lt se
rvic
e ag
enci
es re
stric
t sex
ual a
ctiv
ity a
mon
g ho
usem
ates
, co-
wor
kers
with
IDPe
ople
with
ID c
anno
t und
erst
and
and
don’
t nee
d se
x ed
ucat
ion
CO
MM
ON
MY
TH
S A
BO
UT
SE
XU
AL
ITY
IN
PE
OP
LE
WIT
H I
NT
EL
LE
CT
UA
L D
ISA
BIL
ITY
(ID
)
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
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Frag
ile X
is a
n in
herit
ed c
ondi
tion
Gen
etic
issu
es in
add
ition
to g
ener
al co
ncer
ns a
bout
pre
gnan
cy
in fe
male
s with
ID
Pote
ntial
for m
ultip
le fa
mily
mem
bers
to b
e af
fect
ed b
y ID
, in
crea
sing
poss
ibili
ty o
f ina
ppro
priat
e se
xual
inte
ract
ions
be
twee
n sib
lings
, oth
er re
lativ
es
SP
EC
IAL
CO
NS
IDE
RA
TIO
NS
RE
LA
TE
D T
O F
RA
GIL
E X
SY
ND
RO
ME
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
C
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Invo
lunt
ary
ster
iliza
tion:
Buc
k v
Bell
(192
7)
Civi
l Rig
hts A
ct o
f 196
5–
Prot
ectio
n of
mar
riage
and
pro
crea
tion
as e
ssen
tial e
lemen
ts
of ri
ght t
o pr
ivac
y
Am
eric
ans w
ith D
isabi
litie
s Act
(199
0)–
Incr
ease
d pr
otec
tions
for p
eopl
e w
ith d
isabi
litie
s
Pres
umpt
ion
of C
ompe
tenc
y –
Indi
vidu
als a
re p
resu
med
to b
e co
mpe
tent
unl
ess p
rove
n ot
herw
ise
LE
GA
LIS
SU
ES
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
CDownloaded from nfxf.conferencespot.org
Ele
men
ts o
f Com
pete
ncy
–K
now
ledg
e: a
ble
to id
entif
y th
e im
porta
nt a
spec
ts o
f a
deci
sion
–U
nder
stan
ding
: evi
denc
e th
at th
e kn
owle
dge
is co
mpr
ehen
ded,
incl
udin
g m
oral
and
phys
ical
cons
eque
nces
–V
olun
tarin
ess:
lack
of c
oerc
ion
LE
GA
LIS
SU
ES
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
C
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Lega
l Gua
rdian
ship
–A
ssig
ned
by th
e co
urts
–Si
tuat
ion-
spec
ific
(fina
ncial
, med
ical)
–D
oes n
ot c
over
issu
es o
f priv
acy,
inclu
ding
sexu
al co
nsen
t, re
prod
uctiv
e de
cisio
n-m
akin
g, c
onse
nt fo
r pr
enat
al te
stin
g
–G
uard
ian m
ust p
etiti
on c
ourt
for s
pecif
ic sit
uatio
n;
prec
eden
t cas
es h
ave
deni
ed in
volu
ntar
y st
erili
zatio
n
LE
GA
L I
SS
UE
S
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
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Exa
mpl
e: Co
nsid
erat
ions
to b
e re
view
ed b
y th
e co
urt i
n th
e ca
se o
f inv
olun
tary
ster
iliza
tion
of a
n ad
ult d
augh
ter w
ith
inte
llect
ual d
isabi
lity:
–D
augh
ter’s
cha
nce
to b
ecom
e co
mpe
tent
in th
e fu
ture
?
–W
ould
birt
h co
ntro
l suf
fice
inst
ead
of st
erili
zato
n?
–Is
ster
iliza
tion
in th
e da
ught
er’s
best
inte
rest
? Or i
s it
for t
he fa
mily
’s/ c
omm
unity
’s co
nven
ienc
e?
–Po
ssib
ility
of t
raum
a/ p
sych
olog
ical
dam
age
if da
ught
er b
ecom
es p
regn
ant v
trau
ma/
dam
age
from
st
erili
zatio
n op
erat
ion?
LE
GA
LIS
SU
ES
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
,MS
, CG
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–Li
kelih
ood
that
dau
ghte
r will
vol
unta
rily
enga
ge in
sexu
al ac
tivity
, or t
hat s
exua
l int
erco
urse
will
be
impo
sed
on h
er?
–In
abili
ty o
f dau
ghte
r to
unde
rsta
nd re
prod
uctio
n/
cont
race
ptio
n, a
nd li
kely
per
man
ence
of t
his i
ntel
lect
ual
inab
ility
?
–Li
kelih
ood
of sc
ient
ific/
med
ical
adva
nces
with
in fo
rese
eabl
e fu
ture
that
will
impr
ove
the
daug
hter
’s co
nditi
on, o
r les
s dr
astic
ster
iliza
tion
proc
edur
es w
ould
be
avail
able
?
LE
GA
LIS
SU
ES
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
C
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Kn
ow
led
ge +
Un
ders
tan
din
g +
Vo
lun
tari
ness
=
Info
rmed
Co
nse
nt
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
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Occ
urre
nce
–Pe
ople
with
inte
llect
ual a
re 1
.5 ti
mes
mor
e lik
ely
than
pee
rs to
be
sexu
ally
abus
ed
–83
% o
f vict
ims w
ith D
D a
re fe
male
–
17%
of v
ictim
s with
DD
are
male
Who
are
the
abus
ers?
–Ca
regi
vers
! Onl
y 6%
are
stra
nger
s
SE
XU
AL
AB
US
E
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
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Why
do
they
abu
se?
–Ph
ysic
ally
attra
cted
to c
hild
ren
–Po
wer
–
Stre
ss (l
oss o
f job
, div
orce
, etc
.) –
Redu
ced
risk
of b
eing
caug
ht/
oppo
rtuni
ty
–Ju
stifi
catio
n (“
they
wan
t / n
eed
sex”
)
SE
XU
AL
AB
US
E
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
C
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Wha
t do
I tea
ch m
y so
n or
dau
ghte
r?–
Pers
onal
safe
ty a
nd re
sista
nce
(how
to sa
y “N
O”)
–O
K to
uch
vers
us “
uh o
h” to
uch
–“M
y bo
dy b
elon
gs to
me.
Nob
ody
touc
hes i
t unl
ess I
wan
t th
em to
, and
if it
won
’t ca
use
any
troub
le.”
–Pr
oper
term
s for
bod
y pa
rts (a
ssist
s in
unde
rsta
ndin
g re
ports
)
–“T
ouch
ing”
secr
ets a
re n
ot O
K!”
–Fa
mily
priv
acy
boun
darie
s
–W
hen
thre
aten
ed, w
ho d
o I t
ell?
SE
XU
AL
AB
US
E
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
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–“H
ow c
an I
tell
whe
ther
my
son
or d
augh
ter h
as b
een
sexu
ally
abus
ed?”
–“I
don
’t w
ant m
y ad
ult s
on o
r dau
ghte
r with
SM
S to
be
invo
lved
in a
sexu
al re
latio
nshi
p.”
–“M
y so
n’s /
dau
ghte
r’s fr
eque
nt m
astu
rbat
ion
is up
setti
ng to
our
fam
ily.”
–“I
’m a
fraid
my
teen
’s he
ight
ened
sexu
al in
tere
st w
ill g
et
him
into
trou
ble
if he
says
or d
oes s
omet
hing
in
appr
opria
te!”
DIL
EM
MA
S
Bre
nda
Finu
cane
, MS
, CG
C
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TH
E F
AC
TS
•M
ost m
ales w
ith F
XS
expe
rienc
e pu
berty
at t
he
sam
e tim
e as
typi
cal p
eers
•So
me
fem
ales w
ith F
XS
expe
rienc
e pr
emat
ure
pube
rty•
All
peop
le w
ith F
XS
are
sexu
al be
ings
rega
rdles
s of
thei
r cog
nitiv
e lim
itatio
ns•
Mos
t peo
ple
with
FX
S sh
ow a
n in
tere
st in
se
xual
cont
ent,
mov
ies o
r rela
tions
hips
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
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TH
E F
ICT
ION
•Pe
ople
with
FX
S do
not
exp
erien
ce ty
pica
l se
xual
need
s and
des
ires
•A
dults
with
a fu
ll m
utat
ion
do n
ot m
arry
, hav
e se
xual
relat
ions
hips
or s
eek
plea
sure
•Pe
ople
with
FX
S ar
e se
xual
perp
etra
tors
•Pe
ople
with
FX
S ca
nnot
be
taug
ht re
spon
sible
sexu
al be
havi
or
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
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Ch
an
ges
in O
ur
Vie
w o
f S
ex
uali
ty i
n
the D
evelo
pm
en
tall
y C
hall
en
ged
•Sh
ift fr
om P
rotec
t and
Defe
ndto
Prep
area
nd
Supp
ort
•Pr
oacti
ve ra
ther
than
Rea
ctive
inte
rven
tion
•In
clusio
n re
quire
s app
ropr
iate
sexu
al be
havi
or•
Acc
epta
nce
of th
ose
with
FX
S re
quire
s the
ab
ility
to d
iscrim
inat
e be
twee
n pr
ivat
e an
d pu
blic
beha
vior
s
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
hD
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SE
X E
DU
CA
TIO
N
•Be
gins
at b
irth
•Ch
ildre
n lea
rn a
bout
sexu
ality
from
their
pa
rent
s, th
e m
edia
and
peer
s•
Peop
le w
ith F
XS
ofte
n pi
ck u
p on
sexu
al be
havi
ors a
nd la
ngua
ge d
ue to
the
resp
onse
s•
Rem
embe
r tha
t beh
avio
r tha
t may
be
funn
y or
cu
te a
t an
early
age
, is n
ot c
ute
whe
n th
e ch
ild
beco
mes
an
adul
t
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
hD
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Sexu
al
Beh
avio
r R
esu
lts
Fro
m
Inte
racti
on
Betw
een
Bio
log
y a
nd
En
vir
on
men
t
�BI
OLO
GY
-Nor
mal
biol
ogica
l urg
es, a
ssoc
iatio
ns a
nd m
otiv
atio
n
�E
NV
IRO
NM
EN
T-T
he e
nviro
nmen
t sha
pes o
ur se
xual
beha
vior
.Re
ligio
us v
alues
, fam
ily n
orm
s and
cul
tura
lex
pect
atio
ns in
fluen
ce o
ur se
xuali
ty-T
he re
spon
se fr
om fa
mily
mem
bers
or c
areg
iver
s
shap
es th
e be
havi
oral
reac
tion
from
the
pers
on w
ith
FXS
•M
arci
a L.
Bra
den,
PhD
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Ho
w t
o R
ed
uce t
he R
isk
of
Ex
plo
itati
on
or
Ab
du
cti
on
•K
no
w y
ou
r n
eig
hb
ors
•Id
en
tify
co
mm
un
ity w
ork
ers
; p
ost
man
, d
eli
very
p
ers
on
s
•L
ist
all
pers
on
s all
ow
ed
in
th
e h
om
e
•M
ap
ou
t d
an
ger
zo
nes
in t
he n
eig
hb
orh
oo
d t
o
inclu
de r
eg
iste
red
sex
off
en
ders
•K
eep
yo
ur
ch
ild
’s n
am
e o
ut
of
pla
in v
iew
•P
rovid
e a
n I
D b
racele
t th
at
has
som
e c
od
e t
o
iden
tify
yo
ur
ch
ild
•N
ever
ass
um
e s
om
eo
ne i
s m
on
ito
rin
g y
ou
r ch
ild
in
a l
arg
e g
rou
p
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
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Sex
uali
ty i
n F
em
ale
s
•Be
caus
e fe
male
s are
usu
ally
less a
ffect
ed th
an
male
s with
FX
S, a
num
ber o
f cha
lleng
es p
rese
nt•
Fem
ales t
end
to e
ngag
e in
sexu
al be
havi
or m
ore
ofte
n th
an m
ales
•Fe
male
s ent
er lo
ng te
rm h
eter
osex
ual r
elatio
ns
mor
e of
ten
•Fe
male
s are
mor
e of
ten
expl
oite
d se
xuall
y
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
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Sex
uali
ty i
n F
em
ale
s
•Fe
male
s are
ofte
n na
ïve
to th
e m
otiv
atio
n be
hind
seem
ingl
y in
tere
sted
male
s and
run
the
risk
of b
eing
man
ipul
ated
•Fe
male
s can
misp
erce
ive
inte
ntio
ns a
nd g
et h
urt
emot
iona
lly•
Fem
ales t
end
to o
ver f
anta
size
sexu
al re
latio
nshi
ps “
in lo
ve w
ith b
eing
in lo
ve”
whi
ch
can
resu
lt in
hea
rtbre
ak a
nd m
istru
st o
f fut
ure
relat
ions
hips
M
arci
a L.
Bra
den,
PhD
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Sex
uali
ty i
n M
ale
s
•M
ales c
an b
ecom
e ob
sess
ed w
ith a
relat
ions
hip
or ju
st th
e th
ough
t of h
avin
g a
girlf
riend
•Th
is ob
sess
ion
can
resu
lt in
a d
epen
denc
e on
a
girlf
riend
•Sh
ynes
s and
socia
l anx
iety
can
prec
lude
act
ing
on a
n in
tere
st in
a g
irl in
a d
irect
man
ner
•M
ales o
ften
mee
t the
ir se
xual
need
s view
ing
porn
ogra
phy
or a
dult
ente
rtain
men
t
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
hD
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Navig
ati
ng
Sex
uali
ty•
Gro
omin
g an
d m
ainta
inin
g hy
gien
e be
com
e m
ore
impo
rtant
in o
rder
to b
uild
frien
dshi
ps
and
attra
ct o
ther
s•
Sexu
al cu
riosit
y of
ten
trigg
ers e
mba
rras
smen
t du
e to
imm
atur
e so
cial/
sexu
al re
actio
ns•
Ofte
n sh
ut d
own
emot
iona
lly w
hen
aske
d ab
out
sexu
al ur
ges,
fant
asies
or r
elatio
nshi
ps•
Una
ble
to u
nder
stan
d su
btle
sexu
al in
nuen
dos,
adva
nces
and
beh
avio
rs
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
hD
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Teach
Pro
socia
lB
eh
avio
r
•D
iscri
min
ate
betw
een
ap
pro
pri
ate
an
d
inap
pro
pri
ate
beh
avio
r
un
zip
pin
g p
an
ts i
n p
ub
lic
ex
po
sin
g p
rivate
part
s in
pu
bli
c
usi
ng
sex
uall
y e
xp
licit
lan
gu
ag
e
in p
ub
lic
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
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Teach
Pro
socia
l B
eh
avio
r
•T
each
basi
c c
on
cep
ts o
f P
rivate
an
d P
ub
lic B
eh
avio
r,
Pla
ces
an
d P
eo
ple
•b
eg
in e
arl
y
•m
od
el
ap
pro
pri
ate
sex
ual
beh
avio
rs
•u
se r
ep
eti
tio
n t
o h
ab
itu
ate
ap
pro
pri
ate
beh
avio
rs
•te
ach
ad
vo
cacy a
nd
self
defe
nse
•p
art
icip
ati
on
in
so
cia
l sk
ills
gro
up
s
Mar
cia
L. B
rade
n, P
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Teach
Pro
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