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The art of Photo by Striatic [link ] self-coaching Ed Batista CLASS 10: ENDINGS

Ed Batista, The Art of Self-Coaching @StanfordBiz, Class 10: ENDINGS

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The art of

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self-coachingEd BatistaCLASS 10: ENDINGS

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Small groups 30 minsEndings 10 minsPartnerships 25 minsFinal comments 10 minsClosing the class 25 mins

Agenda

Before we get

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down to business

Mind mapWhat is self-coaching to me?What will I do over the next 6 months?

Endings

Everything ends badly; otherwise it wouldn’t end.

~Cocktail

The end of a melody is not its goal.But, nonetheless, had the melodynot reached its end it would nothave reached its goal either.

~Human, All Too Human

Transitions

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TransitionsChange is situational. Transition is psychological. Transitions start with letting go of what no longer fits the life stage you are in.

~William Bridges

TransitionsTo become something else, you have to stop being what you are now… Even though it sounds backwards, endings always come first.

~William Bridges

TransitionsThe process of transformation is essentially a death and rebirth process rather than one of mechanical modification.

~William Bridges

A transition,

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not just a change

A transitionWhat are you letting go of?What is ending for you?

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Find your Profl. Partner

A conversationWhat do you want to say to this person?How do you want to acknowledge this ending?

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Find yourPersonal Partner

A conversationWhat do you want to say to this person?How do you want to acknowledge this ending?

Logistics

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Final paper2500 word limit20% of your gradeDue Tues Dec 13, 9pmEarly submission appreciatedAs always, the content is up to you

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A reminder…

EvaluationsCourse evaluations on AxessOpen until Mon Dec 12, 8amA personal request to each of you

Closing remarks

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The good life

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The good life

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Everyday life poses demands & I am not saying that we should ignore those we do not like.I am saying don’t sweat the small stuff & most of it is small stuff.

~Christopher Peterson

Gratitude

GratitudeA little while & you will benobody & nowhere, nor willanything which you now behold exist,nor one of those who are now alive.

~Marcus Aurelius

Growth

GrowthExhortation will not suffice to change anyone.What is needed is a concrete strategy of behavior change.

~Christopher Peterson

Habits

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HabitsCould the young but realize how soon they will become mere walking bundles of habits, they would give more heed to their conduct while in the plastic state.

~William James

Boundaries

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Saying no

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In service of what?

Moments

One last exercise

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Thank you!

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